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n2doc

(47,953 posts)
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 04:08 PM Aug 2014

Steubenville rapist is back on the football team

Source: SF Gate

One of the two Steubenville (Ohio) football players convicted of raping a 16-year-old girl at a party two years ago is back on the football team, according to WTRF-TV.

Ma’lik Richmond, a wide receiver who served a one-year sentence in a juvenile facility after a nationally watched trial, was allowed to return even though he must register as a sex offender for 20 years. He is shown with the other seniors and in a closeup in a team photo on the Big Red fan site.

The other player convicted and ringleader of the attacks, quarterback Trent Mays, remains in detention. The victim graduated from a neighboring high school in June.

Richmond’s return has already caused some calls for the resignation of longtime coach Reno Saccoccia and sarcastic outrage about the priorities in the football-obsessed town.


Read more: http://blog.sfgate.com/hottopics/2014/08/11/steubenville-rapist-is-back-on-the-football-team/

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Steubenville rapist is back on the football team (Original Post) n2doc Aug 2014 OP
Hey, he paid his dues, right? CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2014 #1
What further punishments should this kid undergo? Comrade Grumpy Aug 2014 #3
Keep those ideas coming - I like some of them derby378 Aug 2014 #5
Why stop there? There are lots of things outside the law that you can do to him. You can put him in 24601 Aug 2014 #19
One year in juvvie for rape? derby378 Aug 2014 #22
You had a chance to be reasonable and instead said keep the ideas coming - when they 24601 Aug 2014 #37
So saying that he got a slap on the wrist The Green Manalishi Aug 2014 #47
You are making absolutely no sense as you argue with yourself here. Just so you know. Squinch Aug 2014 #51
Did you miss the sarcasm alert? I'm arguing with those who would lock up a young black man for 24601 Aug 2014 #57
No one said anything about his race, so you can drop that pea-brained straw man. People are Squinch Aug 2014 #59
Post removed Post removed Aug 2014 #60
That is absolutely asinine. And it is disgusting to compare this rapist with Trevon Martin. Squinch Aug 2014 #63
Have you actually read the posts in this thread with implications of executions or castration. If 24601 Aug 2014 #67
Not one person in this thread came out in favor of execution or castration Bjorn Against Aug 2014 #68
His parole and probation conditions would seem to exclude his nilesobek Aug 2014 #97
It's about rape, RAPE, abuse, VIOLENCE without conscience. Don't you dare make this a race call. WCLinolVir Aug 2014 #72
You are making an ass of yourself with your sick comments. First, this rapist is not like Treyvon Squinch Aug 2014 #95
So are you opposed to schools kicking students off the team for bad grades? Bjorn Against Aug 2014 #62
Well, excuse me for not being politically correct about punishing rapists... derby378 Aug 2014 #89
Good answer 7962 Aug 2014 #35
Maybe he shouldn't be allowed to wear a helmet Orrex Aug 2014 #7
Not for ruining somebody's life, no. nt alp227 Aug 2014 #8
Agreed, we'll let him "get on with his life" when his victim can get on with hers derby378 Aug 2014 #10
Chemical castration Omaha Steve Aug 2014 #9
I agree....maybe people should read beyond the headlines and look into the details.... George II Aug 2014 #11
WTF is you all's obsession with pointing out that black men were executed for rape? Did anyone Squinch Aug 2014 #52
actually his comparison has some merit dsc Aug 2014 #102
Yeah maybe you should look into the details of what the victim went through. WCLinolVir Aug 2014 #75
To both of those who responded to me above.... George II Aug 2014 #77
Another stab at a phony argument. What a pity he didn't hang himself before raping an innocent girl. WCLinolVir Aug 2014 #79
It's rather common for teenagers get kicked off extra-curricular activities for merely drinking alco LanternWaste Aug 2014 #15
Are you kidding me? cosmicone Aug 2014 #17
He should be spending at least 20 years in the worst prison in Ohio . . . Brigid Aug 2014 #32
He should probably remain in an institution until he is around 25 Ash_F Aug 2014 #36
Meanwhile, the victim will have to live with her rape for the rest of her life. radicalliberal Aug 2014 #46
The cluelessness of this post is astonishing. Squinch Aug 2014 #53
I suppose that asking for him to be punished pennylane100 Aug 2014 #73
I agree with you davidpdx Aug 2014 #76
Football is a privilege, not a god-given right Blue_Tires Aug 2014 #91
How about another 25 years in jail for starters? PoutrageFatigue Aug 2014 #92
Let's have the father of the victim pick his punishment GOLGO 13 Aug 2014 #98
He should be diverted to an alternative school for the remainder of his career. Ms. Toad Aug 2014 #105
get caught mercuryblues Aug 2014 #111
incident occured at the local DA's home Adam051188 Aug 2014 #2
+1 exactly lunasun Aug 2014 #43
I think he should have gotten a much longer sentence than he did dsc Aug 2014 #4
Agree with your whole post. HERVEPA Aug 2014 #6
Punished? chervilant Aug 2014 #12
a school is not part of the justice system. prison isnt the only penalty mopinko Aug 2014 #21
again where does it stop dsc Aug 2014 #29
i have no problem with stripping privileges from sex offenders. mopinko Aug 2014 #31
It isn't a university it is a high school dsc Aug 2014 #33
ok, i stand correct. nonetheless, we arent talking about attending school. mopinko Aug 2014 #34
no it isn't dsc Aug 2014 #40
Uhmm, let's see drug dealing, or rape. which is worse. WCLinolVir Aug 2014 #78
In your mind rape is clearly worse dsc Aug 2014 #87
Well that kid actually had a choice. WCLinolVir Aug 2014 #107
so again you get to have your norms enforced without any judical oversight dsc Aug 2014 #109
So is he a registered sex offender ...yet? L0oniX Aug 2014 #13
all is forgiven if you are a football star nt msongs Aug 2014 #14
1 year for Rape? lib87 Aug 2014 #16
The priorities in Steubenville are clear underpants Aug 2014 #23
Football players and all male athletes are treated under a diferent "code" redstatebluegirl Aug 2014 #18
Think how differently we might view him if he were our son, our neighbor, someone we know. QuestForSense Aug 2014 #20
You think THAT'S forever for a teenager? derby378 Aug 2014 #24
Yes I do and no I wouldn't. QuestForSense Aug 2014 #27
Yes you would... derby378 Aug 2014 #30
He's not the victim here theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #25
Post removed Post removed Aug 2014 #26
Suggesting the rapist is the victim is truly repulsive Bjorn Against Aug 2014 #44
+ a brazillion derby378 Aug 2014 #90
You would never know it from some of the sick responses here. And cue the Squinch Aug 2014 #54
Really?!? chervilant Aug 2014 #28
Really? You find it grossly offensive if I suggest the victimizer might be sorry? QuestForSense Aug 2014 #41
Taking the side of the rapist, and then calling a poster "miss" while you chastise her. Your Squinch Aug 2014 #56
You already told us in your now hidden post that you consider the rapist to be the victim Bjorn Against Aug 2014 #66
Please, chervilant Aug 2014 #70
Oh so now you go all sensitive Kalidurga Aug 2014 #84
I find it unsettling that you've yet to make mention of the actual victim herself... LanternWaste Aug 2014 #88
If it was my son, christx30 Aug 2014 #39
I'm not cutting a rapist ANY slack, ever. They will do it repeatedly. alarimer Aug 2014 #50
I hope your quest continues... City Lights Aug 2014 #61
He obviously has a long quest ahead of him if he ever hopes to reach sense Bjorn Against Aug 2014 #65
OMG, are you for real. WCLinolVir Aug 2014 #81
The law allows him to return to playing football after serving his time bluestateguy Aug 2014 #38
I can't believe people are comparing people JoeyT Aug 2014 #42
I wish gaspee Aug 2014 #45
This is not a racial issue, folks! n/t radicalliberal Aug 2014 #48
Fitting indeed edgineered Aug 2014 #55
This is the most rank thread I have ever seen here, and that is saying something. Squinch Aug 2014 #58
Now they are comparing this rapist to Trevon Martin as if the rapist is a martyr. This is Squinch Aug 2014 #64
+1 historylovr Aug 2014 #74
He should, at the very least, not be allowed to play football. alarimer Aug 2014 #49
They shouldn't let a rapist back in school A Little Weird Aug 2014 #69
Are the Steelers interested? U4ikLefty Aug 2014 #71
He'll have to go to Florida State first n/t n2doc Aug 2014 #85
nice U4ikLefty Aug 2014 #106
I'm curious if the kid is an outstanding player that they feel can help them win? brewens Aug 2014 #80
Are there any girls on any of the nearby teams? LeftyMom Aug 2014 #82
Football is a priviledge DonCoquixote Aug 2014 #83
Michael Vick says hey. n/t Orsino Aug 2014 #86
at least they were held accountable- these guys just got off with no punishment whatsoever J_J_ Aug 2014 #93
if anyone wants to comment on this topic on another thread J_J_ Aug 2014 #94
Who gives a shit if he plays HS football. Calista241 Aug 2014 #96
If he stays in Steubenville in sure he'll be fine. ForgoTheConsequence Aug 2014 #99
He's still only 17 years old Calista241 Aug 2014 #100
He's out and free to rape again. ForgoTheConsequence Aug 2014 #101
I am NOT defending lax rape laws Calista241 Aug 2014 #103
Did Treyvon rape someone? No. Threw the book at him? WCLinolVir Aug 2014 #108
He was 16. Calista241 Aug 2014 #110
The rape happened? He is screwed? Excuse me, but he committed rape - and screwed himself. Ms. Toad Aug 2014 #104
 

Comrade Grumpy

(13,184 posts)
3. What further punishments should this kid undergo?
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 04:17 PM
Aug 2014

Should he be denied an opportunity to play football, which might be a means of advancement for him?

Maybe he shouldn't be allowed to go to college?

Should we quit screwing around and just execute him?

He has done his time. He has to register as a sex offender for the next 20 years. Maybe we should just let him try to get on with his life.

Do we believe in rehabilitation and redemption?

derby378

(30,252 posts)
5. Keep those ideas coming - I like some of them
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 04:21 PM
Aug 2014

One year in juvvie for rape? That's not rehabilitation, that's a slap on the wrist.

24601

(3,962 posts)
19. Why stop there? There are lots of things outside the law that you can do to him. You can put him in
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:15 PM
Aug 2014

an unsupervised cell with adult sexual offenders. After he has been sodomized sufficiently, you can haul him out of jail, castrate him (classic punishment for a black offender) and lynch him. After all, he's just a kid that will never be missed, right?

Do I REALLY need the sarcasm tag here?

Am I really on DU? Based on the posts, I thought my browser farted and opened a freeper thread.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
22. One year in juvvie for rape?
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:23 PM
Aug 2014

Let's see if his victim's panic attacks have disappeared after one year in juvvie. Let's compare their psychological profiles and see if there's been any real punishment for the crime.

Focus. Justice denied is, well, just that.

24601

(3,962 posts)
37. You had a chance to be reasonable and instead said keep the ideas coming - when they
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:59 PM
Aug 2014

included execution. And you didn't alert for sarcasm.

We have a bad past executing black makes for rape. I don't want that perpetuated here.

There are crimes for which execution is appropriate. This does not rise to that level.

The Green Manalishi

(1,054 posts)
47. So saying that he got a slap on the wrist
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 08:26 PM
Aug 2014

and that he is *NOT* some sort of victim in his own right is exactly the same as wanting him executed or calling for a lynching.... got it.

24601

(3,962 posts)
57. Did you miss the sarcasm alert? I'm arguing with those who would lock up a young black man for
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 09:48 PM
Aug 2014

years and years. Did he deserve punishment under the law - yes. Does he deserve extra-judicial punishment and becoming just another stereo-typed statistic based on his race? Not now, not ever, and those kind of sentiments should never find a comfortable home on DU.

Squinch

(50,950 posts)
59. No one said anything about his race, so you can drop that pea-brained straw man. People are
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 09:52 PM
Aug 2014

talking about the fact that he raped a woman and filmed it and published the film. He then laughed about it and intimidated his victim. He ruined the life if this girl. And for that he got a year in juvie. That is not justice.

He is a rapist. That has nothing to do with his race.

Response to Squinch (Reply #59)

24601

(3,962 posts)
67. Have you actually read the posts in this thread with implications of executions or castration. If
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 10:25 PM
Aug 2014

so, and you still don't see the race factor, then no wonder we have so many young black men locked up serving long terms of confinement.

If you don't recognize the connection between race and suggestions of punishments beyond the limits of the law, then you are not part of the solution.

Throw them in the hole, throw away the key, forget about restoring voting rights. Quips about castration - it worked in the old South after all. Nope, not our problem, right? Move along citizens, nothing influenced by race to see here.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
68. Not one person in this thread came out in favor of execution or castration
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 10:36 PM
Aug 2014

The word execution was first brought up by someone defending the rapist and you have tried to pretend that there are actually people here supporting executing and castrating him even though no one said any such thing. Stop with the straw men, wanting a rapist kicked off the football team is not the equivilent of supporting executing him.

nilesobek

(1,423 posts)
97. His parole and probation conditions would seem to exclude his
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 01:12 PM
Aug 2014

joining the football team again. I thought sex offender restrictions were designed to keep the offender within 1000 feet or so of schools where underage children are. How can you play for a high school football team and not go within that distance of a school?

WCLinolVir

(951 posts)
72. It's about rape, RAPE, abuse, VIOLENCE without conscience. Don't you dare make this a race call.
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 12:06 AM
Aug 2014

You think a year is actually punishment for a horrific pathological crime then I feel that you do not understand rape at all. I think you are in denial, IMHO.
A raping black male is no different from a raping white male. They are both sick and have little regard for the rest of society. And statistically recidivists, hard to treat, and rarely take responsibility for the acts that they have committed.

Squinch

(50,950 posts)
95. You are making an ass of yourself with your sick comments. First, this rapist is not like Treyvon
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 10:34 AM
Aug 2014

Martin and it is unspeakably foul of you to suggest that he bears any resemblance to Treyvon Martin. And second, the calls for execution are all in your addled head.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
62. So are you opposed to schools kicking students off the team for bad grades?
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 10:01 PM
Aug 2014

Many schools do have policies requiring athletes to maintain a certain GPA to remain on the team. Do you consider it "extra judicial punishment" to kick a player off the team because of bad grades? If schools can keep students off the team for bad grades then I fail to see why rapists should be allowed to remain on the team.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
89. Well, excuse me for not being politically correct about punishing rapists...
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 09:19 AM
Aug 2014

I'm not here to hold your hand and guide you across ever busy intersection on the information superhighway.

You want me to be reasonable, but you don't explain how a one-year sentence in juvvie for a brutal rape is "reasonable." And he gets his meal ticket, his football career, and his big shoe deal scot free while she's left to deal with the wreckage.

Orrex

(63,213 posts)
7. Maybe he shouldn't be allowed to wear a helmet
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 04:27 PM
Aug 2014

When I was in high school, you would be permanently banned from all team sports if one of the coaches caught you smoking.

One would hope that raping a girl would be rated as a somewhat serious infraction than puffing a cigarette, but apparently that ain't how they roll in Steubenville.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
10. Agreed, we'll let him "get on with his life" when his victim can get on with hers
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 04:38 PM
Aug 2014

No more panic attacks, no more phobias, no more screaming herself awake at night, nada. Either her mental anguish is dealt with or we dump on this guy some more.

George II

(67,782 posts)
11. I agree....maybe people should read beyond the headlines and look into the details....
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 04:43 PM
Aug 2014

...of the case?

No, that would be too easy, let's just publicly crucify him.

Remember, back in the dark ages of the Deep South, blacks convicted of rape were executed (if they weren't lynched before trial)!

From what I read here, we haven't progressed very far since the 1950s.

Squinch

(50,950 posts)
52. WTF is you all's obsession with pointing out that black men were executed for rape? Did anyone
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 09:37 PM
Aug 2014

say anything about executing anyone? WTF is your point with that bullshit?

This kid got a slap on the wrist for ruining someone else's life. People are allowed to point that out. Get a grip.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
102. actually his comparison has some merit
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 03:03 PM
Aug 2014

I don't think it is ridiculous for people to worry about extra judicial punishments given their pretty bad history in this country. Yes there is a huge difference in degree here but not in kind.

WCLinolVir

(951 posts)
75. Yeah maybe you should look into the details of what the victim went through.
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 12:15 AM
Aug 2014

Actually I think publicly crucified might be a real deterrent. If only we took rape that seriously. And no we haven't progressed very far from the fifties if all we do is wring our hands and worry about a RAPIST. Who got a year of detention for a horrific crime. Go play the race card where it is relevant. This is about rape sexism, and misogyny.

George II

(67,782 posts)
77. To both of those who responded to me above....
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 12:21 AM
Aug 2014

....he was punished in accordance with the law as it is written.

As I hinted but didn't explicitly say in my first post, thank goodness this wasn't the 1950s, we might be seeing him swinging from a tree - most likely even before he faced trial.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
15. It's rather common for teenagers get kicked off extra-curricular activities for merely drinking alco
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 04:49 PM
Aug 2014

"Should he be denied an opportunity to play football..."

It's rather common for teenagers get kicked off extra-curricular activities for merely drinking alcohol. Seems a rather absurd message to "deny an opportunity to play football" for simply getting drunk, but re-instating a convicted rapist.

"...which might be a means of advancement for him?"
An education will do that more efficiently, more effectively, and with much less cost-- maybe he should focus rather on that.

 

cosmicone

(11,014 posts)
17. Are you kidding me?
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 04:53 PM
Aug 2014

He took advantage of a consciousness impaired girl and raped her, had pictures taken while raping her and was a part of the "rape club." He got a slap on the wrist which didn't hurt.

His passion is football and depriving of that would be a real punishment. Instead, he will be glorified as a jock once again.

He registers as a sex offender for 20 years -- which means after age 37 he won't have to - prime age for rapists.

Ash_F

(5,861 posts)
36. He should probably remain in an institution until he is around 25
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:58 PM
Aug 2014

They say that is where true adulthood begins.

I imagine it would a take significant societal investment to get someone back on track if they strayed so far as to commit rape.

radicalliberal

(907 posts)
46. Meanwhile, the victim will have to live with her rape for the rest of her life.
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 07:55 PM
Aug 2014

She has received death threats since the "guilty" verdict and continues to be persecuted to this day because of the rape culture. But that's not important, is it?

pennylane100

(3,425 posts)
73. I suppose that asking for him to be punished
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 12:06 AM
Aug 2014

for the hell he put his victim through is totally unnecessary. If that had been you or a close family member that had been so outrageously violated, I think you may have managed a little more empathy for the victim and less for the sadist that almost destroyed her life.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
76. I agree with you
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 12:16 AM
Aug 2014

I personally think the judge made the mistake of giving him the sentence he did and that it should have been 2 years for both at a minimum.

That being said, he has been released and has rejoined society. I hope counseling was required by the court for him as well as no drinking as a condition of his release as long as he is supervised (I have no idea whether he is being supervised on probation or not and for how long). Sex offender registration will severely limit what he can do for the 20 years he is required to register (employment, housing, and probably college as well). Most states have lifetime registration, his maybe less because he was a minor.

I do think the high school could have made the choice not to allow him to play football given the trouble he has been in.

Unless he makes another mistake, he has to be allowed to life his life now that the justice system has acted.

I believe in both, but I think it will be a very long hard road.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
91. Football is a privilege, not a god-given right
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 09:51 AM
Aug 2014

And it's a no-brainer that the school should have permabanned him from football and any other sports he plays, especially if his parents don't have enough common sense to ban him from sports themselves...

Of course, if the kid was a pine rider, it would have been much more likely his school would have made an example of him -- So I'm guessing he's a pretty good player since his school is quick to forgive and forget...

The point you're missing is this is EXACTLY the kind of mindset that perpetuates the cycle and promotes a culture of consequence-free actions...And we've seen how many athletes raised in that "Always bailed out of trouble or just skate away with a slap on the wrist" environment still find themselves in unsavory incidents at university athlete factories and even in the professional ranks...

 

PoutrageFatigue

(416 posts)
92. How about another 25 years in jail for starters?
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 10:10 AM
Aug 2014

This isn't a case of "teenage-prank-gone-wrong" this evil little fuck raped an unconscious girl....Fuck him and any of his chances of "advancement"...he gave that up the moment he unzipped his fly....

And if that were MY daughter he raped, he'd have other things to worry about other than "advancement", like trying to figure just how far, and which continent he needs to re-locate to, so I wouldn't find him...

Ms. Toad

(34,074 posts)
105. He should be diverted to an alternative school for the remainder of his career.
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 09:00 PM
Aug 2014

I don't know if the survivor of the rape is still in school - she would be 17 or 18 now so it is likely she is still a senior. Even if she isn't, I would be surprised if she was the only victim of this kid.**

The victims of violent crimes (of which rape and bullying are two) should not be forced to attend school with those who have made their lives a living hell. Remove the perpetrators from the situation for the remainder of their school career, so the survivors are not punished for the remainder of their school career by daily contact with their attacker.

**A student who raped a one of his classmates, in the school I taught at, also opened the door to my classroom and threw things in at me. In the course of tracking down his identity, many other students confided in me that they had been repeatedly bullied by him. Perpetrators often have more than one victim - and are often protected from harm. The rapist/bully in my situation was never held accountable for any of his high school offenses, and the girl he attacked ultimately dropped out.

mercuryblues

(14,532 posts)
111. get caught
Thu Aug 14, 2014, 10:44 AM
Aug 2014

with a joint you are automatically expelled. Rape a classmate you get put back on the football team.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
4. I think he should have gotten a much longer sentence than he did
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 04:20 PM
Aug 2014

but he didn't and I think we have to be very careful about the notion that people who paid their penalty for a crime should be punished, by the government (ie public school) after they have served their time.

chervilant

(8,267 posts)
12. Punished?
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 04:44 PM
Aug 2014

Rapists inflict a life sentence of recovery on those who survive their attacks. This man should NOT be "rewarded" by allowing him to continue to play sports at the school where he perpetrated his criminal offense.

mopinko

(70,112 posts)
21. a school is not part of the justice system. prison isnt the only penalty
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:23 PM
Aug 2014

that people pay.
it is one thing to say the guy should be able to get a job. but a college football team has every reason to insist on good character in their players. this is a privilege, not a right.

again, there are other consequences for such crimes, and they are right and proper.
people who reap what they sow should get no sympathy.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
29. again where does it stop
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:37 PM
Aug 2014

what if he had gotten a year for dealing drugs? would you think he should still be banned, by the government, from playing football?

mopinko

(70,112 posts)
31. i have no problem with stripping privileges from sex offenders.
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:43 PM
Aug 2014

i have no problems with sex offenders being the last on the list to admit to college, even. campuses are bad enough already. football players are put on a pedestal. this "man" does not belong on a pedestal.
and equating a university with the justice system is just not even logical.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
33. It isn't a university it is a high school
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:47 PM
Aug 2014

it would behoove you to know about what you comment about. So you think there should be one standard for sex offenders and another for everyone else. What about teens in states with statutory rape laws without romeo and juliet exceptions? Should a 17 year old girl who sleeps with a 16 year old boy who consents to the sex, be banned from the cheerleading squad?

mopinko

(70,112 posts)
34. ok, i stand correct. nonetheless, we arent talking about attending school.
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:53 PM
Aug 2014

football is a privilege. a source of prestige. this critter does not deserve that.

however, i wouldnt have a whole lot of trouble with expelling him from the high school.

and to even say romeo and juliet in this context is just dishonest.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
40. no it isn't
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 06:15 PM
Aug 2014

nearly every state which has a sex offender registry puts people convicted of statutory rape on them. Under your rule those students would indeed not be permitted to play football and apparently wouldn't be permitted to attend school either. The fact is I would have no problem at all with banning him from football if that was part of his legally sanctioned punishment. But I have a huge problem with us having some sort of ad hoc system where we decide that person A hasn't been punished enough so we are going to after the fact add more punishment. That isn't how laws are supposed to work.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
87. In your mind rape is clearly worse
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 08:34 AM
Aug 2014

and I happen to agree with that. But I would be willing to bet that for someone whose child died of an overdose the answer might well be different. Do they get to have their preference become law after the fact? Or do only we get that privilege? That is why the law should be the law so that it is clear just what will and won't be punished and in what way.

WCLinolVir

(951 posts)
107. Well that kid actually had a choice.
Thu Aug 14, 2014, 03:24 AM
Aug 2014

No one forced him to take the drugs. No knife at his throat, no abuse, no miscarriage, no beating, no PTSD. You really don't get rape, do you? And to blame a dealer for what a kid does to himself and equate that to rape is ludicrous, IMHO. But I bet you will keep on diminishing the violence of rape.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
109. so again you get to have your norms enforced without any judical oversight
Thu Aug 14, 2014, 07:31 AM
Aug 2014

but would deny that privilege to others. And I am the one who is wrong, of course that is the way it works. BTW I am sure you didn't intend to lie about what I wrote, you must have misread where I said the kid should still be in jail. I am sure you didn't mean to tell an outright lie about what I wrote. But the fact is I think having a judical system that doesn't run on mob rule is more important than the punishment anyone gets for any one or more crimes. To take one recent example a man who tried to set a gay club in Seattle on fire on New Years Eve recently got sentenced to 10 years despite clear evidence it was a hate crime and the fact it took the heroics of one of the attendees to prevent massive deaths. I think that is a wholly wrong sentence but when he serves it then that should be it. The government shouldn't get to say you can't get a job or you can't live here or there. Once a punishment is served that should be it.

Now if they didn't want this kid playing football when he got out then they should have made that part of his sentence with a judge signing off. For that matter they should have sentenced him to several years with a judge signing off. What they shouldn't be able to do is give him one year, release him, and then without a judicial sign off, have the government deny him education or parts of his education.

lib87

(535 posts)
16. 1 year for Rape?
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 04:51 PM
Aug 2014

And he is back on the football team at the same school as a registered sex offender!? That school, their admin, the district and the coach are sad excuses for allowing him to represent that high school as an athlete.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
18. Football players and all male athletes are treated under a diferent "code"
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:03 PM
Aug 2014

in all schools, even down to grade school if they see "promise". They might be dimwits in school, but if they can play ball everything is forgiven. It is WRONG!

I know I'm an old fool, but in my day a guy got kicked off the team for smoking cigs and drinking alcohol. No hearing no nothing. They knew the rules, they broke em and ended up off the team.

I don't buy the "ruin his chances for life routine". They aren't keeping him out of school, let him graduate, let him go to college and see if he can behave. Athletics are EXTRA curricular, not a means to an end.

QuestForSense

(653 posts)
20. Think how differently we might view him if he were our son, our neighbor, someone we know.
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:20 PM
Aug 2014

He spent a year in jail. That's forever for a teenager. He very definitely made the dumbest, worst decision of his life on that fateful night. But life has to continue. Cut him some slack; perhaps he's seen the error of his ways and is sorry.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
24. You think THAT'S forever for a teenager?
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:28 PM
Aug 2014

Did I already mention the lingering side effects his victim most likely suffers? Nightmares? Panic attacks? Phobias? Depression? Other PTSD symptoms, up to and including full-blown catatonia in some rape victims?

Unfortunately for many of these women, this is forever. Treating PTSD is one hell of a challenge.

Imagine if that poor girl were your daughter, your neighbor, someone you cared about. You'd be screaming Odin and demanding his salted head in a sack.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
30. Yes you would...
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:41 PM
Aug 2014

...if that girl meant anything to you, trust me, you would. Especially if she was your little girl.

Response to theHandpuppet (Reply #25)

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
44. Suggesting the rapist is the victim is truly repulsive
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 07:30 PM
Aug 2014

There is a real victim in this case and it is not the rapist.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
90. + a brazillion
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 09:38 AM
Aug 2014

I'm stunned. Yesterday I got hit with the news of Robin Williams' suicide, and now I'm seeing this rapist-as-victim meme - on, of all places, Democratic Underground.

What the hell is this world coming to? I need a drink.

Squinch

(50,950 posts)
54. You would never know it from some of the sick responses here. And cue the
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 09:43 PM
Aug 2014

"there's no such thing as rape culture" posts in 3..2..1..

chervilant

(8,267 posts)
28. Really?!?
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 05:37 PM
Aug 2014

What if it was YOUR daughter?!?

Forever is how long the young woman he raped will have to remember this horrific crime.

I find your post grossly offensive.

QuestForSense

(653 posts)
41. Really? You find it grossly offensive if I suggest the victimizer might be sorry?
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 06:44 PM
Aug 2014

You did not think about, nor even understand my post. Whatever made you react as if I were unsympathetic to the victim is a gigantic leap. You've got quite an ax to grind there, Miss. Please don't sharpen it on me.

Squinch

(50,950 posts)
56. Taking the side of the rapist, and then calling a poster "miss" while you chastise her. Your
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 09:45 PM
Aug 2014

true colors are showing. And they are pretty nauseating.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
66. You already told us in your now hidden post that you consider the rapist to be the victim
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 10:25 PM
Aug 2014

All people in this thread need to do is view your hidden post to know that when you say you are sympathetic to the victim you are really saying that you are sympathetic to the rapist. Dismissively referring to the person you responded to as "Miss" only shows your misogyny even more.

chervilant

(8,267 posts)
70. Please,
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 11:49 PM
Aug 2014

stop trying to justify your position. Rapists do not need apologists.

I did understand your sophomoric and offensive post. I have done advocacy for survivors of relationship violence for better than thirty years. I've only ever advocated for male survivors twice in my life, but I've advocated for hundreds of women who have survived being raped, beaten, and/or abused--usually by someone in whom they should have been able to place their trust.

I won't alert on your post (the patronizing "Miss" is totally unwarranted). But, I will add you to my IL, where I won't have to view any more of your drivel.

"Ax to grind," indeed! Projection will never help you hone your critical thinking skills...


Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
84. Oh so now you go all sensitive
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 04:01 AM
Aug 2014

no really it's funny. Perhaps the victimizer is sorry. But, that has F'all to do with the damage he inflicted.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
88. I find it unsettling that you've yet to make mention of the actual victim herself...
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 08:56 AM
Aug 2014

I find it unsettling that you've yet to make mention of the actual victim herself...

christx30

(6,241 posts)
39. If it was my son,
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 06:00 PM
Aug 2014

he would never play football again. He would be relegated to pure academics. Has to keep a b+ or higher average to have any privileges. No parties. If he doesn't like it, he gets a job and an apartment of his own. But he can't expect any help from me.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
50. I'm not cutting a rapist ANY slack, ever. They will do it repeatedly.
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 09:21 PM
Aug 2014

He got a slap on the wrist, nothing more.

He should not be allowed to play football. Maybe if he just went back to school, studied and never got in trouble again, then it might be okay. The culture surrounding sports and football in particular, will only encourage repeat offenses. Football players are the worst entitled little shits on any high school campus.

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
65. He obviously has a long quest ahead of him if he ever hopes to reach sense
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 10:10 PM
Aug 2014

Lets hope that long quest leads him far away from here.

bluestateguy

(44,173 posts)
38. The law allows him to return to playing football after serving his time
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 06:00 PM
Aug 2014

I'm not sure I like that law, but until the law is changed, it is what it is.

JoeyT

(6,785 posts)
42. I can't believe people are comparing people
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 06:48 PM
Aug 2014

that think a rapist got off too light with people that wanted to lynch accused black men.

Yeah, sure, a kid who was proud enough he raped someone to brag about it, and who had so much access to the power structure that it took a fucking national outcry to see him even charged with a crime (And one of the people that made the outcry happen got more time than he did), is totally comparable to black people being murdered on an accusation.

There are no words. Or at least no words that won't get a jury hide because the important thing here is not to be nasty to people that think rapists are the real victim.

Edit: This seems fitting

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
55. Fitting indeed
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 09:43 PM
Aug 2014

That clip is without a doubt the most vile piece of crap ever made. Everything from the rapist is portrayed as the victim to the smug grins and proud smiles on the face of those worshiping him matches how this Steubenville circus is performing. Things cannot be shown more clearly than this.

Squinch

(50,950 posts)
64. Now they are comparing this rapist to Trevon Martin as if the rapist is a martyr. This is
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 10:04 PM
Aug 2014

so offensively disgusting, I have no words.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
49. He should, at the very least, not be allowed to play football.
Mon Aug 11, 2014, 09:17 PM
Aug 2014

Sports participation in school should be a reward for good behavior and his was not.

And certainly a year in juvie is not enough for him to have learned anything. Likely the entitled little shit will go on to do something else.

I don't give rapists the benefit of the doubt.

brewens

(13,589 posts)
80. I'm curious if the kid is an outstanding player that they feel can help them win?
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 12:29 AM
Aug 2014

We want to win right? If it was a mediocre player, he might not be back.

Drinking, smoking, smoking weed would have got you booted off my high school team for a year for sure in the 70's. For rape, you wouldn't want to come back and try and play. That would be a target on your back and assure everyone would be taking shots at you at every opportunity.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
82. Are there any girls on any of the nearby teams?
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 12:59 AM
Aug 2014

My kid sister played football. If there'd been a rapist in an opposing team she'd have put him in the hospital (if one of her teammates didn't get to him first.)

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
83. Football is a priviledge
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 12:59 AM
Aug 2014

and he forsook that priviledge.

Hell, getting F- in english should revoke that priviledge, much less something that he should be doing hard time for.

 

J_J_

(1,213 posts)
93. at least they were held accountable- these guys just got off with no punishment whatsoever
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 10:11 AM
Aug 2014

Three people -- Anthony Resetarits, 22, Joseph Resetarits, 19, and an unnamed juvenile boy -- have been charged with sexually assaulting a drunk teen with an object after the boy passed out on a couch during a large party in Homer.

According to charging documents, after the boy passed out, Anthony Resetarits shaved an “M” in the boy’s hair, and other people at the party wrote on his body with markers. Afterwards, people at the party shouted out suggestions as to what to do next. An unidentified person suggested an obscene act.

Anthony Resetarits then sexually assaulted the boy with an object, with Joseph Resetarits also participating, charging documents state.

Many people at the party -- the estimated attendance was between 60 and 80 people -- witnessed the alleged assault, and some were photographing parts of it. Troopers recovered multiple photographs taken at the party, including one of two men sexually assaulting the boy.

http://www.adn.com/article/20140806/judge-dismisses-sexual-assault-case-against-homer-men

 

J_J_

(1,213 posts)
94. if anyone wants to comment on this topic on another thread
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 10:22 AM
Aug 2014

thanks in advance

60 witnesses,videos,pics,hospital report to police..Judge Dismisses Sexual Assault Against Homer Men
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025369088

Calista241

(5,586 posts)
96. Who gives a shit if he plays HS football.
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 10:55 AM
Aug 2014

He has to register as a sex offender. He's basically screwed for life.

He's not going to be able to get a good job. He's going to have to register his residence with law enforcement, and apartment property managers can decline his app just for that.

Calista241

(5,586 posts)
100. He's still only 17 years old
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 02:34 PM
Aug 2014

He was 16 when the rape happened. And he really is screwed for life.

He can't go to college, even if he's good enough to play college football. What college would take a chance in a convicted rapist?

He's not going to get a good job, even in Steubenville. Any company that hires him has to be insured, how many insurance companies would just let the "convicted rapist" employee slide?

Rape is one if the worst crimes someone can commit, but to think this dude got off easy is misleading.

ForgoTheConsequence

(4,868 posts)
101. He's out and free to rape again.
Tue Aug 12, 2014, 02:45 PM
Aug 2014

He only has to register as a sex offender until he's 38. The victim has to live with this for life.


He got off easy, quit defending lax rape laws.

Calista241

(5,586 posts)
103. I am NOT defending lax rape laws
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 09:55 AM
Aug 2014

Rape is a terrible crime. Terrible to suffer through and it has lasting consequences for victims.

This kid was 16 when this incident happened. Should he spend his life in jail? They threw the book at this kid and got the best punishment they could. And deservedly so. But like it or not, he has fulfilled his debt to society.

Many of the comments in this thread appear to be related to his participation in football. Is what this guy does for 3 months during his senior year really that important? Is high school football some mystic activity where he becomes a idolized hero?

Trayvon Martin was older than this kid and everyone here referred to him as a innocent child who couldn't possibly have done what he was accused of.

Why is this kid treated here as a new Ted Bundy? A soul undeserving of any leniency or forgiveness?

WCLinolVir

(951 posts)
108. Did Treyvon rape someone? No. Threw the book at him?
Thu Aug 14, 2014, 03:32 AM
Aug 2014

He should have been tried as an adult and given ten years. Minus the killing and dismemberment, he is as creepy as Bundy. He has shown no remorse. Or do you not know the facts of the case?

Calista241

(5,586 posts)
110. He was 16.
Thu Aug 14, 2014, 09:46 AM
Aug 2014

16 is a child by any sane definition.

We're trying to get rid of this prison state we live in and you're consigning another person to jail forever. What's he supposed to do when he's 26 and just our of jail after 10 years? He has to register as a sex offender then also. He won't be able to get a job, he'll have no skills. I suppose we could just consign him to 50 years of prison, low pay, misery, crime and poverty.

Rape is truly a horrible crime. Many women (and men) never get over it, and can never have safe or comfortable relationships. It is hideous to experience, and has life long consequences for the victims of this horrible crime.

But you're proposing we do the same thing to that young kid who will never even have a chance to live a normal productive life now. We need to get rid of this prison state. If this 16 year old kid has a chance at recovery and contributing to society, we should do everything to make that possible.

Ms. Toad

(34,074 posts)
104. The rape happened? He is screwed? Excuse me, but he committed rape - and screwed himself.
Wed Aug 13, 2014, 08:42 PM
Aug 2014

I am not advocating locking him up forever and throwing away the key, but he was not a passive participant that rape happened to. He chose to participate, as an aggressor, and the consequences you have listed are not random thing which happened to a poor innocent teenager - they are a direct response to what he chose to do.

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