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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsIs there some musical artist that everyone loves who you just can't stand?
I just spoke to this in my other thread, but thought maybe it was threadworthy on its own.
Bob Seger. People love Bob Seger. His music was everywhere in 70s and 80s. He's an icon.
And, he's a hometown here in Detroit. Lived like a mile and half, 2 miles from my house for 20 some years. My sisters boss knew him from the neighborhood, lived a street over. Mr. Seger used to walk his dogs and chat with the neighbors. Everyone says he's an ultra nice guy. He's done a lot for Detroit in terms of charity etc.
And a Bob Seger song to me is a crescendo of fingernails on chalkboard. Can't turn the radio dial fast enough.
cyberswede
(26,117 posts)Denninmi
(6,581 posts)I love the Dave Matthews band. It seems to have no rhyme or reason to me why I detest Seger.
ElboRuum
(4,717 posts)Nothing like a person coming up with new music bemoaning the state of new music.
geardaddy
(24,931 posts)and Jason Mraz.
Amerigo Vespucci
(30,885 posts)Read the question, brain went "Dave Matthews." No hesitation, no actual time for extended thought.
onehandle
(51,122 posts)Scuba
(53,475 posts)... just for starters. With a little effort, I'm sure I can think of several thousand more.
mucifer
(23,575 posts)He just sounds so fake.
Shrek
(3,984 posts)Seger, though, is quite awesome.
reflection
(6,286 posts)Throd
(7,208 posts)mac56
(17,574 posts)Most overrated band ever.
sadbear
(4,340 posts)but that's it. Not a fan.
RevStPatrick
(2,208 posts)Growing up in New Jersey in the 70's, you either loved Springsteen, or you hated him.
I was in the hated him camp, and I still am.
Oh, of course I mean the music, not the man.
I actually really appreciate the man, particularly as I grow older.
I think he's a wonderful fellow.
But if I have to hear even one note of Rosalita or Born in the USA ever again, I'm gonna plotz....
Dr. Strange
(25,925 posts)Arkansas Granny
(31,535 posts)kurtzapril4
(1,353 posts)pipi_k
(21,020 posts)it looks like Springsteen isn't as well liked as I had always thought he was...
Anyway, I hate him, mostly.
And Sheryl Crow.
Norah Jones. Although I don't know how well liked she is, but whatever. I just can't stand her voice.
OnionPatch
(6,169 posts)I don't really HATE their music, it all just sounds like the same song to me most of the time, and not a very good song at that. I get along with and fit right in with most Dead Heads.....until they turn on the music.
Throd
(7,208 posts)I think most Dead Heads are good people too, but let's just talk and leave the music off.
Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)I have really enjoyed outside projects by every member of the band, but when they get together as the Grateful Dead-- no thanks.
RevStPatrick
(2,208 posts)...and fell asleep more than once.
It's the epitome of bland, white people blues.
I enjoyed the culture, and the crowd, the parking lot parties, the girls, and the drugs.
But the music puts me to sleep!
Seriously, they had this big run of shows at Radio City in 1980, and I went to 2 of them. I think they even made an album out of it. AND I FELL ASLEEP IN MY SEAT BOTH NIGHTS!!!
Funny story - A couple of years ago I was sitting in the chair in my dentist's office, waiting while he was doing something in another room. He had a computer in the room that he used to torrent things while he was working. I looked over at the screen and noticed that he was downloading something called GD.10.31.79, or something like that. (I knew he was a deadhead) I thought about it for a moment, and realized that it was a Dead show from Halloween 1979. He came back into the room and I said that I WAS AT THAT SHOW!!! Nassau Coliseum. He said that he was at that show too! When I went back a week later to have the crown installed or whatever, he gave me a copy of the show. I've never listened to it...
(Sorry, Dr.B if you're reading this...)
cemaphonic
(4,138 posts)Most Deadhead love their long extended live jams, and collect and listen to live bootlegs obsessively, and I agree that that stuff is very repetitive and all-but-unlistenable. Meanwhile, most non-Deadheads think they suck and dismiss them completely.
Doesn't anyone else think that American Beauty (plus a few assorted tracks from other albums) is a great rock album that anyone could be proud of, but otherwise are pretty so-so?
kwassa
(23,340 posts)Populist_Prole
(5,364 posts)I couldn't believe how different they sounded compared to what I thought they would. First time I heard them a concert broadcast on FM radio. I've have heard of the 'Dead' and based on their mystique and the types of people I knew were fans of them I thought they'd be more of an early version of 'Motorhead'. Wrong-Go!
kwassa
(23,340 posts)AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)The music is fine I guess. But I despise everything they represent. First of all, it is the cultural hegemony of the Baby Boomers. Second, it is the utter commercialism cloaked in the gauzy self-regard of their "importance". Third, the claims of historical importance to pop music.
dawg
(10,624 posts)their music won me over in a major way. Albums like Rubber Soul, Revolver, and Abbey Road are brilliant pop music.
ElboRuum
(4,717 posts)...but like the Stones, the Grateful Dead, and other bands of the time, they became a cult of personality. Their musical merit is that of a good pop/alt-pop band. That's enough to like their music, but you can keep the rest of the cultish nonsense.
ohiosmith
(24,262 posts)Xyzse
(8,217 posts)Don't like her.
Though sometimes I can enjoy her music in small doses.
Also, don't get me started on the Biebs... I know he used to be the 3rd most web searched "woman", but yeah... He needs to just shut his mouth.
applegrove
(118,832 posts)music (that may mean she is talented).
Phentex
(16,334 posts)but I am not the target audience.
Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)a lot of sacred cows
geardaddy
(24,931 posts)ElboRuum
(4,717 posts)Eric Clapton: With you on this one. Do not get the draw.
U2: Like them, but they are a little full of themselves.
Abba: Sorry, I'll have to disagree here.
Neil Diamond: Totally with you on this. I don't get Tom Jones either. They fall into the "why the hell do I know who you are again?" category.
The Band: Yep, don't get this either.
CSN: Their one song, "Southern Cross" is epic. You can keep the rest.
The Smiths: HOW FUCKING DARE YOU! No just kidding. I think they are great, but I'll admit that there are a lot of weeds and chaff among the grain in their music. No one does melancholia like Morrissey, though. And Louder Than Bombs is probably one of the best albums ever made, high signal to noise ratio in that one.
Buffalo Springfield: Never liked them, sounds like a Simpson's character.
Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)(although I think it is one of the greatest band names of all time)
I prefer reading a Morrisey interview over listening to the band.
ElboRuum
(4,717 posts)It's called having "taste" and the differences incumbent within, and the lack of ability to account.
"Everyone" seems to love the Rolling Stones, until I realize that "everyone" usually amounts to specific age groups/demographics, and to others, they really aren't that great.
Personally, my dislike for them is that they tour on what amounts to a catalog of 20+ year old tunes without actually coming up with anything which even comes close to matching the quality of their early work. Moreover, they've tried to double down with their tours by releasing a live album for each of the last five tours. Their last studio album was in 2006 and I swear no one but Stones fans knew about it. All of this seems to be an attempt to allow them to continue to live the rocknrolllifestyle without actually contributing meaningfully to the art form. That kind of sucks, in my opinion.
But if people want to keep subsidizing their lifestyle, I suppose there are worse bands one could spend one's money on.
Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)However, their work from 1968 to 1973 is the work of the world's greatest rock and roll band.
Unfortunately, they have been coasting on that reputation for a very long time.
RevStPatrick
(2,208 posts)If those four albums (Beggar's Banquet, Let it Bleed, Sticky Fingers and Exile on Main Street... for the uninitiated) were the only four albums left on earth, I would be OK with that.
Anything after Some Girls... meh.
geardaddy
(24,931 posts)polly7
(20,582 posts)Phentex
(16,334 posts)Don't know much about her music but I love her accent.
Throd
(7,208 posts)Mr.Bill
(24,334 posts)Terrible performer. In feel the same about Willie Nelson after seeing him live. As a performer, he is a fraud.
michreject
(4,378 posts)UGH!!!!
Kali
(55,026 posts)polyfuckingphonicspew
makes my hair stand on end and not in a good way
HughBeaumont
(24,461 posts)They just get more and more excruciating with each forced listen (they're a Muzak favorite). I hate their songs . . . HATE them. There is no middle ground and no "dislike". I HATE THEM. Every single one. Fucking weak-ass whitebread, khaki-and-Birkenstocks, radio whore bullshit. "If I Had A Million Dollars", I'd drop them in a running helicopter blade. "One Week" should be incinerated and buried. Same with "Brian Wilson", "Pinch Me" and every other musical torture device that band jacks out. That Christmas Carol with Sarah McLachlchlchlchlan makes me want to punt Steven Page's balls in. GOD they fucking suck.
Tom Ripley
(4,945 posts)Rambis
(7,774 posts)Taverner
(55,476 posts)I love them, but can understand why you don't
Rambis
(7,774 posts)but Phish is self indulgent noodeling which could be said of the dead too so......
Taverner
(55,476 posts)The Dead based their "noodling" on 50s Jazz, Bluegrass and Folk
Phish based their "noodling" on 70s Jazz, Arena Rock (The Who, Led Zeppelin, Yes, and Boston for example) and the Grateful Dead
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GermanDem
(168 posts)I am really over her already. Too much whining... But I still love Lady Gaga!
Enrique
(27,461 posts)Taverner
(55,476 posts)I can't really listen to much of his music
darkangel218
(13,985 posts)OMG how I can't stand that lil aberration of nature! Yuk!
Initech
(100,107 posts)I've heard that damn "Somebody That I Used To Know" song so many times lately that it's almost like fingernails on a chalkboard anymore.
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Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)Make out like it never happened and that he was nothing....
Baw-dee!!!
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dawg
(10,624 posts)They'd be better off listening to a generic-ass band from the 2000's than one from the 1990's.
Of course, I criticize both of those bands but I like Shinedown so I really should just shut up.
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)I just saw Hayley's comet
She waved
Said, "Why you always running in place?"
Even the man in the
Moon disappeared
Somewhere in the
Stratosphere
is that supposed to mean?
rox63
(9,464 posts)Despise them all with a passion. Ok, maybe Dylan wrote some good songs. But he should never, ever be allowed near a microphone again.
Liberal Veteran
(22,239 posts)Not my thing at all.
Amerigo Vespucci
(30,885 posts)I'm not trying to convince you to like Frank. I'm just saying that I've heard every one of his commercially released albums/CDs, I saw him in concert three times, and I am a fan, and there are albums/songs that I can't stomach.
Even Steve Vai...who PLAYED with Zappa and pretty much worships every song, note, and utterance that came from Frank, has gone on record as saying FZ's "Broadway the Hard Way" album (1988) was crap.
But he's got a HUGE range, and while I don't know what you like, even though you dislike what you've heard, there's stuff in there that might surprise you. It's not all comedy porn with "March of the Wooden Soldiers" percussion and fart noises.
kurtzapril4
(1,353 posts)zappa was someone the smart kids were into in high school.....then they grew up.
Mr.Bill
(24,334 posts)Or whatever he is currently calling himself.
Manifestor_of_Light
(21,046 posts)Kenny G does not play jazz. He noodles (random notes with no harmonic structure or chord changes under it).
A famous rant by Pat Metheny (Jazz guitarist who I think is usually awesome) about Kenny G's lack of imagination and skills:
http://spitballarmy.com/?p=269
Bad rock'n'roll: Led Zeppelin and their descendants who insist on so much screaming and distortion that it's nerve-wracking to listen to. And their successors in heavy metal, or any other kind of metal. A few months ago a young woman told me I needed to listen to Nightwish because "they were really good". I was not impressed at all. I told this person I really liked Lady Gaga, and she LAUGHED IN MY FACE.
She does not apparently know shit about music.
The first time I heard "Jack and Diane" on the radio, by John Mellencamp, I thought, "Damn, this guy is a cheap imitation Midwestern Springsteen".
Madonna-- yuck. Mediocre voice supported by many costume changes, persona changes, dancing etc. Lady Gaga is what Madonna wishes she could be, because Lady Gaga has TALENT and a beautiful voice.
I gave up on rock'n'roll in 1983 when The Police broke up. They were the last rock group that I thought was interesting. I saw them on their last tour, the Synchronicity tour, and they were getting interesting.
All Country-Western music except for a couple of exceptions: I DO NOT UNDERSTAND why most of America listens to whiny, crappy, unimaginative, negative, depressing kicker music. They sing with a clothespin on their noses, they sound like they are in major physical and mental pain, and they commit pedal steel guitar abuse. The two exceptions are Dolly Parton and Willie Nelson. They do not whine.
No wonder middle America is depressed. They listen to depressing country music and go to church twice a week and hear depressing sermons about what filthy worms they are just because they are breathing due to original sin, which is a total and utter LIE and fairy tale. Yeah, if I put up with church and country music, I'd wanna kill myself. But I listen to classical music and jazz and old rock'n'roll, which is far more positive and uplifting, and so I don't get depressed.
Oh, and contemporary Christian music is pure drivel. For some reason, most of middle America is obsessed with Jesus. They are certainly not inspired like Brahms and Mozart and Haydn were when they wrote church music in Latin or German(Brahms, a German Requiem).
I listen to lots of church music in Latin, like the stuff by Anonymous Four and The Tallis Scholars. I refuse to tolerate the Protestant drivel like the hymns by Martin Luther and the Wesleys. And Amazing Grace makes me want to throw something. First of all, I am NOT a "wretch", and neither is anyone else.
Rap and hip-hop: Spare me, please. No melody, just too much mindless rhythm. Only song by an alleged rap or hiphop group I like is "Crazy" by Gnarls Barkley which actually has some interesting melody in it and a catchy rhythm.
END OF MUSICAL RANT. And yes, I have been a musician since the age of five and taken years of lessons on two instruments and voice, and been in numerous choirs and orchestras.
aint_no_life_nowhere
(21,925 posts)I'm a musician and I hate to rag on other musicians so it takes a lot of dislike for me to do it. In the case of Chicago I appreciated that they had talent and it wasn't the horns with rock concept (I love Tower Of Power) but just some of their compositions like "25 or 6 to 4" or "Where Do We Go from Here?" or the loathsome "Saturday In The Park" that get on my nerves for no logical reason I can understand. In the case of The Beach Boys, I grew up during their time and could never bring myself to buy one of their records or stomach their sound on the radio. Again I appreciate that they had song-writing talent in their genre but it's their entire concept and genre that I can't take. I realize this is very subjective territory. Air Supply is another group I could mention but I won't.
Populist_Prole
(5,364 posts)I tried to convince myself I was having a good time and didn't want to offend my hosts, but the rock/brass sound just didn't do it for me.
emilyg
(22,742 posts)Robyn66
(1,675 posts)OMG I cant stand him!!!
sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)I catch hell for saying it every time but I really do not like anything by Janice Joplin.
TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)for it, IMO. For me, I never really got the supposed genius of: Springsteen, the Beatles, the Rolling Stones, Hendrix, Joplin. I also never much cared for: The Cure, Sonic Youth, The Ramones, and a whole raftload of similar alternative/punk acts. Oops, edit again: The Grateful Dead. Overrated beyond belief.
treestar
(82,383 posts)Cannot stand his songs!
Populist_Prole
(5,364 posts)"Back in the day" as they say I was pilloried for not liking the above acts. Segar and Springsteen for their bullshit salt of the earth appeal, plus their "safe" radio friendly sound that appealed to so many of the top-40 loving dolts I was surrounded by. If I hear Bawwwn in the You-ESS-AY or 'Beautiful Loser' once more I'm going to ooze green bile.
Yes was more musically honest, but I didn't like their overly keyboardy/synth sound. It was supposedly very chic to be into them and I used to catch a ton of shit for not liking them. What drove me up a wall were the rabid fans that brushed aside my dislike by saying "but they put on a GREAT live show!". I don't like keyboard oriented rock and all the visual effects and fancy bullshit cuts no ice with me.
TheMadMonk
(6,187 posts)Incomprehensible lyrics. Almost anything manufactured. Autotune.
southerncrone
(5,506 posts)zen_bohemian
(417 posts)n/m
KurtNYC
(14,549 posts)Codeine
(25,586 posts)My fiance loves her but two seconds into any given song and I'm ready to put a gun in my mouth and end it all.
PAMod
(906 posts)He was/is talented; I just don't care for his voice.