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What do you find incredibly sexy? (Original Post) Archae Apr 2013 OP
I've posted before about intelligence, confidence, self-worth and a sense of humor. Aristus Apr 2013 #1
All that rolled into one is what you really want Aristus. In_The_Wind Apr 2013 #15
Most of my answers would not be DU appropriate. (nt) harmonicon Apr 2013 #2
you lust for a Republican?? lastlib Apr 2013 #33
I'm completely open about my impure thoughts concerning Janine Turner. (nt) harmonicon Apr 2013 #34
I can see where you're coming from there....... lastlib Apr 2013 #35
I like a woman holding two Egnlish muffins and a bowling ball olddots Apr 2013 #3
Nothing hotter than a wetsuit and mask! Scuba Apr 2013 #16
SCHEDULING OLDDOTS FOR ASS KICKING Skittles May 2013 #48
This... Lady Freedom Returns Apr 2013 #4
I spend a lot of my time rrneck Apr 2013 #5
When a man smells good... one_voice Apr 2013 #6
A sexy man is one who wants me... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #7
Brains mythology Apr 2013 #8
Don't know why, can't begin to explain it.... Sekhmets Daughter Apr 2013 #9
You just described what I wear to work everyday. Jokerman Apr 2013 #20
Then I hope your wife enjoys the look as much as I! Sekhmets Daughter Apr 2013 #21
Humans LadyHawkAZ Apr 2013 #10
The eyes UtahLib Apr 2013 #11
Glasses Ron Obvious Apr 2013 #12
Incredibly smart cliffordu Apr 2013 #13
Just for clarity, tblue Apr 2013 #26
strong athletic and graceful cliffordu Apr 2013 #27
full figured women PD Turk Apr 2013 #14
Boobs dr.strangelove Apr 2013 #17
Slender legs up to here..........n/t OxQQme Apr 2013 #18
My wife. Jokerman Apr 2013 #19
belts, boots cbdo2007 Apr 2013 #22
A woman that is smart, outgoing and confident is very sexy to me NewJeffCT Apr 2013 #23
Tan lines TrogL Apr 2013 #24
that is approaching Boehner territory Skittles May 2013 #50
Avenging my honor tblue Apr 2013 #25
A mind and a sense of humor that matches mine. davsand Apr 2013 #28
Always liked those tight necklaces jakeXT Apr 2013 #29
they are called chokers Skittles May 2013 #51
I love Chokers! LostOne4Ever May 2013 #52
Thongs. Stretch marks. Size8 and above. Small amount of cellulite cascading down a woman's hams. Taverner Apr 2013 #30
a man with big arms and strong hands fizzgig Apr 2013 #31
Long fingers on a woman...... lastlib Apr 2013 #32
They say that...... lastlib Apr 2013 #36
My girlfriend sakabatou Apr 2013 #37
skills and confidence Kali Apr 2013 #38
The sexiest guys are smart AND funny. annabanana Apr 2013 #39
Kilts sazemisery Apr 2013 #40
A guy with green eyes. IrishEyes Apr 2013 #41
I don't have any closeups of my eyes NewJeffCT May 2013 #46
Nape DoBotherMe Apr 2013 #42
Passionate enthusiasm Generic Brad Apr 2013 #43
Mentally or physically? ConcernedCanuk May 2013 #44
When I was about 27, my GF was about 43. She was a remarkably sexual and sensual... MiddleFingerMom May 2013 #45
security. Tuesday Afternoon May 2013 #47
Smart is sexy. Wait Wut May 2013 #49
Freckles. MineralMan May 2013 #53
The sound of a boot stuck in the mud Major Nikon May 2013 #54
I don't hear anything jakeXT May 2013 #55
A hot smile.. AsahinaKimi May 2013 #56

Aristus

(66,328 posts)
1. I've posted before about intelligence, confidence, self-worth and a sense of humor.
Mon Apr 29, 2013, 11:24 PM
Apr 2013

So now I want to promote the sexy-making power of breasts, butts, stockings and garters.

'Cause DAMN! Sometimes, you just want to F#@K!

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
3. I like a woman holding two Egnlish muffins and a bowling ball
Mon Apr 29, 2013, 11:44 PM
Apr 2013

Not naked mind you but in full scuba gear with arc lights.

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
5. I spend a lot of my time
Mon Apr 29, 2013, 11:50 PM
Apr 2013

making other people laugh or think. If a woman can return the favor she has my undivided attention.

And if she looks at me like this, I won't care if she's satan.



one_voice

(20,043 posts)
6. When a man smells good...
Mon Apr 29, 2013, 11:53 PM
Apr 2013

Last edited Tue Apr 30, 2013, 02:10 PM - Edit history (1)

Not overkill, it could be fresh from the shower or a nice cologne, but I love when a man smells good. The other thing is when a man looks at me like there's nothing else around. I'm the only thing he sees and the only thing he wants.


edited to add: works boots, backwards baseball hat, shorts, nice calves, working outside. Not every guy can pull off this look, but if you can, oh, lord I will objectify you all day long. Also, smelling like the outside, not stinky, but the outside. Don't know how to explain it, but it smells like a man to me.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
8. Brains
Mon Apr 29, 2013, 11:55 PM
Apr 2013

I'm a sucker for smart women, particularly if they have a quick wit and enjoy verbal sparring. Unfortunately for me Katherina Minola was fictional.

I know it's cliche to say that intelligence matters, but even in high school I passed on opportunities with young women who I didn't regard as intellectually stimulating.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
9. Don't know why, can't begin to explain it....
Mon Apr 29, 2013, 11:59 PM
Apr 2013

but i find a man wearing a long sleeved shirt, with the cuffs rolled back twice incredibly hot. If the tie is loosened or removed and the top button opened... it is almost irresistible!

Strange, the things that move us.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
21. Then I hope your wife enjoys the look as much as I!
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 09:17 AM
Apr 2013

It is lovely that after 20 years of marriage she still turns you on!

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
10. Humans
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 12:05 AM
Apr 2013


That's about it, really. What I find sexy varies from situation to situation and person to person.

UtahLib

(3,179 posts)
11. The eyes
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 12:09 AM
Apr 2013

I like a guy who, even from across a crowded room, can communicate effectively with his eyes. A tight little bum doesn't hurt either.

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
12. Glasses
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 01:55 AM
Apr 2013

I don't wear them, but I always thought girls wearing glasses were sexy. I'm sure I'm not alone in that.

PD Turk

(1,289 posts)
14. full figured women
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 02:23 AM
Apr 2013

Women that may be described as plus sized, thick, curvy, voluptuous ..... large natural breasts and butts to match in a fine hourglass shape

dr.strangelove

(4,851 posts)
17. Boobs
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 08:27 AM
Apr 2013

Seriously. I am a simple fellow. My wife can wear a low cut top and I lose the ability to talk without sounding like Ralph Cramdon "hamina hamina hamina." Then again, she could probably wear a burka covered by a parka and then wrapped in burlap and I would still think she was hot, so forget about me.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
23. A woman that is smart, outgoing and confident is very sexy to me
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 09:58 AM
Apr 2013

I've dated women in almost all shapes, sizes & colors over the years and I've found different things physically attractive about all of them. However, the one thing in common between the women I've dated more than once or twice is that they are generally smart, confident and outgoing.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
25. Avenging my honor
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 12:15 PM
Apr 2013

I love a man who stands up for me (as much as I'd stand up for him). Old fashioned chivalry is so underrated.

davsand

(13,421 posts)
28. A mind and a sense of humor that matches mine.
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 12:34 PM
Apr 2013

Money never meant much to me, as long as he was able to support himself. I am capable of earning a living on my own.

I dated blue collar/union guys as well as professionals, so status associated with his job title wasn't a big deal to me either.

His car was never much of a thing for me as long as it ran--and even then I never whined if I had to drive 'cause his wheels were in the shop. (I do have a fondness for muscle cars, but I always figured that was MY thing, and if it was important enough I'd buy my own.)

Always seemed to me that in the long run I was much happier and more satisfied with the men that had a lot going on between the ears. No matter what pop culture says about attraction, for me, it has always been about what he's got going on intellectually. My opinion was/is that a lot of sex skills are mental, and bedding a stupid man was destined to fail from the very start. Can't say my experiences ever disproved that theory, either...

I'd be a liar if I said I never noticed a nice butt or any of the other physical stuff, but when it comes right down to it, I married the one man I met that had read not only Bukowski but Tom Stoppard AND he was able to make me laugh. As an added bonus my husband has the MOST intense brown eyes I have ever seen on a human being.

Oh--and the cat loved him!



Laura

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
30. Thongs. Stretch marks. Size8 and above. Small amount of cellulite cascading down a woman's hams.
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 12:51 PM
Apr 2013

A brain. A sexy walk. Over 30. Short shorts. A sexy voice. Helps if she actually exists.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
31. a man with big arms and strong hands
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 01:29 PM
Apr 2013

i find my husband to be incredibly sexy when he's carrying big things.

lastlib

(23,224 posts)
32. Long fingers on a woman......
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 03:58 PM
Apr 2013

an incredible turn-on to me.......don't ask me why, I couldn't begin to explain it. Anybody else wanna try?


lastlib

(23,224 posts)
36. They say that......
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 06:03 PM
Apr 2013

...the sexiest man in a nudist colony is the one who can carry two cups of coffee and still bring a dozen glazed doughnuts. The sexiest woman is the one who gets the last doughnut! I can accept that.....!

Kali

(55,007 posts)
38. skills and confidence
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 06:29 PM
Apr 2013

love to watch somebody doing what they like and really know how to do. doesn't matter if he is a cartoonist or a cowboy. professor or a mechanic. attorney or a bricklayer. If they know their stuff and do it well, that is effing sexy to me.

there are other things but at the moment that is what tops my list. love watching a real craftsman.

Generic Brad

(14,274 posts)
43. Passionate enthusiasm
Tue Apr 30, 2013, 10:46 PM
Apr 2013

A woman who speaks passionately about the things that interest her the most is absolutely fascinating. Just imagine if all that energy and zest for life gets redirected towards you. Wow!

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
44. Mentally or physically?
Wed May 1, 2013, 12:54 AM
May 2013

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Myself,

Mentally would be a good sense of humour, a good listener and assertive.

Physically - bare feet

well, that ain't ALL - but it's all I'm gonna say here



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MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
45. When I was about 27, my GF was about 43. She was a remarkably sexual and sensual...
Wed May 1, 2013, 02:30 AM
May 2013

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Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
49. Smart is sexy.
Wed May 1, 2013, 05:36 PM
May 2013

A little shy, geeky, awkward, sense of humor. All this goes great with mischievous eyes and a semi-sweet smile.

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