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QED

(2,749 posts)
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 08:10 AM Dec 2019

Today I am officially a old. I guess.

Yep. I've hit 65. I don't feel old really but the flood of mail about Medicare options confirms my age. I don't intend to retire for a couple of years so I ignore those.

Anyway, HBD to me. Plans? Curl up with a fluffy blanket on the sofa with my dogs and finish watching Ken Burns Baseball.

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Today I am officially a old. I guess. (Original Post) QED Dec 2019 OP
Bon anniversaire, QED! Recursion Dec 2019 #1
Thanks, Recursion. QED Dec 2019 #35
Happy birthday QED! Mine was yesterday. yonder Dec 2019 #56
Happy Belated BD QED Jan 2020 #61
Happy Birthday.🎂 Mine was Saturday. dewsgirl Dec 2019 #2
Do not ignore signing up for Medicare Part A DownriverDem Dec 2019 #12
I second this! You will pay a penalty for forever if you don't sign up now. flying_wahini Dec 2019 #14
Without Medicare I would not have made it to 90, sign up please katmondoo Dec 2019 #19
exactly wallyworld2 Dec 2019 #31
I signed up for A and accidentally B. QED Dec 2019 #36
Your work benefits will cover part b lunatica Dec 2019 #59
And, I think, Part D - prescription drugs. Even if you don't take any. question everything Dec 2019 #60
Happy Belated BD! QED Jan 2020 #62
happy birthday kiddo! samnsara Dec 2019 #3
Most of that mail you are getting isn't from Medicare, gab13by13 Dec 2019 #4
Yeah, I get that. QED Dec 2019 #37
Excuse me, but whathehell Dec 2019 #5
I will turn 65 in 2020 and it is bothering me more than I thought it would. redstatebluegirl Dec 2019 #6
Don't worry about 65! Lonestarblue Dec 2019 #9
I've got it down. safeinOhio Dec 2019 #17
I've had it with boring meetings and useless "Professional Development" QED Dec 2019 #38
that is what I am so looking forward to Skittles Dec 2019 #49
My husband will be 84 soon CountAllVotes Dec 2019 #7
My Dad had MS. Try th Keto diet for a couple weeks... MartyTheGreek Dec 2019 #16
Thanks CountAllVotes Dec 2019 #21
Become Canadian. Medicare for all regardless of age. Bernardo de La Paz Dec 2019 #8
I second that! luvtheGWN Dec 2019 #27
How easy is it for a 65-year-old U.S.ian to become Canadian, eh? JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2019 #32
I can't advise about immigration laws here. Have to do your own research. But I'm sure can be done Bernardo de La Paz Dec 2019 #45
I was just kidding, but ... JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2019 #48
Happy New Year! Bernardo de La Paz Dec 2019 #52
Happy Birthday! I'm going to hit that milestone in June. catbyte Dec 2019 #10
Nothing wrong with being old... Trueblue Texan Dec 2019 #11
that is illogical... getagrip_already Dec 2019 #25
you don't sound like you're old enough to get the joke... Trueblue Texan Jan 2020 #63
I figured out how "old" old is....... mitch96 Dec 2019 #13
I always heard it was 15 years older Skittles Dec 2019 #50
I'm 65 on Jan 14th. Happy birthday all you 65ers. notdarkyet Dec 2019 #15
Feliz cumpleaos! Have a great day! RestoreAmerica2020 Dec 2019 #18
Sto Lat! The Polack MSgt Dec 2019 #20
congrats , im right behind you. AllaN01Bear Dec 2019 #22
Learn as much now about Medicare, if you already haven't. Javaman Dec 2019 #23
The website is confusing - a hot mess. QED Dec 2019 #39
Hey, that's only 41 markbark Dec 2019 #24
Unless you're already counting in hex, then 65hex 101, yikes! nt JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2019 #33
Happy B'Day! 2naSalit Dec 2019 #26
Just remember: It's better to be over the hill than under it. BigBearJohn Dec 2019 #28
From where I stand snowybirdie Dec 2019 #29
You still have time to sign up wallyworld2 Dec 2019 #30
You don't need Part B if you're still employed and have employer health insurance. JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2019 #34
I'm surprised my employer doesn't require me to have A. QED Dec 2019 #40
It's been so long, I don't remember if my employer required it ... JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2019 #42
Ditto. I got Part A last year and mistakenly enrolled in Part B yonder Dec 2019 #57
My feelings are wallyworld2 Jan 2020 #65
Don't ignore Medicare and prescription drug WhiteTara Dec 2019 #41
Again, if your employer provides health/drug insurance, there's no penalty from Medicare if you wait JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2019 #43
Oh, I missed the employer insurance plan WhiteTara Dec 2019 #44
Happy Birthday! nt tblue37 Dec 2019 #46
You ain't old until you're dead. nt UniteFightBack Dec 2019 #47
Old is like the horizon. guillaumeb Dec 2019 #51
I turned 66 a few weeks ago. MuseRider Dec 2019 #53
HB! Old is when, to your puzzlement, people on the subway Croney Dec 2019 #54
Happy Birthday QED! smirkymonkey Dec 2019 #55
Happy, Happy Birthday! Niagara Dec 2019 #58
You're as old or as young as you feel. Fla Dem Jan 2020 #64
I'll be 65 next month Wolf Frankula Jan 2020 #66
I really can't either. QED Jan 2020 #67
On the positive side, you are now eligible for many senior discounts. milestogo Jan 2020 #68

Recursion

(56,582 posts)
1. Bon anniversaire, QED!
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 08:22 AM
Dec 2019

As Kong-zi ( a.k.a. "Confucius" ) said,

At 15 I set my heart upon learning

At 30, I had planted my feet firm upon the ground.

At 40, I no longer suffered from perplexities.

At 50, I knew what were the biddings of heaven.

At 60, I heard them with docile ears.

At 70, I could follow the dictates of my own heart; for what I desired no longer overstepped the boundaries of right.


You're not even in your best years yet. Here's to many happy returns!

QED

(2,749 posts)
35. Thanks, Recursion.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 03:37 PM
Dec 2019

I don't feel that old...I do feel somewhat free though. If work gets to me I can retire and say screw this crap. I like what I do but have little tolerance for bullshit.

yonder

(9,676 posts)
56. Happy birthday QED! Mine was yesterday.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 09:18 PM
Dec 2019

"...Little tolerance for bullshit."

Exactly.

I know what you mean. You've worked hard your whole life. So after seeing the same issue, in one form or the other a thousand times, you get to the "fuck it" stage.

That's where I was a couple of years ago until retiring. Like you, I generally enjoyed the work. But that same old BS has a way of catching up to one's mental health.

So, hang in there, until you can't and best wishes for a happy birthday AND new year.

QED

(2,749 posts)
61. Happy Belated BD
Wed Jan 1, 2020, 01:05 AM
Jan 2020

The bullshit - it's usually just another method hyped as the best thing in the world only to be discarded for something else in a year or two. I just roll my eyes and keep doing what I'm doing.

DownriverDem

(6,231 posts)
12. Do not ignore signing up for Medicare Part A
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 09:27 AM
Dec 2019

Even if you have employee health insurance. Part A is the hospital part. Sign up for Part A. Why? When you need to sign up for Part B (doc/clinic visits etc) they will charge you more for the rest of your life.

flying_wahini

(6,654 posts)
14. I second this! You will pay a penalty for forever if you don't sign up now.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 09:56 AM
Dec 2019

You still have some time! Do it today.

QED

(2,749 posts)
36. I signed up for A and accidentally B.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 03:38 PM
Dec 2019

I was able to get that fixed. But now I'm double insured, I think - I have both medicare A and insurance through my employer. Doesn't seem right that I have double and many have none.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
59. Your work benefits will cover part b
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 10:55 PM
Dec 2019

But once you retire be sure you apply for Medicare part b.

Whenever you decide to retire be sure to take care of any lingering Medicare you should sign up for. It will save you months of headaches!

gab13by13

(21,408 posts)
4. Most of that mail you are getting isn't from Medicare,
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 08:39 AM
Dec 2019

although they may look like they are. Most of your mail is from private insurance companies who want to sell you Medicare/supplemental insurance.

QED

(2,749 posts)
37. Yeah, I get that.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 03:39 PM
Dec 2019

It's confusing. I'm glad I don't need to decide on B right now. My union has a plan that people say is good but I'm not there yet.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
6. I will turn 65 in 2020 and it is bothering me more than I thought it would.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 08:58 AM
Dec 2019

Not sure why, I just feel ancient. 50 didn't phase me, 60 didn't, but this one is like the official "you are an old woman" birthday. Like you I have been getting junk mail about medicare, glasses, hearing aids all of the "old lady things".

I need to remember that the alternative sucks a lot!

Happy Birthday!

Lonestarblue

(10,084 posts)
9. Don't worry about 65!
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 09:15 AM
Dec 2019

I retired at 67, and life became just great! No more long, boring meetings. No more 6 a.m. flights for work travel. No more 12-14 hour work days. Now I wake when I want, have my coffee, and just enjoy the freedom to do whatever I want with my day. I now have time for exercise classes, movies during the afternoons, lunches with friends, long walks, family visits. I thought when I retired that I would have a hard time filling my days. LOL. My calendar is as full as I want it, but now it’s full of fun.

safeinOhio

(32,726 posts)
17. I've got it down.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 10:00 AM
Dec 2019

Retired at 52, now 70. Biggest problem with retirement is that you never get a day off.

Too much snow on the road today. I'll have to go to the indoor club today to get my 4 mile jog in.

QED

(2,749 posts)
38. I've had it with boring meetings and useless "Professional Development"
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 03:40 PM
Dec 2019

It's always one size fits all and irrelevant.

But aside from that, I like what I do.

CountAllVotes

(20,878 posts)
7. My husband will be 84 soon
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 09:06 AM
Dec 2019

Despite his need for eye surgery on his one eye every three months for the rest of his life, he can still see out of it (the other one is gone), he is holding up pretty good! This surgery has been going on since 2008! Aw, the miracles of modern medicine (if it weren't for "modern medicine" he'd be blind by now ... ).

I am 20 years younger than he is and I have MS.

I've almost died several times but I'm still here for the time being.

After four recent deaths in the family, we are wondering who is next!

I'm not enjoying seeing what happens once you hit 80!

Happy Birthday to you and here's to many more!

MartyTheGreek

(567 posts)
16. My Dad had MS. Try th Keto diet for a couple weeks...
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 09:59 AM
Dec 2019

You may notice some symptom changes. Had I known this 20 years ago, I would have tried it on him. Happy New Year! Hang in there!

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4709725/

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,044 posts)
8. Become Canadian. Medicare for all regardless of age.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 09:07 AM
Dec 2019

I had an operation that a DU member reported cost them over $5,000.

I walked into doctors offices and operating room and never saw any bill and never will. Showed my health care ID card and everything was taken care of.

15% sales tax, mind you. But health care is half the cost per capita here and outcomes are better (longer life expectancy).

luvtheGWN

(1,336 posts)
27. I second that!
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 11:07 AM
Dec 2019

And as a meme I recently viewed on facebook noted "Thirty-two of 33 first world countries managed to institute universal healthcare, so how hard could that be?" (or words to that effect....)

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,367 posts)
32. How easy is it for a 65-year-old U.S.ian to become Canadian, eh?
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 03:23 PM
Dec 2019

I've consumed my patriotic share of Molson, if that helps.

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,044 posts)
45. I can't advise about immigration laws here. Have to do your own research. But I'm sure can be done
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 05:54 PM
Dec 2019

... if you are serious and patient. Maybe I'm just optimistic and you are joking around though.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,367 posts)
48. I was just kidding, but ...
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 07:24 PM
Dec 2019

... if Trump gets re-elected or RBG has to leave the SCOTUS, it may be an option. Right now, I'm only 20 minutes from CA, plus whatever time it takes to get through customs/immigration at the bridge.

However, it looks like the only way a retiree can get a resident visa is via the "investor" option. That's a big chunk of money, so that's not really an option.

So, if you see an old guy standing across the Detroit River, with a wistful tear in his eye and a Molson in his hand, just wave.

catbyte

(34,455 posts)
10. Happy Birthday! I'm going to hit that milestone in June.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 09:17 AM
Dec 2019

It sounds like you have plans for the perfect day.

Trueblue Texan

(2,443 posts)
11. Nothing wrong with being old...
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 09:24 AM
Dec 2019

...but you might not actually be there yet. The true test is that you discover you like the smell of Ben Gay. Like it? Yep. You're an old fart! Welcome aboard!

getagrip_already

(14,838 posts)
25. that is illogical...
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 11:03 AM
Dec 2019

Old farts don't smell any better or worse than young, new, farts. Where did that saying come from anyway?

But HBD anyway!

mitch96

(13,926 posts)
13. I figured out how "old" old is.......
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 09:36 AM
Dec 2019

It's 20 years older than you are right now...
When you were 10 somebody 30 was "old" When you were 50 a person 70 was old..
worked for me.. To me now?...... somebody 90 is old!!
m...... official geezer..

AllaN01Bear

(18,429 posts)
22. congrats , im right behind you.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 10:33 AM
Dec 2019

to day i am going shopping with my worker , i dont drive. to mrrow , sleep in after breakfast , then clean apartment.

Javaman

(62,534 posts)
23. Learn as much now about Medicare, if you already haven't.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 10:38 AM
Dec 2019

some of it isn't an easy sail to navigate.

My GF turned 65 this year and it was an eyeopening experience.

QED

(2,749 posts)
39. The website is confusing - a hot mess.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 03:41 PM
Dec 2019

I did get Part A and will navigate the mess to get B later.

wallyworld2

(375 posts)
30. You still have time to sign up
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 12:17 PM
Dec 2019

Part A & Part B sign up periods

When you first get Medicare

When you're first eligible for Medicare, you have a 7-month Initial Enrollment Period to sign up for Part A and/or Part B.

If you're eligible for Medicare when you turn 65, you can sign up during the 7-month period that:
Begins 3 months before the month you turn 65
Includes the month you turn 65
Ends 3 months after the month you turn 65

Note

If you aren’t automatically enrolled, you can sign up for free Part A (if you’re eligible) any time during or after your Initial Enrollment Period starts. Your coverage start date will depend on when you sign up. If you have to buy Part A and/or Part B, you can only sign up during a valid enrollment period.

Note

If you wait until the month you turn 65 (or the 3 months after you turn 65) to enroll, your Part B coverage will be delayed. This could cause a gap in your coverage.

In most cases, if you don’t sign up for Medicare Part B when you’re first eligible, you’ll have to pay a late enrollment penalty. You'll have to pay this penalty for as long as you have Part B and could have a gap in your health coverage.

Between January 1–March 31 each year

You can sign up for Part A and/or Part B during the General Enrollment Period between January 1–March 31 each year if both of these apply:

You didn't sign up when you were first eligible.
You aren’t eligible for a Special Enrollment Period (see below).

You must pay premiums for Part A and/or Part B. Your coverage will start July 1. You may have to pay a higher premium for late enrollment in Part A and/or a higher premium for late enrollment in Part B.


https://www.medicare.gov/sign-up-change-plans/how-do-i-get-parts-a-b/part-a-part-b-sign-up-periods

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,367 posts)
34. You don't need Part B if you're still employed and have employer health insurance.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 03:31 PM
Dec 2019

Odds are, your employer will require you to sign up for Part A, since it's free. When you eventually leave the working world, if your employer- or union-provided health care ends, then you can sign up for Parts B, D. A standard letter from H.R. (personnel) will let Medicare know about the insurance, so you won't be hit with a penalty for Parts B, D.

I got Parts B, D when I was 70, because I was on my wife's employer health plan. No penalty.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,367 posts)
42. It's been so long, I don't remember if my employer required it ...
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 04:59 PM
Dec 2019

... or if the enrollment was automatic through Medicare.

Actually, it would have been my wife's employer. I jumped to her insurance when I got laid off and then got a 1099-contract job. When I later got hired "for real", I stayed with my wife's employer plan.

yonder

(9,676 posts)
57. Ditto. I got Part A last year and mistakenly enrolled in Part B
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 10:44 PM
Dec 2019

even though being covered by my spouse's work provided insurance. After learning of my mistake, I was able to rescind the Part B until my spouse retires, when we will both enroll in Part B and an advantage or supplemental plan that works for us.

wallyworld2

(375 posts)
65. My feelings are
Wed Jan 1, 2020, 05:53 PM
Jan 2020

It's always better to be safe than sorry

Clarify early with SS as to what coverage I am eligible for, to avoid penalties.

Don't wait until the last minute, when you can learn what you need to do early.

What works for me does not necessarily work for someone else.

So anyone who is within 3 months of Medicare eligibility should contact Medicare to clarify before that date

WhiteTara

(29,722 posts)
41. Don't ignore Medicare and prescription drug
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 04:44 PM
Dec 2019

you will be fined 10% for each year you don't enroll in part D. You should check with SSA to discuss your options since you don't want to miss out on your earned benefits!

Happy Birthday and you are still so young. 65 is the new 45!

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,367 posts)
43. Again, if your employer provides health/drug insurance, there's no penalty from Medicare if you wait
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 05:02 PM
Dec 2019

Enjoy your employer's plan, then when that ends (retirement, layoff, etc) you have a few months to get on Medicare Part B,D, without penalty. I started Part B, D, at 70, no penalty because of employer insurance.

WhiteTara

(29,722 posts)
44. Oh, I missed the employer insurance plan
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 05:24 PM
Dec 2019

Carry on! Enjoy your elder years and retirement when it gets here. You'll wonder how you ever managed to squeeze work in!

I wanted to get you a birthday cake, but I could only find

And Many More

MuseRider

(34,120 posts)
53. I turned 66 a few weeks ago.
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 07:59 PM
Dec 2019

Still not old. I bet you aren't either. It is fun to make fun of our new geezer status though 😁. Congratulations for making it this long, so many don't.

Croney

(4,670 posts)
54. HB! Old is when, to your puzzlement, people on the subway
Tue Dec 31, 2019, 08:05 PM
Dec 2019

get up to give you their seat. How in the world do they know I'm 75? I see 45 when I look in the mirror! Darn pranksters.

Fla Dem

(23,760 posts)
64. You're as old or as young as you feel.
Wed Jan 1, 2020, 02:23 PM
Jan 2020

I didn't feel "OLD" until I hit 70 and that was purely because of a health issue and joint aches. But in my mind I still feel younger than my age would suggest. I remember my grandmother, who in her 90's, would point to an older woman and say, look at that old woman. The woman probably was 10 to 15 years younger than her, but that's how my Nan would see herself, as the younger person.

Wolf Frankula

(3,601 posts)
66. I'll be 65 next month
Wed Jan 1, 2020, 05:56 PM
Jan 2020

I can't afford to retire. Thank you Ronnie Raygunz and Georgie W, and thank you Teddabangers and Ralf Rumplesuit.

Wolf

QED

(2,749 posts)
67. I really can't either.
Wed Jan 1, 2020, 08:00 PM
Jan 2020

I need to wait about 3 years until my pension hits a bump up. But if the bullshit gets too intense, I'm done.

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