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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWhat do you want done with your body after you die?
Inspired by orleans's thread "what do you want written on your tombstone" http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018192500
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cremated, scatter ashes | |
6 (26%) |
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cremated, ashes kept in urn | |
2 (9%) |
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traditional burial | |
3 (13%) |
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donated to science | |
7 (30%) |
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funeral pyre | |
0 (0%) |
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shot into space | |
0 (0%) |
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preserved cryogenically | |
0 (0%) |
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you missed something | |
0 (0%) |
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other -- please describe | |
5 (22%) |
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HappyMe
(20,277 posts)Give it to science. Hopefully, they won't turn it down.
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)I'm not sure they will find out much more than "Huh, beer and cake are bad for you..."
Hmmmm, maybe I should start drinking organic beer...that oughtta throw 'em for a loop...
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)in maybe my chest cavity so when first year med student comes along to practice his/her cutting it pops up and says "OUCH!"
That would tickle my funny bone.
Maybe I could rig it so it only deploys if they make their first cut incorrectly..then everyone gets to laugh AND they learn something...
av8rdave
(10,573 posts)(tips hat to Rodney Dangerfield) that my body be donated to science fiction.
Seriously, donate to science would be the best option. I can think of no better way to make some use out of my remains.
When science is finished, I would be just fine with cremating whatever is left and flushing it.
My Dad claims he wants his sent to the taxidermist.
To each his own...
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)made into crackers by the Keebler elves.
Oh, wait....
Or left out for wild animals to eat.
Just saying.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)I would be honored to sit next to the Slim Jims and potato chips at the 7-11 counter
heaven05
(18,124 posts)on the cremation and the ashes could be flushed, I wouldn't give damn. I make it to the ocean sooner or later.
Iggo
(47,552 posts)Heads: Cannibals
Tails: Necrophiliacs
That's warpedly funny.
Always thinking of others. This is why you are awesome.
Remmah2
(3,291 posts)It's SOP.
For me, donate then cremate, then fertilize the flowers.
I do want them to donate all the usable parts first.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)lived your life to its fullest, there shouldn't be any usable parts left.
Shadowflash
(1,536 posts)The dumpster behind the funeral home after the service would save everybody a LOT of money.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)fizzgig
(24,146 posts)Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,340 posts)No offense, just thinking about a group that could use some fresh brain matter.
geardaddy
(24,931 posts)for the animals to snack on.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)I was sitting around earlier and there was an episode of "My Strange Addiction" on the TV.
A young widow had her husband cremated, and then started carrying his ashes around in an urn literally everywhere she went. Movies, shopping, etc.
One day she opened the urn and got some of his ashes on her fingers, and felt it would be disrespectful to wipe them off, so she licked them.
That set up this whole addiction where she's eating nothing but his ashes five or six times a day...licking her finger, sticking it in the urn and eating the ashes.
When she first got him (less than three months ago) he weighed six lbs.
Now he weighs five lbs.
She worries about what happens when she eats the last of him and there's nothing left.
geardaddy
(24,931 posts)pipi_k
(21,020 posts)The episode before that one featured a lady who had been eating two boxes of dryer fabric softener sheets a week.
She wraps them in tissue paper because the flavors are too strong and she eats the tissue and dryer sheets together.
Chan790
(20,176 posts)He's a part of her corporeal body. His carbon is at-least.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)She wants the actual ashes to carry around with her.
Personally, I would have a very small portion of his ashes placed into one of those tiny canister things you can wear on a chain around your neck.
Or have him made into a diamond. Which, admittedly, is pretty expensive.
a la izquierda
(11,795 posts)I think I'm going to be sick.
Denninmi
(6,581 posts)Burn, baby, burn.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,693 posts)but I'm not sure that's legal. And I'm also not sure who'd want my old stuffed carcass in their den.
ismnotwasm
(41,980 posts)Whatever they call those things. Wanted to do that ever since I read "Stiff" by Mary Roach
sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)They do some really weird and fascinating work.
For my part, after reading Stiff, I've decided to forego the Plastic Surgeon Practice Face or the real Crash Test Dummy
era veteran
(4,069 posts)Some in Campbellsville, some in Germany, some in Panama, some at the French Cemetery in Yorktown.
I am weird but I have reasons.
Want my kids to travel. LOL
Chan790
(20,176 posts)No embalming, no marker, none of the fancy or preservative stuff, no casket...by necessity, no open viewing because I'll stink.
Just wrap me in linen and throw me into a hole in the ground. Worm food. Wooooooooorm Food. I'm gonna feed the wormies.
elleng
(130,908 posts)elleng
(130,908 posts)liberal N proud
(60,334 posts)If one of you want it, you will have to take that up with my wife.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)Donate organs, burial in the woods, no lye please
HereSince1628
(36,063 posts)Sure it won't matter to me then. But the thought of doing it while I am alive projects so much indignity that I find it personally abhorrent.
Additionally while I don't have a problem with donating tissue, I think organ transplants are biased to those who can finance them, and consequently undemocratic. In the next ~5 years when my body will become available, I don't expect that to get better so I've nixed both receiving and donating organs in my end of life directives to my power of attorney for health-care.
I rather like the idea of returning to the elemental cycles of star-stuff in a dignified, hygienic, environmentally friendly manner, and I know just the teen-aged oak-tree in whose dripline I'd like to work my re-entry into the natural cycle of star-stuff.
Hassin Bin Sober
(26,328 posts)My sister said she would never donate to science after taking an anatomy class and working with cadavers.
Nikia
(11,411 posts)I have children. I think that it is important that there is a place for them to visit "me" if they so choose. I am glad that there is a place that I can visit my dead grandparents so that's why I feel that way. Maybe that's overly sentimental over practical.
DFW
(54,379 posts)I always was a big fan of reanimation..........
GumboYaYa
(5,942 posts)causes on of several pre-recorded sayings to play randomly
yawnmaster
(2,812 posts)Generic Brad
(14,275 posts)Funerals are for the people who are alive. My loved ones can do whatever they want to find the comfort they need.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)That way all my friends and family will think of me at least twice per day.
Pool Hall Ace
(5,849 posts)cpwm17
(3,829 posts)I'll be dead so it doesn't matter to me, plus it's free.
Johonny
(20,851 posts)rustydog
(9,186 posts)to her sister's farm and spread them where she liked to sit and chat with her sister and enjoy the valley view.
It was very emotional and healing.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)now) I will walk under and lay my head at the base of the trunk facing East. The End of Me.
rachel1
(538 posts)and for the rest to be cremated.
whistler162
(11,155 posts)flying rabbit
(4,634 posts)and pushed out to sea. with "ride of the valkyries" blasted on an endless loop,until my ashes pass into the ocean. Preferably somewhere tropical.
musette_sf
(10,201 posts)Luther Burbank
HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)My granddaughter wants to be a doctor with the ultimate goal of joining the astronaut program and go to Mars. I asked her if she would take my ashes with her when she goes to Mars. She said she would !!
Sweet Freedom
(3,995 posts)that there's someplace in Europe that freezes you, places you on a vibrating table, and shakes you into powder that is then used to fertilize trees. I've never been able to find the name of the process, but that's what I want done.
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)They can claim I'm Tommy Chong in a scandalous position, even though I'm neither Tommy Chong or alive at that point. That doesn't seem to matter to the tabloids.
Glorfindel
(9,729 posts)I assume they cremate the remains afterward, but I don't really care.
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)Javaman
(62,530 posts)I had thought first of being buried and then having a fruit tree of some kind planted over me.
Hand dug grave, no fossil fuels needed. But then I thought, my body would need to be transported there, etc. So that was out.
Then I thought about donating my body to science, but once you do that, donating your organs is pretty much a no go since most medical colleges want the body fully intact.
However, you can donate only your head.
I'm still researching this.
Moogy
(1 post)Donate as many organs/body parts as are useful. (I worked in a dialysis clinic and I saw how very many organs are needed. But I can't donate a kidney now because I am diabetic.)
Then cremate the rest of me, put the ashes in a nice box or urn and bury it in the family plot. As an avid genealogist, I love to visit family cemeteries, so I want a stone.
In Texas, you can bury ashes yourself without the asst of a funeral home. I have done this for three relatives.
kas125
(2,472 posts)it'll help someone, so that's what I did.
dimbear
(6,271 posts)You can do this, but it's expensive. Expensive to get somewhere it's allowed, I mean.
juliathesexworker
(14 posts)I do not need it anymore after I die