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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsLet's talk about your holiday shopping, shall we?
most everybody gets a holiday basket. As I do every year, I check what I bought last year and try to remember if it was well received and do it again. My son, dtr in law and 3 year old grandson in a tight Manhattan apt. get a smallish basket with a variety of goodies. My CA kid, husband and grandkid get another kind...obviously they aren't deprived of citrus at all and they have lots more space. But there is something for everyone...no junk, tho...
First Speaker
(4,858 posts)...everyone, it doesn't matter. Or, maybe, a gift certificate to Barnes and Noble... ...
Chan790
(20,176 posts)I didn't need the money, I just needed an excuse to leave the house and I wanted the employee discount because I basically read a book a day and that kind of addiction gets expensive fast.
First Speaker
(4,858 posts).....but I spend a *lot* of time at my local B & N...yeah, I love the small bookstores, etc, etc...but browsing is what it's all about to me, and the Big Ones just have more books to browse, especially the relatively obscure ones, than the small ones do. God forbid that bookstores disappear... ...it's the physical act of browsing that I love. I *hate* buying online...
LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)First Speaker
(4,858 posts)...and "people books"...I think I'll read a nice, non-people book during the Break...
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)And I did it all without going to the mall. I ordered almost everything online this year. Is this a great country or what!
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)Yodelling Pickle
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0010VS078?keywords=yodeling%20pickle&qid=1449944352&ref_=sr_1_1&sr=8-1
for the very few on my list.
Mr. Dixie and his brother have sent the same orange colored giant ashtray back and forth to each other for decades now.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)csziggy
(34,136 posts)restorefreedom
(12,655 posts)food, coffees, restaurant gift certificates, wine...
eat it, drink it, then its gone
no storage or "does it fit" worries!
edit...kids,get gift certificates to kid appropriate stores
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)not too much to be leftovers and cause guilt in recipient...I think some forbidden sweets (just a few) are in order for the holidays and other special treats...
restorefreedom
(12,655 posts)or other such...then again, some folks like the crunchy popcorn type stuff..
i guess you gotta know your audience, so to speak
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)csziggy
(34,136 posts)My family eliminated gift giving once the kids became adults. My husband's family draws names for the adults so all we have to get are presents for our grandnephews and two adult gifts. My husband's sister graduated from Clemson so he's giving her a Clemson shirt in honor of some football thing they won this year. For the nephew who is starting college, I'm just giving him fifty dollar bill - I have no idea what he might want or need so I figure money is always welcome at that age.
So my shopping is done and I never got near a mall.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)the 11 yr. grandson gets a check, the 3 yr. old grandson gets a toy or a book...
csziggy
(34,136 posts)When our nieces and nephews turned 12 I started giving them money instead of books.
The oldest great nephews I have contact with are five so I have a few years left before that will start for them. What's cool is that their parents love for us to give them books. The boys (twins) are reading at third grade level and they are teaching their three year old brother to read, so it's a challenge picking books that they will like. I generally try to stay a year or two ahead of their current reading level and that has worked so far.
Their grandparents keep the boys well supplied with toys so I don't want to contribute to that overflow.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)Yale campus downtown so it's not a big deal to find them. I figure if they flourish for yale students, they're probably what that market likes, right? And they can always exchange them if not...
csziggy
(34,136 posts)So money is a better bet.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)elleng
(131,039 posts)It's ALL OVER! Last night of Hanukkah YESTERDAY!!!
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)We do zero gift giving, thank goodness