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Sunny Daze

(209 posts)
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 08:12 PM Aug 2018

Hi Everybody!

Guess I’m new here although it doesn’t feel that way because I’ve lurked for so long. You guys have been my place to come for more than a year now and you say many of the very things I’m thinking. It’s more than a little embarrassing to say I’m from and live in West Virginia. Please don’t hold it against me. It’s why I didn’t join here sooner. I loved my beautiful state until the last election. Now I’m ashamed of so many people, even some family members, though not immediate, and the hate that they spew. It makes me want to change my license plate when traveling to other states so no one will see it and think I may be one of them. Even thought about getting a Lock Him Up or similar bumper sticker to show I’m not a Trump supporter but fear my vehicle being vandalized, which I’m sure it would be in this state. Anyway, I’m thankful to be able to tell you there are some of us West Virginians who truly abhor Trump and all he stands for.

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Hi Everybody! (Original Post) Sunny Daze Aug 2018 OP
Welcome to DU! TexasTowelie Aug 2018 #1
Thank you and I know you're right! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #8
Hi Neighbor, and welcome to DU! Ohiogal Aug 2018 #2
You moved to Michigan am I right? N_E_1 for Tennis Aug 2018 #5
Thanks! I love all the encouraging voices on DU. Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #10
Welcome. I'm from Arkansas myself, the home of Tom F#&@n' Cotton. Arkansas Granny Aug 2018 #3
Thanks so much! I appreciate that! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #12
Please don't apologize... N_E_1 for Tennis Aug 2018 #4
Having grown up on the shores of Lake Michigan ... GeorgeGist Aug 2018 #11
It's still Great .... N_E_1 for Tennis Aug 2018 #20
Thanks so much and I will! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #16
Welcome to DU SallyHemmings Aug 2018 #6
Thank you! I need to learn how to do those. Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #17
Click on smilies and pick. N_E_1 for Tennis Aug 2018 #22
Got it, thank you so much! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #25
... N_E_1 for Tennis Aug 2018 #28
... Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #33
Don't be embarrassed, Vote MiniMe Aug 2018 #7
Thank you! I definitely vote. Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #18
Welcome AJT Aug 2018 #9
Thank you and yes, you sure do! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #19
Welcome to DU MustLoveBeagles Aug 2018 #13
Thanks so much! I really want to know how to make those things. I'm guessing it's an app? Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #21
Now I know, lol Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #27
Glad you figured it out MustLoveBeagles Aug 2018 #31
Oh wow, that's a lot of reading! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #34
Iowa - I got Ernst and Grassley who stopped Garland from SCOTUS rurallib Aug 2018 #14
Lol, now I don't feel as bad at all. Thanks! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #23
Sunny, glad you're opening up and sharing now. KY_EnviroGuy Aug 2018 #15
That is my hope as well Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #24
Welcome to DU 2naSalit Aug 2018 #26
Thank you so much...it sure is! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #29
Don't you dare to be embarrassed to be a West Virginian! Staph Aug 2018 #30
Lol, I should have said I'm embarrsssed Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #32
Welcome.. defacto7 Aug 2018 #35
Thank you! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #36
Welcome Sunny Daze The Polack MSgt Aug 2018 #37
Thanks for the warm welcome! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #40
From west of Columbus Ohio all the way to east Kansas The Polack MSgt Aug 2018 #42
Ok, got it...thanks! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #44
We welcome you!!! secondwind Aug 2018 #38
Thanks so much! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #41
This message was self-deleted by its author secondwind Aug 2018 #39
A lot of us live in very red states. TomSlick Aug 2018 #43
You're right and it's very helpful Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #45
Welcome Snellius Aug 2018 #46
Thank you! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #47
KONNICHIWA!! DU e yokoso! yuiyoshida Aug 2018 #48
Thanks so much' Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #49
Welcome! backtoblue Aug 2018 #50
Thanks! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #53
Welcome. sagesnow Aug 2018 #51
Thank you! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #54
West Virginia is beautiful. I've had some good times there gigging. Glamrock Aug 2018 #52
Thanks so much! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #55
Don't be ashamed of your state. BigmanPigman Aug 2018 #56
I realize now it's not just WV Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #57
Welcome Sunny Daze! Aristus Aug 2018 #58
Thank you so much! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #60
Don't feel bad...I'm in Florida... Mazeltov Cocktail Aug 2018 #59
Thank you! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #61
Welcome! We all need Sunny Daze here. pazzyanne Aug 2018 #62
Thank you...nice to meet you! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #63
My brother sent me here during my low point after THE election. pazzyanne Aug 2018 #66
Welcome to DU! You'll learn a lot by reading and posting here. CottonBear Aug 2018 #64
Thank so much! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #67
The Community Help Forum is the place to go: CottonBear Aug 2018 #70
Great, thanks for your help! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #72
west virginia was so pretty when i drove thru it yearsago. pansypoo53219 Aug 2018 #65
It is still a very beautiful state scenery wise Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #68
Hello Amsterdammer Aug 2018 #69
Thank you! Sunny Daze Aug 2018 #71

TexasTowelie

(112,489 posts)
1. Welcome to DU!
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 08:19 PM
Aug 2018

I think that nearly all of us have some stories about our friends and family that cause us some bewilderment.

Ohiogal

(32,104 posts)
2. Hi Neighbor, and welcome to DU!
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 08:24 PM
Aug 2018

Many of us live in red areas ... Don't be embarrassed ... It's always so encouraging to hear sane voices no matter where from!

Arkansas Granny

(31,534 posts)
3. Welcome. I'm from Arkansas myself, the home of Tom F#&@n' Cotton.
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 08:24 PM
Aug 2018

I know how you feel about your red state representation, but we won't hold that against you.

N_E_1 for Tennis

(9,786 posts)
4. Please don't apologize...
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 08:35 PM
Aug 2018

Michigan here.
This is one of the states that put that pustule in place.. we intend to drain that pus.

Just go for it.

GeorgeGist

(25,324 posts)
11. Having grown up on the shores of Lake Michigan ...
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 08:55 PM
Aug 2018

It's so sad what the Repukes have done to a once great state.

MiniMe

(21,719 posts)
7. Don't be embarrassed, Vote
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 08:47 PM
Aug 2018

I'm your neighbor in Maryland. W VA is a beautiful state. And I don't blame you at all for not wanting your car to be vandalized. Welcome to DU

MustLoveBeagles

(11,641 posts)
31. Glad you figured it out
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 09:52 PM
Aug 2018


I've been reading this site pretty much since the beginning. It took me about a decade and half to finally sign up. I'm pretty shy so it was a big step. It's good place to be.

Sunny Daze

(209 posts)
34. Oh wow, that's a lot of reading!
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 10:13 PM
Aug 2018

Thanks and I’m glad you’re here! Everyone seems so nice. BTW, I love beagles and most other dogs as well.

rurallib

(62,460 posts)
14. Iowa - I got Ernst and Grassley who stopped Garland from SCOTUS
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 09:01 PM
Aug 2018

and is now busting his bony ass to get Kavanaugh on.

there is plenty of embarrassment to spread around this country.

How's that for a welcome?

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,496 posts)
15. Sunny, glad you're opening up and sharing now.
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 09:02 PM
Aug 2018

Took me a while, too 'cause I'm shy and that's my personality type.

WV is beautiful regardless of its politics. I spent some time there on field service jobs and love your mountains and rivers.

Let's all hope that over time, we can swing our beloved South back where it belongs.......

Sunny Daze

(209 posts)
24. That is my hope as well
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 09:23 PM
Aug 2018

I used to be shy but it seems the older I get the more I’ve been able to step out of that. Thank you and I’m so glad you enjoyed your time here!

Staph

(6,253 posts)
30. Don't you dare to be embarrassed to be a West Virginian!
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 09:43 PM
Aug 2018

We've got a lot to be proud of, especially our teachers! I'm over near Huntington, so we're practically neighbors.


Sunny Daze

(209 posts)
32. Lol, I should have said I'm embarrsssed
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 09:58 PM
Aug 2018

at the way some West Virginians act and talk...especially at the Trump rallies and afterwards. I agree about our wonderful teachers and the mountains and scenery are gorgeous.

The Polack MSgt

(13,200 posts)
37. Welcome Sunny Daze
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 10:32 PM
Aug 2018

I was raised in Coal Country SW PA (12 mile from Wheeling) and currently I am living in corn country on the prairie

There are Dems out here and I'm glad to greet another one that found their way here

Sunny Daze

(209 posts)
40. Thanks for the warm welcome!
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 10:48 PM
Aug 2018

I think I’ve been by close to where you were raised but trying to place in my mind where corn country on the prairie would be.

The Polack MSgt

(13,200 posts)
42. From west of Columbus Ohio all the way to east Kansas
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 10:56 PM
Aug 2018

And from Southern Wisconsin down to Arkansas it is all CORN AND SOYBEANS as far as the eye can see...

In my case though I live in Southwest Illinois (IL 12)

Response to Sunny Daze (Original post)

TomSlick

(11,114 posts)
43. A lot of us live in very red states.
Mon Aug 27, 2018, 11:10 PM
Aug 2018

It is helpful to be able to share with Democrats across the county.

Enjoy the conversation.

yuiyoshida

(41,867 posts)
48. KONNICHIWA!! DU e yokoso!
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 12:52 PM
Aug 2018

Yui desu! Hajimemashite! Dozo Yoroshiku! ゆい です。 はじめまして。 どぞ よろしく!!

Nice to meet a new DUer!!

sagesnow

(2,824 posts)
51. Welcome.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 01:55 PM
Aug 2018

I'm from Iowa, the State of Steve King and Chuck Grassley so don't feel like you are the only one embarrassed by their State's representation. Only thing to do is work like heck to Get Out the Vote!

Glamrock

(11,802 posts)
52. West Virginia is beautiful. I've had some good times there gigging.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 02:09 PM
Aug 2018

You got nothing to apologize for Sunny. Glad to see ya here.

BigmanPigman

(51,638 posts)
56. Don't be ashamed of your state.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 02:58 PM
Aug 2018

There are deplorables everywhere. I live in blue CA (urban) but there are plenty of tRump lovers all around the city in rural areas. Duncan Hunter is up 8 points in the polls AFTER he was charged with financial corruption and AFTER he threw his wife under the bus.

Sunny Daze

(209 posts)
57. I realize now it's not just WV
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 03:50 PM
Aug 2018

Just don’t like him coming for all those hateful rallies because he has such a fan base here. I’ve been to California a couple times and loved it there. It’s unimaginable the corrupt things they are letting Hunter and actually all of them get by with and still supporting them like they are great people.

Aristus

(66,468 posts)
58. Welcome Sunny Daze!
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 03:58 PM
Aug 2018

It's so nice to hear from you and your point of view. WV is a beautiful state. I'm glad there are people like you living there.

Mazeltov Cocktail

(569 posts)
59. Don't feel bad...I'm in Florida...
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 05:19 PM
Aug 2018

Welcome to DU... All the crazies are in Florida because they can't go any further south.
Also, many other states try to steal our mantle of mental illness ( Arizona, I'm looking at you) but Florida is the one, the only, the sickest, the craziest, the most corrupt, the most bigoted but it is home...and West Virginia doesn't even come close. ..

Sunny Daze

(209 posts)
61. Thank you!
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 05:43 PM
Aug 2018

And here I hoped that Florida would be bursting with people from Puerto Rican’s wanting vengeance on Trump.

pazzyanne

(6,558 posts)
62. Welcome! We all need Sunny Daze here.
Tue Aug 28, 2018, 11:47 PM
Aug 2018

I'm a relatively new member who ran here for a friendly refuge after the 2016 election. It is now home and provides sanity in a world of insanity. Glad to have you on board.

Sunny Daze

(209 posts)
63. Thank you...nice to meet you!
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 05:55 AM
Aug 2018

Not too long after that election was when I also ran here to feel normal with my views. I was just much slower to sign up than you were. It has been great hearing everyone’s thoughts and opinions from the first time I lurked. On Facebook I had been reading the Occupy Democrats posts but they didn’t come fast enough so I did a search and was thankful to find you guys.

pazzyanne

(6,558 posts)
66. My brother sent me here during my low point after THE election.
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 07:31 AM
Aug 2018

I have never regretted being here. DU has been a blessing for me. Looking forward to hearing more from you.

CottonBear

(21,596 posts)
64. Welcome to DU! You'll learn a lot by reading and posting here.
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 06:15 AM
Aug 2018

Be sure to check out the groups and subcribe to your favorites. The computer group folks have provided super helpful advice to me over the years. I enjoy the escape from politics that many of the groups offer. Of course, then, there’s The Lounge for fun and games!

I, too live in a red state. Thankfully, I’m on a little blue island. Like you, there are many of us living in red areas. Stay strong, vote for Democrats in the 2018 midterms and GOTV in your area!

Hope to see you around! 😀

Sunny Daze

(209 posts)
67. Thank so much!
Wed Aug 29, 2018, 07:52 AM
Aug 2018

I appreciate the helpful advice and still have a lot to learn. Do you know if there is a place to go to see what things mean, for example +1 or +1000?

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