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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI'm still sad...I took in two more cats and they went into the Humane Society adoption...
program.
One was a beautiful diluated Calico, about 9-10 months old, abandoned, very friendly but skinny. She came to the feeding area about a week ago, and was friendy from the start, so I checked to see just how friendly...she let me pick her up and hold her, so I knew she needed to be taken in. She's very sweet, but when I put her in the carrier to hand her over, she was panicking...I think someone brought her to the park in a carrier to dump her so she remembers that...she wasn't just unhappy, she was stressing big time. Anyway, I told them if they have trouble adopting her out to let me know...I just can't do 10 cats...
...nor 11...they also took this 7 week old feral kitten I nabbed this morning...beautiful fluffy tabby...probably male...scared, but considering he's feral, handling everything fairly well. Hope he can be socialized.
But I really feel bad over the Calico...she is very sweet and trusting, and I hope she soon realizes that she's now inside again for good. If I had more room, she would have stayed...
LisaLynne
(14,554 posts)But we can't keep them all. You did the kind and right thing for them, even though it's really hard. That's why I hate people who dump animals so much -- it just burdens others with their selfish stupidity.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)I'm finally coming out of the funk. I really couldn't keep her, not only the room, but the littlest one still has a slight URI and I can't expose her to anything...if I found her when the others were a little older, maybe. I hope she gets a really good home.
Flaxbee
(13,661 posts)that's the best you can do.
we had 7 at one point, and are now down to 5 with a regular feral stray at the office (who has been spayed and her three kittens also spayend/neutered and adopted).
Just last Monday I had to have the *sweetest*, neatest stray near our home put to sleep, and I'm still sick over it. He (Cory) was wonderful, and friendly. But an unneutered stray male; he was FIV+ and had had a trachea infection for months and months -- I couldn't expose him to my cats, couldn't let him loose, and didn't have the resources (time, money, location) to care for him. I hate myself for it because I loved him (I'd been feeding him for 6 months, but only a few weeks ago did he let me get close to him; he'd had a rattling wheeze/cough with intermittent gagging since January).
So. I understand. It's so damn hard, being responsible and compassionate. It can be heartbreaking.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)But at least he hd a better life than he could have...my little Katie still coughs and sneezes that URI is persistent, so I couldn't expose her to anyone new.
Brigid
(17,621 posts)Oh how beautiful! Surely someone will want to give her a loving home!
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)A light green and very big...and like I said, very sweet...hoping it turns out well for her.
840high
(17,196 posts)Humane So. I weep all the way home. I understand.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)I'm sure this one will find a good home, but I hate what she's going through until that forever home comes around.
bluedigger
(17,087 posts)Little fellow showed up Thursday night and I grabbed him. I think he's a Chihuahua. I hoped to find his people, as he had a harness on but no tags. This afternoon someone down the block told me they believe he came from a house that's for sale, so it looks like he was left behind. He hasn't been fixed, and I'm broker than broke right now. I just can't take on the responsibility to care for him, along with my girl, Cleo. I'm not looking forward to it, but I guess they have a good record of rehoming dogs, so it's for the best.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)The owners probably didn't microchip him, but you never know...hope it turns out well for him.
bluedigger
(17,087 posts)They hustled him into the backroom pretty quickly - I guess they like to make the separation quick and easy for all concerned. I asked them to contact me when he is rehomed. I understand small dogs are pretty easy to do, and he is a good pup. I teared up a little as I pulled out of the parking lot, and then lost it when I got home and my dog greeted me at the door. She moped around all afternoon, too, and she didn't even like the little bugger that much, as he was constantly all up in her lady bits.
I was thinking about applying for an opening there, but I don't think I'm tough enough for that.
Thanks for the reply.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)I'd be taking them all home.
You should follow up with them about his re-homing...my experience is that it's not on the top of their list of priorities...and they'll forget to let you know!
I need to win the lottery!
bluedigger
(17,087 posts)Cleo's been bugging me about getting a kitty for her for a while now.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)I have enought trouble at the monthly clinic where they bring in ferals...some really aren't all that feral and I hate they are going to be released again...