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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsSaturday night is the worst part of being a parent...
...when your son is 15 (or daughter for that matter).
Tobin S.
(10,418 posts)ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)He's a good kid, for the most part. Best buddy is now driving so I tend to sit here thinking of all of the horrible things that could happen. Cutting the cord on that last one and letting them live their lives is rough.
Tobin S.
(10,418 posts)I am not a parent, but I would imagine that worry would be a familiar emotion for a long time if I was. It's probably something that you never completely stop doing.
And we know what we were like when we were that age and some of the unwise things we did. I'm sure that just adds to it.
Suich
(10,642 posts)My son, 49, and daughter, 48, both lived through it and so did I!
Mid-teen years are the hardest...I'd lay in bed waiting to hear the key in the front door, more times than I can remember. Hang in there!
Take care, Laura!
Susan
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)I feel like I didn't worry half as much with his sister...
Good to see you Susan!
handmade34
(22,757 posts)ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)Now he's comfy on the couch. There's a Lions game on today and it's being broadcast in Houston (go figure!).
B Calm
(28,762 posts)late at night and have sex with a 14 year old girl in the back seat.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)was my dad.
Signed,
She who shall remain childless lest her due recompense come full measure
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)Granny M
(1,395 posts)So glad the boys made it through. They both got into a fair amount of trouble, but grew up to be good men.
I was no angel at that age myself. Neither was my sister. Mom used to say that she hoped we'd grow up and have two kids just like us. The famous mother's curse. We both had our two hell raisers. But we're both grandmothers now, and loving it. All's well that ends well.
You're going to be fine.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)His sister tended to have her friends all over here at the house. He's an out and abouter, so it's weird. Thanks Granny M.
Sienna86
(2,149 posts)Hearing my son come in the door right before curfew time is a comforting sound.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)antiquie
(4,299 posts)-- that's when I turned gray.
Worried for nothing, he turned out to be a great dad himself.
ScreamingMeemie
(68,918 posts)He has a heavier foot than his sister did...so it's been a little bit-erm-exciting to say the least.
Avalux
(35,015 posts)I've raised three girls, youngest is now 17. They're all alive, not drug addicts and no surprise pregnancies...all doing well.
It's really difficult when they start to navigate in the world and make their own decisions; I knew what I did as a teenager which made it even worse. All you can do is hope they remember and use everything you've taught them along the way.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)Thank goodness for texting, though.
truegrit44
(332 posts)I have always said that each of my kids as teens took 5 years of my life and what's bad is I have 4 kids, I'm doomed!
GreenPartyVoter
(72,381 posts)that will open all kinds of doors I am sure.
nolabear
(41,991 posts)They turned out great, and so did most of their friends, but there was some serious grace happening back then.
Be brave.
Jamaal510
(10,893 posts)the worst part of not having any friends to hang with and not having a driver's license.