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Newsjock

(11,733 posts)
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 04:15 PM Jun 2013

'All in the Family' star Jean Stapleton dies at 90

Source: Chicago Tribune

Jean Stapleton, who played Archie Bunker’s long-suffering wife Edith in the long-running 1970s television series “All in the Family,” died Friday at her New York City home. She was 90.

Stapleton died of natural causes, her family announced Saturday.

She had been a veteran of stage, film and television when she was cast in the CBS sitcom opposite Carroll O’Connor’s loud-mouthed, bigoted Archie Bunker, who often addressed her as "dingbat." She won three Emmys for the role.

... Born in New York City on Jan. 19, 1923, Stapleton was the daughter of a billboard advertising salesman and an opera singer.

Read more: http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/la-et-st-jean-stapleton-dies-at-90-20130601,0,5429067.story

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'All in the Family' star Jean Stapleton dies at 90 (Original Post) Newsjock Jun 2013 OP
May she rest in peace! hrmjustin Jun 2013 #1
she was so great as Edith dsc Jun 2013 #2
She was also great in her one women show as Eleanor Roosevelt. jzola Jun 2013 #53
that must of been something to see dsc Jun 2013 #59
A very classy woman mac56 Jun 2013 #3
I'm sorry. Demoiselle Jun 2013 #4
RIP, I always enjoyed her nt steve2470 Jun 2013 #5
Aw. That's very sad news. k&r n/t Laelth Jun 2013 #6
Sad news. I never realized she was that old. RebelOne Jun 2013 #7
I never realized she was that young! :) JanMichael Jun 2013 #14
Prayers Edith,,,, benld74 Jun 2013 #8
Very sad news :( Tx4obama Jun 2013 #9
Archie Bunker Pisses Off Edith earthside Jun 2013 #10
thank you!!!!! neversaydie Jun 2013 #97
R.I.P. Jean Stapleton, premium Jun 2013 #11
Needs rec's for the rest of DU to know of her passing.. dixiegrrrrl Jun 2013 #12
Same here, dixiegrrrl Isoldeblue Jun 2013 #28
Carroll O'Conner had repukes nailed. nt awoke_in_2003 Jun 2013 #37
and see my reply #15 for the names of other Norman Lear sitcom cast members alp227 Jun 2013 #38
RIP Dingbat! Lucky Luciano Jun 2013 #13
You took the words right out of my post! SoapBox Jun 2013 #65
The only surviving members of the Bunker household: Meathead and Gloria. RIP Stapleton. alp227 Jun 2013 #15
sad but not terribly surprising dsc Jun 2013 #64
it's surprising to me... neversaydie Jun 2013 #98
Sad news. chknltl Jun 2013 #16
I loved that TV series - still watch the reruns. So sad hear she's gone. Triana Jun 2013 #17
Me too....Carol O'Conner and Jean Stapleton were great. whathehell Jun 2013 #48
Amen to that! burrowowl Jun 2013 #82
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2013 #18
Rest in Peace, Jean. dmr Jun 2013 #19
It's weird to think she was only 50 in '73 Arugula Latte Jun 2013 #20
Nice Lady & good actress! MarianJack Jun 2013 #21
I'm going to retire my obscene parody of her as my ringtone. Occulus Jun 2013 #22
No!!!!!!!!! I liked her so much. greatauntoftriplets Jun 2013 #23
RIP Edith! LeftofObama Jun 2013 #24
I cried through the entire episode where Edith died. no_hypocrisy Jun 2013 #25
When was that? tblue Jun 2013 #55
season 1 of "Archie Bunker's Place" alp227 Jun 2013 #67
Jean Stapleton wanted to leave the show, so no_hypocrisy Jun 2013 #69
if I remember right, he had been sleeping on the couch since she passed Skittles Jun 2013 #80
You really shouldn't have posted this. It might remind us that even RW pigs like Archie are human sir pball Jun 2013 #85
today's wingnuts would not have accepted archie JI7 Jun 2013 #87
Jean Stapleton was a Christian Scientist naturallyselected Jun 2013 #93
Terrific lady! Terrific show! Tarheel_Dem Jun 2013 #26
R.I.P. BumRushDaShow Jun 2013 #27
I totally agree with your comment.... ReRe Jun 2013 #46
Still have the 45 rpm whistler162 Jun 2013 #70
Rest in peace warrior1 Jun 2013 #29
RIP Ms Stapelton and thank you for what you did so well. uppityperson Jun 2013 #30
I thank her for her long life of excellent storytelling Warpy Jun 2013 #31
It says natural causes, so I hope the same for this amazing woman. Rest in Peace, Ms. Stapleton. nt Mnemosyne Jun 2013 #47
A classic and a great actor. Well done Jean. RIP. pinto Jun 2013 #32
Edith is finally stifled. RIP. Faygo Kid Jun 2013 #33
RIP DeSwiss Jun 2013 #34
Edith Bunker had to be KinMd Jun 2013 #35
Could a network put on a show like "All in the Family" today? KinMd Jun 2013 #36
'Wild About Harry' - pinto Jun 2013 #39
RIP Edith . . . . DrDan Jun 2013 #40
Edith was the glue that held the Bunker family together. Hekate Jun 2013 #41
This is very upsetting to me. David__77 Jun 2013 #42
She really brought that character to life.... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2013 #43
So sad. Lugnut Jun 2013 #44
Jean Stapleton interview excerpts from 2000 duffyduff Jun 2013 #45
Thanks for that. A good way to remember her and AITF. n/t Triana Jun 2013 #51
Thank You for this syberlion Jun 2013 #73
Rest in peace. shenmue Jun 2013 #49
Awwww. One of the most beloved characters of all time. alphafemale Jun 2013 #50
Those were the days! Iggo Jun 2013 #52
K&R for a terrific character actress. Kurovski Jun 2013 #54
One of the greatest actresses who played one of the greatest characters ever... AngryOldDem Jun 2013 #56
She brought such kindness to Edith BeyondGeography Jun 2013 #57
Gee, our old LaSalle ran great Omaha Steve Jun 2013 #58
Archie would say "Stifle yourself" elfin Jun 2013 #60
This is very sad. RIP Ms. Stapleton Va Lefty Jun 2013 #61
Ending of Too Good Edith, her last episode on AITF. edbermac Jun 2013 #62
Go with god and Rest in Peace Herlong Jun 2013 #63
RIP Edith... WillyT Jun 2013 #66
Archie and Ediths chairs KinMd Jun 2013 #68
RIP Edith ArnoldLayne Jun 2013 #71
Thank you for posting this news. chervilant Jun 2013 #72
She will be missed adric mutelovic Jun 2013 #74
Welcome to DU my friend! hrmjustin Jun 2013 #77
An awesome talent who will be remembered tabasco Jun 2013 #75
So beloved Iwillnevergiveup Jun 2013 #76
Bye Edith....you weren't the Dingbat, Archie thought... Historic NY Jun 2013 #78
She was so very good in "Michael" Myrina Jun 2013 #79
I loved All in the Family davidpdx Jun 2013 #81
Me too mimi85 Jun 2013 #83
It's funny how the program had a direct impact on your family davidpdx Jun 2013 #86
Ground breaking show. RIP. n/t davidwparker Jun 2013 #84
After "All in the Family" we would see her and say, "Hey that's Edith!!" underpants Jun 2013 #88
RIP Jean Stapleton. Granny M Jun 2013 #89
Great lady...she will be remembered . jessie04 Jun 2013 #90
May she rest in peace. My condolences to her family. n/t Tuesday Afternoon Jun 2013 #91
Some Years ago, I saw her as the Nurse in Romeo and Juliet at the Shakespeare Theatre in DC Burma Jones Jun 2013 #92
My father loved "All in the Family", and so did I. red dog 1 Jun 2013 #94
Love you, Edith . . . love you, Jean. colorado_ufo Jun 2013 #95
She had lots of great parts besides Edith. Does anyone remember "Aunt Mary"? maddogesq Jun 2013 #96

dsc

(52,162 posts)
2. she was so great as Edith
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 04:17 PM
Jun 2013

Loved her, loved the show, and the world will miss her greatly. BTW she was actually a good singer.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
59. that must of been something to see
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 06:41 PM
Jun 2013

I remember a tv movie she was in about female bank tellers who sued over gender discrimination and she was great in that too.

JanMichael

(24,890 posts)
14. I never realized she was that young! :)
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 04:44 PM
Jun 2013

She pulled off Edith Bunker so well....believable. A wonderful actress. Love that show!

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
12. Needs rec's for the rest of DU to know of her passing..
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 04:36 PM
Jun 2013

I used to watch All in the Family with cringing, because it portrayed a lot about my blue collar family, esp. my long suffering aunts who married Archies.
Dear dear Edith......

Isoldeblue

(1,135 posts)
28. Same here, dixiegrrrl
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 05:09 PM
Jun 2013

I had a father-in-law that made Archie look like Gandhi....... Once he found out that I had a Jewish grandfather, he would tell crummy Jewish jokes, non-stop at every meal. I hated visits there.

alp227

(32,025 posts)
38. and see my reply #15 for the names of other Norman Lear sitcom cast members
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 05:23 PM
Jun 2013

who have passed in the past year, they include those who played lead characters in The Jeffersons and One Day at a Time. As a 90s/00s kid, back in 2009 and 2010 I used to watch The Jeffersons and Good Times when a local TV station put on classic sitcoms in the late afternoons and later began watching All in the Family on DVD.

alp227

(32,025 posts)
15. The only surviving members of the Bunker household: Meathead and Gloria. RIP Stapleton.
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 04:45 PM
Jun 2013

Last edited Sat Jun 1, 2013, 05:21 PM - Edit history (1)

(Edited to add) I notice that a lot of cast members of '70s Norman Lear sitcoms have passed recently.

March 1: Bonnie Franklin (Ann Romano in One Day at a Time)
Jan. 14: Conrad Bain (Dr. Arthur Harmon in Maude)
Jan. 2: Ralph Wertimer (who played the doorman Ralph Hart in The Jeffersons)
July 24, 2012: Sherman Helmsley (George Jefferson, The Jeffersons)

dsc

(52,162 posts)
64. sad but not terribly surprising
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 06:50 PM
Jun 2013

The 70's are now 40 years old in some cases and over 30 in all cases. The first episode of All In The Family aired over 41 years ago, the first Jeffersons and One Day At a Time over 37 years ago, the first Maude over 40 years ago. It is hardly surprising that we are starting see the adults on those shows passing on.

neversaydie

(69 posts)
98. it's surprising to me...
Mon Jun 3, 2013, 01:41 AM
Jun 2013

that I'm getting OLD! watched that show with my family and we laughed so hard. I just can't believe that was 40 years ago. guess it's time to get started on that mid-life crisis...

Response to Newsjock (Original post)

dmr

(28,347 posts)
19. Rest in Peace, Jean.
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 04:51 PM
Jun 2013

Edith Bunker was a wonderful character, but Jean is what made her so beautiful.

My former mother-in-law was just like Edith. She was just as wonderful.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
20. It's weird to think she was only 50 in '73
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 04:53 PM
Jun 2013

She seemed older to me, as a kid. I think it was the clothing, the hairstyle, the behavior.

She was great and I'm glad she had a rich and long life.

Occulus

(20,599 posts)
22. I'm going to retire my obscene parody of her as my ringtone.
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 04:56 PM
Jun 2013

I still won't ever be able to watch the show the same way again, though...

(If you're curious, the file I used was eatdith.wav and you can Google it if you like. I will not post the link here. It's just... obscene.)

no_hypocrisy

(46,114 posts)
25. I cried through the entire episode where Edith died.
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 05:00 PM
Jun 2013

It's like going through the whole experience again.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
55. When was that?
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 06:22 PM
Jun 2013

I stopped watching after Mike & Gloria moved out. I didn't know they killed off Edith!

I'm sad Ms. Stapleton passed away. What a treasure she was. I adore All in the Family. It holds up perfectly. Just as relevant as ever.

no_hypocrisy

(46,114 posts)
69. Jean Stapleton wanted to leave the show, so
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 08:04 PM
Jun 2013

the writers had her die in her sleep of a stroke and the first episode of the new season (1982? ) had Archie and Stefanie trying to pick up the pieces of their shattered lives. It really was well written and heartbreaking. Especially when Archie found a lost bedroom slipper of Edith and started to talk to her and he broke down crying for the first time during the show. Powerful.



Here's the transcript of the episode:

http://www.allinthefamilysit.com/Archie_Alone_Transcript.pdf

sir pball

(4,742 posts)
85. You really shouldn't have posted this. It might remind us that even RW pigs like Archie are human
Sun Jun 2, 2013, 03:36 AM
Jun 2013

And that we're all susceptible to the same shit. How dare you remind us!

Hell, maybe it would do the nation good to have a mandatory watching of the entirety of AITF (and Archie Bunker's Place, where the Edith death ep occurred) some time..

JI7

(89,250 posts)
87. today's wingnuts would not have accepted archie
Sun Jun 2, 2013, 05:08 AM
Jun 2013

at least with him there was the whole thing of the times he grew up in. he was also working class and had a relationship with liberal family members and did not completely shut out minorities .




93. Jean Stapleton was a Christian Scientist
Sun Jun 2, 2013, 01:36 PM
Jun 2013

Jean Stapleton was very active in Christian Science and was not comfortable with so much of the show's action being shifted to a bar (the bar in "Archie Bunker's Place&quot . So she chose to leave the show.

I'm always surprised when Christian Scientists live to 90. Chances are they have not been treated for any diseases that become more common in old age. My own mother died at 68, and suffered (and I use that word literally) with ovarian cancer for many months before she died. It was only when it was far too late to do anything about it that she saw a doctor.

I loved the humanity and dignity that Jean Stapleton brought to the role of Edith Bunker. I never missed an episode when they were new, and I have seen every episode in re-runs many times. Interestingly, it was my Dad's favorite show. He was as Republican as they come, and I could never figure out why he loved the show so much, as it clearly came from a perspective much more to the left.

BumRushDaShow

(129,030 posts)
27. R.I.P.
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 05:08 PM
Jun 2013

To an amazing actress and performer. "All in the Family" is still a classic and quintessential look at Americana.

So sad to have seen this and condolences to the family.

Edit to add -

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
46. I totally agree with your comment....
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 05:48 PM
Jun 2013

... that it is classic Americana, historical fiction in film that in the centuries ahead, people will be able to see what times were like in our generation.

RIP, Edith. You will be remembered forever.

 

whistler162

(11,155 posts)
70. Still have the 45 rpm
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 08:07 PM
Jun 2013

RIP Jean.

Also enjoyed her when she guest starred on The Scarecrow and Mrs. King.

Warpy

(111,264 posts)
31. I thank her for her long life of excellent storytelling
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 05:14 PM
Jun 2013

through the characters she played so beautifully.

I hope the end was peaceful and without fear.

Mnemosyne

(21,363 posts)
47. It says natural causes, so I hope the same for this amazing woman. Rest in Peace, Ms. Stapleton. nt
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 05:51 PM
Jun 2013

Hekate

(90,692 posts)
41. Edith was the glue that held the Bunker family together.
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 05:35 PM
Jun 2013

The "dingbat" was their heart and soul.

RIP Ms Stapleton, and thanks for the memories.

 

Spitfire of ATJ

(32,723 posts)
43. She really brought that character to life....
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 05:43 PM
Jun 2013

A lot of actors are basically being themselves in whatever role they are playing. Then there are the ones who are NOTHING like the role they are playing. Jean Stapleton is one of those.

syberlion

(136 posts)
73. Thank You for this
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 08:43 PM
Jun 2013

She was such a bright light and I always enjoyed her in whatever part she chose to play. I'm just so glad there is so much of her work we can still see, she will be missed.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
50. Awwww. One of the most beloved characters of all time.
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 06:01 PM
Jun 2013

She was so open and loving.

How could anyone not love her back?

Kurovski

(34,655 posts)
54. K&R for a terrific character actress.
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 06:14 PM
Jun 2013

She and the writers made Edith a human wonder to behold.

Condolences to the family.

AngryOldDem

(14,061 posts)
56. One of the greatest actresses who played one of the greatest characters ever...
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 06:23 PM
Jun 2013

Her Edith, although a "Dingbat," shed a lot of light on just how ignorant and stupid bigotry and prejudice can be, and just how liberating it is to just accept people as they are.

One episode that still brings me to tears (the other being the Christmas episode where Mike invites a draft dodger and Archie invites a man who lost a son in Vietnam) is her episode where Edith has a crisis of faith after her friend Beverly, a cross-dresser, is beaten to death because of who he is. Pretty powerful and groundbreaking stuff for the early to mid-1970s, and pretty thought-provoking, as well.

RIP, Ms. Stapleton -- you will be missed. Those were indeed the days.

Omaha Steve

(99,642 posts)
58. Gee, our old LaSalle ran great
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 06:38 PM
Jun 2013

Those were the days!!!!

http://mortystv.com/aitf_faq.shtml


1940 LaSalle by Cadillac


"Those Were The Days"
by Lee Adams and Charles Strouse

Boy, the way Glen Miller played. Songs that made the hit parade.
Guys like us, we had it made. Those were the days.
Didn't need no welfare state. Everybody pulled his weight.
Gee, our old LaSalle ran great. Those were the days.
And you know who you were then, girls were girls and men were men.
Mister, we could use a man like Herbert Hoover again.
People seemed to be content. Fifty dollars paid the rent.
Freaks were in a circus tent. Those were the days.
Take a little Sunday spin, go to watch the Dodgers win.
Have yourself a dandy day that cost you under a fin.
Hair was short and skirts were long. Kate Smith really sold a song.
I don't know just what went wrong. Those Were The Days.

K&R!

elfin

(6,262 posts)
60. Archie would say "Stifle yourself"
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 06:44 PM
Jun 2013

And she would ultimately make her point in some kind of an end around.

Wonderful show. Wish they would do reruns like they do for Golden Girls and Roseanne.

edbermac

(15,939 posts)
62. Ending of Too Good Edith, her last episode on AITF.
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 06:45 PM
Jun 2013

"You're a pip...a real pip."

Perfect farewell to a wonderful character. RIP, dear lady.

KinMd

(966 posts)
68. Archie and Ediths chairs
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 07:09 PM
Jun 2013

are on display in the Smithsonian Museum of American History in Washington DC

Iwillnevergiveup

(9,298 posts)
76. So beloved
Sat Jun 1, 2013, 10:06 PM
Jun 2013

so talented, so sad. Thankfully, we have multiple ways to view all her work so she'll live on in our memories. A class act on stage and off.

Rest in peace, Ms. Stapleton.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
81. I loved All in the Family
Sun Jun 2, 2013, 01:29 AM
Jun 2013

Looking back at the cast it is pretty amazing what the four main members did throughout their careers. I have never seen Jean Stapleton in any other role, but I understand she was quite an accomplished actress. She lived a long life. RIP

mimi85

(1,805 posts)
83. Me too
Sun Jun 2, 2013, 02:03 AM
Jun 2013

It was definitely "must watch TV" at the time. She left us with so many fond memories; I felt more than a little sad when I heard the news. Ha, when my husband had super long hair back in the day, it drove my dad nuts and he started calling him "meathead." Thanks for the laughter and the tears, dingbat.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
86. It's funny how the program had a direct impact on your family
Sun Jun 2, 2013, 04:02 AM
Jun 2013

I guess meathead was one of the nicer things Archie said. When the show was on I was too young to watch it, but have seen some of the episodes in reruns.

underpants

(182,811 posts)
88. After "All in the Family" we would see her and say, "Hey that's Edith!!"
Sun Jun 2, 2013, 08:10 AM
Jun 2013

and we came to realize how wonderfully talented she was.

I can still to a really good Edith impression.

Burma Jones

(11,760 posts)
92. Some Years ago, I saw her as the Nurse in Romeo and Juliet at the Shakespeare Theatre in DC
Sun Jun 2, 2013, 12:17 PM
Jun 2013

I kept waiting for Edith to come out...she did so only once, and I'm sure Ms. Stapleton did it on purpose, she called out for Juliet in a voice reminiscent of Edith Bunker....A long life, good for her....

red dog 1

(27,804 posts)
94. My father loved "All in the Family", and so did I.
Sun Jun 2, 2013, 02:21 PM
Jun 2013

My Dad would laugh so hard, his face would turn red.

Jean Stapleton was great in the John Travolta film "Michael"

RIP Jean Stapleton.

maddogesq

(1,245 posts)
96. She had lots of great parts besides Edith. Does anyone remember "Aunt Mary"?
Sun Jun 2, 2013, 08:25 PM
Jun 2013

That was the program about a Baltimore woman that kept kids off the streets by getting them into baseball in the 1950's. I remember it well because they used the voice of baseball broadcaster ERnie Harwell, who called the O's games before coming to Detroit.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0078810/plotsummary?ref_=tt_ov_pl

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