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Wounded Bear

(58,693 posts)
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 02:12 AM Oct 2013

So, it looks like I've found a place to live....

I haven't been really open about my personal situation around here. It's kind of not natural to me. But I've been staying with family for a couple of years now, trying to find steady work and get on my own two feet.....trying to find my bootstraps, as it were.

First up was a decent job. I posted a month or so ago that I have done that. I've been working through agencies for the past couple of years, but hadn't found a place to actually pick up my contract until the end of this last August. So, step 1 accomplished. I'm still technically on probation, but I've left the agency and am collecting paychecks from a real company now. They seem happy with my work so far. I've worked there since April, so they've had time to evaluate me.

Next step, hunting for a living situation I can afford that lightens my commute. Where I've been staying is a great house, and my sis has been beyond generous, but it's time. She wants to sell the place as a major part of her plans for retirement.

Well, I talked to a lady today who's renting out part of her double wide mobile and it looks like it should go through. I haven't actually seen it yet, but we had a good talk over coffee (well, Starbucks if you call that coffee ). Her old roommate had just moved out and she wanted a chance to get things in order before she shows it. She did say she liked my looks and would not futher advertise until at least next week, after I get a look and we can finalize the deal. It's on just a handshake now, but sounds really promising.

It prices out in my wheelhouse and is a much shorter commute (a couple of miles from work vs the current 20).

So, once again, wish me luck.

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So, it looks like I've found a place to live.... (Original Post) Wounded Bear Oct 2013 OP
Good luck! And congrats on the job... petronius Oct 2013 #1
Thanks! It's not the best job.... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #2
Wishing you the very best! onestepforward Oct 2013 #3
Thanks, step....nt Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #4
In these harder economic times families applegrove Oct 2013 #6
Yeah, we do, app. Thanks a lot! nt Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #7
Best of luck, Joe Shlabotnik Oct 2013 #8
Thanks, Joe... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #13
Congrats! LeftofObama Oct 2013 #9
Thanks, Leftie...I appreciate it. nt Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #14
I'm glad you have a job. Good luck on your move. In_The_Wind Oct 2013 #10
Many thanks, ITW... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #15
I need a gentle reminder from time to time. In_The_Wind Oct 2013 #20
now, you're just flirting.... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #21
Kudos to you and wishing you the best of luck! Rhiannon12866 Oct 2013 #11
Yeah, 20 years ago the thought of starting again would have scared me to death... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #16
This time, you have all of DU behind you, pulling for you Rhiannon12866 Oct 2013 #30
When you're right, you're right.... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #32
I've been on DU since 2003 Rhiannon12866 Oct 2013 #34
here's hoping for all the best for you irisblue Oct 2013 #12
Thanks, Iris... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #17
Cool - I hope it works out. TBF Oct 2013 #18
Thanks, T... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #19
I'm happy for you! It must feel really good. nolabear Oct 2013 #22
Thanks, nola! Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #24
May the wind continue to be at your back... riderinthestorm Oct 2013 #23
Many thanks, rider....nt Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #25
I wish you the best Sanity Claws Oct 2013 #26
Thanks, Claws.... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #27
Your name Sanity Claws Oct 2013 #28
The name has a bit of a deeper meaning to me... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #29
here's hoping things go your way. rurallib Oct 2013 #31
Thanks, lib.... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #33
Good luck Wounded Bear B Calm Oct 2013 #35
Thanks, B Calm.... Wounded Bear Oct 2013 #36

Wounded Bear

(58,693 posts)
2. Thanks! It's not the best job....
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 02:20 AM
Oct 2013

and the pay's not great, but I think it's enough to pay for this move, so there's that.

Response to Wounded Bear (Original post)

applegrove

(118,755 posts)
6. In these harder economic times families
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 03:00 AM
Oct 2013

do hang together and help each other out. And that is something to be proud of. Best of luck to you in your new adventures.

Joe Shlabotnik

(5,604 posts)
8. Best of luck,
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 05:22 AM
Oct 2013

hope things continue to come together for you. I've been in that trap for some time now, and what I thought would be a quick process of getting a new line of work, and my own place to live again would be accomplished in a month or two... Boy was I wrong! Here's to your next success.

Wounded Bear

(58,693 posts)
13. Thanks, Joe...
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 10:28 AM
Oct 2013

I grew up in an era when you could find a job without hardly trying. Not so much any more.

Best of luck in your journey.

Wounded Bear

(58,693 posts)
15. Many thanks, ITW...
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 10:30 AM
Oct 2013

You've always been so supportive of everyone around here. I hope you know how valuable you are to the community.

Wounded Bear

(58,693 posts)
16. Yeah, 20 years ago the thought of starting again would have scared me to death...
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 10:31 AM
Oct 2013

Now, well I guess I have to.



Thanks, many times over.

TBF

(32,085 posts)
18. Cool - I hope it works out.
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 10:33 AM
Oct 2013

My brother lived with us for awhile. There have been times he has loaned me $$$ when I've needed it. That's what people do - help out each other.

But I'm glad things are going better and you may have your own place soon.

Wounded Bear

(58,693 posts)
24. Thanks, nola!
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 11:31 AM
Oct 2013

It has the feel of having turned some kind of corner, at least. I hope the light at the end of the tunnel isn't an oncoming train.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
23. May the wind continue to be at your back...
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 11:27 AM
Oct 2013

So glad to hear things are looking up.

Sending good (((((vibes)))) your way for the housing situation to resolve itself.



Sanity Claws

(21,852 posts)
26. I wish you the best
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 11:32 AM
Oct 2013

and hope that or something better opens up for you.

BTW, I went through a similar experience. I landed the job last September and got my own place as of the following January 1st. I am very grateful that things fell into place after a rather disheartening time.

Sanity Claws

(21,852 posts)
28. Your name
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 11:53 AM
Oct 2013

You are well on your way to a new stage in your life that will be good. The name Wounded Bear does not sound appropriate. I would like to think of you as Healed Bear or Dancing Bear or something else that denotes peace or joy.

Too bad it's not easy to do a name change on DU.

Wounded Bear

(58,693 posts)
29. The name has a bit of a deeper meaning to me...
Mon Oct 21, 2013, 12:23 PM
Oct 2013

The concept of being wounded is not necessarily a negative. Wounds also bring wisdom.

The Bear totem also represents re-emergence from the cave as much as hiding in it. So, while it is coming winter in the physical realm, when bears normally prepare for hibernation, I'm feeling a little spring-like spiritually.

This is actually my second persona on DU. I lost my other one, I guess on the DU3 turnover. Wounded Bear is a totem I embraced many years ago in other pursuits, so I think I'll keep it.

But thanks for your comments.

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