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rdking647

(5,113 posts)
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 02:35 PM Sep 2014

Ravens terminate Ray Rice's deal

Source: espn

The Baltimore Ravens terminated running back Ray Rice's contract on Monday, hours after TMZ Sports released a video showing him punching his then-fiancée in the face in an Atlantic City hotel elevator in February

Read more: http://espn.go.com/nfl/story/_/id/11489134/baltimore-ravens-cut-ray-rice-new-video-surfaces



after watching teh video,rice should be in jail for assault
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Ravens terminate Ray Rice's deal (Original Post) rdking647 Sep 2014 OP
Abso-fucking-lutely should be in jail for assault. Lucky Luciano Sep 2014 #1
TERMINATED ON TWITTER! big_dog Sep 2014 #2
that's just plain vicious heaven05 Sep 2014 #13
NFL suspended him indefinitely 840high Sep 2014 #45
Counselling isn't going to help this Criminal warrant46 Sep 2014 #65
yeah sure, if you say so heaven05 Sep 2014 #70
The Judge belongs behind the Striped sunshine too warrant46 Sep 2014 #71
didn't she marry him NewJeffCT Sep 2014 #4
It's an abusive relationship underpants Sep 2014 #27
That's what I figured NewJeffCT Sep 2014 #31
The state will pick up the charges. DocMac Sep 2014 #33
I am a woman, and I know women Ruby the Liberal Sep 2014 #42
WHen you marry for money, you work for it elehhhhna Sep 2014 #76
Seems she already is being subjected to "blame the victim" shit. calimary Sep 2014 #73
She married him a month after this happened. OnlinePoker Sep 2014 #5
Perhaps she'll rethink it now that he's not worth $44M. She might have stayed for the baby's catbyte Sep 2014 #63
Here's her complete denial of the truth warrant46 Sep 2014 #66
Oh, brother. I'm sure that's not the first time she's been assaulted, either. catbyte Sep 2014 #67
The Disease of Co-Dependance is sometimes dismissed warrant46 Sep 2014 #68
Someone's got to file a complaint against him jeff47 Sep 2014 #20
Yes...depends on the state Lucky Luciano Sep 2014 #22
he was charged with felony assault rdking647 Sep 2014 #38
I didn't know he negotiated a plea. Thanks DocMac Sep 2014 #51
Also, isn't it that you can force spouses to testify against each other? tammywammy Sep 2014 #41
The video has been OUT for a while - the NFL (and the Ravens) were too busy covering their LibGranny Sep 2014 #58
I'm just wondering how the a-holes thought she got knocked out in the first video tabasco Sep 2014 #59
They needed to see the video because he lied. AMAR0113 Sep 2014 #61
No, they didn't believe him tabasco Sep 2014 #74
I agree ann--- Sep 2014 #3
Really. Isn't this evidence of a crime?? Is there a time limit to file a charge? nt 7962 Sep 2014 #9
Yes, if I were on a jury ann--- Sep 2014 #26
He was put into a pre-trial diversion program. Not quite the same as a guilty plea, but close enough nomorenomore08 Sep 2014 #62
If she doesn't press charges, no one will. jeff47 Sep 2014 #21
In my state (Ga), if there's evidence of abuse charges are filed regardless of the spouse's opinion. 7962 Sep 2014 #28
And when his defense puts her up at trial to say it was all fake jeff47 Sep 2014 #30
Her opinion wont carry much water after the video is played. 7962 Sep 2014 #55
Sure it will jeff47 Sep 2014 #56
I dont think she'd be that stupid. 7962 Sep 2014 #57
It's not about stupid. It's about abuse. jeff47 Sep 2014 #64
Turns out he plead out and got diversion. So much for the "we were faking it" defense. 7962 Sep 2014 #75
In some states, an arrest MUST be made if the police see signs of physical violence rocktivity Sep 2014 #37
I was just coming to post this Capt. Obvious Sep 2014 #6
LOL...what about Pierce? nt DocMac Sep 2014 #35
Lousy bum cost me my week 1 matchup Capt. Obvious Sep 2014 #43
Fast for two days and hit the waiver wire! DocMac Sep 2014 #47
I'm blowing out one Capt. Obvious Sep 2014 #48
Really, you should get Pierce if available. DocMac Sep 2014 #49
I have Pierce. He got me -0.6 in the league I'm losing Capt. Obvious Sep 2014 #50
Keep him! DocMac Sep 2014 #53
the nfl announced that they have now banned him indefinitly rdking647 Sep 2014 #7
I kind of like Goodell Calista241 Sep 2014 #11
K&R + Baltimore Sun article alp227 Sep 2014 #8
Maybe THIS will make an impact on players. This costs him a LOT of money. 7962 Sep 2014 #10
More states need to be like Texas. christx30 Sep 2014 #12
THAT should be a federal law lebkuchen Sep 2014 #14
That's what I'm afraid could happen here NewJeffCT Sep 2014 #15
Exactly right. Leaving an abuser is one of the most dangerous Ilsa Sep 2014 #24
i like what keith olbermann says on twitter rdking647 Sep 2014 #16
How could the NFL or the Ravens not seen the inside the elevator Video? PuppyBismark Sep 2014 #17
Even if they didn't NewJeffCT Sep 2014 #19
SOMEBODY knew it existed, or TMZ wouldnt have it. 7962 Sep 2014 #29
Hopefully, his wife has protection from him today, and she leaves him as soon as possible. n/t xocet Sep 2014 #18
Yes. You think he was an angry bully before? Now that his career is over, he should LuckyLib Sep 2014 #23
I am worried that she will now be in more danger than she ever was. smirkymonkey Sep 2014 #54
Leaving an abuser is very dangerous. Ilsa Sep 2014 #25
If a poor man did that to his financee ... DrBulldog Sep 2014 #32
Next stop, MMA SCVDem Sep 2014 #34
Oh, no! Knocking out your girlfriend is considered worse than smoking dope! Enthusiast Sep 2014 #36
"Closing the barn door after the horse has gone out" rocktivity Sep 2014 #39
Yup. Enthusiast Sep 2014 #40
Too little too goddamn late. Arkana Sep 2014 #44
Yes they did. The public outrage got 840high Sep 2014 #46
Foball builds characrter. Hoppy Sep 2014 #52
it's good that the Ravens are finally doing the right thing rollin74 Sep 2014 #60
Since you've touched on the subject, exactly what is his legal status? rocktivity Sep 2014 #69
He'll be back warrant46 Sep 2014 #72

Lucky Luciano

(11,257 posts)
1. Abso-fucking-lutely should be in jail for assault.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 02:38 PM
Sep 2014

His wife should divorce him and run away like he were infected with Ebola.

Glad the video came out - it gave the nfl a chance to fix their fuck up with the proper discipline on their end...now it is law enforcement's turn to do right.

 

big_dog

(4,144 posts)
2. TERMINATED ON TWITTER!
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 02:43 PM
Sep 2014

Baltimore Ravens ✔ @Ravens
Follow

The #Ravens have terminated RB Ray Rice's contract this afternoon.
1:18 PM - 8 Sep 2014
http://mashable.com/2014/09/08/ray-rice-video/

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
13. that's just plain vicious
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 03:10 PM
Sep 2014

he needs more than counseling. Whether she pressed charges or not he was wrong AND deserves some consequence laid on his ass. PERIOD!!!! on edit: He's banned from the NFL, lost his money/contract(s) and now will have to face life like the rest of us I guess. That's consequence for ones actions. He needs serious psychological help.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
70. yeah sure, if you say so
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 01:47 PM
Sep 2014

but that judge in florida is the same to me. He beat his wife bloody, drug around by her hair. His wife charged him with assault. He got counseling and won't serve a day behind bars. This "criminal" needs confinement to protect what part of the rest of us? I have to look at disparities like this. No, he needs a lot of psychological help.

warrant46

(2,205 posts)
71. The Judge belongs behind the Striped sunshine too
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 01:50 PM
Sep 2014

But alas like Marc Rich money talks--well it certainly did when cliton pardoned his sorry ass.



Marc Rich

He received a controversial presidential pardon from U.S. President Bill Clinton on January 20, 2001, Clinton's last day in office

He was best known for founding the commodities company Glencore and for being indicted in the United States on federal charges of tax evasion and illegally making oil deals with Iran during the Iran hostage crisis. He was in Switzerland at the time of the indictment and never returned to the United States

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
4. didn't she marry him
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 02:45 PM
Sep 2014

after this happened and also refused to press charges? It could be she's been abused (mentally and/or physically) before and afraid to confront him?

Can they go back and press charges after not doing so the first time?

DocMac

(1,628 posts)
33. The state will pick up the charges.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 05:38 PM
Sep 2014

They assume (and rightly so) that the victim is coerced into not filing charges. Really, the video says it all and if Ray went to jail, that's a good thing.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,219 posts)
42. I am a woman, and I know women
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 07:11 PM
Sep 2014

who would seek out an abusive relationship if there was a huge payout possibility.

I wish I didn't, and I will never understand that mindset. There isn't enough money in the world.

 

elehhhhna

(32,076 posts)
76. WHen you marry for money, you work for it
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 09:51 PM
Sep 2014

truefact


but they were childhood sweethearts (codependent) and IIRC have a toddler together - so this has probably been going on with them for years...

calimary

(81,323 posts)
73. Seems she already is being subjected to "blame the victim" shit.
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 03:33 PM
Sep 2014

I worry about her. Her husband (SHEESH!!! WTF???? WHY????????????????) has so far not attempted to get any help for his out-of-control temper and violent reactive behavior. What's gonna happen when they're home and he starts thinking about all the goodies he's lost - because of HER? What's going to happen to her then? How badly is he gonna take it out on HER because if it weren't for HER and people seeing him beat on HER, none of this bummer shit woulda happened to HIM.

Blame the victim. Watch for it. Especially if she's already PSYCHOLOGICALLY so beaten down that she does a Patty Hearst and side with her domineering batterer? A domineering batterer who obviously has NEVER been taught that you don't hit a woman and you don't beat up on somebody because you're mad at them and you DON'T use your fists and you DON'T "settle things" physically? I blame the NFL and the whole NFL consciousness that officially sanctions violent behavior. Violent behavior is what gets the touchdowns, blocks the offense, knocks down the enemy players, renders the opponents physically incapable of preventing your forward motion. All through physical blunt force, brute force, physical combat. It's not just condoned, it's fucking WORSHIPPED! IDOLIZED!!! RICHLY REWARDED!!!! MAN!!! Talk about your positive reinforcement - of all these negative things. You get your face on TV. You get a king's ransom salary and perks, perks, perks. Free everything. Clothing, shoes, cars, publicity - all of it extremely positive and fawning, too. You get treated like a god.

It's the whole NFL culture that needs desperately to be reviewed, fixed, and possibly even done away with. Yes. There. I said it. And I fully expect the NFL to drag its heels, go the barest of baby steps in "addressing" this issue, and do everything it can NOT to deal with this as fully, systemically, and dramatically as is needed. The whole sordid money-grubbing misogynistic operation needs an overhaul. And America needs to examine its conscience, too, as to why so many of us "love" and support and exalt this shit. Frankly, I am not optimistic about THAT approach ever happening. And I know, I know, I know, people will flame away at me and say versions of "meh, it's human nature, we've been that way since the Romans, blah-blah-blah..." Well, I DON'T ACCEPT THAT. And I'm NOT gonna condone it or shrug it off or figure out some way to be okay with it. It's NOT okay. It's NEVER GONNA BE okay. And it needs to change. We're millennia beyond the Troglodyte era, aren't we? Or are we? Is this the 21st Century or isn't it? It needs to change. We NEED to evolve. Otherwise domestic violence will continue unabated, and centuries from now it'll still be a huge issue, but just simply called something else, for the surface-only cosmetics of it.

OnlinePoker

(5,722 posts)
5. She married him a month after this happened.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 02:47 PM
Sep 2014

Hopefully she wises up because being released won't do anything for Rice's temper. He's hit once, it's highly likely he'll hit again.

catbyte

(34,406 posts)
63. Perhaps she'll rethink it now that he's not worth $44M. She might have stayed for the baby's
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 08:54 AM
Sep 2014

financial security, but that's gone now. She should do the same.

warrant46

(2,205 posts)
66. Here's her complete denial of the truth
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 10:25 AM
Sep 2014

Janay Rice, the wife of former Baltimore Ravens running back Ray Rice, posted a statement on Instagram.

Here's the full statement (her Instagram profile is private, but the Baltimore Sun has confirmed that the statement was intended to be made public):

"I woke up this morning feeling like I had a horrible nightmare, feeling like I'm mourning the death of my closest friend. But to have to accept the fact that it's reality is a nightmare in itself. No one knows the pain that the media & unwanted options from the public has caused my family. To make us relive a moment in our lives that we regret every day is a horrible thing. To take something away from the man I love that he has worked his ass of for all his life just to gain ratings is horrific. THIS IS OUR LIFE! What don't you all get. If your intentions were to hurt us, embarrass us, make us feel alone, take all happiness away, you've succeeded on so many levels. Just know we will continue to grow & show the world what real love is! Ravensnation we love you!"

She NEEDS the counseling---the Criminal she married needs the Incarceration

catbyte

(34,406 posts)
67. Oh, brother. I'm sure that's not the first time she's been assaulted, either.
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 10:58 AM
Sep 2014

I get so very frustrated when abused women stay with and make excuses for their abusers, but what can you do? It's up to them to get the courage and self respect to leave. So very often children are involved and the whole hideous cycle repeats itself generation after generation. My late, beloved dad was a cop for 30 years, and two of the first lessons he taught me were "don't be afraid to hurt someone who's trying to hurt you" and "don't let ANY man hit you or make you feel bad about yourself." I think men sense weakness in some women because I NEVER had a man I was involved with even think about laying a hand on me. I did almost get into a physical altercation with the partner of my best friend, who was assaulting her in front of their 18 month old daughter--my goddaughter. My friend & her daughter were living with me at the time, so I ran in to bust up the attack. He was a good foot taller than me & started advancing on me with his fists balled up. I just stared at him and said, softly, "Just try it, asshole." He got this surprised look on his face & backed off immediately. I ordered him out of the house & to NEVER come back. As with all domestic abusers, he was a true coward & stayed away. I should've called the cops, but this was in 1980 & times were different. I hope she gets the help she needs.

warrant46

(2,205 posts)
68. The Disease of Co-Dependance is sometimes dismissed
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 12:18 PM
Sep 2014

When it is easy to blame the "Victim" for going back.

She needs prayers and understanding.

The Thug needs prison to keep him away from civilized human beings


jeff47

(26,549 posts)
20. Someone's got to file a complaint against him
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 04:14 PM
Sep 2014

and the then-girlfriend hasn't filed charges. No complaint, no arrest.

And since she married him, it seems unlikely she would file charges now.

Lucky Luciano

(11,257 posts)
22. Yes...depends on the state
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 04:19 PM
Sep 2014

For murder the state will always press of course. For other types of violence, each state seems to handle things differently.

 

rdking647

(5,113 posts)
38. he was charged with felony assault
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 06:16 PM
Sep 2014

as a first time offender he was accepted into a pre trial intervention program that let him avoid jail time.

so as far as criminal charges are concerned theres nothing more that could be done due to double jeopardy

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
41. Also, isn't it that you can force spouses to testify against each other?
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 07:05 PM
Sep 2014

By marrying him he's protected even more.

LibGranny

(711 posts)
58. The video has been OUT for a while - the NFL (and the Ravens) were too busy covering their
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 10:49 PM
Sep 2014

arses to do right by this woman!

 

tabasco

(22,974 posts)
59. I'm just wondering how the a-holes thought she got knocked out in the first video
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 11:07 PM
Sep 2014

Why did they need to see the second video when they knew damn well he punched her out?

AMAR0113

(5 posts)
61. They needed to see the video because he lied.
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 07:47 AM
Sep 2014

He told them that she fell and hit the guard rail in the elevator. Which is why they only suspended him for two games at first.

 

ann---

(1,933 posts)
3. I agree
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 02:44 PM
Sep 2014

Even if she didn't press charges, shouldn't he be arrested for knocking her out cold and dragging her? What a disturbing video to watch. I'm wondering what all those people were saying when she was just lying there not moving or when she was dazed and someone came up to her to comfort her.

Why didn't someone call the cops then? These jocks get away with murder - literally (think OJ).

 

ann---

(1,933 posts)
26. Yes, if I were on a jury
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 04:48 PM
Sep 2014

it would be evidence that a crime was committed. I think there is never a statute of limitations ONLY on the crime murder.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
62. He was put into a pre-trial diversion program. Not quite the same as a guilty plea, but close enough
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 08:17 AM
Sep 2014

The fact that he won't serve jail time seems almost unjust, considering all the guys sitting in prison for less.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
21. If she doesn't press charges, no one will.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 04:18 PM
Sep 2014

If she's not interested in filing charges for whatever reason, they're not going to arrest and prosecute.

Think about what would happen at the trial if she didn't want him prosecuted:
Prosecutor: "This video shows you getting punched and falling unconscious".
Wife: "Nope. I was pretending".

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
28. In my state (Ga), if there's evidence of abuse charges are filed regardless of the spouse's opinion.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 05:04 PM
Sep 2014

And that video is some darn good evidence

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
30. And when his defense puts her up at trial to say it was all fake
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 05:06 PM
Sep 2014

that evidence is not nearly so good.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
55. Her opinion wont carry much water after the video is played.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 09:03 PM
Sep 2014

Not to mention if it was fake, she wouldve said that when the 1st video came out of her being dragged out of the elevator

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
56. Sure it will
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 09:27 PM
Sep 2014

Do you think they actually hit each other in "Fight Club"? Pretty easy to invoke that to demonstrate a fake video can be made.

Not to mention if it was fake, she wouldve said that when the 1st video came out of her being dragged out of the elevator

"We wanted to see how many people we could trick into thinking it was real".

Again, he should be facing legal consequences, but that's not going to happen without her cooperation. And it does not appear she is interested in cooperating.
 

7962

(11,841 posts)
57. I dont think she'd be that stupid.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 10:36 PM
Sep 2014

So that would be her answer? They wanted to see how many people they could fool even though it cost them tens of thousands of lost income? Come on. Now if their state is like mine, it doesnt matter if she cooperates, he could be charged.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
64. It's not about stupid. It's about abuse.
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 09:45 AM
Sep 2014

And given the video and how "normal" Rice treated the situation, it's pretty clear she's suffered a lot of abuse.

As a result, he's in control of her. Until she decides to stop him, or he kills her.

Now if their state is like mine, it doesnt matter if she cooperates, he could be charged.

And as I repeatedly said, charging is only step 1. You have to actually convict at trial. And she can get in the way of that.

Since he's controlling her to the point where she's apologizing for getting knocked out on video, she'll say anything to protect him.

Also he was charged. Doesn't appear to be in prison, does he?
 

7962

(11,841 posts)
75. Turns out he plead out and got diversion. So much for the "we were faking it" defense.
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 09:44 PM
Sep 2014

But he wont be charged again because of this new tape; the case has already been settled.

But, as I stated earlier, if this case hadnt been closed, he could have been charged without the cooperation of his wife. (depending on that states law) Its done here ALL the time. The wife doesnt even get much of a say in court. I've seen it done many times with the wife protesting the whole way. These days, most juries believe the wife is under duress and listen to the evidence instead.

rocktivity

(44,577 posts)
37. In some states, an arrest MUST be made if the police see signs of physical violence
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 06:07 PM
Sep 2014

Last edited Sat Dec 1, 2018, 01:56 AM - Edit history (1)

(Gets off shiftless lazy ass and does her own research) and New Jersey is one of them.

I've seen more than one episode of Cops where they've had to explain this to victims who didn't want their partners taken away (despite the fact they had called the police for help).


rocktivity

Capt. Obvious

(9,002 posts)
43. Lousy bum cost me my week 1 matchup
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 07:18 PM
Sep 2014

Can't believe I started him over Cordarrelle at flex.

I actually just canceled the claim. My neighbor talked me out of it. He's right - no idea who will be the bell cow for the Ravens going forward.

I'm number 3 in the waiver line for week 1. Stay patient and I'll be number 1 soon... and then I'll have to be patient again to make the #1 claim count.

DocMac

(1,628 posts)
47. Fast for two days and hit the waiver wire!
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 07:58 PM
Sep 2014

You'll do just fine...lol!

I'm winning both of my fantasy teams...

DocMac

(1,628 posts)
49. Really, you should get Pierce if available.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 08:17 PM
Sep 2014

Forsett is gonna get you a doughnut...and that hurts.

Go get that Wheaton from the Steelers...that guy is awesome. Put him in at flex.

DocMac

(1,628 posts)
53. Keep him!
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 08:33 PM
Sep 2014

I know it hurts, but Cincy has a good defence, hang in there, Capt.

If you cut him in my leagues, I'd snatch him up.

 

rdking647

(5,113 posts)
7. the nfl announced that they have now banned him indefinitly
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 02:52 PM
Sep 2014

proving once again that roger goodell is a joke

christx30

(6,241 posts)
12. More states need to be like Texas.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 02:59 PM
Sep 2014

If the abused spouse drops charges, the state will pick them up again. The abuser still has to worry about what the state will do. Sometimes people are scared and need help getting out of a bad situation.

lebkuchen

(10,716 posts)
14. THAT should be a federal law
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 03:12 PM
Sep 2014

Gees, there aren't many women who would want to press charges against a man who had beaten them unconscious.

I'm actually surprised this law is in TX.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
15. That's what I'm afraid could happen here
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 03:16 PM
Sep 2014

She married him after this incident - she could be in fear of him due to other mental/physical abuse. I mean, didn't *she* issue some sort of apology afterwards and refused to press charges? I'm thinking WTF - she got knocked out & dragged and she has to apologize?



Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
24. Exactly right. Leaving an abuser is one of the most dangerous
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 04:42 PM
Sep 2014

things a victim can do. The state needs to intervene on domestic abuse because too often, the victim can't make it happen without extreme consequences.

 

rdking647

(5,113 posts)
16. i like what keith olbermann says on twitter
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 03:20 PM
Sep 2014

Roger Goodell's position as Commissioner of the NFL is no longer tenable. Whether he saw the #RayRice video or he did not, he failed.

PuppyBismark

(594 posts)
17. How could the NFL or the Ravens not seen the inside the elevator Video?
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 03:48 PM
Sep 2014

Last edited Mon Sep 8, 2014, 06:58 PM - Edit history (1)

Both said they had not seen it, but clearly everyone knew it existed. They could have gotten it if they really wanted it. Apparently law enforcement had it, but did not provide it to the NFL. The NFL and the team could have gotten Ray Rice's permission to get a copy of it, but both of them did not want to press too hard to see it.

Nonsense!! Talk about putting your head in the sand!!

LuckyLib

(6,819 posts)
23. Yes. You think he was an angry bully before? Now that his career is over, he should
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 04:25 PM
Sep 2014

be a real pleasure to live with.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
54. I am worried that she will now be in more danger than she ever was.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 08:45 PM
Sep 2014

He will probably take this out on her.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
25. Leaving an abuser is very dangerous.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 04:47 PM
Sep 2014

Quite often, the girlfriend cannot leave for fear for her life.

There's a very ugly psychology to domestic abuse. And frequently, the victim thinks she can change him or at least make him happy enough to behave. The abuser makes the victim think that she has the power to stop his violence.

 

DrBulldog

(841 posts)
32. If a poor man did that to his financee ...
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 05:36 PM
Sep 2014

... he'd already be serving his 5-year assault felony sentence by now.

rocktivity

(44,577 posts)
39. "Closing the barn door after the horse has gone out"
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 06:39 PM
Sep 2014

is how my mom would have put it.

I don't see this as any kind of moral victory for the NFL. If anything, it buttresses the fact that they didn't do the right thing when the first video came out -- they should have made knocking out your girlfriend at least as bad as smoking dope back then. And the ONLY reason why they're doing it now is that the second video is out for all the world to see.


rocktivity

Arkana

(24,347 posts)
44. Too little too goddamn late.
Mon Sep 8, 2014, 07:35 PM
Sep 2014

This should have happened after it was first fucking discovered. Instead the Ravens organization covered Rice's ass.

rollin74

(1,976 posts)
60. it's good that the Ravens are finally doing the right thing
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 01:12 AM
Sep 2014

too bad prosecutors in Atlantic City aren't taking this case of violent assault seriously

Ray Rice should be facing time behind bars

rocktivity

(44,577 posts)
69. Since you've touched on the subject, exactly what is his legal status?
Tue Sep 9, 2014, 12:57 PM
Sep 2014
The Guardian: ...Rice agreed not to contest a charge of aggravated assault...(and) was sentenced to a pretrial diversionary program, approved by a New Jersey prosecutor and superior court judge...his case did not come to court.

The first video and his and his court pleading alone should have been enough for the league to give him the rest of the season off.


rocktivity
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