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madmom

(9,681 posts)
Tue Oct 29, 2013, 03:20 PM Oct 2013

New kittie that is adopting us... UPDATE

Last edited Mon Nov 25, 2013, 03:24 PM - Edit history (1)

Our current house meatloaf was at the back door having a "hissy fit". When I looked out, this is who I saw. Can't get close enough to touch yet. We've put food and water out several times now. He/she is comfortable enough to turn it's back while eating but that's as far as it goes. It seems to be living under our deck as of now.






UPDATE:
Porch Kitty (our unofficial name for him) is still around. He shows up every morning to be fed. He still won't get within reach, but doesn't run off entirely so that's better. He talks to us as we talk to him while we feed and water everyday, (he is usually setting just outside the door waiting for breakfast now) He has finally started using the box/bed we made for him. It's a rather blustery day today and I was very glad/relieved to see him inside. I've been calling it "him" because we've decided since we have seen no obvious signs of pregnancy, it must be a he.



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New kittie that is adopting us... UPDATE (Original Post) madmom Oct 2013 OP
Cats always seem to know where land. texanwitch Oct 2013 #1
Yep, we joke all the time that the lost or madmom Oct 2013 #2
The kitty will come around, just give her time. texanwitch Oct 2013 #3
My mom used to call it the "sucker sign", LadyHawkAZ Oct 2013 #14
I bet they leave "hobo signs" Hassin Bin Sober Dec 2013 #38
You got that right-- THEY choose US ailsagirl Oct 2013 #4
Hooray! joeybee12 Oct 2013 #5
aw that's a beaut Skittles Oct 2013 #6
So pretty. 840high Oct 2013 #7
congrats. :D nt littlewolf Oct 2013 #8
What a lovely kitty. MadrasT Oct 2013 #9
now a picture of the current meatloaf please irisblue Oct 2013 #10
LOL here's is the resident meatloaf... madmom Oct 2013 #13
hahahaha! grasswire Nov 2013 #21
I just had to go weigh him, 18.5 pounds. He is a really good kitty too. madmom Nov 2013 #23
I can tell he is a good kitty, from his eyes. grasswire Nov 2013 #25
I'm in love! LoveMyCali Nov 2013 #24
LOL he's cute, but I can see why you call him Meatloaf. MH1 Nov 2013 #33
Wow! Phentex Dec 2013 #35
Pretty kitty! Arugula Latte Oct 2013 #11
More about coloring: Arugula Latte Nov 2013 #17
My orange tabby is female... joeybee12 Nov 2013 #19
She is gorgeous. Arugula Latte Nov 2013 #27
She's giving me the evil eye...Can't a cat get some peace and quiet??? joeybee12 Nov 2013 #28
Pretty kitty. Bertha Venation Oct 2013 #12
Going to kick this back to the top because of update madmom Nov 2013 #15
Bless Your Heart easychoice Nov 2013 #16
May your kindness be rewarded ten fold. hamsterjill Nov 2013 #18
I had a female who was this color Beaverhausen Nov 2013 #20
Sometimes cats will find you "by word of meow". zanana1 Nov 2013 #22
He is starting to be your cat... WCGreen Nov 2013 #26
I hope he let's you stay lame54 Nov 2013 #29
Damn that's sweet lillypaddle Nov 2013 #30
Thanks everyone, for the kind words. We keep trying to make madmom Nov 2013 #31
He will in time. I speak 840high Dec 2013 #37
Good job. Kingofalldems Nov 2013 #32
Oh my! He looks a lot like my Manny (short for Manchester)... 1monster Dec 2013 #34
if he's male, he's young, or has already been neutered -- he doesn't have the big jowls Flaxbee Dec 2013 #36

texanwitch

(18,705 posts)
1. Cats always seem to know where land.
Tue Oct 29, 2013, 03:24 PM
Oct 2013

I have a backyard cat that was a someone's pet.

She comes in from time to time but likes the yard better.

She is very calm and will be held.

Cats just know where to go.

madmom

(9,681 posts)
2. Yep, we joke all the time that the lost or
Tue Oct 29, 2013, 03:27 PM
Oct 2013

forlorn cats have a underground that tell them to come here, they will be fed and warmed. It definitely makes one feel good to be able to do it for them.

texanwitch

(18,705 posts)
3. The kitty will come around, just give her time.
Tue Oct 29, 2013, 03:44 PM
Oct 2013

My backyard cat was on her own for awhile was a little scared.

I just left her alone, she started to come to me.

I didn't push the kitty.

You have been found.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
14. My mom used to call it the "sucker sign",
Thu Oct 31, 2013, 02:06 PM
Oct 2013

the invisible sign in the front yard, visible only to animals, that said "These people are suckers for stray animals! EAT HERE!"

ailsagirl

(22,897 posts)
4. You got that right-- THEY choose US
Tue Oct 29, 2013, 06:16 PM
Oct 2013

Beautiful kitty. I have four adopted ones (that is, four have adopted me) and it's a real trip.

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
5. Hooray!
Tue Oct 29, 2013, 06:37 PM
Oct 2013

She could be feral, but even if she's not, I bet she's been on her own long enough to have to learn to trust again...sound like you're being patient with her!!!

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
21. hahahaha!
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 06:49 PM
Nov 2013

I love Meatloaf.

What a cutie.

How much does he weigh? I have a similar tabby with white chin who weighs 23 pounds.

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
25. I can tell he is a good kitty, from his eyes.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:36 AM
Nov 2013

My fatty Koko has a bad streak. manifesting itself in a desire to awaken the household every morning at 4 a.m. by rattling the window blinds.

LoveMyCali

(2,015 posts)
24. I'm in love!
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 11:32 PM
Nov 2013

Look at that face!

I do tend to be partial to kitties with slight weight problems but in my house, as long as they don't talk about my weight I don't mention theirs.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
11. Pretty kitty!
Thu Oct 31, 2013, 11:02 AM
Oct 2013

Thank you for helping him (probably a male due to coloring, but not definitely a male).

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
17. More about coloring:
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 03:38 PM
Nov 2013

I've read that 80 percent of orange cats are male. But, you know, if that is a male it has a beautiful, more feminine face. You're probably right, though, that if it were a female she'd most likely be pregnant or have kittens.

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
19. My orange tabby is female...
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 06:31 PM
Nov 2013

When I found her, I assumed she was a he because of the coloring and kept referring to him as he for a bit until I looked...she'd been dumped and a little nervous, so I didn't push picking up the tail!

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
28. She's giving me the evil eye...Can't a cat get some peace and quiet???
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 01:21 PM
Nov 2013

She's pretty good with the young ones, but when they bug her too much she's not afraid to let them know.

hamsterjill

(15,222 posts)
18. May your kindness be rewarded ten fold.
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 05:08 PM
Nov 2013

Thank you for taking care of this little guy! I hope, given the opportunity, that he will understand that he's "home".

Beaverhausen

(24,470 posts)
20. I had a female who was this color
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 06:46 PM
Nov 2013

a more buff tabby. Very pretty kitty, either way. Looks like you are making a nice outdoor home.

zanana1

(6,122 posts)
22. Sometimes cats will find you "by word of meow".
Mon Nov 25, 2013, 11:00 PM
Nov 2013

I swear they have gangs and that's how they find the best families to adopt. I just hope you don't have mirrors his size or his head will swell !

He's gorgeous !

WCGreen

(45,558 posts)
26. He is starting to be your cat...
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 01:03 AM
Nov 2013

He feels safe with the smell of your clothes. That's a big start.

madmom

(9,681 posts)
31. Thanks everyone, for the kind words. We keep trying to make
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 03:26 PM
Nov 2013

him less afraid. He almost came in yesterday. I had some left over roast beef that I gave him, then put some in the doorway and left the door open a crack. He gobbled up the meat, stuck his head in, but thought better of it and went back to his "home". He seems to really like it there, he spends most of his time there, even during the day. We will keep plugging away and maybe one day he will trust us enough.

Flaxbee

(13,661 posts)
36. if he's male, he's young, or has already been neutered -- he doesn't have the big jowls
Thu Dec 26, 2013, 12:53 PM
Dec 2013

- secondary sexual characteristics - that males in possession of all their equipment usually have.

We're taking care of a feral male around here - poor baby is so skittish - he's all gray with stunning gold eyes. But I digress - he has a HUGE face. Noting is infected, but he's got the big cheeks that males have before they're neutered (if they get old enough to develop them).

Your guy could be young.

Or female.

We have two orange female tabbies.

Females, especially in colder weather, often don't go into heat from Dec. - Feb. or so ... so just because there's no pregger tummy, doesn't mean that kitty isn't female.



Edited: by the way, thank you so much for taking care of this cat!

Also, my mother has always called our cats meatloafs. Has always made me laugh!

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