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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsConfession. I just started wearing women's panties.
I'm a straight male. But these are so much more comfortable than men's underwear. Why didn't I make the conversion a long time ago? Anyone else with me here?
Freddie
(9,273 posts)My daughter wears them. They can't possibly be comfortable.
bif
(22,746 posts)TexasBushwhacker
(20,214 posts)patricia92243
(12,601 posts)Lochloosa
(16,068 posts)left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)I like the extra room of boxers.
AnnieBW
(10,457 posts)On the style. I tend to like the "boy shorts" type of underwear because it prevents chub rub. Either way, wear what you want, dude.
bif
(22,746 posts)3catwoman3
(24,045 posts)...OP is serious or yanking our chains.
Commando is the only way to go under jeans, for me - can't ever find panties that stay in place and it is a real pain in the ass, literally, when they ride up.
When commando isn't appropriate, the longer bike short style works best. They stay down where they are supposed to be.
As for thongs - no way in hell. The only thongs you will find me wearing are the ones that go between your toes.
bif
(22,746 posts)I don't understand why they don't make men's underwear as comfortable as women's.
Laffy Kat
(16,386 posts)I will use this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to ask something I've always wondered: How many guys actually use the trap door/short-cut on their underpants when they have to pee? Do guys actually use them or just pull their pants down? I bet a lot of women want to know the answer--or not.
FSogol
(45,526 posts)It is very convenient. No one would drop their drawers in public. Now there is a little button there on some boxers. That never gets used.
mythology
(9,527 posts)His pants weren't down at his knees, but at least 3/4s of his ass was showing.
Personally I've never used the opening, I just unzip, pull the top of the boxers down and go from there.
Locrian
(4,522 posts)Just pull the top down or leg hole!
Too much fumbling around with the overlapping flap bs
LuckyCharms
(17,458 posts)3/4 inches down a freaking leg hole?
LuckyCharms
(17,458 posts)LuckyCharms
(17,458 posts)and cut a huge hole in the front of their underwear. So the flap is cut out.
LuckyCharms
(17,458 posts)and poop through it.
LuckyCharms
(17,458 posts)Squinch
(51,007 posts)LuckyCharms
(17,458 posts)3catwoman3
(24,045 posts)Threading a penis thru that fabric maze seems like it would be a lot of effort.
brush
(53,868 posts)engineered all wrong.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)My guess is his likes their "containment." If you know what I mean...
NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)I wear the same.
brush
(53,868 posts)With Jockeys, pardon the expression, most men just go over the top.
trackfan
(3,650 posts)Otherwise, nope.
All to often when I have to go, I have to go! At that point there is no time for pulling through a puzzle..
Gidney N Cloyd
(19,847 posts)I wear Jockey Pouch style briefs and sometimes when you're done and retracting through the pouch opening you can cause a drip-- sometimes a significant one.
I can diagram that if anyone wants...
Laffy Kat
(16,386 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)I usually just put my foot up on the urinal and pull up the cuff on my pant leg a bit.
Laffy Kat
(16,386 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Laffy Kat
(16,386 posts)Ok- I have been on DU since 06 and this is by far the oddest thread I have ever seen here.
Bravo to the OP, very weird thread but it brought about a much needed laugh. Thank you and Keep on Truckin with your choice of wardrobe!
Personally I have never used that opening. I wish that they would not put it on briefs. It is a complete waste of mfg time and material.
Cant stand boxers...maybe if my pants/shorts were baggier (not sure if that is a word but Im gonna use it) so that the extra material on boxers would not bunch up around my leg I would.
🙂
LuckyCharms
(17,458 posts)and I always forget to drop my underwear.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)by wearing them inside out. No seam to run across the butt.
For some reason, all seams started bothering me in more recent years. Even the so called seamless underwear have at least one seam along the rear. It finally hit me one day just to turn them inside out and now all the smooth stuff is next to my skin.
fleur-de-lisa
(14,628 posts)And my undies always have a tag in the back inside. So wearing them inside-out keeps me from feeling both the tag and the seams.
bif
(22,746 posts)Thanks for the tip!
bif
(22,746 posts)Thanks!
I do this as well. I hate the seam and it has pretty much been the same size (width wise) all my life. One would think that material and sowing advancements would made it possible to make it half its width.
3catwoman3
(24,045 posts)...underpants is sometimes called "Y fronts"?
Funtatlaguy
(10,886 posts)Too shy?
Funtatlaguy
(10,886 posts)To panties.
Shouldnt we see a pic of you in them.
You dont have to include a head shot. For privacy protection.
Just waist down.
bif
(22,746 posts)Even my wife doesn't know.
Funtatlaguy
(10,886 posts)Im just glad that you now have a happy home for the frank and beans.
Hang loose. Or tight. Or whatever turns your crank.
You just cant talk about this subject without sounding dirty.
NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)She'll never buy the "comfort" thing.
stonecutter357
(12,697 posts)Doodley
(9,126 posts)No need to confess. I wear whatever works best. Can't wear boxers, and anything loose pulls in the wrong places and can cause pain. So I agree with the OP.
The material/cotton they use in women's underwear is so much more comfortable it's amazing.
Ilsa
(61,698 posts)Hikers wear synthetic because it dries faster and is less irritating to the skin. Cotton is hot on the crotch.
GReedDiamond
(5,316 posts)...a man a MAN.
Get used to it.
(insert sarcasm emoji HERE)
mahatmakanejeeves
(57,607 posts)bif
(22,746 posts)A women's large fits perfectly.
bif
(22,746 posts)bif
(22,746 posts)Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)Codeine
(25,586 posts)Cant stand splashing smelly piss into a bowl from two feet up.
When at a urinal I just pull down the front of my boxer briefs and flip Natures Bounty over the top. But in the main I avoid urinals (and public restrooms in general) like the plague. Id rather hold it all day.
mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)Only time I pee standing up is when I'm outside or don't trust the seat for whatever reason ... at HOME? I always sit. Why not?
Mosby
(16,350 posts)They are sinfully soft, made out of Pima cotton.
Pima Cotton, right on.
I will keep an eye out for that. Thanks
applegrove
(118,778 posts)Ilsa
(61,698 posts)applegrove
(118,778 posts)the best deal in things like that that are priced at a premium for females. I'll splurge on other things.
bif
(22,746 posts)applegrove
(118,778 posts)than the fancy female razor system last time I looked 25 years ago.
Kaleva
(36,343 posts)Demovictory9
(32,475 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(11,634 posts)I don't think most of us will judge you for this. However it might not be a good idea to keep it from your wife. She might find a pair and think you're cheating on her.
mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)I wear it when I go to the doctors office or working in the yard in shorts ... and that's pretty much it.
Not my thing ...
bif
(22,746 posts)To see if there are any other guys who do the same.
Solly Mack
(90,787 posts)I steal my husband's boxers all the time. I buy my own - and I still steal his.
mentalsolstice
(4,461 posts)If you dont mind, what kind of panties do you like to wear? My friends and I have grumbled for years about finding comfortable underwear. And I would think what is uncomfortable for us, would be especially uncomfortable for your boys. In my middle age I have finally settled on boy shorts.
Oh, and I agree with others, you really need to tell your wife. I can imagine all kinds of disastrous scenarios if you dont.
bif
(22,746 posts)I bought an 8-pack at Costco.
mac56
(17,574 posts)"How long have you been wearing women's panties?"
"Since my wife found a pair in the glove compartment."
bif
(22,746 posts)Bok_Tukalo
(4,323 posts)Bleh. I need the gold bar and jewels securely in place.
dameatball
(7,399 posts)Mike Nelson
(9,967 posts)
I like the men's. I wear boxers for baggy and briefs for tighter pants. I never use the flap hole for briefs, but sometimes boxers are useable... it's really not easy. I just lower them.
yonder
(9,674 posts)Uh..oh,uh...
Boxer briefs for me, over the top to pee.
bif
(22,746 posts)Crabby Appleton
(5,231 posts)They remind me of a cheap hotel -
No ballroom.