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Ever hear term 'round heels? Mom, b 1913, said it was used for girls who were 'easy' (Original Post) bobbieinok Nov 2019 OP
I heard it years ago, but not as long ago as 1913. The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2019 #1
Raymond Chandler used it Cartoonist Nov 2019 #2
Or Keeping One's Skirts Clean? Me. Nov 2019 #3
Yeah, it implies she's a push-over Maeve Nov 2019 #4
Yes. It came from the idea that her shoe heels were worn round from falling on her back so often... TreasonousBastard Nov 2019 #5
I'm pretty old but no, I don't remember when old men told me that they had wanted frigid wives braddy Nov 2019 #7
Yes. My mother used the term for girls who were "no better than they had to be". Arkansas Granny Nov 2019 #6
Read the phrase in romance novels Collimator Nov 2019 #11
I've read it but then, I've read a lot of books. Means slutty. Shrike47 Nov 2019 #8
I think it went out of style after World War II FakeNoose Nov 2019 #9
Yes, "a round-heeled woman". Ron Obvious Nov 2019 #10

Cartoonist

(7,318 posts)
2. Raymond Chandler used it
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 12:30 PM
Nov 2019

In the context of the story, I assumed it meant she didn't stand on her feet all day.

Maeve

(42,282 posts)
4. Yeah, it implies she's a push-over
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 12:43 PM
Nov 2019

Falling backwards implying having sex, as in the Nurse's joke in Romeo & Juliet


For then she could stand alone; nay, by the rood,
She could have run and waddled all about;
For even the day before, she broke her brow:
And then my husband--God be with his soul!
A' was a merry man--took up the child:
'Yea,' quoth he, 'dost thou fall upon thy face?
Thou wilt fall backward when thou hast more wit;
Wilt thou not, Jule?' and, by my holidame,
The pretty wretch left crying and said 'Ay.'

Act I, scene III

We had a teacher who explained why that was one of the 'dirty bits'

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
5. Yes. It came from the idea that her shoe heels were worn round from falling on her back so often...
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 12:43 PM
Nov 2019

And easily.

Remember when women were not supposed to enjoy sex, but to endure it for the sake of their husbands and to produce children?

 

braddy

(3,585 posts)
7. I'm pretty old but no, I don't remember when old men told me that they had wanted frigid wives
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 01:36 PM
Nov 2019

and girlfriends, they just didn't want to make the mistake of trying to build a life and raise a family with a round heel girl.

Collimator

(1,639 posts)
11. Read the phrase in romance novels
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 04:17 PM
Nov 2019

and British detective series.

Also remember the expression, "no better than she should be." That one means that a given person behaves correctly in circumstances that can be observed by the community. But when the public eye is not present, the person makes no attempt at behaving honorably or virtuously.

Other expressions I have enjoyed, "Mutton dressed as lamb" or conversely, "Lamb dressed as mutton."

FakeNoose

(32,648 posts)
9. I think it went out of style after World War II
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 03:13 PM
Nov 2019

I did read "round heels" in books but I never heard anyone actually use that term in a conversation.

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
10. Yes, "a round-heeled woman".
Sat Nov 16, 2019, 03:30 PM
Nov 2019

Someone wrote an autobiography with that title relatively recently (~2005 or so, I think) about sexual adventures in mid-life.

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