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trof

(54,256 posts)
Fri Jan 9, 2015, 08:53 PM Jan 2015

Actually...

I have come to hate this word.
OK, not 'hate'; that's too strong; but it's very irritating.

It has become an annoying space filler in conversation.

"So, John, where did you go to college?"
"ACTUALLY, I went to..."

"Nice to meet you Alice. What business are you in?"
"ACTUALLY, I'm a ..."

I would use 'actually' to correct a misconception.

"So trof, I hear you're a bartender?"
"No, ACTUALLY I'm a nuclear physicist."

End of small rant.
Thank you for actually attending.


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Actually... (Original Post) trof Jan 2015 OP
Are you actually serious about this? n/t PoliticAverse Jan 2015 #1
I think you're a little touchy sharp_stick Jan 2015 #2
I actually have a friend who is panader0 Jan 2015 #3
This is actually a very helpful reminder. Rhiannon12866 Jan 2015 #4
Honestly, I see your point... (nt) petronius Jan 2015 #5
Oh wow, you're a nuclear physicist !? Joe Shlabotnik Jan 2015 #6
What an awesome thread! First Speaker Jan 2015 #7
I think of Hugh Grant when I hear "actually." monmouth4 Jan 2015 #8
My "actually" habit began way back in college ... betsuni Jan 2015 #9
Meh. Dude, that is so random. riderinthestorm Jan 2015 #10

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
2. I think you're a little touchy
Fri Jan 9, 2015, 09:06 PM
Jan 2015

actually...

But actually I really agree with you, it pisses me off too.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
3. I actually have a friend who is
Fri Jan 9, 2015, 10:06 PM
Jan 2015

an annoying space filler in conversation. When you can actually understand what he is saying. Really, I mean really.

Joe Shlabotnik

(5,604 posts)
6. Oh wow, you're a nuclear physicist !?
Sat Jan 10, 2015, 05:09 AM
Jan 2015

No wonder I'm still waiting for last call. (I was gonna leave you a crappy tip anyway.)

betsuni

(25,537 posts)
9. My "actually" habit began way back in college ...
Sat Jan 10, 2015, 07:54 PM
Jan 2015

when I hung around the Scandinavian exchange students who often began sentences with it, a mannerism I picked up. Even now I'll begin writing a sentence with it and feel pompous and delete it, unless it actually needs to be there of course.

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