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Recursion

(56,582 posts)
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 04:55 PM Jul 2013

As promised, some wedding photos (and a video of us dancing to a waltz I composed)

Last edited Sun Jul 7, 2013, 11:34 PM - Edit history (2)

The vows



Just after the vows



Several waltzes (and mimosae) later, in shirtsleeves (it was too hot to keep that morning suit on, I'm afraid)



Eating brunch (we may be the only couple that actually got to eat at our wedding) pro-tip: seat yourselves at a table with just you two



And, the first dance, to a waltz by a little-known American composer (more down in the comments)



Next to last edit: Recursion in morning dress in the elevator:



One last edit, the kiss!

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As promised, some wedding photos (and a video of us dancing to a waltz I composed) (Original Post) Recursion Jul 2013 OP
Congratulations Sanity Claws Jul 2013 #1
We skipped all the throwing of stuff Recursion Jul 2013 #51
Best wishes to you! n/t PoliticAverse Jul 2013 #2
OMG! I can almost feel the happiness in the photos! LeftofObama Jul 2013 #3
Apparently wedding cakes taste good now. I have no idea when that happened Recursion Jul 2013 #4
Oh man! YUM! LeftofObama Jul 2013 #5
I agree. Cracklin Charlie Jul 2013 #64
She is beautiful! You look wonderful. In_The_Wind Jul 2013 #6
Thank you so much Recursion Jul 2013 #35
That second photo just gets me. SwissTony Jul 2013 #7
Here's us dancing to a waltz I wrote Recursion Jul 2013 #12
That is a beautiful waltz! LeftofObama Jul 2013 #20
Thank you! I haven't composed in like 10 years Recursion Jul 2013 #38
BEAUTIFUL... the ceremony AND the wedding couple. CONGRATULATIONS!!! MiddleFingerMom Jul 2013 #8
Thanks MFM! Recursion Jul 2013 #19
You both look so happy... cyberswede Jul 2013 #9
The cool thing about a boat wedding is the reception is right there Recursion Jul 2013 #18
What a beautiful wedding! femmocrat Jul 2013 #10
DC's Southwest waterfront Recursion Jul 2013 #11
A lovely setting.... femmocrat Jul 2013 #13
Ha. Fortunately it's now the next day Recursion Jul 2013 #14
Very nice, congratulations! The second shot in particular is just radiant.. petronius Jul 2013 #15
We had crab cakes, waffles, bacon, and spinach Recursion Jul 2013 #16
What a handsome, happy looking couple you make. Best wishes that it will always be thus! Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2013 #17
Congratulations! Starry Messenger Jul 2013 #21
They're from a Bengali folk tale Recursion Jul 2013 #47
Congratulations! Phentex Jul 2013 #22
Congrats to the cute, happy, and musically talented couple! Arugula Latte Jul 2013 #23
Congratulations! BainsBane Jul 2013 #24
Congratulations! avebury Jul 2013 #25
Thank you! I hadn't composed in 10 years. Recursion Jul 2013 #43
nice! Kali Jul 2013 #26
I hadn't seen any of her outfit beforehand Recursion Jul 2013 #48
Beautiful waltz and your bride is radiant, she exudes joy in the photos siligut Jul 2013 #27
And you never let on that you had a wedding Upcoming? Your lovely Bride... KoKo Jul 2013 #28
Oi! I wrote all the music. That has to count for something? Recursion Jul 2013 #49
Thanks for sharing! SoapBox Jul 2013 #29
CONGRATULATIONS! ReRe Jul 2013 #30
I figured I had to do something Recursion Jul 2013 #46
Congratulations Mr & Mrs Recursion! bench scientist Jul 2013 #31
Thank you! Recursion Jul 2013 #41
Beautiful day and weather! Raine1967 Jul 2013 #32
Funny story, re: that Recursion Jul 2013 #42
mazel tov AtomicKitten Jul 2013 #33
toda! Recursion Jul 2013 #40
Congrats! you had a beautiful day for it HipChick Jul 2013 #34
It was a little warm, but it was worth it Recursion Jul 2013 #39
Your bride is absolutely beautiful. Bertha Venation Jul 2013 #36
Don't I know it! Recursion Jul 2013 #37
absolutely beautiful fizzgig Jul 2013 #44
Thank you fizzgig! That's my favorite Lucasfilm character! Recursion Jul 2013 #45
Sto Lat! Paulie Jul 2013 #50
Lovely, lovely, lovely couple life long demo Jul 2013 #52
lovely Skittles Jul 2013 #53
Congratulations! You had a beautiful wedding. n/t pnwmom Jul 2013 #54
Congratulations Recursion!! You make a wonderful couple :D nt. Locut0s Jul 2013 #55
Gorgeous couple!!!! tblue Jul 2013 #56
awwww! bunnies Jul 2013 #57
Great pics. Skinner Jul 2013 #58
Wish we could hear the whole waltz! mainer Jul 2013 #59
What an adorable couple!!! You look so right for each other! meti57b Jul 2013 #60
How wonderful! Congratulations. nt valerief Jul 2013 #61
sweet oldandhappy Jul 2013 #62
Wonderful! JohnnyLib2 Jul 2013 #63
Congratulations! Cleita Jul 2013 #65
Wonderful! Congratulations! colorado_ufo Jul 2013 #66
Congrats!!! And many,many happy years together. nt kelliekat44 Jul 2013 #67
Congratulations!! cate94 Jul 2013 #68
Congrats kimbutgar Jul 2013 #69
What a beautiful bride. Congratulation. May you have a long life together with all southernyankeebelle Jul 2013 #70
Congratulations to the happy couple.... Bluenorthwest Jul 2013 #71

Sanity Claws

(21,852 posts)
1. Congratulations
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 04:58 PM
Jul 2013

I wish the two of you all the happiness in the world.

P.S. Can your bride throw me her bouquet?

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
51. We skipped all the throwing of stuff
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 01:08 AM
Jul 2013

We didn't have a wedding party, and throwing stuff in a boat seemed unwise...

LeftofObama

(4,243 posts)
3. OMG! I can almost feel the happiness in the photos!
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 05:02 PM
Jul 2013

You both look stunning!

P. S. That is one of the most beautiful cakes I have ever seen. If I was there with a big jug of milk there wouldn't be any to take home.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
4. Apparently wedding cakes taste good now. I have no idea when that happened
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 05:04 PM
Jul 2013

The bottom level was a tiramisu, and the upper levels were lemon with a cherry filling.

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
64. I agree.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 09:52 PM
Jul 2013

That is a beautiful cake, for a beautiful couple.

Your comment reminded me of a funny story...my daughter made a beautiful wedding cake for a couple a few years ago. It was a delicious almond and honey cake, and was decorated in the style of Van Gogh's Starry Nights. The morning after the wedding, the bride's mother called my daughter, and asked her where the leftover cake was. Daughter said...I don't know, the cake was still there when I left, and some ladies were packing up the leftovers.

Apparently, the ladies were the bride's aunts from Oklahoma, and they took the cake home with them! All of it!

Best Wishes and Congratulations to the Bride and Groom!

SwissTony

(2,560 posts)
7. That second photo just gets me.
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 05:11 PM
Jul 2013

You both look so happy, I could kiss you both (neither of you would appreciate it )

But seriously, congratulations to you both. May you have a long and happy marriage.

PS: the other photos are great too.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
9. You both look so happy...
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 05:32 PM
Jul 2013

Especially after the vows!

My husband and I both thought our ceremony was fun - we didn't expect to think so. We thought the fun would be the reception afterward, which paled in comparison.

Congratulations to you both!

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
18. The cool thing about a boat wedding is the reception is right there
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 06:04 PM
Jul 2013

And it's strictly limited in time. I can't stress the importance of that enough.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
10. What a beautiful wedding!
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 05:39 PM
Jul 2013

Is that Inner Harbor?

I love the peacock theme! GORGEOUS!

Thanks for posting!

petronius

(26,603 posts)
15. Very nice, congratulations! The second shot in particular is just radiant..
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 05:52 PM
Jul 2013

And that's a useful pro-tip; my wife and I always get a little private amusement at weddings by watching to see if the bride and groom actually get to enjoy any of the meal. We would have been blanked at our own, except that some good friends saw the dwindling buffet table and swooped in to set aside a supply for us...

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
16. We had crab cakes, waffles, bacon, and spinach
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 05:53 PM
Jul 2013

For as much as the food cost us, we were definitely eating some.

Starry Messenger

(32,342 posts)
21. Congratulations!
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 06:27 PM
Jul 2013

What a lovely wedding! Best wishes to you both! I like the little creatures on your table there, too.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
43. Thank you! I hadn't composed in 10 years.
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 12:11 AM
Jul 2013

But I thought I would dust the pen off to at least contribute something to the wedding.

Kali

(55,019 posts)
26. nice!
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 07:01 PM
Jul 2013

congrats, beautiful couple and setting! Love your bride's hairpiece and gown.

congratulations!

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
48. I hadn't seen any of her outfit beforehand
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 12:31 AM
Jul 2013

She was s absolutely radiant, but then again she always is

siligut

(12,272 posts)
27. Beautiful waltz and your bride is radiant, she exudes joy in the photos
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 07:09 PM
Jul 2013

You two make a lovely couple.

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
28. And you never let on that you had a wedding Upcoming? Your lovely Bride...
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 07:31 PM
Jul 2013

must have done ALL THE WORK...or her Family supporting her.

Photos are good...and Best Wishes to the Both of you as you start your "Adventure Together."

And may Good Vibes be With You Forever!

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
30. CONGRATULATIONS!
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 07:54 PM
Jul 2013

How lovely! Salutations to both you and to Mrs. Recursion.

And it's not everyday that a bridal couple dances to a waltz composed by the Groom!

Many happy loving days to you both. Thanks so much for sharing!

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
46. I figured I had to do something
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 12:16 AM
Jul 2013

I didn't want to be that groom who just sat around looking stupid. And I did sit around looking stupid, but at least I had done something leading up to it. (Seriously, the boat people would ask me stuff, "Where do you want this stack of whatevers?" and I would say "Have you been to a wedding before? Are you actually asking the groom this?&quot

Raine1967

(11,589 posts)
32. Beautiful day and weather!
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 08:02 PM
Jul 2013

I was tempted to take you up on the offer to go the waterfront! (I really wanted some clams on the half shell)

Blessing and happiness to you and your bride!

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
42. Funny story, re: that
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 12:04 AM
Jul 2013

We wound up with one too few tables. As in, our contract said ten tables, and they had nine there the day of, and on a boat, not much chance of getting a new one. Fortunately, we had just enough no-shows that we could disperse the phantom tenth table to the other tables. So, in the end, it's just as well we didn't connect on that... I do appreciate your blessing though, very much. Take care!

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
39. It was a little warm, but it was worth it
Sun Jul 7, 2013, 11:59 PM
Jul 2013

That kind of comes with getting married in DC in July, so I won't complain.

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
45. Thank you fizzgig! That's my favorite Lucasfilm character!
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 12:14 AM
Jul 2013

Except maybe for Aughra. It's a tie between Fizzgig and Aughra.

life long demo

(1,113 posts)
52. Lovely, lovely, lovely couple
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 01:41 AM
Jul 2013

Pictures are beautiful an I must say the bride looked radiant. Groom looked great also, but it's all about the bride lol. Thank you for the pictures.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
57. awwww!
Mon Jul 8, 2013, 10:31 AM
Jul 2013

Congratulations! Looks like it was the perfect day. Its obvious that you love each other. Beautiful.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
70. What a beautiful bride. Congratulation. May you have a long life together with all
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 08:32 AM
Jul 2013

the ups and downs of life.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
71. Congratulations to the happy couple....
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 10:21 AM
Jul 2013

The waltz is very nice, you should dust it off more frequently, the composing. You wife has a radiant smile and I love her veil/feather piece. Any ceremony is better on a boat.

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