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qwlauren35

(6,148 posts)
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 07:50 PM Aug 2020

Just lost a cousin to COVID-19

Last edited Sat Aug 8, 2020, 08:34 PM - Edit history (1)

I'm sure it's easy to get political about it, point fingers, blame, etc.

But it seems so pointless to do any of those things. They won't bring him back.

Here in Maryland, we thought we were doing all the right things. Taking the necessary precautions.

I feel such sadness for his three sisters. They must be feeling so much pain. They celebrated his birthday via Zoom.

To be Christian in this moment, to believe that there is an afterlife, can be a blessing in times of pain. And if not that, to pull out all of the wonderful memories to celebrate his life.

An amazing man. A black man. An older man. A statistic. It's just not right. But that changes nothing.

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Just lost a cousin to COVID-19 (Original Post) qwlauren35 Aug 2020 OP
My condolences. CentralMass Aug 2020 #1
Deepest condolences SheltieLover Aug 2020 #2
So sorry for your loss RainCaster Aug 2020 #3
My sympathy to you and family on your loss. May the livetohike Aug 2020 #4
Damn...... I'm soo very sorry that you lost this amazing man, I hope you have a lot of wonderful secondwind Aug 2020 #5
My condolences. BlueDawn Aug 2020 #6
I'm so sorry handmade34 Aug 2020 #7
I am so sorry, qwlauren. sheshe2 Aug 2020 #8
I'm so sorry 😐 for your loss. nt live love laugh Aug 2020 #9
Deepest sympathy. sinkingfeeling Aug 2020 #10
Damn. underpants Aug 2020 #11
So sorry. applegrove Aug 2020 #12
Cherish the happy moments you shared, focus on that. magicarpet Aug 2020 #13
I'm so sorry, qwlauren. brer cat Aug 2020 #14
My condolences Celebrate his life and grieve his loss now . Save the anger for the election. This lunasun Aug 2020 #15
((qwlauren)) blm Aug 2020 #16
Sorry to hear of your loss. Paz to you and your family. RestoreAmerica2020 Aug 2020 #17
💕💕💖💖💖💕💕 MLAA Aug 2020 #18
I am so so sorry, sending my condolences Tumbulu Aug 2020 #19
My condolences to you and his family. Fla Dem Aug 2020 #20
I am sorry for your loss. warmfeet Aug 2020 #21
Sorry to hear. in a weird way I sometimes envy those who believe in God AlexSFCA Aug 2020 #22
As you said, "It's just not right". Now's the time for sad reflection, and fond FailureToCommunicate Aug 2020 #23
I am sorry to hear about your son. qwlauren35 Aug 2020 #25
Thank you. I wish for some peace for you and your family. FailureToCommunicate Aug 2020 #26
I'm so very sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing to you all... Hekate Aug 2020 #24
I'm so sorry, that is a sad and painful loss. wendyb-NC Aug 2020 #27
Hugs to you lunatica Aug 2020 #28
Condolences on the loss of your cousin. gademocrat7 Aug 2020 #29
I am so sorry qwlauren35 KT2000 Aug 2020 #30
My sincere condolences. mecherosegarden Aug 2020 #31
I'm so sorry. Solly Mack Aug 2020 #32
I am so sorry about your beloved cousin and the circumstances of his passing. Tanuki Aug 2020 #33
So sorry, qwlauren35! pazzyanne Aug 2020 #34
I am truly sorry for your loss. 💔 onecaliberal Aug 2020 #35
So sorry for your loss, qwlauren35. I hope you find comfort in the happy memories he left behind. ❤ littlemissmartypants Aug 2020 #36
I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork Aug 2020 #37
💕💕💖💖💖💕💕 MLAA Aug 2020 #38
I am so sorry, qwlauren. crickets Aug 2020 #39
{{Hugs}} OhNo-Really Aug 2020 #40
so sorry to hear this, my condolences nt steve2470 Aug 2020 #41
I am so sorry. PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2020 #42
It's horrible. I lost my dad too. I do blame Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2020 #43
I am so sorry for your loss, qwlauren. smirkymonkey Aug 2020 #44
I'm so sorry! Buckeye_Democrat Aug 2020 #45
He's forever in your heart, qwlauren35.... Heartstrings Aug 2020 #46

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
5. Damn...... I'm soo very sorry that you lost this amazing man, I hope you have a lot of wonderful
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 07:58 PM
Aug 2020

memories in your heart to remember him by.

He may be gone, but he is not far... he will be remembered always.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
15. My condolences Celebrate his life and grieve his loss now . Save the anger for the election. This
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 08:58 PM
Aug 2020

didn’t have to happen to him..so very sad

AlexSFCA

(6,137 posts)
22. Sorry to hear. in a weird way I sometimes envy those who believe in God
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 09:50 PM
Aug 2020

and I often agonize if I did the right choice raising kids as atheists. Moments like these make me question. I do feel that if not taught from very young age, it will be near impossible to believe later.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,013 posts)
23. As you said, "It's just not right". Now's the time for sad reflection, and fond
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 09:50 PM
Aug 2020

remembrances, NOT for politics for you and your family.

But, by god, there will come a time, swiftly soon, that a nations' outrage will reach such a height, that it will wash away the evil filth now letting this pandemic wreak havoc.

My son has had covid.

We are praying and hoping for the best.

For him, for all of us.

So sorry that this scourge has been visited upon your family.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,013 posts)
26. Thank you. I wish for some peace for you and your family.
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 09:55 PM
Aug 2020

It may not feel like it right now, but we are all in this (mess) together.

Hekate

(90,674 posts)
24. I'm so very sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing to you all...
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 09:51 PM
Aug 2020

...now and in the future.

wendyb-NC

(3,325 posts)
27. I'm so sorry, that is a sad and painful loss.
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 09:59 PM
Aug 2020

You and all those who knew and loved him, are in my prayers.

KT2000

(20,577 posts)
30. I am so sorry qwlauren35
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 10:30 PM
Aug 2020

I feel too for his sisters. In this scary time, I really worry about my brother. Peace to you and his sisters.

Tanuki

(14,918 posts)
33. I am so sorry about your beloved cousin and the circumstances of his passing.
Sat Aug 8, 2020, 10:41 PM
Aug 2020

My heart goes out to you, to his sisters, and to all those who cherished him. It must be especiailly difficult to grieve together as you ordinarily would do at a time in which social distancing must be practiced.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
43. It's horrible. I lost my dad too. I do blame
Sun Aug 9, 2020, 01:24 AM
Aug 2020

Trump though. No, won't bring him back, you are right.

Hope Dems don't cave on one thing. The right of the little guy to sue. They are hiding that.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
44. I am so sorry for your loss, qwlauren.
Sun Aug 9, 2020, 01:40 AM
Aug 2020

I know there is not much I can say to take the pain away, but I want to express my sincere condolences to you and to your cousin's sisters. I can't even imagine what pain they must be feeling. I think about this all the time and when it is going to finally fall on my doorstep, or of those I know.

I know that pointing fingers won't bring anybody back, but better leadership could have saved lives, including your cousin's. That is what makes me so upset. There are so many people who have died needlessly and that is what is so tragic.

Again, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I wish you peace and healing. May your cousin RIP.

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