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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWhat do you find incredibly sexy?
I like a woman wearing a man's shirt. Only.
Aristus
(66,328 posts)So now I want to promote the sexy-making power of breasts, butts, stockings and garters.
'Cause DAMN! Sometimes, you just want to F#@K!
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)She is out there!
harmonicon
(12,008 posts)lastlib
(23,224 posts)(that's about the only thing inappropriate here......)
harmonicon
(12,008 posts)lastlib
(23,224 posts)olddots
(10,237 posts)Not naked mind you but in full scuba gear with arc lights.
Scuba
(53,475 posts)Skittles
(153,160 posts)SPECIFYING A TOO DIFFICULT VISUAL; *EGREGIOUS*
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)rrneck
(17,671 posts)making other people laugh or think. If a woman can return the favor she has my undivided attention.
And if she looks at me like this, I won't care if she's satan.
one_voice
(20,043 posts)Last edited Tue Apr 30, 2013, 02:10 PM - Edit history (1)
Not overkill, it could be fresh from the shower or a nice cologne, but I love when a man smells good. The other thing is when a man looks at me like there's nothing else around. I'm the only thing he sees and the only thing he wants.
edited to add: works boots, backwards baseball hat, shorts, nice calves, working outside. Not every guy can pull off this look, but if you can, oh, lord I will objectify you all day long. Also, smelling like the outside, not stinky, but the outside. Don't know how to explain it, but it smells like a man to me.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,611 posts)And he shows it in his eyes and in what he says...
mythology
(9,527 posts)I'm a sucker for smart women, particularly if they have a quick wit and enjoy verbal sparring. Unfortunately for me Katherina Minola was fictional.
I know it's cliche to say that intelligence matters, but even in high school I passed on opportunities with young women who I didn't regard as intellectually stimulating.
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)but i find a man wearing a long sleeved shirt, with the cuffs rolled back twice incredibly hot. If the tie is loosened or removed and the top button opened... it is almost irresistible!
Strange, the things that move us.
Jokerman
(3,518 posts)Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)It is lovely that after 20 years of marriage she still turns you on!
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)That's about it, really. What I find sexy varies from situation to situation and person to person.
UtahLib
(3,179 posts)I like a guy who, even from across a crowded room, can communicate effectively with his eyes. A tight little bum doesn't hurt either.
Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)I don't wear them, but I always thought girls wearing glasses were sexy. I'm sure I'm not alone in that.
cliffordu
(30,994 posts)Women, acerbic, hip, and deep, literally and physically. Fearless.
Hubba hubba.
tblue
(16,350 posts)What is 'physically' deep?
cliffordu
(30,994 posts)PD Turk
(1,289 posts)Women that may be described as plus sized, thick, curvy, voluptuous ..... large natural breasts and butts to match in a fine hourglass shape
dr.strangelove
(4,851 posts)Seriously. I am a simple fellow. My wife can wear a low cut top and I lose the ability to talk without sounding like Ralph Cramdon "hamina hamina hamina." Then again, she could probably wear a burka covered by a parka and then wrapped in burlap and I would still think she was hot, so forget about me.
OxQQme
(2,550 posts)Jokerman
(3,518 posts)Over twenty years together and she still turns me on.
cbdo2007
(9,213 posts)NewJeffCT
(56,828 posts)I've dated women in almost all shapes, sizes & colors over the years and I've found different things physically attractive about all of them. However, the one thing in common between the women I've dated more than once or twice is that they are generally smart, confident and outgoing.
TrogL
(32,822 posts)Skittles
(153,160 posts)tblue
(16,350 posts)I love a man who stands up for me (as much as I'd stand up for him). Old fashioned chivalry is so underrated.
davsand
(13,421 posts)Money never meant much to me, as long as he was able to support himself. I am capable of earning a living on my own.
I dated blue collar/union guys as well as professionals, so status associated with his job title wasn't a big deal to me either.
His car was never much of a thing for me as long as it ran--and even then I never whined if I had to drive 'cause his wheels were in the shop. (I do have a fondness for muscle cars, but I always figured that was MY thing, and if it was important enough I'd buy my own.)
Always seemed to me that in the long run I was much happier and more satisfied with the men that had a lot going on between the ears. No matter what pop culture says about attraction, for me, it has always been about what he's got going on intellectually. My opinion was/is that a lot of sex skills are mental, and bedding a stupid man was destined to fail from the very start. Can't say my experiences ever disproved that theory, either...
I'd be a liar if I said I never noticed a nice butt or any of the other physical stuff, but when it comes right down to it, I married the one man I met that had read not only Bukowski but Tom Stoppard AND he was able to make me laugh. As an added bonus my husband has the MOST intense brown eyes I have ever seen on a human being.
Oh--and the cat loved him!
Laura
jakeXT
(10,575 posts)Skittles
(153,160 posts)LostOne4Ever
(9,288 posts)I don't know why >.>
But i do
Taverner
(55,476 posts)A brain. A sexy walk. Over 30. Short shorts. A sexy voice. Helps if she actually exists.
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)i find my husband to be incredibly sexy when he's carrying big things.
lastlib
(23,224 posts)an incredible turn-on to me.......don't ask me why, I couldn't begin to explain it. Anybody else wanna try?
lastlib
(23,224 posts)...the sexiest man in a nudist colony is the one who can carry two cups of coffee and still bring a dozen glazed doughnuts. The sexiest woman is the one who gets the last doughnut! I can accept that.....!
sakabatou
(42,152 posts)Kali
(55,007 posts)love to watch somebody doing what they like and really know how to do. doesn't matter if he is a cartoonist or a cowboy. professor or a mechanic. attorney or a bricklayer. If they know their stuff and do it well, that is effing sexy to me.
there are other things but at the moment that is what tops my list. love watching a real craftsman.
annabanana
(52,791 posts)Steven Colbert is a GOD!
sazemisery
(2,608 posts)Men in kilts...that is all I have to say.
IrishEyes
(3,275 posts)There are so many other things. I could be here all day.
NewJeffCT
(56,828 posts)but, they are green.
DoBotherMe
(2,339 posts)of a man's neck. Dana ; )
Generic Brad
(14,274 posts)A woman who speaks passionately about the things that interest her the most is absolutely fascinating. Just imagine if all that energy and zest for life gets redirected towards you. Wow!
ConcernedCanuk
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Myself,
Mentally would be a good sense of humour, a good listener and assertive.
Physically - bare feet
well, that ain't ALL - but it's all I'm gonna say here
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MiddleFingerMom
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But, when something unexpectedly and suddenly gave her pleasure, she would draw a sharp, short
intake of breath... a little almost inaudible inward gasp.
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I think it's STILL the sexiest thing I've ever experienced,
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Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)A little shy, geeky, awkward, sense of humor. All this goes great with mischievous eyes and a semi-sweet smile.