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This past Thursday, I went on line and enrolled in Medicare.
I will be 65 in April. I am still working, with no immediate plans to retire. My hair is not yet silver, thanks to good hair genes from my dad. I exercise 4 days a week and can back squat 165 pounds 20 times. I am on track to have accumulated 4 millions steps by the 1 yr anniversary of my FitBit. Our sons are in their early- and mid-twenties, and neither one has made me a grandmother yet, which is fine with me.
Despite all the above positives, enrolling in Medicare was very sobering.
Fla Dem
(23,677 posts)mnhtnbb
(31,391 posts)and Saturday I received a nice little note from the Social Security Administration advising me how much they would be deducting for Medicare Part B from my monthly SS check (which I started collecting
at 62).
This birthday is really getting to me. Last time one got to me, I turned 40.
Our boys are mid to late 20's and I seriously doubt there will be grandchildren. They are both in committed relationships (gay), but neither one is interested in children.
Yes, I still highlight my hair with blonde. I tried to let it go gray several years ago and there just wasn't enough of it. No need to look mousey.
No fitbit for me, but I walk with my dog several times a day. We clock about 90 minutes walking, most days.
LiberalElite
(14,691 posts)I haven't been the same since. Suddenly mortality reared its ugly head when I hit 40.
sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)40 was a rough one.
LiberalElite
(14,691 posts)sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)on my 40th the first thing I thought of was that I turned 16 when my Mom and Dad were 40.
Mortality really hit.
3catwoman3
(24,003 posts)...that made me feel like I was in my late 20s or early 30s.
If I'd had a kid when I was 24, that kid would now be 41 - We all have our own time tables.
IrishEyes
(3,275 posts)There are a lot of woman over 65 that are still being awesome. Obviously, there are tons that I'm missing.
Madeline Albright 78
Barbara Mikulski 79
Ruth Joan Bader Ginsburg 82
Jane Goodall 81
Here are some 10 female celebrities that look great.
Susan Sarandon 69
Raquel Welch 73
Cher 67
Diahann Carroll 78
Julie Christie 72
Helen Mirren 68
Diane Keaton 67
Tina Turner 73
Sally Field 66
Goldie Hawn 67
3catwoman3
(24,003 posts)Thank you. I would add Julie Andrews. (Cher, of course, has had more than a little help - too much, IMO)
When I look in the mirror, I don't see my own mental image of a Medicare recipient - white-haired, and creeping along with a walker. I need to adjust my thinking, I guess. My mom is about to be 94, and people are routinely shocked by that. Everyone thinks she is about 80.
sarge43
(28,941 posts)My moment came when I let my hair go grey. I started seeing my mother looking back at me in the mirror. After that Medicare/Social Security was just more paper work.