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MissHoneychurch

(33,600 posts)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 05:28 AM Nov 2012

A year ago I met my boyfriend

I met him online and on November 20th 2011 we met for the first time in person after chatting and talking on the phone for hours. I am 37 years old and it took me that long to find love. I am so happy with him. I can't imagine my life without him anymore. Next year in July I am going to move in with him.

Tonight he is going to take me out for a fancy dinner.

Here we are (a bit blurry)

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A year ago I met my boyfriend (Original Post) MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 OP
That is VERY good to hear. Congratulations to you both. MiddleFingerMom Nov 2012 #1
Thank you MFM MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #4
Hey, MFM kurtzapril4 Nov 2012 #20
No, although a good friend of mine (introduced me to my ex) had his Dodge Daytona 500... MiddleFingerMom Nov 2012 #25
Beautiful Superbird! kurtzapril4 Nov 2012 #27
Looks like he did pretty well too! Scuba Nov 2012 #2
Thanks Scuba MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #5
I'm happy for you, Miss H Tobin S. Nov 2012 #3
Hey Tobin MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #6
What a beautiful couple you make! lunatica Nov 2012 #7
Thanks lunatica MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #8
Yes. You are returning it which I think is lunatica Nov 2012 #11
I am just bursting with joy Callalily Nov 2012 #9
Hey there Callalily MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #10
awwwwwwww...... zanana1 Nov 2012 #12
Thanks MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #13
Awe. You two look great together! Enjoy the dinner (merlot? - hint) HopeHoops Nov 2012 #14
Thanks HopeHoops MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #30
D'OH! I have to pick up merlot today! Forgot. HopeHoops Nov 2012 #43
And a lucky man he is, Miss Honeychurch! Aristus Nov 2012 #15
Thanks Aristus MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #31
Congratulations MissHoneychurch! clyrc Nov 2012 #16
Hey clyrc MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #32
I am happy for you! Phentex Nov 2012 #17
Hey Phentex MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #33
Very sweet -- Congratulations!! n/t driver8 Nov 2012 #18
Thanks driver8 MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #34
Happy Anniversary!!! handmade34 Nov 2012 #19
Thanks handmade34 MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #35
You two are a handsome couple. RebelOne Nov 2012 #21
Thanks MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #36
Congratulations on your anniversary. In_The_Wind Nov 2012 #22
Thanks Joani MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #37
Great news, MissHoneychurch! elleng Nov 2012 #23
Thanks elleng MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #38
We're ALL a bit blurry at times! progressoid Nov 2012 #24
Blurry is good in between MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #39
You two look so very happy together MrScorpio Nov 2012 #26
Thanks MrScorpio MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #40
so happy for you two Tuesday Afternoon Nov 2012 #28
Thank you Tuesday MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #41
So very happy for you, MissHoneyChurch... though that does explain why the Flaxbee Nov 2012 #29
Thanks Flaxbee MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #42
You 2 are a cute couple! Odin2005 Nov 2012 #44
Thanks Odin MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #46
I'm so happy for you! Bertha Venation Nov 2012 #45
Thank you Bertha MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #47
I met mine when I was 35 and he was 39-he is my first love and living together has only Rowdyboy Nov 2012 #48
Thanks Rowdyboy MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #50
This post made my day! JohnnyLib2 Nov 2012 #49
Thanks Johnny MissHoneychurch Nov 2012 #51
Congratulations on your anniversary NewJeffCT Nov 2012 #52

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
1. That is VERY good to hear. Congratulations to you both.
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 07:24 AM
Nov 2012

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That's a GREAT photo of both of you (and I don't find it blurry). You found yourself one handsome dude.
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Report on what you had to eat, please.
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You just reminded me of a great Fasching night in Germany (for those who don't know, it USED to
be a wild time when many social rules were cast aside -- it has mellowed to a months-long costume
party season ending (like Mardi Gras) on Fat Tuesday (though they don't call it that).
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My ex was dressed as a Daisy Mae hillbilly girl in Daisy Dukes and pigtails and big freckles drawn on
and several teeth blacked out (normally, she was unbelievably stunning). My buddy and I were
dressed in nothing but bedsheet diapers, me with combat boots and he with cowboy boots (he was
from Oklahoma) and huge pacifiers. My ex had fixed our hair with little baby topknots. This was just
fine in the gasthaus we went to that was having its Fasching party that night.
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But we got tipsy and in the mood for Italian food and decided to walk to the fine Italian restaurant
about a block away.
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This is how cool Germany was. The maitre d' didn't blink at all and simply escorted us to our table
and everyone treated us as though we HAD worn the formal clothing that was usually required
there.
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I miss Nurnberg for so many reasons.
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MissHoneychurch

(33,600 posts)
4. Thank you MFM
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:34 AM
Nov 2012


As said, I am very happy with him ... inside and outside

Regarding Fasching ... depending on where you are, it is still mainly about drinking. I admit I am not a big fan of the Fasching/Fasnet/Karneval time.

kurtzapril4

(1,353 posts)
20. Hey, MFM
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 02:43 PM
Nov 2012

Did you ever have the chance to go around Nurnbergring in a fast car? I've always wanted to do that.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
25. No, although a good friend of mine (introduced me to my ex) had his Dodge Daytona 500...
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 05:46 PM
Nov 2012

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...shipped over from the States. THAT would have been FUN!!!
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kurtzapril4

(1,353 posts)
27. Beautiful Superbird!
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 07:50 PM
Nov 2012

I went to high school in the mid-late '70's. A friend of mine had one of these, it was green. One day, after smoking a lot of weed, he decided he didn't like the wing, so he cut it off. I protested, to no avail. What a dumb ass he was.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
3. I'm happy for you, Miss H
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:30 AM
Nov 2012

You two met a few weeks after my wife and I got married on November 5, 2011. It was the anniversary of our first date, so although we've been married a year we've been together for two years. And we were about the same age as you when we met. I'm 40 and she's 41 now.

I'm so glad you found someone. I remember you having difficulty in finding the right person and I kept thinking to myself that shouldn't be right! You're such a sweet person.

MissHoneychurch

(33,600 posts)
6. Hey Tobin
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:38 AM
Nov 2012

Wow, you are already married a year? I still remember when you posted about meeting Jen and when you posted the wedding pics. I am happy for both of you as well.

Thanks Tobin, I am happy day by day that I met my bf. He is the best that has happened to me.

Regarding why I took so long ... I sometimes joke that I decided to skip the first divorce

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
7. What a beautiful couple you make!
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:51 AM
Nov 2012

You know his leaning his body and head into you is body language for love. It would never happen if he wasn't in love with you. And you're body language shows you certainly are accepting that love. You're leaning back.

MissHoneychurch

(33,600 posts)
8. Thanks lunatica
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 09:03 AM
Nov 2012

for the insight in the body language. I am more than accepting his love. I am returning it.

Callalily

(14,889 posts)
9. I am just bursting with joy
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 09:27 AM
Nov 2012

for the two of you! Wishing you and your beau all the best!

Hmmmm . . . makes me think that there's still hope four me?

MissHoneychurch

(33,600 posts)
13. Thanks
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 09:55 AM
Nov 2012

I like to think so. He is calming me when I get too hectically and I am pushing him when he is getting too lazy. It just fits.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
17. I am happy for you!
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 01:25 PM
Nov 2012

Still, I wish you were around more. I miss your pictures and reports of your adventures.

Enjoy this fabulous time! I wish you all the best.

MissHoneychurch

(33,600 posts)
33. Hey Phentex
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 06:57 AM
Nov 2012


I enjoy every day with my bf, believe me

I have to admit, I am around, but mostly lurking.

MissHoneychurch

(33,600 posts)
36. Thanks
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 07:03 AM
Nov 2012


No plans for a wedding yet. But we do want to get married. First we move together though and then we will see how it continues.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
22. Congratulations on your anniversary.
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 03:06 PM
Nov 2012

Enjoy your dinner.

Hurray! July isn't too far off in the future.

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MissHoneychurch

(33,600 posts)
37. Thanks Joani
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 07:07 AM
Nov 2012


We had a wonderful and very delicious dinner.

And I know July will be here before I know it. It will be the first time that I will live together with a man since I moved out from my parents. So it will be very interesting for me to see how that will work out. I look forward to it though.

MissHoneychurch

(33,600 posts)
40. Thanks MrScorpio
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 07:18 AM
Nov 2012


I remember you giving me good advice years ago when I found out that my back then bf cheated on me.

I've come a long way since then.

My now bf is THE man for me. And I love him dearly

MissHoneychurch

(33,600 posts)
41. Thank you Tuesday
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 07:20 AM
Nov 2012


I will rent out my condo. So if you know someone who looks for a place to live in Frankfurt starting next August ....

Flaxbee

(13,661 posts)
29. So very happy for you, MissHoneyChurch... though that does explain why the
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 08:07 PM
Nov 2012

Lounge doesn't see you as often as we'd like! I miss your daily photos.

Have a lovely dinner tonight, and a happy lifetime together.

MissHoneychurch

(33,600 posts)
42. Thanks Flaxbee
Wed Nov 21, 2012, 07:22 AM
Nov 2012


Yeah, I am more outside these days than in front of the PC. Seems like I have a life suddenly

But I am not forgetting about you guys

The dinner was fantastic.

Rowdyboy

(22,057 posts)
48. I met mine when I was 35 and he was 39-he is my first love and living together has only
Thu Nov 22, 2012, 09:39 PM
Nov 2012

drawn us closer. 23 1/2 years later and I still adore him. Wishing the very same for you.

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