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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsMy mother once made Stovetop Stuffing and forgot to add the spice bag.
So we were eating greasy, soggy bread.
And nobody said a thing.
She was not to be crossed.
Her food was gross.
zbdent
(35,392 posts)from the boiled water ...
olddots
(10,237 posts)Sometimes we would have rice with Velvita cheese like substance . mmmmmmm yummy
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)I shiver to think of the results if she had.
zbdent
(35,392 posts)My mother heard that cheese comes from cultures ... and thought that meant mold ...
Loryn
(945 posts)My mom cooked like that sometimes. Not eating it would be to risk your life.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)That was before my time.
yikes.
Loryn
(945 posts)Another proud moment among many in my life!
blueamy66
(6,795 posts)My Dad never let her forget it. 😄
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)lol
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)alphafemale
(18,497 posts)I could cook a meal by 12.
It was self preservation.
lol
graywarrior
(59,440 posts)I became a vegetarian after years of over cooked liver and home made kielbasa.
siligut
(12,272 posts)My SIL refused to eat it.
I may have blacked-out that Thanksgiving, but I don't remember anyone getting sick.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Shut up and eat.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)my mom made Rice-a-roni, instead of nicely browning the vermicelli mix in butter, she ended up burning it black.
My father made her promise never to buy that crap again, like it was supposed to be cooked that way and there was something wrong with us for not wanting to eat little black mice turds in a savory beef sauce.
And that's just one of a long list of cooking disasters she made.
Which is why I sort of hated food in general for years.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Last edited Fri May 10, 2013, 05:26 AM - Edit history (1)
I just sizzle some rice.
HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)but not a healthy cook. I recall that she fried hamburgers in butter -- my arteries are hardening just remembering it.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Put it may have been a comic skit.
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nolabear
(41,991 posts)She forgot and left it on and we came home to beans dripping from the ceiling. I felt guilty for that association with the Boston thing, but we laughed about it for years.
bluedigger
(17,087 posts)I swear my friend just told the same story about his wife on FB last week. Of course that would make you a teenager.
nolabear
(41,991 posts)bluedigger
(17,087 posts)I've known you long enough here at DU that you would have had to start posting as a grade schooler. But there was a NOLA connection as well.
LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)My mom used to pour oil in the pan before she fried hamburgers. She cooked with so much oil she would buy it by the case. To this day I can hardly eat fried food.
I couldn't figure out why I always liked green beans everywhere but at home. One day I walked in to the kitchen when she was making them and saw her pour about 1/4 bottle of cooking oil in the water to make the green beans. Mystery solved!
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Although breaded, deep fried green beans are good. Just as a rare treat though.
And don't delude yourself into thinking they have any nutritional value.
LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)Yep, horrible! I love green beans, but I couldn't figure out what she was doing to them to give them that taste and texture. I couldn't tell you the last time I bought a bottle of cooking oil. Just looking at the bottle makes me want to
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)My late MIL did that one year with regular stuffing...not a drop of seasoning in the entire batch.... Thank the gods for gravy!
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)noamnety
(20,234 posts)Mom mistook the beef bouillon jar for the instant coffee jar. Both glass with red lids.
We ate it and moved on.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)noamnety
(20,234 posts)There aren't enough very's in that statement.
nolabear
(41,991 posts)Sounds kind of good, actually.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Locut0s
(6,154 posts)Slow cooker meals as a bachelor where he would put anything and everything into a slow cooker and cook it to death over night till he had a bland tasteless gruel . At least that's the story he tells me. I don't doubt it given his current culinary skills, or lack there of.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)"It all builds a turd."
Chan790
(20,176 posts)I'm a culinary professional...and I've made many of the errors listed in this thread, thankfully only at home though.
In addition, I once in the span of the same year, age of 11, managed to give both my mom and stepdad food poisoning on mother's/father's day making scrambled eggs. Eggs+Horseradish+Salsa+Cheddar+Heat+Insufficient Time=GI Distress. My attempts at a savory-spiced french toast were as calamitous. They've never let me cook for them again. I can cook for 200 people at a grand gala, I've cooked in some great restaurants...but my own parents will not eat my food to this day. They will not eat in restaurants I've cooked in.
I said "What if I win a Michelin star at work?"..."You'll be the only Michelin star winner whose parents aren't dumb enough to eat their food. Clearly, you're trying to kill us." (<<That's my mum.)
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Tells the story...I think he says he was 12...he was putting up the family tree.
And it fell over, destroying nearly all the heirloom family ornaments.
His mother snarlscreamed at him. "You'ved ruined, Christmas....FOREVERRR!!!"
ouch. poor kid.
But maybe it inspired him to create ornaments that will be treasured for generations to come.
And maybe his Mom still doesn't let him near the tree.
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)...he was making me breakfast one morning, I think he was probably about 9 years old. I was on the phone with his dad when my son put this plate in front of me and I busted out laughing.
I shit you not...he served me green eggs and ham. Not on purpose, he used a LOT of parsley flakes! I was laughing so hard I couldn't speak. His dad was on the other line yelling at me to quit laughing and tell him what was going on. It was actually pretty good, though. He used enough seasoning to counter the shitload of parsley.
On another day, probably same year...
I had brought work home and my son wanted to help out by making hamburgers for dinner. He brought me my plate, beautifully arranged with fresh cut fries (yes, I cut them for him). It looked beautiful...and then I took a bite. HOLY CRAP! He must've used an entire bottle of cayenne pepper! I drink very, very little soda but I finished off a 2 liter bottle before I finished that hamburger.
A few years later...he's in high school...making me breakfast.
He decides to make chocolate chip pancakes. As he's walking out of the kitchen with what looked to be 4 dozen pancakes he says, "I hope you're hungry because I just remembered I don't like pancakes." He took one bite of one and that was it. They really were fantastic. He made them from scratch. Good thing they froze well.
Now, he's married to an amazing cook and the two of them share the kitchen. It's pretty damned adorable. The husband and I get excited whenever they say they're coming to visit because we know we'll be fed well.
So, I hope your family has forgiven you and lets you back in the kitchen!
spiderpig
(10,419 posts)May I borrow your son?
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)...Okinawan wife, but they're really busy. I'll have to check his schedule.
spiderpig
(10,419 posts)He was in Okinawa with the Marines and speaks a little Japanese. Me, I gesture and point.
Cheers!
sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)Pumpkin pie by spooning the contents of a pumpkin pie tin into a pie shell and then baking as directed.
Oh man that was disgusting but she had a sense of humor and could normally cook pretty well so it became a pretty famous family story from that time on.
I love the "nobody said a thing" line very funny.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)she didn't notice the need for eggs, evaporated milk, spices and whatever else should go in there.
It turned into a pretty fun night in any case and the old lady had one hell of a sense of humor so nobody will ever forget it.
hedgehog
(36,286 posts)his entire life someone else did the cooking and he ate whatever was put before him.
Which may explain his generally gloomy attitude..
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Could be alone in a room with a loaf of bread and sliced bologna and starve to death.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)to the guy I lived with for a few years when my kids were younger. He liked to cook, and he was a good model for my son, who now does most of the cooking for his own family.
It's kind of funny in a way...my son and I have a good-natured rivalry over whose potato salad is better...
LancetChick
(272 posts)Really, Middle Eastern culture has some good points, but WOW is it different when it comes to "only men do this" and "only women do this". My husband was playing in a big soccer tournament, and some male relatives from the Middle East were visiting. One of them wasn't interested in soccer, and didn't want to go to the tournament, and he expected me to stay home and cook for him, despite the fact that I very much wanted to see the tournament. Both my then-husband and I disabused him of that notion, and when we got home later that day, we found that this guy had taken an aluminum bowl with food from the fridge and put it directly on a flame from the stove. There was a layer of crusted whatever inside the bowl, and the outside of the bowl was black. That's not just being a newbie in the kitchen, that's having no earthly idea how things work.
On the flip side of that coin, I was observed once by some other Middle Eastern relatives changing a light bulb. They were astonished that I would do such a thing, and one of them pronounced me a "mechanic".
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)alphafemale
(18,497 posts)But yeah...most would need way more training than I care to invest
WCGreen
(45,558 posts)Step outside and not so much.
My mom was a wonderful cook, most of the time.
I learned how to cook as a short order cook at a bar and then as a prep cook at Mountain Jacks.
I can usually not fuck stuff up.
My aunt couldn't get passed toast.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Especially, people who lived through the Depression.
The idea of experimenting with a recipe...with the idea that if you mess it up you can throw it away and call out for pizza...is/was an unfathomable thing for many of them.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)I almost always wing it on the fly with what we have on hand and what sounds good.
NJCher
(35,732 posts)I'm so grateful Mom could read a recipe book. And she did, too. Practically everything was made from a recipe.
I never could understand these people who think there's nothing to food. That you just throw it together and it's going to taste good.
Lucky for me, my spouse is one of those people who can "taste in his head." He knows what goes with what, and he can make up his own recipes. Sans that gift, people should use recipes. There are those who have "it" and those who don't. I don't, and so a recipe cook I shall be until the end of my life.
Cher
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)I pretty much know how to "tweak" to my own taste and needs.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,858 posts)My ex once made muffins using baking soda instead of baking powder. He left them on the table with a little flag with a skull and crossbones. They were horrible.
A neighbor tried heating up canned peas by putting the can in water and boiling the water. However, he did not open the can, which soon exploded.
My ex-mother-in-law thought everything should be cooked very, very thoroughly. Her green beans were not green; they were gray and limp, as was just about everything else. Especially spaghetti. I think she thought "Al Dente" was the name of a Mafia don.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)I want veggies to have a little pep and snap.
kentauros
(29,414 posts)and forgetting to add the yeast. It tends not to rise much, though it makes good door stops
Our pastry instructor in college told a story about a time when he was helping out a colleague. He had to make the cakes and was wondering why they were all turning out flat. He stopped wondering when he tasted them. He'd used salt instead of sugar. His story was about always testing your ingredients before using them. The ingredient bins at this unfamiliar kitchen weren't marked, and salt looks just like sugar...
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)But that was on purpose.
You paint and shellac them and hang them on a tree.
My Dad a nibble of one of the broken ones.
The. Look. On. His. Face.
applegrove
(118,793 posts)She was a doctor so she went and got a syringe and we pumped that trifle full of sherry.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Your Mom was way ahead of the curve.
whistler162
(11,155 posts)My mom cooked it with the guts in it. He had something else.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)I can't imagine.
becca da bakkah
(426 posts)Dinner usually consisted of meat, always coated with flour and pan fried, some kind of cooked potatoes, either mashed or fried, and a can of vegetables with a pat of butter added. She was so OCD about the routine, that Monday"s dinner was always chicken, pork chops on Wednesday, and fish and chips on Saturday. BTW, she thought "chips" were potato chips! Fish sticks with ketchup and potato chips was not one of her best culinary efforts!
When I got older I appreciated the joke, where the Sunday school teacher asked a little boy if he prayed before meals? "Don't have to", the kid told her. "Mom's a good cook!"