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WillParkinson

(16,862 posts)
Fri Aug 24, 2012, 12:51 AM Aug 2012

Came home from work tonight to find my kitty was no longer with us...

I arrived home a little after 11 pm. Paul had been out with the dogs. Dot was laying on a box, one of his favorite places to lay. Paul came in and sat down while put my stuff away. Dot hadn't moved so I walked over and nudged the box. It was then that I noticed he wasn't breathing. I bent down and found he had been dead for a while. Paul said he thought he was sleeping, as he slept on that box quite a bit. Kind of a shock. Haven't cried yet, but figure it's coming soon.



Dot in another one of his favorite sleeping spots.

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Came home from work tonight to find my kitty was no longer with us... (Original Post) WillParkinson Aug 2012 OP
Aw, so sorry to hear that! The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2012 #1
Oh, no, my dear Will.... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2012 #2
So sorry. vanlassie Aug 2012 #3
........ Angry Dragon Aug 2012 #4
Oh man, so sorry Will. bluesbassman Aug 2012 #5
How awful. hifiguy Aug 2012 #6
what a beautiful cat grasswire Aug 2012 #7
No, no signs... WillParkinson Aug 2012 #8
I am so, so sorry... Rhiannon12866 Aug 2012 #9
thats sounds heartbreaking and unfair Joe Shlabotnik Aug 2012 #10
How awful for you LoveMyCali Aug 2012 #11
Sorry to hear that... WCGreen Aug 2012 #12
I'm so sorry for your loss. Denninmi Aug 2012 #13
Rest peacefully, sweet Dot. Sorry for your loss. nt AtomicKitten Aug 2012 #14
Sorry for you loss. He was a beauty. nt avebury Aug 2012 #15
I worry about that every time I see my big boy sleeping (or can't find him) - he's 15. HopeHoops Aug 2012 #16
Aw, I'm sorry... Phentex Aug 2012 #17
Safe passage to Dot. Call Me Wesley Aug 2012 #18
oh, god, Will, I am so sorry Bertha Venation Aug 2012 #19
I am so sorry Will LaurenG Aug 2012 #20
I'm so sorry. You lost a wonderful friend. Take some time to cry. OregonBlue Aug 2012 #21
I'm very sorry. Liberal Veteran Aug 2012 #22
Rest in peace. warrior1 Aug 2012 #23
Safe Passage to Dot dickthegrouch Aug 2012 #24
I'm so sorry. myrna minx Aug 2012 #25
What a good old boy. peacefreak Aug 2012 #26
Oh I am so sorry to see this. MuseRider Aug 2012 #27
Muse. mwdem Aug 2012 #34
Deepest sympathy for your loss. Don't know what else to say. Mac1949 Aug 2012 #28
Sorry Will. dawg Aug 2012 #29
So sorry to hear that, Will. Brigid Aug 2012 #30
I am so sorry KT2000 Aug 2012 #31
Very sorry to hear about Dot. Kaleva Aug 2012 #32
I'm so sorry Will....you'll be in my thoughts..... Rowdyboy Aug 2012 #33
Goodbye, Dot blogslut Aug 2012 #35
Sorry for your loss, but you were spared the suffering and having to make difficult choices Alameda Aug 2012 #36
Oh no, I'm so sorry. Arugula Latte Aug 2012 #37
Hugs for you, Will Pool Hall Ace Aug 2012 #38
Awwwww. I'm sooooo sorry. What do you think happened? nt Honeycombe8 Aug 2012 #39
Oh, I'm sorry. Safe passage to Dot. And peace to you. nolabear Aug 2012 #40
I'm so sorry. LWolf Aug 2012 #41
Our sympathies, Will. rurallib Aug 2012 #42
Oh, I'm so sorry TuxedoKat Aug 2012 #43
Will, I am so sorry to hear this. derby378 Aug 2012 #44
What a beautiful cat Hayabusa Aug 2012 #45
I'm so sorry to hear this, Will. flvegan Aug 2012 #46
Sorry to hear that. Jack Sprat Aug 2012 #47
Your sweet Dot ... I'm sorry. MrMickeysMom Aug 2012 #48

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,727 posts)
2. Oh, no, my dear Will....
Fri Aug 24, 2012, 12:54 AM
Aug 2012

What a terrible shock that must have been...

I hope he went peacefully in his sleep. And I sure hope he didn't suffer...

Safe passage to him...

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
7. what a beautiful cat
Fri Aug 24, 2012, 01:49 AM
Aug 2012

...and such interesting markings. He looks sooo soft. Obviously a great cat, as the dog can attest. He didn't give you any sign that he was ill?

Poor kitteh. RIP Dot.

WillParkinson

(16,862 posts)
8. No, no signs...
Fri Aug 24, 2012, 02:53 AM
Aug 2012

He ate this morning, just like always, and then stretched out on the couch for most of the afternoon.

Rhiannon12866

(206,247 posts)
9. I am so, so sorry...
Fri Aug 24, 2012, 03:37 AM
Aug 2012

What a heartbreaking thing for all of you and it still must be a terrible shock. What a sweet picture and a beautiful cat. I love the name... Looks and sounds that he had a lot of love in his life.

LoveMyCali

(2,015 posts)
11. How awful for you
Fri Aug 24, 2012, 04:41 AM
Aug 2012

I hope you find some consolation in the fact it sounds like he left this world peacefully and never had to suffer a sick day.

WCGreen

(45,558 posts)
12. Sorry to hear that...
Fri Aug 24, 2012, 05:15 AM
Aug 2012

We lost our best friend Gizmo right after Bush won his election and to fill up the void, we ended up with five cats for a while...

Little Annie, my MIL's companion, came to live with us after my MIL passed on.

Annie left us last year. She was riddled with tumors. We were with her when they gave her the shot.

I almost regret having the critters around because I know I will out live them and it is so sad when they pass on.

Right now, three of them are cuddling up against me as I type this out

But the joy and companionship they give far outweighs any of the downsides...

dickthegrouch

(3,184 posts)
24. Safe Passage to Dot
Fri Aug 24, 2012, 10:20 AM
Aug 2012

I had a cat that looked exactly like him, named Sheba, many years ago. I still miss her purring.
All the best to the rest of the family.

peacefreak

(2,939 posts)
26. What a good old boy.
Fri Aug 24, 2012, 10:39 AM
Aug 2012

It sounds like a peaceful end to a life shared with people who loved him. I'm sorry for your loss, Will.

MuseRider

(34,133 posts)
27. Oh I am so sorry to see this.
Fri Aug 24, 2012, 11:16 AM
Aug 2012
Dot was a lucky boy to be yours and you were lucky to be his. It sounds like he died peacefully where he was safe and loved. Not a bad way to go but it leaves a huge hole in your heart. I am so sorry.

mwdem

(4,031 posts)
34. Muse.
Sat Aug 25, 2012, 02:43 AM
Aug 2012

Off topic, but how are you? I'm now in L.A. area, of all places! Hope all is well with with you!

KT2000

(20,590 posts)
31. I am so sorry
Sat Aug 25, 2012, 01:36 AM
Aug 2012

I'm sure you gave him a good life - you gave him a terrific name.
Peace to you and RIP Dot.

Alameda

(1,895 posts)
36. Sorry for your loss, but you were spared the suffering and having to make difficult choices
Sat Aug 25, 2012, 07:48 AM
Aug 2012

My dear cat passed away a few months ago. It was awful to hear her cry and see her suffering. In my lifetime I've lost three cats, I would have preferred to loose them like you did. Seeing an animal that has looked to you for care, and realizing there is little you can do is a terrible situation. I still cry when I remember the sound and suffering face of my cat.

My remaining cat I have now misses his companion, I can see how he's changed since she passed away.

Loosing a pet is hard.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
43. Oh, I'm so sorry
Sat Aug 25, 2012, 09:55 PM
Aug 2012

for the loss of your beloved Dot. It sounds like he had a peaceful passing though and I think this is the best way for pets to pass away if possible, quietly and in their home. (((HUGS)))

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
48. Your sweet Dot ... I'm sorry.
Sun Aug 26, 2012, 12:05 AM
Aug 2012
My heart goes out to you. After having so much suffering in my own kitten kingdom, to think she dies in her sleep is somewhat gentle on your heart, I imagine.
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