Do you have this many books? (pic heavy)
Suffice it to say my father likes books
This is his library downstairs.
That's not even all of them as many of these shelves are DOUBLE faced!
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Wow, that is a lot of books!
We have many as well, but I think your father has more. 
He must like to read!
My father is something of a collector too, but not for the same reason 
For him it's almost a hoarding thing. He loves books and reading, and is fairly well read, but he's actually only completed a small proportion of the books in his library. He starts and puts down WAY more books than he ever finishes. A lot of these books were collected during his university years when he was studying Chinese. The rest were collected over the years living here in Vancouver.
Who sold half half his book collection before he moved across the country. He is "down" to 3,000. 
I can't begin to imagine how much it cost to ship 3,000 books!
I'm sure the very LAST thing your father would have wanted would be for you to feel guilty for being a terrible daughter. The very fact that he tried as hard as he did you get you to be interested in the book means he loved you. No father who loves their children would EVER want them to feel this way of themselves after their passing! Being an insolent teen is hardly a rare thing, one might go as far as to say it's a natural part of growing up. I'm sorry for your loss and empathise. Remember your father as the man who loved you. But don't ever think you were a terrible daughter. 
room in my tiny house for a collection that big, which is why I love my Kindle so much. I was able to donate a lot of my actual books and make room for other things, although I did keep some hardcopies of the ones I read over and over again.
anyway, I love books too, and would guess that I've probably read a few thousand of them over the years.
PS...so I just checked my Kindle account and there are 1132 downloaded books there.
Try fitting that many books into a pocket or purse! 
*Every* room.
We have bookshelves everywhere, and waterproof bins (maybe 30?) filled with books in the basement. I also have a bunch on my kindle - a few hundred, maybe?
Periodically I go through, and filter - I think I found new homes for five boxes (200 or so?) adult books, and then over the summer we donated 150-200 children's books alone (that my kids had outgrown) to a local daycare.
Mine is a household of readers, and I go through books like chocolate. One other poster mentioned her "dowry" being books, and one of the big selling points my husband brought to the relationship was an understanding that, while I might not "waste" money on shoes or purses, books were non-negotiable. Lol!
Earlier this year a dear friend passed away from cancer; she was a fellow book-lover. While still reeling from the news, I went to a local bookstore that, as chance would have it, was closing down - a double blow. The good news was they were selling everything in the store dirt cheap (hardcovers $5; paperbacks $2/$3 or less without a cover), and I ended up with 75 books for a little under $200, many of which I wouldn't have bought if I wasn't so grief stricken. Every time I've read one of them, I have remembered my friend, and wanted to share thoughts about them. She had a wicked sense of humor, and I dearly loved to talk books/characters with her, especially our favorite decadent indulgence the "trash romance with fantasy elements and feisty heroines" - sigh.
I miss her still. My memories of her are all wrapped up in books and crafting....which describes much of my life.... 
My wife and I cannot walk past a used bookstore. My wife still buys used books on the internet too, I've stopped doing that, maybe 'cause I've already got most of the books that have influenced me...
In our defense we are quick to lend them out or give them away too, at least those that might be easily replaced.
I have a Kobo, and enjoy browsing gutenberg.org not that it doesn't stop me from buying new books, but there is no more room on our shelves for more, and no more room for more shelves without taking some of the art down. Oh dear, we collect art too, not the expensive kind, it's mostly family and friends art, and art we've purchased from local artists.
