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alarimer

(16,245 posts)
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 11:41 PM Apr 2015

I have never felt so condescended to before in my life.

I think I might have found the apex of snootiness at Teavana. So sue me, I don't know how your stupid store works or much about tea, other than I think the crap they sell in the grocery store is terrible. And $20 for four ounces is kind of ridiculous, but it does make about 40 cups, so 50 cents a piece. Still, I don't think I'll ever set foot in there again.

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I have never felt so condescended to before in my life. (Original Post) alarimer Apr 2015 OP
I love tea, and am an avid tea drinker, KMOD Apr 2015 #1
found this... TreasonousBastard Apr 2015 #2
These days I get my tea at the farmers market nadinbrzezinski Apr 2015 #3
I've never been there, but there's a local tea shop I like. The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2015 #4
I don't blame you for not wanting to put up with that for oo long pinboy3niner Apr 2015 #5
I imagine the OP felt chai-ded by the snooty Teavana workers. Arugula Latte Apr 2015 #6
Not to mention the steep prices pinboy3niner Apr 2015 #7
Cha-ching! Art_from_Ark Apr 2015 #12
I don't blame the OP for succumbing to a fit of pekoe. The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2015 #8
The strain was showing! Arugula Latte Apr 2015 #10
Oh, sure, easy for you to spout off pinboy3niner Apr 2015 #16
Look, there's no need for you to get steamed. Arugula Latte Apr 2015 #28
And then everyone Warren DeMontague Apr 2015 #45
Getting hooked on their expensive tea will make you Pu-Erh pinboy3niner Apr 2015 #9
I would go in and ask for the Lipton's CrawlingChaos Apr 2015 #11
But when everybody orders Lipton's it just turns into a real kettle call pinboy3niner Apr 2015 #13
I'm just gonna leaf well enough alone CrawlingChaos Apr 2015 #15
I like this idea! Phentex Apr 2015 #22
I hate snobs too CrawlingChaos Apr 2015 #41
Or just bark at them "Tea. Earl Grey. Hot." I bet they don't hear that one enough. Gidney N Cloyd Apr 2015 #23
I know it's tempting to feel you artichoke somebody, but it's best to re-strain yourself pinboy3niner Apr 2015 #14
I've gone there and get gift coupons from/for others... MrMickeysMom Apr 2015 #17
Apparently, aggressiveness in sales people is kind of their thing. alarimer Apr 2015 #18
I see trouble brewing in this thread NV Whino Apr 2015 #19
Oh c'mon, this is just Sleepytime stuff pinboy3niner Apr 2015 #20
Yup this thread is steeped in it. whistler162 Apr 2015 #25
That's a shame. They were helpful to me when I went there... Phentex Apr 2015 #21
I got the snooty treatment at a small pet supplies store once. Gidney N Cloyd Apr 2015 #24
Try a local Asian market. blogslut Apr 2015 #26
Or online Major Nikon Apr 2015 #27
You'll find me grabbing some green tea in the Kroger's aisle nt MrScorpio Apr 2015 #29
I've never had issues with Teavana before but I kinda know what I like from them LynneSin Apr 2015 #30
Well this particular mall strikes me as being aimed at the snootier set. alarimer Apr 2015 #31
Kickin' in all the tea in China seveneyes Apr 2015 #32
Darjeeling alarimer just relax and have another cuppa mackerel Apr 2015 #33
how good can tea be? Enrique Apr 2015 #34
What is in vogue changes with the times. Lobster used to be considered crappy poor man's food. ohnoyoudidnt Apr 2015 #37
Tea actualy sucks. trof Apr 2015 #35
i should have done that in my post above Enrique Apr 2015 #38
I have to agree Skittles Apr 2015 #43
A friend introduced me to PG Tips a few years ago TK421 Apr 2015 #46
my mum loved PG Tips Skittles Apr 2015 #48
A friend introduced me to PG Tips a few years ago TK421 Apr 2015 #47
Tea for two seveneyes Apr 2015 #36
such skill Liberal_in_LA Apr 2015 #40
I've never heard of "Teavana" before this post. kentauros Apr 2015 #39
I order tea on-line from HeiressofBickworth Apr 2015 #42
ask them for some Sanka olddots Apr 2015 #44
 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
1. I love tea, and am an avid tea drinker,
Sun Apr 19, 2015, 11:54 PM
Apr 2015

but yeah, some of these tea houses are the new uppity, snobby, ooooooh look at me, places to be.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
3. These days I get my tea at the farmers market
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 12:02 AM
Apr 2015

we also get the coffee. We find the service that much better, and I admit, the tea making vessel I bought for myself, is extremely good. (and compact)

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,735 posts)
4. I've never been there, but there's a local tea shop I like.
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 12:08 AM
Apr 2015
http://www.teasource.com/ They are not at all condescending and they sell a tea called Teasource Gold that makes the best iced tea ever.

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
9. Getting hooked on their expensive tea will make you Pu-Erh
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 12:53 AM
Apr 2015

Time to get that Golden Monkey off your back.

CrawlingChaos

(1,893 posts)
11. I would go in and ask for the Lipton's
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 01:28 AM
Apr 2015

But hey, I'm just a lower socioeconomic no-account easily impressed by the technology of the flow-through bag.

In all seriousness, I'm a coffee fanatic myself and as much as I love coffee houses, they can be pretty insufferable too. You sometimes feel like you've stepped into an episode of Portlandia.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
22. I like this idea!
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 11:14 AM
Apr 2015

I hate snobs of any kind especially when they really ought to try and make sale instead.

I love the idea of asking for Liptons. But as I said in another thread, they were helpful to me. That stuff is a treat though. Way too expensive for everyday people.

CrawlingChaos

(1,893 posts)
41. I hate snobs too
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 10:12 PM
Apr 2015

I always remember some comedian I saw once (I think it was Kathleen Madigan) who talked about going into Neiman Marcus and asking which floor for tires. I've always wanted to do something like that.

But, by the same token, I can get pretty excited about a truly great cup of coffee. Trouble is, it's hard to go back to the mediocre once you've had the best, but I can't afford the best all the time (or my idea of the best, which is probably far from the actual best).

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
14. I know it's tempting to feel you artichoke somebody, but it's best to re-strain yourself
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 03:15 AM
Apr 2015

I had some fantastic artichoke tea ('Cha Artichaut') in Dalat, Vietnam, but I learned the hard way that it's best taken in moderation to avoid explosive results.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
17. I've gone there and get gift coupons from/for others...
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 06:26 AM
Apr 2015

Usually, the personnel are what I call "typical young mall workers, socially naive", which is not to say it's an excuse for their cluelessness. The Teavana locally has them offer samplings, then asks you if you've ever bought their before, once you come in. I get their product, but not often, as it's a treat, and it's fair trade. I've also gotten a thermos from them for bringing bulk tea to work and things like that.

If you're dealing with clueless non-trained, try stepping back, cocking your head and asking how long they've worked with the public. Don't tell them why, just find another person in that store. They'll get the message. I'm not afraid to do that and it gives them something to think about-work related, if they want to last long enough in a retail job.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
18. Apparently, aggressiveness in sales people is kind of their thing.
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 07:34 AM
Apr 2015

Ive found a number of sites that complain about exactly what I experienced, condescension mixed with aggressive sales tactics.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
21. That's a shame. They were helpful to me when I went there...
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 11:13 AM
Apr 2015

I am not a tea drinker except for some unsweet tea at restaurants but my husband likes flavored teas. I went there to get him some gifts for Christmas and I was up front with them about knowing nothing about what they sold. It looks like pot pourri to me.

They had me try all kinds of things and helped me pick out a tea mug with an infuser that he could use at work. I went back another time to get a gift for a friend and there was a little boy having a complete meltdown in the store. He even dumped a container of tea on the floor. The sales people could not have been friendlier. The mortified mom was trying to clean it up and rush the boy out of the store but one salesperson asked if she could offer the boy some tea instead. The other one cleaned up the tea. It looked to me like they really wanted to make a sale!

I am sorry they made you feel bad. That's how I have felt at cosmetic counters over the years.

Gidney N Cloyd

(19,841 posts)
24. I got the snooty treatment at a small pet supplies store once.
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 12:08 PM
Apr 2015

They were new to the shopping center so I popped in and looked for the dog food brand I always get. I asked for help when I didn't see it and the response I get is a very icy 'we don't carry grocery store brands here.' Apparently it was more immediately important to him to condescend than to make a sale because he could have spun it more like 'we don't carry that brand-- let me tell you about some of the brands we do carry and why we chose to carry them.' You got my ass in the store and that's half the sales job-- now all you have to do is upsell me a bit.

LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
30. I've never had issues with Teavana before but I kinda know what I like from them
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 02:39 PM
Apr 2015

and prefer just ordering it online anymore.

What I do like is their tea stays pretty fresh even for a long period of time. I have a tin of tea I probably bought 5-7 years ago and I just used it yesterday and still good. (tins are reusable).

As for their stores - they are mall kids working it and I get the kind of service I expect from mall kids. But I haven't shopped there recently since they did discontinue my favorite brand a few years back (Plum Harvest). I usually only buy online with their sales stuff - good bargains to be found.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
31. Well this particular mall strikes me as being aimed at the snootier set.
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 05:51 PM
Apr 2015

All the high-end stores and weird, hipster-type places (like an entire store devoted to shaving, complete with very expensive, old-fashioned cutthroat razors and those brush things).

I swear I was looking for the artisanal toast restaurant, but didn't find it.

ohnoyoudidnt

(1,858 posts)
37. What is in vogue changes with the times. Lobster used to be considered crappy poor man's food.
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 08:16 PM
Apr 2015

There are coffee and beer snobs everywhere, it seems tea snobs are on the rise. This isn't an attack on the OP, but the rude clerks who dealt with the person.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
43. I have to agree
Tue Apr 21, 2015, 01:03 AM
Apr 2015

my mum was a Brit and I lived in England many years and the tea over there IS fantastic, but it just AIN'T the same here - in America it is strictly coffee for me, thank you very much!!!

TK421

(15,205 posts)
46. A friend introduced me to PG Tips a few years ago
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 03:59 AM
Apr 2015

She picked up a box for my birthday and I have to say this is my favorite so far.

How you been? Haven't been around much since I had to move out of my apartment and stay at my sister's place for a while ( the ceiling in my apartment collapsed because my landlord did a poor patch job on the roof ).
Got some heavy rain and the thing busted open early in the morning.
Hell of a way to wake up, surrounded by water.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
48. my mum loved PG Tips
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 04:12 AM
Apr 2015


I'm alright - hanging in there.

I hear you about apartment woes, although so far I have escaped a disaster like that!

TK421

(15,205 posts)
47. A friend introduced me to PG Tips a few years ago
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 03:59 AM
Apr 2015

She picked up a box for my birthday and I have to say this is my favorite so far.

How you been? Haven't been around much since I had to move out of my apartment and stay at my sister's place for a while ( the ceiling in my apartment collapsed because my landlord did a poor patch job on the roof ).
Got some heavy rain and the thing busted open early in the morning.
Hell of a way to wake up, surrounded by water.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
39. I've never heard of "Teavana" before this post.
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 08:38 PM
Apr 2015

There seems to be plenty of independent teahouses around, as well as the selection at Whole Foods, and a friendly local Tea Mistress for buying tea that I never thought to look for any other sources

Have you considered buying it online?

HeiressofBickworth

(2,682 posts)
42. I order tea on-line from
Mon Apr 20, 2015, 10:32 PM
Apr 2015

Murchie's in Canada. It takes about 4 days for it to arrive, but worth the wait. I particularly like their No. 22 blend (green and black tea).

I would LIKE to go to the local tea shop but there is no parking anywhere near it so it's just easier to order on-line.

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