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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsDragged kicking and screaming...should I sign up on facebook?
Pros?
Cons?
elleng
(130,974 posts)If don't care to reconnect w anyone: No.
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)If you're looking for love...no.
If you're looking to hook up with old high school friends...yes.
If you're looking to start a revolution with 1,000,000 other rebels...probably not a good idea unless you want to find out what new styles the Secret Service is wearing.
If you're looking to stay in touch with family out of state/country. yes.
If you're looking to say nasty things about your employer...no (especially if you're sleeping with his/her significant other).
I've been on it for about 5 years and only have 75 "friends". All "real" friends and family. It helps me scan all the political sites I frequent (except DU) quickly. It's also great to share pics with people you don't get to see often. Oh, and I get updates from local bars telling me what bands are coming up for the weekend. It's sort of my Daily Planner, but better because I don't have to remember to write stuff down.
trof
(54,256 posts)I've been reluctant for a couple of reasons.
Privacy.
What does facebook do with the info they have on you?
And the 'friending' thing sounds narcissistic.
"Ooooo...I have a gazillion friends."
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)...FB has tons of different settings to choose from. I have a really boring life, so pretty sure no one is going to spy on me. I believe they use some of the info off your posts, etc. to target advertisements, but honestly, I've found some cool stuff that way!
Yes, the "friend" thing is very narcissistic. I get creeped out when someone I don't know tries to add me.
If you're really concerned with privacy, definitely read their privacy statement before signing up.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,640 posts)For me, it's a very cool intersection of my family, my DU family and my poetry friends...
I like it!
irisblue
(32,982 posts)trof
(54,256 posts)It's a good way to 'keep up' with friends and family.
Plus...it's the only way to respond to politicians' facebook pages.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)Instead of family members sending out bunches of email they can post on Facebook including photos.
You can set up little "groups" and control who sees what that you post...in other words, if you have some younger family members on Facebook but want to share some more mature jokes or something, you can keep that sort of thing from little eyes.
I've found family members I haven't seen in decades, and some I never knew I had, like cousins.
My grandkids. Mom. Nieces. Aunts and uncles.
Reconnected with High School classmates 40+ years later and found out that some of the "cool" girls who barely talked to me back then are really nice people later in life.
Set your page up so that only friends can see it (not the public), and just don't include any information you're uncomfortable sharing, like phone number, current location, whatever.
It's really a blast and I love it.