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diabeticman

(3,121 posts)
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 12:46 AM Jan 2015

My bastard neighbors are trying to drive my wife insane!

I was going to bring the cat my mother is caring for up to our condo for a 48 hour visit since we are allowed a 48 hour visit. NOW we get a note stating that WE cannot have smokey up in our condo until further notice that it is EVEN THOUGH IT IS CLEARLY STATED that pets are only allowed for visits up to 48 hours.

We get a letter address to us tonight stating smokey won't be allowed up until further notice and that ONLY DOGS are permitted for visits!


My wife wants to go to an attorney. She said according her friend they seem to be infringing on our rights as home owners. How can you have clearly stated in a billboard that pets are allow for a visit only up to 48 hours YET FORBID US TO HAVE A CAT UP IN OUR HOME!

Am I seriously completely wrong here? It seems they are purposely trying to make us sell!

Advise. If I knew how to take a picture from my phone and put it on this board. I do have the photo.

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My bastard neighbors are trying to drive my wife insane! (Original Post) diabeticman Jan 2015 OP
You are not wrong. elleng Jan 2015 #1
Yes, it is two older ladies one lives in unit one below our unit and the other lives in unit 2. diabeticman Jan 2015 #2
Is the furniture wood.? Could somebody trip on it.? Would it look nice painted bright Orange? BlueJazz Jan 2015 #11
Your wife is right. It's time to talk to a lawyer. In_The_Wind Jan 2015 #3
Bizarre. LiberalElite Jan 2015 #4
I lived in a high rise condo for a while finishing my last degree. The HOA was shockingly abusing hlthe2b Jan 2015 #5
Just bring the cat in........... mrmpa Jan 2015 #6
The woman is basically the condo board. we had to give 48 hour notice and we aren't saying anything diabeticman Jan 2015 #9
I got you.........but I have a question mrmpa Jan 2015 #10
How did they know you were bringing the cat? cwydro Jan 2015 #7
We had to give them 48 hour notice. So I asked. diabeticman Jan 2015 #8
Gotta friend with a little dog? whistler162 Jan 2015 #12
that thought occurred to me, too. nt magical thyme Jan 2015 #13
I have a friend with a Beagle and another with a Coon Hound. They work for treats. Hassin Bin Sober Jan 2015 #18
Yet another reason PasadenaTrudy Jan 2015 #14
1) Scrutinize the bylaws (a billboard is not a legal document). demmiblue Jan 2015 #15
It's weird they allow a dog visit but not a cat visit! Arugula Latte Jan 2015 #16
Just bring the kitty in anyway...and act like it's a baby (grandchild) wraped in swaddling...lol onecent Jan 2015 #17

elleng

(130,975 posts)
1. You are not wrong.
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 12:55 AM
Jan 2015

Do see an attorney, and get the bastard neighbors off of your backs. The neighbors don't run the condo, do they?

diabeticman

(3,121 posts)
2. Yes, it is two older ladies one lives in unit one below our unit and the other lives in unit 2.
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 01:04 AM
Jan 2015

AND the bitch in Unit 2 and her husband have had a piece of furniture out side of their unit door for about a week now.

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
11. Is the furniture wood.? Could somebody trip on it.? Would it look nice painted bright Orange?
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 12:14 PM
Jan 2015

I'm kidding...I'm kidding..

hlthe2b

(102,297 posts)
5. I lived in a high rise condo for a while finishing my last degree. The HOA was shockingly abusing
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 09:24 AM
Jan 2015

its authority and my older neighbor (who was admittedly a bit strange but a very nice lady) was targeted and harassed. Leaving out the details, she was on a fixed income but purchased one of those annual lawyer plans, which offer pretty generous consultive help for pretty routine issues. She got them to write a letter or two to the HOA and my understanding is that they have since given her a wide berth.

Something to look into. I don't think these plans are too expensive, though I doubt they'd be much help for a major legal issue.

mrmpa

(4,033 posts)
6. Just bring the cat in...........
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 09:47 AM
Jan 2015

the only entity that can deny you anything is the Condo Board. If you do not have a letter from them, feel free to bring in the cat for its 48 hour visit. If you want to respond to the letter writer(s) (which I don't suggest you do), end the letter with the statement that you will take them to the local magistrate and charge them with harassment.

p.s. email me if you want to meet for coffee.

diabeticman

(3,121 posts)
9. The woman is basically the condo board. we had to give 48 hour notice and we aren't saying anything
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 10:51 AM
Jan 2015

we are seeking advise from a lawyer.

mrmpa

(4,033 posts)
10. I got you.........but I have a question
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 11:24 AM
Jan 2015

is she President of the Board? Also, I hate assholes like her. When I was on my Condo Board, my co members were dumb, dumber and dumbest of all the people I know. They knew nothing of rules, regulation, and bylaws. They allowed the management company to manage everything. That company ignored matters long enough that one repair cost us over $600,000.00. They allowed one maintenance man without overtime to earn $60,000.00 a year and he does nothing.

They went after people they didn't like, charging them for repairs that were the responsibility of the Association, etc. A well run Board would not allow those things to happen. They ended up in litigation where they were found responsible so along with payment to an Attorney they had to pay out to the owner.

 

whistler162

(11,155 posts)
12. Gotta friend with a little dog?
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 12:17 PM
Jan 2015

Since those seem to be the biggest yappers. Buy a good set of earplugs and have 48 hour visits.

PasadenaTrudy

(3,998 posts)
14. Yet another reason
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 01:33 PM
Jan 2015

I would never ever buy a condo You don't really own anything more than the air within your rooms...

demmiblue

(36,865 posts)
15. 1) Scrutinize the bylaws (a billboard is not a legal document).
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 01:50 PM
Jan 2015

2) Give notice (if there is no proof in the bylaws that cats are exempted from the 48 hour policy).

3) Enjoy cat! Even as a member of the board, your neighbor has no authority over you if the bylaws do not specifically state that you are not allowed to have a cat for the 48 hour policy.

4) Document everything (and I mean everything).

5) Don't get so worked up, it is bad for your health. Some people thrive in a conflict-ridden environment (especially those who feel that they have power over others).

onecent

(6,096 posts)
17. Just bring the kitty in anyway...and act like it's a baby (grandchild) wraped in swaddling...lol
Wed Jan 21, 2015, 08:55 PM
Jan 2015

Piss on 'em. If that cat doesn't want to go out HOW will they know?

Makes me never want to have to go into senior housing. OMG

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