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Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
Wed Jun 1, 2016, 08:52 PM Jun 2016

"If We Want to Combat the Violence, We Must Invest in Our Children"

Interesting interview with a very bright woman regarding the truth about poor communities. Worth a listen. It reinforces the need for a moral economy.

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"If We Want to Combat the Violence, We Must Invest in Our Children" (Original Post) Gregorian Jun 2016 OP
Here is some "free" investment tips. Elmergantry Jun 2016 #1
What makes you think that these parents are not already doing that? PotatoChip Jun 2016 #2
lets see... Elmergantry Jun 2016 #3
What does Cleveland have to do with this? PotatoChip Jun 2016 #4
air conditioning will combat violence? Elmergantry Jun 2016 #5
There was no air conditioning in my daughter's school as well. But she didn't need it. PotatoChip Jun 2016 #6
how did kids learn in maryland before ac Elmergantry Jun 2016 #8
Question: ReRe Jun 2016 #12
Answer. Elmergantry Jun 2016 #13
Come on... ReRe Jun 2016 #14
not sure Elmergantry Jun 2016 #15
Because victim blaming... ReRe Jun 2016 #16
who was i blaming? Elmergantry Jun 2016 #17
I heard you blaming the parents... ReRe Jun 2016 #18
kids can learn in heat Elmergantry Jun 2016 #19
I'm not going to alert on you... ReRe Jun 2016 #20
Well Bless Your Little Heart..NT Elmergantry Jun 2016 #21
No, because broken adults can't raise children who will fix their problems for them. Gotta jtuck004 Jun 2016 #7
true Elmergantry Jun 2016 #9
The parents in this video don't appear to be "broken". surrealAmerican Jun 2016 #10
It's a little bigger than just that picture. For example, we have a whole nation of lazy-ass adults jtuck004 Jun 2016 #11
 

Elmergantry

(884 posts)
1. Here is some "free" investment tips.
Thu Jun 2, 2016, 07:26 AM
Jun 2016

All of these can be done by the parent(s)

1. know where your kids are and what they are doing.

2. Make sure they do their homework and graduate from high school. Teach then the key to escaping poverty is education; vocational or college. Not drugs or other such criminality.

3.Teach them right from wrong - Church is strongly advised - and that there are consequences to actions and choices made.

4.Teach them to respect and to be respectable.

5.Teach them to work; to not be afraid of getting ones hands dirty.


Amazing results can happen without one dime of taxpayer money.

PotatoChip

(3,186 posts)
2. What makes you think that these parents are not already doing that?
Thu Jun 2, 2016, 07:49 AM
Jun 2016

The 5 things you listed, I mean... Where is the evidence for your assumptions?

For all I know these parents could, and perhaps even should be giving YOU tips on how to raise children. (If you are currently raising kids).



PotatoChip

(3,186 posts)
4. What does Cleveland have to do with this?
Thu Jun 2, 2016, 08:05 AM
Jun 2016

Air conditioning for Baltimore schools is the topic of the report.

 

Elmergantry

(884 posts)
5. air conditioning will combat violence?
Thu Jun 2, 2016, 08:12 AM
Jun 2016

Really? No air in my school nor my kids...funny no violence problems

PotatoChip

(3,186 posts)
6. There was no air conditioning in my daughter's school as well. But she didn't need it.
Thu Jun 2, 2016, 08:28 AM
Jun 2016

These children do. Maryland summers are very hot and muggy.

Basic maintenance, along with air conditioning for schools in that region is not an unreasonable allocation of their tax dollars. It's ridiculous that they even have to request it, let alone protest the lack of funding.

 

Elmergantry

(884 posts)
15. not sure
Fri Jun 3, 2016, 09:08 AM
Jun 2016

How thinking poor parenting leads to violence more than a lack of ac means i am not a democrat

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
16. Because victim blaming...
Fri Jun 3, 2016, 11:02 AM
Jun 2016

... is just one of those things Democrats don't do. Lack of empathy. Inability to see things from someone else's view. Can't walk a mile in someone else's shoes. Do you have any idea what I'm talking about?

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
18. I heard you blaming the parents...
Fri Jun 3, 2016, 02:14 PM
Jun 2016

... and what the eff do you have against kids having an air conditioned school? How well is a kid going to learn in a hot environment?

 

Elmergantry

(884 posts)
19. kids can learn in heat
Fri Jun 3, 2016, 05:01 PM
Jun 2016

I did. Yes i blame feral parents for feral children. Empathy doesnt involve making excuses.

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
20. I'm not going to alert on you...
Fri Jun 3, 2016, 05:23 PM
Jun 2016

... but you are NO Democrat. You are disgusting. Your heart is stone. And I want nothing else to do with your trolling. I am going to silence you though. I hope you come to your senses before karma catches up to you.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
7. No, because broken adults can't raise children who will fix their problems for them. Gotta
Thu Jun 2, 2016, 08:35 AM
Jun 2016

fix the adults first.

surrealAmerican

(11,361 posts)
10. The parents in this video don't appear to be "broken".
Thu Jun 2, 2016, 09:45 AM
Jun 2016

They look like parents who are trying their best to make the schools better serve their children and their neighbors' children. What happens if they fail?

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
11. It's a little bigger than just that picture. For example, we have a whole nation of lazy-ass adults
Thu Jun 2, 2016, 12:01 PM
Jun 2016

burning their world up, who have heated their homes, used coal and petroleum to excess, and are killing their planet. Instead of changing their behavior, they march around with signs as if anything else is more important, and say we need to fix things for the kids.

How are the kids supposed to learn from a bunch of broken adults who haven't the backbone to live like they are telling their kids they will have to? They will hand the kids a burnt up rock with a bunch of dead coral and not enough ability to sustain the life they brought and say "Here ya go".

Before the financial crisis, we had 25 million people on food stamps. Now we have near 50 million, and more people in poverty than we started with. Yet we have enriched bank$ter/jihadists beyond all belief. Didn't have to - could have taken the hit, put the criminals in jail - but it might have cost the wealthy some productivity, some money, and the adults in the room didn't have the guts to do the honorable thing. And we know now that the odds of those families getting out of poverty are now worse than they ever have been, and their kids will be their too. And we left them there with our policy decisions. The ones with not enough food? They will NEVER develop in the way they could have if they had just basic nutrition - what will that cost us all later? But we vote for people who cut their relief.


The "kids are the future" argument is mostly bs, adults trying to escape responsibility. The kids, if they live, are gonna spit on our graves.

The problem to be fixed is now, not later. Us, not "them".




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