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Thinking of doing a DNA test. Does any one have a (Original Post) doc03 Apr 2019 OP
Don't do it donkeypoofed Apr 2019 #1
A friend of mine actually found a daughter he doc03 Apr 2019 #3
I agree Sherman A1 Apr 2019 #13
Yep, read the contract California_Republic Apr 2019 #26
Dumb question: do you have to give them your real name? Hassin Bin Sober Apr 2019 #35
I think you could give them a fake name as long as they get paid donkeypoofed Apr 2019 #39
i did ancestry Demovictory9 Apr 2019 #2
Did 23andme safeinOhio Apr 2019 #4
I would just like to find my ancestors. I think doc03 Apr 2019 #6
Shows that but I was really surprise safeinOhio Apr 2019 #11
Yes, your insurance company is interested also. Cold War Spook Apr 2019 #37
I did 23and me teenagebambam Apr 2019 #5
I would love to know the update when it arrives artislife Apr 2019 #29
Family Tree catrose Apr 2019 #7
23&me Tech Apr 2019 #8
A married couple I know, found out they were 10 percent related. dewsgirl Apr 2019 #9
Ancestry. No big surprises, but we found some second cousins we didn't know about. The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2019 #10
they will sell your genetic data to anybody with enuff money. nt msongs Apr 2019 #12
I used Ancestry. llmart Apr 2019 #14
I did 23nMe mitch96 Apr 2019 #15
I used Ancestry.com. Results were spot on. COLGATE4 Apr 2019 #16
Several people have used them. They send a kit True Blue American Apr 2019 #23
I used ancestry. They said I was Irish. IrishEyes Apr 2019 #17
Irish True Blue American Apr 2019 #24
My family was from Galway, Mayo and Sligo in western Ireland. IrishEyes Apr 2019 #34
I decided on 23andMe, but I haven't done it yet, I'm trying to get my brother to do it with me Rhiannon12866 Apr 2019 #18
I did 23&me. Wish I had done it years ago bif Apr 2019 #19
I Did 23 & Me RobinA Apr 2019 #20
I used both 23 & me and Ancestry.com Fla Dem Apr 2019 #21
just be prepared for surprises..like family legends about your 'oranges' samnsara Apr 2019 #22
Here's something interesting from the CBC about those tests mockmonkey Apr 2019 #25
Ancestry ! stonecutter357 Apr 2019 #27
I'd consider it unsporting to any serial-killer relatives I might have Ron Obvious Apr 2019 #28
I did. We found a nephew, son of my deceased brother, whom no one knew about. SharonAnn Apr 2019 #30
I did 23 and Me and did find something odd, maybe even scandalous! MuseRider Apr 2019 #31
My good friend found out her father wasn't her father. Hassin Bin Sober Apr 2019 #36
That would be a shock MuseRider Apr 2019 #38
I've often suspected that these deals are part of a government plot..... lastlib Apr 2019 #32
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2019 #33

donkeypoofed

(2,187 posts)
1. Don't do it
Thu Apr 11, 2019, 06:59 PM
Apr 2019

Dont give something so personal to a faceless godless Corporation.

I suspect that people doing these tests might one day have health insurance denied because of what can be found in your DNA, ie future diseases and/or conditions. You should also know these companies sell your info (not your name, but sex, age and other info).

doc03

(35,349 posts)
3. A friend of mine actually found a daughter he
Thu Apr 11, 2019, 07:03 PM
Apr 2019

fathered in Korea back in the war. She came and visited him he was really happy to find he had a daughter. Another women I know that was adopted found her real mother.

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
13. I agree
Thu Apr 11, 2019, 07:31 PM
Apr 2019

I have done genealogy for years and while the DNA is all interesting, I'm not comfortable with the privacy issues.

safeinOhio

(32,690 posts)
11. Shows that but I was really surprise
Thu Apr 11, 2019, 07:24 PM
Apr 2019

At the diff. In genes with my brother. We only share 51.5 % of our genes. You get the standard pie chart. They find lots of 2nd, 3rd and 4the cousins and what states have the most of your living relatives.

teenagebambam

(1,592 posts)
5. I did 23and me
Thu Apr 11, 2019, 07:07 PM
Apr 2019

And have been happy with the results, except that there was nothing exciting or salacious in them like I was hoping. Just sent my husband’s test away - his mother was a black market adoptee so he knows nothing about her background.

 

artislife

(9,497 posts)
29. I would love to know the update when it arrives
Sat Apr 13, 2019, 01:19 PM
Apr 2019

He must be on pins and needles waiting. If I were him, I think I would do the test. Otherwise, nope. Though my brother did the test and found he had Neanderthal in his genetic make up. He is pretty liberal so I don't have too much faith in the test. LOL.

Tech

(1,771 posts)
8. 23&me
Thu Apr 11, 2019, 07:17 PM
Apr 2019

I have had some fun with it, especially as my sister also did it. I compared us, she turned out to be more irish. Hmmm.

llmart

(15,540 posts)
14. I used Ancestry.
Thu Apr 11, 2019, 07:37 PM
Apr 2019

I think the more people who participate in any one company, the more likely you are to get more results of possible connections.

I found some 3rd and 4th cousins and they had some interesting stories to tell. Likewise, I had some interesting details that they wanted to hear.

mitch96

(13,912 posts)
15. I did 23nMe
Thu Apr 11, 2019, 09:25 PM
Apr 2019

It just confirmed what the family told me. No big genetic anomalies to worry about.
I'm just waiting for the knock at the door............. DADDY!!!
now THAT would be a hoot.. or not..
m

True Blue American

(17,986 posts)
23. Several people have used them. They send a kit
Sat Apr 13, 2019, 10:01 AM
Apr 2019

For you to use, but results are mostly generic.

Rumors in my husbands family of native American. Finally tested by Doctor. Then research, found him, now have picture. Pigeon Forge area where the family settled in the 1600’s. He took wifes name because they could not buy a house then. Family has kept History. Hand written by each generation.

True Blue American

(17,986 posts)
24. Irish
Sat Apr 13, 2019, 10:04 AM
Apr 2019

County Cork, German, Hanover Germany.

Irish, came during the potato famine. German Grandparents to get away from the Kaiser. My Dad was the last of a big family. Farmers and Builders.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
34. My family was from Galway, Mayo and Sligo in western Ireland.
Thu Apr 25, 2019, 03:16 PM
Apr 2019

Most of my family came to the United States in the late 19th century. A lot of police officers in my family.

Rhiannon12866

(205,552 posts)
18. I decided on 23andMe, but I haven't done it yet, I'm trying to get my brother to do it with me
Fri Apr 12, 2019, 03:38 AM
Apr 2019

I read that if you're female, you'll get more information if you also have a close male relative. There's also a lot more discussion about this in the Ancestry/Genealogy Forum here.

Ancestry/Genealogy (Group)
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1156

bif

(22,722 posts)
19. I did 23&me. Wish I had done it years ago
Fri Apr 12, 2019, 09:29 AM
Apr 2019

When my father was still alive. He would have been surprised with the results. Glad I did it.

RobinA

(9,894 posts)
20. I Did 23 & Me
Fri Apr 12, 2019, 12:36 PM
Apr 2019

for myself and Ancestry for my mother. I have to say, I like the 23 product better. Both were very accurate as compared to the information we know. I like the way 23 gives you more info about where in the identified area your genes are most likely from. I also like the way 23 separates "Northwestern Europe" from the more specific categories.

Fla Dem

(23,693 posts)
21. I used both 23 & me and Ancestry.com
Fri Apr 12, 2019, 02:34 PM
Apr 2019

About the same as far as dna results.

Ancestry let's me know when a possible relationship is found. Just last month they found a possible 1st cousin on my Mother's side. That was weird as it would mean she had a younger brother or sister she didn't know about. I guess it would be possible if my grandfather had a fling and got someone pregnant, not a lot of birth control used back in the 50's. The person who signed up on Ancestry and was linked to me and my cousin who is also on Ancestry stated he was adopted.

They've also recently found a link to a 5th generation ancestor, who up to now I had been unable to find any information.

23 & me deals more with the scientific aspects of your genes/dna.

So I guess it depends on what you'e looking for.

samnsara

(17,623 posts)
22. just be prepared for surprises..like family legends about your 'oranges'
Fri Apr 12, 2019, 05:50 PM
Apr 2019

.....We did Ancestry.com but the basic plan doesnt give all the info they show on tv. That comes extra.

All our family just did it for fun. I NEVER follow up on connections. Ive gone 68 years not knowing these ppl I dont need to know them now lol.

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
28. I'd consider it unsporting to any serial-killer relatives I might have
Sat Apr 13, 2019, 01:02 PM
Apr 2019

No, the real reason was stated in the first post: I'd never trust these companies operating in a mostly unregulated arena with my most intimate, private information.

SharonAnn

(13,776 posts)
30. I did. We found a nephew, son of my deceased brother, whom no one knew about.
Sat Apr 13, 2019, 02:02 PM
Apr 2019

Not even my deceased brother.

Interesting thing is that it was through a cousin who got a match with high enough percentage to be a relative. So, he sent out an email asking if anyone in the family had been around the city where this person was born around the year he was born. My siblings and I went, yeah. That would be our brother. So I and one of my brothers did the 23 and me test, since that was what this relative had used, and sure enough. He was misidentified as a probable grandchild but that's about the same percentage as a niece or nephew. Since we knew he wasn't a grandchild, we figured nephew.

We contacted him, have had several email exchanges, and will see him at a family gathering in May. Sounds like a great young man. We told him about our brother and he said that the family knew him. Apparently he was in and out of their lives for several years. He was a hippy without a fixed abode so usually couch surfed at the homes of various acquaintance. Saw a picture of the young man and he definitely has same family characteristics.

MuseRider

(34,111 posts)
31. I did 23 and Me and did find something odd, maybe even scandalous!
Sat Apr 13, 2019, 02:44 PM
Apr 2019

I found a 3rd cousin and we were sharing things about that part of the family. I asked her about my Grandmother's youngest sister who died of rabies when she was 5 years old and she sent me a picture of that sister who died at 30 something, had married and moved away and had children. LOL. My Grandmother and her sisters and brothers told us all that same story, even my deceased mother thought that. Hmmmmm.

I like it, at my age I don't really care one way or the other what they know about me.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,330 posts)
36. My good friend found out her father wasn't her father.
Thu Apr 25, 2019, 03:33 PM
Apr 2019

It wasn’t that earthshaking because he was estranged and out of her life since childhood.

But it’s caused a lot of strife for the mom since she is in denial.

The funny part is the actual father is a big liberal who lives nearby in liberal Evanston IL. The rest of her family are all hardcore downstate Indiana Republicans.

lastlib

(23,251 posts)
32. I've often suspected that these deals are part of a government plot.....
Sun Apr 14, 2019, 12:53 PM
Apr 2019

...to get people's DNA data entered into their big databases for whatever nefarious purposes they have. I won't do it ever.

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