Why the #MeToo Miss USA pageant worked so well: Claiming pageants and women's empowerment are incomp
Why the #MeToo Miss USA pageant worked so well: Claiming pageants and women's empowerment are incompatible is absurd
By S.E. Cupp
Why the #MeToo Miss USA pageant worked so well: Claiming pageants and women's empowerment are incompatible is absurd
Miss Nebraska Sarah Rose Summers, 2018 Miss USA (Matt Sullivan/Getty Images)
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Hours after Monday night's Miss USA pageant crowned Miss Nebraska Sarah Rose Summers the winner, USA Today posted scathing commentary from Carly Mallenbaum, who called the event "a cringeworthy contest that went, no joke, straight from a heels-and-bikini competition into a montage of contestants talking about when they've experienced assault." She continues, aghast: "Later, there was a video of contestants reciting Maya Angelou's inspirational 'Phenomenal Woman' poem, all while appearing to pose for a glossy photo shoot, barefoot in a pond." And her final death blow: "It's as if producers thought that the inclusion of questions about marches and sexual violence would translate into an empowering affair."
Actually, they thought correctly. Reciting the inspirational words of poets like Angelou, including questions about sexual violence as well as a very powerful and moving video montage of contestants sharing their sexual harassment and assault stories all did in fact translate into an empowering affair. It was the first time in the history of the pageant which, let's remember, was owned by none other than Donald Trump from 1996 to 2015 in which a question on sexual assault had its own segment.
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The problem appears to be that these women were addressing sexual harassment while in the midst of a "heels-and-bikini competition." For Mallenbaum, that is somehow incongruous. To me, that's a very dangerous assertion. The presumption that women in heels and a bikini can't also share their experiences with sexual harassment is based on one of two things: they aren't qualified to; or, they are ascribed some kind of complicity in their harassment for competing in beauty pageants, or dressing a certain way, or acting a certain way. Suggesting their message shouldn't be taken seriously in the context of a beauty contest is not only absurd, it's offensive.
This is, in fact, a perfect place to have this conversation. These are women who voluntarily participate in these competitions that they, by most accounts, find rewarding, and are then subjected to dismissive criticisms by both men and women for cheaply objectifying themselves. Tell that to last year's Miss America, Cara Mund, a graduate of Brown University. Or Diane Sawyer, a former "America's Junior Miss." Or Oprah Winfrey, 1972's Miss Black Tennessee. But more importantly, many of these women have themselves been victimized at this very pageant. A number of previous contestants have accused Trump and others of inappropriate behavior and harassment in prior years. Ignoring #metoo would have meant ignoring a big part of the pageant's own troubled past. Instead it had the contestants tackle it head on, sharing their intimate stories in powerful ways.
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http://www.nydailynews.com/opinion/metoo-usa-pageant-worked-article-1.4003979
genxlib
(5,530 posts)SE Cupp is allowed to have her opinion. I am allowed to have my opinion that her opinion is tainted by all the millions of other ways that she undermines women.
As a middle aged white guy, my opinion about how these women feel about pageants may be irrelevant
As a full blooded hetero guy I can say this. I have great appreciation of the beauty and form of women. No doubt, this pageant format presents many women with attributes that I would appreciate. The problem is that it makes me feel like a total creep. The parade of women in an atmosphere meant to judge them on these attributes just makes my skin crawl. I can't stand them because it makes me feel like a horrible person.
Carry on if you want to participate in them but I want no part of it.
Don't get me started on children's pageant's. If I feel creepy because women get put on display you can imagine how I feel about the children.
niyad
(113,527 posts)as you said, cupp is entitled to her opinion. but I thought the article, the combination, was interesting. frankly, I do not think there is ANY place that is not appropriate for #MeToo.
the junior pageants?? beyond disgusting. I understand there are programs that focus n them ""toddlers and tiaras" or some such)
I had a friend who ran one of those, and she was well acquainted with JonBonet and Patsy Ramsey. that was my introduction to the junior pageants. UGH.
genxlib
(5,530 posts)Any time and any place is OK by me to bring sunshine onto a dark topic. Even if it is a bit of a paradox.
Perhaps some of those guys who don't find the pageants creepy will get a clue that women don't exist for their pleasure.