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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsTuesday update: MiddleFingerMom
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THIS is why you should be involved in your personal patient care:
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Last night I noticed that, once again... they were skipping my anti-clotting med, which is THE drug to
stay on top of for anyone who has a mechanical heart valve -- it keeps me from stroking out.
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Those of you familiar with my case know that I'm OK if it turns out that I'm NOT the Fucking Immortal
one -- but that a major stroke scares the shit out of me. A lifetime (if you want to call it that) of total
dependence and ultra-diminished capacity.
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The nurse on duty was one of the only ones I've encountered here who have been anything but excellent.
She assumed the med team had screwed up and was willing to wait 'til today to inform them.
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I had to get pretty fucking adamant about it. One of the physical therapists who had come to my room
for some therapy over the weekend had told me, "GEEZ, they love you here" 'cause I'm an easy-going
non-demanding patient.
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Not last night -- I was one miserable MF and I was not going to let go of that bone.
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I got her to call the docs at night and got the right med started again. Even WITH that, my level is still
in a nose-dive, but should be pulling up again in the next day or two. They're keeping me here another
day or two (they WERE ready to send me home) to make sure that trend continues.
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Tag-team bedbaths.
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Tag-team bedbaths.
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Tag-team bedbaths.
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And I think they have sugar-free chocolate ice cream back in stock again!!!!!
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P-A-R-R-R-R-T-A-Y!!!!!!!
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And, if it's not obvious, other than the drug screw-up... I'm feeling GREAT again!
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OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)Baitball Blogger
(46,705 posts)If something does go wrong, they can always hide the paperwork.
Glad you're feeling better!
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Scuba
(53,475 posts)MiddleFingerMom
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LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)And it's a good lesson for the rest of us.
One of these days any one of us could land in a hospital, and we need to be willing speak up and fight for necessary care.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)I'm glad to hear from you!
GentryDixon
(2,950 posts)You are correct about being proactive in your own health care.
My sister was sent home from the hospital after being life flighted in for sepsis. The bad news is she was sent home without being given her insulin. She was really not ready to go home, but they sent her anyway. She was life flighted back that night, and we almost lost her. I got into a huge fight with the DR because he did not write the order for her insulin. How can he forget? She is gone now, but I learned a very valuable lesson with her health maladies.
I am glad you seem go be on the mend. Everyone depends on your posts.
HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)One MUST be involved in one's own medical care. The last time I was in the hospital, after surgery, I noticed my ankles had swollen a great deal. I called the nurse, showed her and told her these were not my normal ankles. She glanced at the rest of my body, which is along the ample lines, and said, no, your ankles are ok. I had to insist that there was something wrong -- normally I have skinny ankles and calves -- granted they don't match the rest of my body. I had to keep insisting that there was something wrong as I was swelling up. FINALLY, a nurse came in admitted there was a problem, cut down on the IV and gave me a pee-promptly pill. The problem was resolved. But initially, they made assumptions and didn't believe me which didn't do a lot to my confidence in their abilities. Once that problem was resolve, the nurses were very good to me.
HipChick
(25,485 posts)but not literally..
Paulie
(8,462 posts)Any pics of the ice cream? No need to post the bed bath ones.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)and scary too! I am happy you were not willing to let it go.
Enjoy your ice cream and stay well, MFM!
csziggy
(34,136 posts)And I'm so glad you got them, even if it took getting pretty fucking adamant about it.
Each time I stayed in rehab after my two knee replacements, there was one night when the meds were late and no one responded to the call buttons. Each time, the same nurse was the charge nurse, top control for the entire wing. Each time it took me making a scene to get my pain meds and to get the meds for my roommates - who needed their meds more than I needed pain meds.
That's why we all need a health care advocate, even if it is ourselves!
Keep after them - and enjoy your sugar-free chocolate ice cream!
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)olddots
(10,237 posts)they work for you it's not the other way around .rest and get your ass back here .
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)I have watched too many clients get less than quality care because they were invested in being "nice patients".
And when Mr. Dixie has been hospitalized, we found overbilling for services not rendered.
I believe every patient needs an advocate and that more family members or friends should learn how to be effective advocates.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)nolabear
(41,962 posts)I'm glad you're smart and stubborn and have at least MOST of a good medical team. Tell old Nurse CallMeIrresponsible that she does NOT want me to come out there. I've had a rough year and I am NOT in the mood.
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That is all.
libodem
(19,288 posts)union_maid
(3,502 posts)And they get so defensive if they get sued, too. Yeah, coumadin levels are super important.if you need anti-clotting medication, then you really, really need it. Every time it's due. Right then. Good thing you didn't let that go.