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diabeticman

(3,121 posts)
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 04:35 AM Apr 2013

So do you talk during a movie or do you have to have complete silence?

I will admit I am a talker. My wife hates it! She loves quiet. I can't help but repeat a line I think is funny or awesome. Have no problem asking my wife a question but it drives her up a wall.

So are you a talker or listener or are you like my wife --want to silence the talker?

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So do you talk during a movie or do you have to have complete silence? (Original Post) diabeticman Apr 2013 OP
When HE can't help himself, I pause the show ... In_The_Wind Apr 2013 #1
A short, quick question or statement if NECESSARY... nothing that interrupts the flow of the movie MiddleFingerMom Apr 2013 #2
If you were my husband, I'd be a widow. winter is coming Apr 2013 #3
That's YOU, diabeticman? Aristus Apr 2013 #4
Neither dr.strangelove Apr 2013 #5
"Physically removed" with extreme prejudice! ohiosmith Apr 2013 #7
You shouldn't lead people on, silly pinboy3niner Apr 2013 #9
I love audience reaction when a movie is fresh out. Baitball Blogger Apr 2013 #6
I like quiet, but I don't mind a quick comment now and then Xyzse Apr 2013 #8
Quite if I haven't seen it. OK to talk if I've seen it before. Example: My sister ruined the cooked patricia92243 Apr 2013 #10
Are we at home or in the theater? av8rdave Apr 2013 #11
Depends on the movie. It's either laughter or "HOLY FUCKING SHIT!" - depends on the movie. talkingmime Apr 2013 #12
Don't be that guy kudzu22 Apr 2013 #13
Shut the hell up during the movie. MrSlayer Apr 2013 #14
What I hate... Callmecrazy Apr 2013 #15
I WILL KICK TALKING DIABETICMAN ASS Skittles Apr 2013 #16
MY wife is blind walkerbait41 Apr 2013 #17
I cannot sit still during a movie GentryDixon Apr 2013 #18
I make an occasional whisper, when I have something I think is noteworthy to say or comment on. Honeycombe8 Apr 2013 #19
It depends on the movie, the location, the company I'm with, etc. harmonicon Apr 2013 #20
Depends if I have seen the movie or not. Initech Apr 2013 #21
Listener IrishEyes Apr 2013 #22
Depends on the movie. politicat Apr 2013 #23
My last few-"Lincoln", "Avatar", "Brokeback Mountain", "Fahrenheit 911" really weren't Rowdyboy Apr 2013 #24
The voices in my head will drown you out TrogL Apr 2013 #25

winter is coming

(11,785 posts)
3. If you were my husband, I'd be a widow.
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 07:39 AM
Apr 2013

I'm especially cranky if it's a movie I'm seeing for the first time, when I don't know what I've missed.

Aristus

(66,329 posts)
4. That's YOU, diabeticman?
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 10:54 AM
Apr 2013

How many times do I have to tell you to SHUT UP!?

But seriously...

I'll talk through a movie when I'm at home. In the theater, not a sound, other than appreciative laughter or other emotional reaction. But providing a running commentary through the whole thing? No...

dr.strangelove

(4,851 posts)
5. Neither
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 10:59 AM
Apr 2013

I don't like constant talking, but I expect reactions to films. Laughter, surprise, sadness, joy, anger ... are all okay, and expressions of these reactions verbally is fine with me too. The first time my wife and I saw the recent rendition of Les Mis, we both talked during certain scenes to each other as we were feeling all sorts of emotions. When we watch The Walking Dead, we do the same thing. It is not constant chatter, nor is it complete silence.

However, repeating lines from a film one has seen often while viewing said film with a person who has not seen it is a huge "no no" and will get you physically removed from the location.

Baitball Blogger

(46,704 posts)
6. I love audience reaction when a movie is fresh out.
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 11:01 AM
Apr 2013

I hate discussion, otherwise.

This is what happened during the Twilight movies. I came to the party late and I was shocked to hear all the teens around me talking about the picture as it was happening.

Didn't get it that it was probably the sixth time for many of them that they had seen the movie.

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
8. I like quiet, but I don't mind a quick comment now and then
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 11:08 AM
Apr 2013

When watching, I tend to be quiet other than the reactions.
No discussions till the end of the movie.

If I were to watch a movie with any one, I will not watch a movie with them again if they keep asking me questions every minute. That would irk me, and is a quick way to go to my "stay away" list.

patricia92243

(12,595 posts)
10. Quite if I haven't seen it. OK to talk if I've seen it before. Example: My sister ruined the cooked
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 11:24 AM
Apr 2013

rabbit scene for me in "Fatal Attraction" because she inhaled this huge, loud breath - and gave it away that something bad was about to happen. So I didn't get the "shock value" of that scene.

Sometimes talking can be selfish to the other person - they either miss the dialog because of your blabbing or you give away the plot. So, the rule is - think of the other person when you decide to talk or not to talk.

av8rdave

(10,573 posts)
11. Are we at home or in the theater?
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 01:25 PM
Apr 2013

In the theater, my SO and will occasionally chat quietly until the previews are over. Then complete silence.

At home, we say very little, but there is not a "no talking" rule. An occasional short comment or two during the course of a whole movie. That's about it.

Unless we're watching "Shameless" or "Californication." Then we are often laughing so hard we have to replay scenes to see what we missed.

kudzu22

(1,273 posts)
13. Don't be that guy
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 03:53 PM
Apr 2013

I don't think it's too much to ask that people STFU during a movie. If you're at home, a word or two during a lull in the action is ok. Otherwise, you'll be staring down the business end of a hissy fit.

Callmecrazy

(3,065 posts)
15. What I hate...
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 04:38 PM
Apr 2013

is when something happens during a scene and the girl I'm with starts asking, "why did he do that? What does that mean? "
As if I know. It's my first time seeing the same film. How the hell do I know what's gonna happen?
And seeing a cell phone light up is the RUDEST thing in a theater. Take it outside.

walkerbait41

(302 posts)
17. MY wife is blind
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 07:49 PM
Apr 2013

There times when I have to tell her what s going on when no one is talking in the movie.
I talked a lot with the movie Avatar

GentryDixon

(2,950 posts)
18. I cannot sit still during a movie
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 08:15 PM
Apr 2013

while at home. It drives my hubby apesh*t, so we quite watching together years ago.

He gets totally absorbed, I on the other hand, hop up & down if I think of something that needs attention. It takes me forever to watch a movie. My bad habit is surfing the net while watching. Thank you Netflix. I can rewind whenever necessary.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
19. I make an occasional whisper, when I have something I think is noteworthy to say or comment on.
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 08:27 PM
Apr 2013

It's noteworthy to me...I doubt it is to my friends. I try to watch that.

I might say..."Oh, I see...I bet he was in prison." When I guess something. Or..."Do you recognize her? She was in Maude."

My friends occasionally do the same. But they're minimal, and always a whisper. It doesn't seem to disturb anyone else.

harmonicon

(12,008 posts)
20. It depends on the movie, the location, the company I'm with, etc.
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 09:39 PM
Apr 2013

I'll never talk in a theatre, but sometimes I can talk all the way through a movie at home if that seems to be the vibe.

Initech

(100,068 posts)
21. Depends if I have seen the movie or not.
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 09:46 PM
Apr 2013

If I haven't and I'm watching at home or I'm at a theatre - silence!!

If I have seen it then by all means talk as much as you want.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
22. Listener
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 10:02 PM
Apr 2013

I hate to talk during a movie. I need quiet. The occasional short whispered comment or question is okay during a non important scene. I like to save talking about the movie to when we go to dinner afterward. If I'm home watching a movie we have both seen before then I will talk to my friend.

politicat

(9,808 posts)
23. Depends on the movie.
Tue Apr 2, 2013, 10:48 PM
Apr 2013

Something brand new, in a theater, that's not a pop-corn flick? Silence, please.

A rewatch at home? Half the time we're both repeating lines or MST3King.

Rowdyboy

(22,057 posts)
24. My last few-"Lincoln", "Avatar", "Brokeback Mountain", "Fahrenheit 911" really weren't
Wed Apr 3, 2013, 12:36 AM
Apr 2013

the kind of movies you want to jabber through (or listen to anyone else's jabber). And the audiences at all 4 films were remarkably respectful. Of course the only time I go is weekdays in early afternoon at least two weeks after its been released so its really not much of a problem.

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