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Panich52

(5,829 posts)
Mon Mar 2, 2015, 11:59 AM Mar 2015

My Girl’ — 50 Years And Counting

My Girl’ — 50 Years And Counting
Leonard Pitts, Jr

There are sounds it feels like you’ve known forever, sounds that have been in your ear so long, it’s hard to believe they were ever new. One of those sounds is this:

James Jamerson thumps a heartbeat on the bass. Robert White’s guitar corkscrews out in reply. And the immortal David Ruffin sings, in a voice of sweetness shadowed by sorrow, “I’ve got sunshine on a cloudy day.”

Hard to believe that sound was ever new, but it was. Released four days before Christmas in 1964, “My Girl” by the Temptations reached the top of the pop charts in the first week of March — 50 years ago this week. Maybe you remember hearing it during that portentous late winter when Malcolm X had just been killed, and Martin Luther King’s forces were gathering on a bridge in a town called Selma.

If so, you are probably humming it right now, recalling the airtight harmonies and the way the horns and strings danced elegant pirouettes of sound.

Or maybe you were born years later, during the energy crisis, or around the time of the Challenger disaster or even in that more recent era when Bryant Gumbel found it necessary to ask Katie Couric, “What is Internet, anyway?” Doesn’t matter. You’re humming it, too.

“My Girl” by the Temptations is one of those songs everybody knows. It is the most perfect thing ever recorded.

You may disagree, of course, and that’s fine. You have the right to be wrong and to celebrate whatever song suits your fancy in your newspaper column. Here on this piece of real estate, however, the judgment stands.

That said, we’re not here to celebrate the greatness of the song, nor even its endurance, but rather, the simple fact that you can sing it, that it is a song everybody knows. Songs like that are fewer and further between now. The phenomenal success of Pharrell Williams’ “Happy” last summer is the exception that proves the point. Yes, you knew that song, Grandma knew that song, kindergarteners knew that song.

But how many songs of the last 10 years can you say that about? How many from the last 20?

One of the fascinating, albeit unintended, byproducts of the tech revolution is that what used to be called the mainstream of American popular culture has fractured into near obsolescence. This is particularly obvious with television. The medium’s biggest new sensation — Empire on Fox — drew 13 million viewers for its Feb. 18 episode. In 1952, I Love Lucy averaged 10 million viewers more in a nation with less than half the current population.

There are more options now, more than three networks, more than a handful of radio stations, more demands on our time and attention. So there are fewer television programs “everybody” watches, fewer songs “everybody” knows, fewer things that bring us all together. As a result, it’s easier now to ensconce ourselves in bunkers of individual interest, so that sometimes, it feels as if there is no larger “us.” Which makes you value all the more those remnants from a distant era that still bind Americans across generations, skin color, religious affiliation, party lines.

One of them is a deceptively simple song Smokey Robinson and Ronald White wrote about a boy and girl in love. Most of the men who sang it are long gone. Paul Williams died in 1973, David Ruffin in 1991, Eddie Kendrick in 1992, and Melvin Franklin in 1995.

And right this moment, somewhere in the world, 73-year-old Otis Williams, the last of the men who sang that song, is probably getting ready to go onstage with four other men — one of them not yet born in 1965 — to sing it once again. It’s hard to imagine that anyone in the house won’t be singing along.

Fifty years and counting. And still, we’re talkin’ about “My Girl.”

Leonard Pitts is a columnist for The Miami Herald, 1 Herald Plaza, Miami, FL, 33132. Readers may contact him via email at lpitts@miamiherald.com.

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My Girl’ — 50 Years And Counting (Original Post) Panich52 Mar 2015 OP
K & R... Wounded Bear Mar 2015 #1
as was i, wounded bear hopemountain Mar 2015 #7
Always glad to help. CanSocDem Mar 2015 #2
I loved the choreography of those Motown groups. trof Mar 2015 #8
unforgettable, but there are many others dolphinsandtuna Mar 2015 #3
With the advent of "oldies radio" the music of the 60s and 70s is still popular. dixiegrrrrl Mar 2015 #4
Great song, so many from that era and immediately before. Jetboy Mar 2015 #5
Very good insight there about popular culture now days. Tobin S. Mar 2015 #6
I'm stuck in the past olddots Mar 2015 #9
That music is indeed timeless Ron Obvious Mar 2015 #10
Paul Williams is still alive Frosty1 Mar 2015 #11
Ya just onethatcares Mar 2015 #12
One of the first (lip sync) recordings from early 1965..... DeSwiss Mar 2015 #13

hopemountain

(3,919 posts)
7. as was i, wounded bear
Mon Mar 2, 2015, 06:51 PM
Mar 2015

my sisters and i and our neighbor friends would blast the 45's and jump on the beds to lip sync all of the songs - ah, such memories of innocence

 

dolphinsandtuna

(231 posts)
3. unforgettable, but there are many others
Mon Mar 2, 2015, 03:08 PM
Mar 2015

especially from that time period, when music was music, not screaming.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
4. With the advent of "oldies radio" the music of the 60s and 70s is still popular.
Mon Mar 2, 2015, 03:33 PM
Mar 2015

But I have a hard time believing it was 50 years ago..even longer for the tunes of the 50s that I remember.
Sigh.

Jetboy

(792 posts)
5. Great song, so many from that era and immediately before.
Mon Mar 2, 2015, 04:23 PM
Mar 2015

If I listen to something recorded after 1965, it's usually not by my choice.

'Why Do Fools Fall In Love' is another song everybody loves and sings along to.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
6. Very good insight there about popular culture now days.
Mon Mar 2, 2015, 06:01 PM
Mar 2015

Personally, I think it's better that we now have more choices for information and entertainment. If you're stuck in the 60s, well, that's still out there for you. If you want the latest thing, that's not hard to find either.

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
9. I'm stuck in the past
Mon Mar 2, 2015, 07:24 PM
Mar 2015

Yesterday I asked my wife if she would love me when I'm old and ugly ....she said " I do "

an old joke but a goody .

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
10. That music is indeed timeless
Tue Mar 3, 2015, 01:34 PM
Mar 2015

My young nephews listen to the music from that era from before they were born too. I've often wondered what music from today could possibly be remembered even a year later, but I attributed that to being an old fart. Apparently not entirely as at least some young people agree with me.

onethatcares

(16,168 posts)
12. Ya just
Tue Mar 3, 2015, 06:29 PM
Mar 2015

had to be there. Because otherwise, ya just ain't gonna understand it.

I harken back to the friday night dances at St. Margarets Catholic School, with the nuns seperating
dancers, with Smokie and the Miracles or Chubby Checker playing on the record player.

I kinda miss those days of the dirty twist and Harlem Nocturn. Yes, I really do, jeez, i'm gettin old.

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