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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsJust lost a cousin to COVID-19
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I'm sure it's easy to get political about it, point fingers, blame, etc.
But it seems so pointless to do any of those things. They won't bring him back.
Here in Maryland, we thought we were doing all the right things. Taking the necessary precautions.
I feel such sadness for his three sisters. They must be feeling so much pain. They celebrated his birthday via Zoom.
To be Christian in this moment, to believe that there is an afterlife, can be a blessing in times of pain. And if not that, to pull out all of the wonderful memories to celebrate his life.
An amazing man. A black man. An older man. A statistic. It's just not right. But that changes nothing.
CentralMass
(15,265 posts)SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)So sorry for your loss!
RainCaster
(10,870 posts)livetohike
(22,140 posts)good memories you have bring you comfort .
secondwind
(16,903 posts)memories in your heart to remember him by.
He may be gone, but he is not far... he will be remembered always.
BlueDawn
(892 posts)I am very sad to read this. I am so sorry, qwlauren35.
handmade34
(22,756 posts)sheshe2
(83,751 posts)My deepest sympathies to you and yours.
May he rest in peace.
live love laugh
(13,104 posts)sinkingfeeling
(51,454 posts)underpants
(182,788 posts)🕯
applegrove
(118,642 posts)magicarpet
(14,145 posts)brer cat
(24,562 posts)My condolences to you and his family.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)didnt have to happen to him..so very sad
blm
(113,052 posts)RestoreAmerica2020
(3,435 posts)MLAA
(17,288 posts)Tumbulu
(6,278 posts)to you and to all you extended family.
Fla Dem
(23,656 posts)warmfeet
(3,321 posts)We must all work to minimize similar occurrences in the future.
AlexSFCA
(6,137 posts)and I often agonize if I did the right choice raising kids as atheists. Moments like these make me question. I do feel that if not taught from very young age, it will be near impossible to believe later.
FailureToCommunicate
(14,013 posts)remembrances, NOT for politics for you and your family.
But, by god, there will come a time, swiftly soon, that a nations' outrage will reach such a height, that it will wash away the evil filth now letting this pandemic wreak havoc.
My son has had covid.
We are praying and hoping for the best.
For him, for all of us.
So sorry that this scourge has been visited upon your family.
qwlauren35
(6,148 posts)I hope he recovers fully and completely.
FailureToCommunicate
(14,013 posts)It may not feel like it right now, but we are all in this (mess) together.
Hekate
(90,674 posts)...now and in the future.
wendyb-NC
(3,325 posts)You and all those who knew and loved him, are in my prayers.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)and to his sisters.
Its very painful. The anger comes later.
gademocrat7
(10,656 posts)Take care.
KT2000
(20,577 posts)I feel too for his sisters. In this scary time, I really worry about my brother. Peace to you and his sisters.
mecherosegarden
(745 posts)Sorry for your loss.
Solly Mack
(90,764 posts)Tanuki
(14,918 posts)My heart goes out to you, to his sisters, and to all those who cherished him. It must be especiailly difficult to grieve together as you ordinarily would do at a time in which social distancing must be practiced.
pazzyanne
(6,551 posts)Sincere sympathy and virtual hugs on their way to you and your family!
onecaliberal
(32,852 posts)littlemissmartypants
(22,655 posts)yardwork
(61,599 posts)MLAA
(17,288 posts)crickets
(25,969 posts)My heart goes out to you and your family.
OhNo-Really
(3,985 posts)steve2470
(37,457 posts)PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,853 posts)Hugs.
Laura PourMeADrink
(42,770 posts)Trump though. No, won't bring him back, you are right.
Hope Dems don't cave on one thing. The right of the little guy to sue. They are hiding that.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)I know there is not much I can say to take the pain away, but I want to express my sincere condolences to you and to your cousin's sisters. I can't even imagine what pain they must be feeling. I think about this all the time and when it is going to finally fall on my doorstep, or of those I know.
I know that pointing fingers won't bring anybody back, but better leadership could have saved lives, including your cousin's. That is what makes me so upset. There are so many people who have died needlessly and that is what is so tragic.
Again, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I wish you peace and healing. May your cousin RIP.