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NRaleighLiberal

(60,014 posts)
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 03:12 PM Dec 2014

34 years. wow. Bring on 34 more!

I've put a few pics on FB - here https://www.facebook.com/nctomatoman

It's a big day for my wife Susan and I in a way - and in other ways, just like the previous 34 X 365 days (which the calculator says is 12,410 days). For some crazy reason, this really pretty girl agreed to marry this often loud, clutzy, no-idea-what-he-wants-do-be-when-he-grows-up, possibly permanent grad student. We had a justice of the peace, just a small group of my friends attend (if we tried to do a church thing, her catholic parents and my protestant parents would not have agreed on anything), and sneaked into the college chapel for the "service" (which was over in the blink of an eye).

We met at a local hospital nurse-sponsored party with the grad students. She was the first person I saw when I walked in the door (it was a party I did not want to attend - I was just dumped unceremoniously by someone else). We finally talked while standing in line for beer (it took half an hour of watching her and picking out just the right time to get in line!). We talked, danced a bit, and the party ended - she gave me her number. We soon started dating.

We started out enjoying music, hiking, cooking, movies - our tastes are so similar. Somehow we fell in love and decided we were each other's favorite people.

Today we woke up, had some home made raisin nut toast with honey and coffee. She went out to work out, I went to Trader Joe. Right now she is quilting, I am trying to sort out what's ahead for me with my book finally becoming available next week - and doing this. Three cats and two dogs are snoozing around us. Tonight we will go to our favorite Indian restaurant.

No need to make a bigger deal out of today for either of us than it is - just another day where both of us feel very lucky to have met each other. Believe me - every day I wake up and recognize how fortunate I am.


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34 years. wow. Bring on 34 more! (Original Post) NRaleighLiberal Dec 2014 OP
Congrats to you both! GeorgeGist Dec 2014 #1
Happy Anniversary!!!! Cooley Hurd Dec 2014 #2
Yay! lovemydog Dec 2014 #3
Congratulations! Rhiannon12866 Dec 2014 #4
Congratulations! ColesCountyDem Dec 2014 #5
Happy Anniversary! livetohike Dec 2014 #6
((HugsfromMecklenburgCounty)) blm Dec 2014 #7
We are at 51 years and growing more and more. I strongly recommend the institution of JDPriestly Dec 2014 #8
Congrats from F-V! (nfm) SunDrop23 Dec 2014 #9
What a nice story. Would that all could find that special bliss. No Vested Interest Dec 2014 #10
Mazel Tov, Omedetou, and Congratulations. Half-Century Man Dec 2014 #11
best wishes onethatcares Dec 2014 #12
Congratulations and here's to many more years! greatauntoftriplets Dec 2014 #13
Happy Anniversary! onecaliberal Dec 2014 #14
CONGRATS ! olddots Dec 2014 #15
Congratulations Worried senior Dec 2014 #16
You have been blessed cwydro Dec 2014 #17
congratulations! magical thyme Dec 2014 #18
Congratulations! I got lucky, too. DFW Dec 2014 #19
Congratulations!! Happy Anniversary! Nt riderinthestorm Dec 2014 #20
Congratulations to you both, my dear NRaleighLiberal! CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2014 #21
Awwww... what a GREAT post!!! Just TERRIFIC, NRaleighLiberal! calimary Dec 2014 #22
Happy anniversary! rosesaylavee Dec 2014 #23
Happy Anniversary! mnhtnbb Dec 2014 #24
Mazel tov! shenmue Dec 2014 #25

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
8. We are at 51 years and growing more and more. I strongly recommend the institution of
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 05:04 PM
Dec 2014

marriage. Gets better with age. Enjoy. Happy anniversary. Many more. I wish you both good health and abundant love and purpose.

DFW

(54,397 posts)
19. Congratulations! I got lucky, too.
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 08:11 PM
Dec 2014

We had to hold our wedding on neutral ground, too, as the three sets of parents were Catholic (my wife's), Shinto Buddhist (my brother's wife's), and nothing at all (ours). Luckily, all our parents were cool with the whole thing. Luckily, our (my brother's and my) parents spoke neither German nor Japanese, and our inlaws' parents spoke only German (my wife's) and Japanese (my brother's wife's).

So you are fans of Indian food, too. Way to go! Our little town outside Düsseldorf had no Indian place until a few weeks ago, when one finally opened here--finally, and it's even good!

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,627 posts)
21. Congratulations to you both, my dear NRaleighLiberal!
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 08:33 PM
Dec 2014

What a wonderful, heart-warming story!

Here's to many, many more!




calimary

(81,298 posts)
22. Awwww... what a GREAT post!!! Just TERRIFIC, NRaleighLiberal!
Sat Dec 6, 2014, 08:36 PM
Dec 2014


Congratulations to you both! And now for launching of the next 34...


rosesaylavee

(12,126 posts)
23. Happy anniversary!
Sun Dec 7, 2014, 11:04 AM
Dec 2014

You have one year on us - this is just a great great post. I wish you and your loved one many many more!

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