What was the song you lost your virginity to?

[AllenVanAllen]

For me it was the tender crooning of George Michael's, "Careless Whisper". Could have been worse. My best friend lost it to Kiss, "I Was Made For Loving you" ... or better.

[olddots]

1. J.S. Bach's. Air On The G String .. hey I'm old

That was the original summer of love

[AllenVanAllen]

4. Ahh, that sounds way better than George Michael

Summer of love...I think I was made the winter before! Oh well, love is timeless.

[Aristus]

2. I can't remember.

My first time was such a fraught, fumbling, harried experience, I don't remember details like that.

Now, the second time (it was with a different woman; shows you what the first time was like...) the song playing at the magic moment was "Witches" by the Cowboy Junkies.

[AllenVanAllen]

5. "Fumbling...Well wasn't it like that for all of us....

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give or take the amount of alcohol involved. I love Cowboy Junkies!

[Aristus]

35. Out of pure nostalgia...

I'm listening to The Caution Horses on my office stereo right now.

Ah, memories...

[arcane1]

3. Yeah, Kiss was better :) I have no idea of my song but it surely sucked

Considering it was the early 80's and who I was with, it was likely Dan Fogleberg or something.

[AllenVanAllen]

6. Naw man, Dan Folgerberg made it better..

even if you didn't know it.

[arcane1]

7. Well, she did plant a still-living Barry Manilow seed in my brain.

[AllenVanAllen]

8. Oh sweet weeping madness!!!

[arcane1]

9. I guess you had to be there, although that would've significantly altered the experience

[BlueJazz]

10. She'll be coming 'round the mountain when she c...

[AllenVanAllen]

12. When she comes? First time? yeah...right

I'd have been super supreme had this been playing in the background...

[Behind the Aegis]

25. HEY! I was gonna say that!

The song wasn't really playing, but because of awkward positioning once the deed was about to be done, someone's drawers got caught on the parking brake, it got unset, and we almost rolled into a ravine! So, we weren't "coming around the mountain", but we almost went down one!

[BlueJazz]

31. That's Funny!

[LostInAnomie]

11. The sweet music of skin on skin banging.

And by "sweet music" I mean awkward fumbling and sighs of disappointment.

[AllenVanAllen]

13. I remember what Ellen Degeneres said about it.

it has to get better. it has to.

[Joe Shlabotnik]

14. The doors first album,

probably somewhere around Light my fire on the first side. Summer of '86. We were 16. Acid, dope, piss-warm beer, and always an illegal gathering at the local community horticultural college on summer nights. It was July 29th to be exact, and we also wandered off to go skinny dipping first in Lake Ontario, and then climb over the fence at the local pool. Good times, and to boot; that girl was my first 'real' love. Though the relationship deteriorated over the next year or so, that was the one and only time in my life I was "in love".
Magical times

Wow such I'm a curmudgeon now.

[AllenVanAllen]

15. Wow, best music so far.

The Doors... Well, love is eternal just like magic.

[Joe Shlabotnik]

16. I think in all of our passionate bumping and grinding,

we managed to skip over that one song. (which kills the vibe of the album), or unless maybe that was playing while I was stumbling around trying to put a condom on. lol.

[AllenVanAllen]

17. Hey, ain't you a little young to be a curmudgeon already?

I try to be Methuselah but no one will let me .

[orleans]

18. i love careless whisper

ever hear the seether version?

it really kicks ass

[AllenVanAllen]

21. Never heard that!

It's good! The source material has all the angst and longing to make a good redo. I love when someone takes a cover and makes it theirs. Yeah, Careless Whisper, ain't that bad for a first time come to think about it.

[Arugula Latte]

94. Have you ever seen the Sexy Saxophonist?

"He doesn't like George Michael! Boooo!"

[blue neen]

19. "Baby, I Love Your Way"

Peter Frampton---"Frampton Comes Alive". That album was all anybody listened to that spring!

[AllenVanAllen]

22. Now that's sweet tunes.

...lucky

[mokawanis]

20. Strikes me as kind of funny to think about it now

the song was "Love Hurts" by Nazareth.

[AllenVanAllen]

23. Ahh, nice

I never knew that was a cover until a few years ago

and love leads to, well you know...

[LeftInTX]

24. Didn't know the Everly Brothers did this song

[d_r]

26. There was music? nt

[AllenVanAllen]

52. I guess if you were lucky.

[hack89]

27. Sex Pistols- the tempo damn near killed me. Nt

[nomorenomore08]

56. I just hope it wasn't "Bodies." That would *really* kill the mood.

[Sancho]

28. IDK, but it must have been really good music...

All the music in the 70's was terrific!

[lastlib]

45. 'cept the disco.

BeeGees, KC & Sunshine Band--all that shit sukked in the 70s and hasn't gotten any better with age.

[Sancho]

46. haha..I love the BeeGees

[lastlib]

49. they were actually OK before they went disco......

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...but from 'Jive Talkin'" on, they sukked big ones.

[AllenVanAllen]

68. Oh Yeah..

They wrote this

[Sancho]

74. We loved ABBA and Donna Summer...

not all disco was bad. 70's had all kinds of good music.

Disco was just one of all the cool things happening!

[UglyGreed]

29. No song, crickets

since it was outdoors in the summertime. Kids in those days sheez!

[Burma Jones]

30. whippoorwills

Camping

[dr.strangelove]

32. To the sweet sound of Donuts being made (in the back of a Dunkin donuts)

No music, just two dumb teenagers high on coffee and sugar and a very dead part of a summer afternoon.

[pipi_k]

33. Big Balls

Hah. Just kidding.


Lost it way before then. Like...1969. I remember the experience (rather sordid, as I recall) and there was no music playing at the time.


If I'd had a choice, my ideal music would have been something by Barry White.

sigh...

[Jokerman]

34. Believe it or not, "Paradise By The Dashboard Lights".

A cliche' I know but it was a big hit at the time.

I can't say with absolute certainty that it was that specific song at that specific moment but it was without a doubt the "Bat Out of Hell" album playing on the car tape deck.

[mythology]

64. I was also listening to a song from a Meat Loaf album.

Of course it was the much less heralded album Welcome to the Neighborhood, but I didn't want to set her up for any further disappointment, so I went with the song "45 Seconds of Ecstasy". She contended I still oversold myself. :p

More seriously, I don't remember if there was music playing. There probably was in my head, if nothing else to distract me a bit from feeling self-conscious and stupid and clumsy.

[Jokerman]

75. Maybe you should have tried "Sixty Minute Man."

You know, some subliminal confidence building. Although for most high school boys, 45 seconds might be more realistic.

[WhiteAndNerdy]

114. That is hilarious! nt

[Throd]

36. Black Sabbath "Hole in the Sky"

[nomorenomore08]

57. You just might be the coolest guy in this thread.

[clarice]

37. Love Stinks....Nt.

[NewJeffCT]

38. I remember "Sign Your Name"

from Terrence Trent D'Arby, though I think there were a few others in the mix as well.

[GreatGazoo]

39. in reality there was no music but in the movie version of my life...

[AllenVanAllen]

88. Oh yeah, I'm all about dreaming it better

[MissMillie]

40. This one

always liked Boz Scaggs

[RobinA]

41. Levon

by Elton John. It wasn't an oldie then. It's the song I remember from the evening in question, there were others, because the radio was on.

[dembotoz]

42. no idea but from start to finish i still had time to flip the 45.....

[CrawlingChaos]

43. Jeez, all I remember is PAIN

And the internal soundtrack of curse words in my head. Seriously, it hurt so much more than I was anticipating. A couple weeks later - whole different story.

I think it's going to be mostly men answering this question, but it's nice that you all remember the songs

[AllenVanAllen]

51. You're right. The first time had to have been so very different for women.

In my case it wasn't her first time but it was mine. I was so in love and it meant so very much to me. The night was tender but far from ideal. Thank you for sharing CrawlingChaos.

[misterhighwasted]

44. 'Samba Pa Ti / Black Magic Woman' Carlos Santana

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[LynneSin]

47. "Magdeline" by Hybrid Ice

It was a local band

[kwassa]

48. Cream

I Feel Free

[Shrek]

50. "Big Ten Inch" by Aerosmith

Just kidding.

Actually there was no music.

[RebelOne]

53. No song, no music. I was raped when I was 14. n/t

[In_The_Wind]

59. I'm sorry RebelOne.

[AllenVanAllen]

65. God...I'm so sorry that happened to you.

I can only hope you've been able to overcome such a traumatic and life changing event. My heart goes out to you.

[olddots]

54. in my case

It was a song by the MINUTEMEN .

[shenmue]

55. Mine was...

a CNN report.

God, I'm boring.

[AllenVanAllen]

69. I have a dear friend from Canada who says she loves 24 American cable news....

So I can see it.

[nomorenomore08]

58. Don't think there was music, and I was way older than I would've liked anyhow.

If I'd still been in high school/college, it probably would've been "Crash Into Me" by Dave Matthews or some such slop.

[AllenVanAllen]

87. "Dave Matthews or some such slop"

I like this ...

[nomorenomore08]

91. I've been known to enjoy some of his songs, as guilty pleasures if nothing else.

[In_The_Wind]

60. We were listening for the sound of tires crunching in the driveway ...

... and Gene Pitney (in 1962).

[Skittles]

61. Whiter Shade of Pale

yes indeed

[AllenVanAllen]

67. I hope it was a good experience for you.

For us guys, well...we're kinda clueless.

[Skittles]

72. I remember him fondly

I left England shortly after

43 years later I still remember his birthday

looked him up on the internet not long ago, I see he is living in Idaho

[Blue_In_AK]

62. No song.

We were outside on a blanket under the Colorado pines.

[AllenVanAllen]

66. That sounds nice

Being in nature is the best, no matter what you're doing.

[hopemountain]

63. balboa hotel, san diego

america - horse with no name

[LeftInTX]

70. Deleted - LOL

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Woke up and realized I just can't go there

[AllenVanAllen]

90. I hear ya

[Recursion]

71. Crash Into Me (yes, I know, that's cheesy)

But, it was early 1997 and that's what was on the radio...

[Frank Cannon]

73. More Than This - Roxy Music

[PassingFair]

77. How romantic!

Lucky!

[Frank Cannon]

80. That whole Avalon album was made solely for sex.

A friend of mine told me that if I lit a couple of candles and put that album on, I was GUARANTEED to get laid. He was absolutely right. God bless Mr. Bryan Ferry for giving this poor, awkward nerd hope and a new lease on life.



Take note, youngsters. Avalon by Roxy Music. Ask your friendly music dealer for it by name.

[PassingFair]

81. Tip from a female.

Al Green is even more effective!

[Arugula Latte]

95. This is a good one. My husband and I consider Avalon "our" album.

[PassingFair]

76. Don't think it was playing at the exact moment...but this song always reminds me.

Still one of my favorite songs.

[Xyzse]

78. None. It was dark, silent, in my room and we had hours upon hours.

I think having a soundtrack would just be distracting.

I was in my apartment at the time, so we had the freedom of time and privacy.

[KamaAina]

79. Something by the Dead

she's the one who turned me into a Deadhead.

Can't remember what, though.

[AllenVanAllen]

86. She brought you a gift.

The best kind of gift. one that lives in you forever.

[KamaAina]

93. Indeed. 13 shows over the years.

She did, however, move to Hong Kong and settle there. I can understand getting away from your ex, but that seems a tad extreme.

By the way, Mr. VanAllen, are you wearing a belt?

[AllenVanAllen]

116. Am I wearing a belt?

Whaaaaaa?

Oh shit I just got that!

Wull hullz yeah I am! Keeping you alive n-stuff!

[Enthusiast]

101. Cool!

[Saboburns]

82. Er, Um

I didn't lose my virginity to a song.

I did it with a girl.

jk

[AllenVanAllen]

85. You're funny

[arely staircase]

83. this

[Xipe Totec]

84. Music! I knew there was something missing!

Oh well, next virginity.

[AllenVanAllen]

89. Music....

the greatest invention man has ever devised. You gotta have it.

[Enthusiast]

102. +1

[KMOD]

92. I never knew how complete love could be. I kissed him, and said

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OK, not a true story. I just thought this was a good place to put this song.

[PassingFair]

99. Ha ha...

See my post #76 above.

[KMOD]

105. lol

[Arugula Latte]

96. I remember the sound of the other-cave dwellers banging rocks together.

[sinkingfeeling]

97. I think it was 'Strangers in the Night' by Frank Sinatra.

[Broken_Hero]

98. Can't remember the exact song, but it was Chicago, nt

[Enthusiast]

100. I swear it was, believe it or not, In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida.

[LeftInTX]

108. In the Garden of Eden baby.

[ScreamingMeemie]

103. "Word Up"

Hey, don't judge me.

I still cringe when I hear that song...

[Bertha Venation]

104. it was a jazz album whose name I can't remember

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The cover was a picture of the matches in a matchbook. One On One?

Great album. Wonderful experience. Now blasted all to hell by who that woman turned out to be.

[Mr.Bill]

106. The theme from M*A*S*H

Suicide is painless. We were at the drive in.

[zanana1]

107. Mud Slide Slim

By James Taylor. It sounds worse than it is; really an "in the mood" song, especially on a sunny Sunday afternoon.

[Major Nikon]

109. I ran away and joined the circus when I was young

I can still remember what her beard felt like.

[AllenVanAllen]

112. Heh, you're teh awesome

[Bagsgroove]

110. Jive Talkin' -- Bee Gees

Yes, I am suitably ashamed.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

111. The radio was playing but, I do remember the song I that was playing when

I smoked my first joint and, oddly enough, it was ...

[WhiteAndNerdy]

113. Appropriately enough, it was

"Landslide" by Fleetwood Mac -- a song about going through new phases of life when I was doing precisely that!

[A Simple Game]

115. I don't remember the exact song, I was distracted, but I'm sure it was something by these guys.

Full album for those interested.

The Moody Blues are just one of many reasons the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame is a farce.

[olddots]

117. are we talking sbout looding it with another person ?

Okay the minute waltz