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Flame me if you will, but women today just don't cook like mom did! (Original Post) Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 OP
Appearance of actual TV Dinner may vary from illustration. mahatmakanejeeves Aug 2018 #1
LOl.. "Contents may vary" ..it may be Stew Wwcd Aug 2018 #9
Fried pies were awesome! 😋 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #20
People have no idea of what they are missing with real fried pies. tonyt53 Aug 2018 #51
And dusted with cinnamon and sugar! 😋 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #55
Oh hell yes!!!!! tonyt53 Aug 2018 #61
love it. i dont cook at all...i will fry bacon, spuds and eggs for breakfast but thats it... samnsara Aug 2018 #2
Jeez, Tell Me RobinA Aug 2018 #13
Almost as good as library paste! 😋 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #21
Suggest you meet some different women vlyons Aug 2018 #3
I'll have you know I can boil in the bag with the best of them! 😏 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #22
I agree, Butterflylady Aug 2018 #4
My grandmother was born in 1903 TlalocW Aug 2018 #18
Fast food at my house was when the old man threw the salt shaker at me! Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #23
Hahahaha! Glamrock Aug 2018 #38
Probably because Faux pas Aug 2018 #5
I thought I was deprived as a child since we never had these. Kittycow Aug 2018 #6
me too! I begged my mom and it was a big no. WhiteTara Aug 2018 #14
I only had when I ate a a friends house. Come to think of it, I was the only one who had one and Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #24
My mom woudn't allow Swanson anything MontanaMama Aug 2018 #7
Good for her! Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #25
No Soxfan58 Aug 2018 #8
👍🏻 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #41
We only ate these Ohiogal Aug 2018 #10
Damn! That's harsh! 😂 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #42
Millennial Cooks kurtcagle Aug 2018 #11
++Agree & Z gen will follow I believe . Has been trending for awhile men and women lunasun Aug 2018 #15
I must've been the boomer exception. Being the eldest of seven I learned to cook, clean, and mend Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #43
Where's the brownie? Frustratedlady Aug 2018 #12
that was one old brownie! WhiteTara Aug 2018 #16
Lmao...the brownie was always the best part of the fried chicken dinner!! Docreed2003 Aug 2018 #17
Or the "apple pie." I loved the Salisbury steak! Squinch Aug 2018 #27
Wasn't there cherry pie with the Turkey? Glamrock Aug 2018 #39
We never had brownies! 😢 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #44
TV dinner is the meal that I'm lovin'. Take off the foil, 30 minutes in the oven Brother Buzz Aug 2018 #19
Nice! 👍🏻 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #45
That's what we ate all right, but mom was never dressed remotely like that flibbitygiblets Aug 2018 #26
Likely the most popular mom in the neighborhood. Amongst the preadolescent males anyway! 😏 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #46
Yep, and the post-adolescents too. flibbitygiblets Aug 2018 #63
Every single day, you crack me up! PJMcK Aug 2018 #28
My pleasure! Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #47
Those were good! Freddie Aug 2018 #29
a treat in our house too KT2000 Aug 2018 #37
True about nuked food! 🤢 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #48
We had these once in awhile. The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2018 #30
I grew to appreciate Brussels sprouts! Especially with bacon and horseradish sauce! 😋 Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #49
When I grew up I thought I might like Brussels sprouts if they were cooked differently. The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2018 #50
I love sprouts...with butter...I have to try your version... AncientGeezer Aug 2018 #62
I don't cook like I did when I was Mom The Blue Flower Aug 2018 #31
Yep! Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #58
My mother's cooking was so bad that PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2018 #32
My mother hated to cook and her cooking reflected it kimbutgar Aug 2018 #54
Cool! Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #59
I remember those TV dinners. lapfog_1 Aug 2018 #33
And some weren't half bad, Floyd R. Turbo Aug 2018 #60
My sister's 14 year old grandson loves to cook and bake. Delmette2.0 Aug 2018 #34
I too was d_r Aug 2018 #35
"Mystery Meat are you ready for your Mystery Meat" Boxerfan Aug 2018 #36
I live alone now... zanana1 Aug 2018 #40
That is when TV dinners were actually tasty. Now, not so much. GemDigger Aug 2018 #52
We only got to eat TV dinners when our parents went out and we had a baby-sitter. Laffy Kat Aug 2018 #53
The only frozen dinners we ever had Bayard Aug 2018 #56
An abomination!! LeftInTX Aug 2018 #57
Let me just say, I'm thankful my wife doesn't cook like my Mom did.... Xolodno Aug 2018 #64

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,459 posts)
1. Appearance of actual TV Dinner may vary from illustration.
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 01:21 PM
Aug 2018

I went to school near Crozet, Virginia, which is where Morton Frozen Foods had one of its manufacturing plants. We would stop at the factory store and stock up on chicken pot pies and those little single servings of fruit pies for like ten cents each. Man, we ate well back then.

Morton Frozen Foods

Morton Frozen Foods is the brand name of a now-discontinued line of frozen foods, including honey buns, jelly donuts, and pot pies, that was distributed nationwide in the United States for almost 50 years. It was ultimately acquired by ConAgra Foods.

History

In 1940, Harold Morton began making a chicken and noodle dish sold in glass jars in Louisville, Kentucky. The business transitioned to frozen foods after World War II, and the product line expanded to pot pies and dessert pastries. The manufacturing plant relocated to Crozet, Virginia, in Albemarle County and Webster City, Iowa.

Morton Frozen Foods' ownership changed several times. Its owners would include the Continental Baking Company, Del Monte (which itself was a division of R.J. Reynolds), and finally ConAgra Foods, which shut down the Crozet plant in 2000.
 

tonyt53

(5,737 posts)
51. People have no idea of what they are missing with real fried pies.
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 02:03 PM
Aug 2018

Apples dried on white sheets laying the yard. Peaches done the same way. Fried in lard!

samnsara

(17,622 posts)
2. love it. i dont cook at all...i will fry bacon, spuds and eggs for breakfast but thats it...
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 01:21 PM
Aug 2018

...hubby does all the rest of the cooking. he enjoys it!


I can still taste those tv dinner spuds... yum.

RobinA

(9,893 posts)
13. Jeez, Tell Me
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 01:40 PM
Aug 2018

My sister and I couldn't get enough of those Swanson mashed potatoes. I can still taste them!!

Butterflylady

(3,543 posts)
4. I agree,
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 01:24 PM
Aug 2018

Born in the late 40's, my grandmother never had fast food or take out so 3 meals a day was how it was, and a lot women also were not in the work force.

TlalocW

(15,383 posts)
18. My grandmother was born in 1903
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 02:32 PM
Aug 2018

When she got married she lived on a farm in Kansas until she couldn't live on her own anymore. At that point, she moved in with an aunt (whose children had already moved out) who moved to my hometown so mom could help support her as well. She really didn't need any help other than being driven to doctor appointments, etc. and still did a ton of cooking every week and especially over holidays. There were a few times we all went out to nice sit-down restaurants, but for the most part it was still homecooking for her. There was a funny story though where she took her only plane trip out to California to visit another daughter who has a small avocado grove on her property. She and her husband took grandma out for tacos for the first time, and they were, "just the best things ever."

TlalocW

Floyd R. Turbo

(26,547 posts)
24. I only had when I ate a a friends house. Come to think of it, I was the only one who had one and
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 05:21 PM
Aug 2018

I had to eat it on the back porch!

MontanaMama

(23,315 posts)
7. My mom woudn't allow Swanson anything
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 01:30 PM
Aug 2018

into her house. That said, we learned to cook early and it kind of became competitive with the women in my family. My mom was a fabulous self taught cook. My sister is a trained chef and I learned from the two of them. That said...portion sizes were a bit more reasonable back then...there's that.

Ohiogal

(32,000 posts)
10. We only ate these
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 01:34 PM
Aug 2018

in instances such as if my mom was sick with the flu and couldn't be propped up in front of the stove.

kurtcagle

(1,603 posts)
11. Millennial Cooks
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 01:37 PM
Aug 2018

In general, women Boomers and GenXers neither cooked or sewed as much as their mothers (and men, almost not at all). Part of this was simply the easier availability of "fast food", but the desire (and eventually the near requirement) that both parents worked often meant that they simply had less time for cooking and often had much smaller groups to cook for (my mother was born on a farm, and was used to feeding 5-6 farmhands in addition to her own family).

Millennials (male and female) seem to be bucking this trend. Part of it is less money, part of it is that cooking shows, such as Iron Chef, made cooking cool. You see the same thing on the sewing side - there are far more Millennial women (and men) who engaged pretty heavily in cosplay, and who now consequently are quite competent around a sewing machine. Cooking and sewing shows on Youtube are some of the most heavily watched.

Floyd R. Turbo

(26,547 posts)
43. I must've been the boomer exception. Being the eldest of seven I learned to cook, clean, and mend
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 11:30 AM
Aug 2018

at an early age!

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
12. Where's the brownie?
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 01:38 PM
Aug 2018

I actually picked up a Swanson TV chicken dinner a month or so ago and the brownie tasted just the same as in the 60s.

The kids couldn't wait for us to go to a movie because they knew they would get a Swanson chicken dinner.

Brother Buzz

(36,434 posts)
19. TV dinner is the meal that I'm lovin'. Take off the foil, 30 minutes in the oven
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 04:27 PM
Aug 2018

Get a loada'
RC Cola
TV Dinner
A plate of Twinkies
It takes a pink burrito
For to keep me clean

flibbitygiblets

(7,220 posts)
26. That's what we ate all right, but mom was never dressed remotely like that
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 06:12 PM
Aug 2018

Think blonde bouffant, leopard miniskirt and white gogo boots.

Freddie

(9,266 posts)
29. Those were good!
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 06:18 PM
Aug 2018

Mom was an OK cook but the Swanson TV dinners were a treat. Especially the yummy fried chicken and the mashed potatoes that got a little brown on the bottom in those aluminum trays...mmm. Today’s microwave frozen meals in the plastic are mostly yuck.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,705 posts)
30. We had these once in awhile.
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 06:27 PM
Aug 2018

We kids thought of them as a treat, which Mom found insulting since she was a good cook. However, she did try to make us eat Brussels sprouts sometimes. We much preferred TV dinners to Brussels sprouts.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,705 posts)
50. When I grew up I thought I might like Brussels sprouts if they were cooked differently.
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 02:00 PM
Aug 2018

So people said roast them with olive oil, some other suggestions. So I tried those other cooking methods but they were still terrible and I still hate Brussels sprouts. Even bacon can't save them. And I also hate horseradish.

Sorry...

 

AncientGeezer

(2,146 posts)
62. I love sprouts...with butter...I have to try your version...
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 06:40 PM
Aug 2018

Drool is running out of my face....how did I miss this variation?

The Blue Flower

(5,442 posts)
31. I don't cook like I did when I was Mom
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 06:30 PM
Aug 2018

I used to make everything from scratch. Now that they're grown and gone, and I'm living alone, just don't feel like it anymore.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,858 posts)
32. My mother's cooking was so bad that
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 06:35 PM
Aug 2018

when I first had airline food I thought it was terrific!

Mom had little interest in cooking and no aptitude for it. I started doing serious cooking around the time I turned five. Unfortunately, for a long time I wasn't a very good cook myself because I'd essentially learned from her. Eventually I learned that there were more seasonings than salt and pepper, or that you didn't have to fry a porkchop for thirty minutes. I'm now high end chef, but I'm a decent cook and mostly like doing it.

kimbutgar

(21,153 posts)
54. My mother hated to cook and her cooking reflected it
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 02:21 PM
Aug 2018

She would make a big pot of something and we’d have those left overs for days. By the 3 or 4th days it was dry from being over heated. I myself developed an aversion to leftovers which my husband broke me of years ago. He insisted I make enough for two dinners so we would have the leftover the following week. Now I’m ok with it as I have some weeks where I only have to cook one meal.

Both my sister and I are better cooks than our late mother.

And I also loved those special times I got those frozen TV dinners.

Delmette2.0

(4,165 posts)
34. My sister's 14 year old grandson loves to cook and bake.
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 06:52 PM
Aug 2018

I taught him his great grandmother's doughnut recipe and he taught me eggplant parmesan. We had a blast that day. And agreed to share recipes over the next year and more when he come back next July.

I have my Mother's Betty Crocker cookbook from the late 1940's. Cooking and baking was very different back then. One guess who gets that cookbook someday.

Boxerfan

(2,533 posts)
36. "Mystery Meat are you ready for your Mystery Meat"
Wed Aug 15, 2018, 07:23 PM
Aug 2018

That was a song we altered for those dinners....ZZ said it right about the blue turkey.


And I ALWAYS get burned with the fried chicken. No meat-gristle deformed crap whatever. Gave up on them but the picture sure looked nice. And the biscuit brownie-hockey puck quality but a decent chew if you appreciate such things.

zanana1

(6,121 posts)
40. I live alone now...
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 08:26 AM
Aug 2018

My husband died last year and for awhile, I just sat around and didn't feel like doing anything. I used to cook a hot lunch and dinner for him. After a while, it dawned on me that I didn't have to cook anymore, at least on a schedule, and now I eat when I'm hungry and I very rarely cook. Those frozen dinners taste good to me!

Laffy Kat

(16,381 posts)
53. We only got to eat TV dinners when our parents went out and we had a baby-sitter.
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 02:17 PM
Aug 2018

They were such a treat, LOL!

Bayard

(22,075 posts)
56. The only frozen dinners we ever had
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 02:42 PM
Aug 2018

Potpies before church on Sunday evenings. You had to hurry and eat so we could make it on time. Loved the potpies, hated church.

Xolodno

(6,395 posts)
64. Let me just say, I'm thankful my wife doesn't cook like my Mom did....
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 10:54 PM
Aug 2018

...or her Mom.

I like to cook, don't have the time mostly. So my wife has learned to cook from me. If its bad, I screwed up.

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