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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsSo, it looks like I've found a place to live....
I haven't been really open about my personal situation around here. It's kind of not natural to me. But I've been staying with family for a couple of years now, trying to find steady work and get on my own two feet.....trying to find my bootstraps, as it were.
First up was a decent job. I posted a month or so ago that I have done that. I've been working through agencies for the past couple of years, but hadn't found a place to actually pick up my contract until the end of this last August. So, step 1 accomplished. I'm still technically on probation, but I've left the agency and am collecting paychecks from a real company now. They seem happy with my work so far. I've worked there since April, so they've had time to evaluate me.
Next step, hunting for a living situation I can afford that lightens my commute. Where I've been staying is a great house, and my sis has been beyond generous, but it's time. She wants to sell the place as a major part of her plans for retirement.
Well, I talked to a lady today who's renting out part of her double wide mobile and it looks like it should go through. I haven't actually seen it yet, but we had a good talk over coffee (well, Starbucks if you call that coffee ). Her old roommate had just moved out and she wanted a chance to get things in order before she shows it. She did say she liked my looks and would not futher advertise until at least next week, after I get a look and we can finalize the deal. It's on just a handshake now, but sounds really promising.
It prices out in my wheelhouse and is a much shorter commute (a couple of miles from work vs the current 20).
So, once again, wish me luck.
petronius
(26,603 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)and the pay's not great, but I think it's enough to pay for this move, so there's that.
onestepforward
(3,691 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)Response to Wounded Bear (Original post)
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applegrove
(118,755 posts)do hang together and help each other out. And that is something to be proud of. Best of luck to you in your new adventures.
Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)Joe Shlabotnik
(5,604 posts)hope things continue to come together for you. I've been in that trap for some time now, and what I thought would be a quick process of getting a new line of work, and my own place to live again would be accomplished in a month or two... Boy was I wrong! Here's to your next success.
Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)I grew up in an era when you could find a job without hardly trying. Not so much any more.
Best of luck in your journey.
LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)I hope things continue to come together for you.
Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)You've always been so supportive of everyone around here. I hope you know how valuable you are to the community.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)More! More!
Rhiannon12866
(205,839 posts)Sounds like you've made a great start!
Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)Now, well I guess I have to.
Thanks, many times over.
Rhiannon12866
(205,839 posts)Don't ever forget that!
Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)Rhiannon12866
(205,839 posts)And DU is a supportive and caring family.
irisblue
(33,018 posts)Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)Nice cuppa joe you have there. I guess I'll join you.
TBF
(32,085 posts)My brother lived with us for awhile. There have been times he has loaned me $$$ when I've needed it. That's what people do - help out each other.
But I'm glad things are going better and you may have your own place soon.
Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)nolabear
(41,990 posts)Keep on truckin'!
Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)It has the feel of having turned some kind of corner, at least. I hope the light at the end of the tunnel isn't an oncoming train.
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)So glad to hear things are looking up.
Sending good (((((vibes)))) your way for the housing situation to resolve itself.
Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)Sanity Claws
(21,852 posts)and hope that or something better opens up for you.
BTW, I went through a similar experience. I landed the job last September and got my own place as of the following January 1st. I am very grateful that things fell into place after a rather disheartening time.
Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)It's nice to know I can count on emotional support from our friends in the Lounge.
Sanity Claws
(21,852 posts)You are well on your way to a new stage in your life that will be good. The name Wounded Bear does not sound appropriate. I would like to think of you as Healed Bear or Dancing Bear or something else that denotes peace or joy.
Too bad it's not easy to do a name change on DU.
Wounded Bear
(58,693 posts)The concept of being wounded is not necessarily a negative. Wounds also bring wisdom.
The Bear totem also represents re-emergence from the cave as much as hiding in it. So, while it is coming winter in the physical realm, when bears normally prepare for hibernation, I'm feeling a little spring-like spiritually.
This is actually my second persona on DU. I lost my other one, I guess on the DU3 turnover. Wounded Bear is a totem I embraced many years ago in other pursuits, so I think I'll keep it.
But thanks for your comments.