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highplainsdem

(49,044 posts)
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 01:56 PM Jul 2020

Mary Trump's book says the president practices 'cheating as a way of life'

Source: NY Daily News

A forthcoming book by President Trump’s estranged niece describes him as a “toxic” bully who practices “cheating as a way of life” and made fun of his own father when his health began to deteriorate, according to a Monday press release.

-snip-

The presidential niece recounts the “strange and harmful relationship” between her father, Fred Trump, Jr., who died young after a long battle with alcoholism, and her famous uncle, according to Simon & Schuster.

She also recalls the “appalling way Donald, Fred Trump’s favorite son, dismissed and derided him when he began to succumb to Alzheimer’s” in the late 1990s, the publisher says.

Other “explosive” portions of the book include vivid descriptions of the “twisted” values and behaviors Trump picked up as a young man, according to the press release, including:
“Financial worth is the same as self-worth; humans are only valued in monetary terms.”
“A ‘killer’ instinct is revered, while qualities like empathy, kindness, and expertise are punished.”
“Taking responsibility for your failures is discouraged.”
“Cheating as a way of life.”

-snip-

Read more: https://www.nydailynews.com/news/politics/ny-mary-trump-book-president-trump-20200706-ttbg3kkxkvh5lnebtvuhbvacfa-story.html

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Mary Trump's book says the president practices 'cheating as a way of life' (Original Post) highplainsdem Jul 2020 OP
So in other words, nothing new for us to learn!!!! LOL What a fucking asshole he is!!! winstars Jul 2020 #1
My reaction exactly peggysue2 Jul 2020 #4
Her book was written to explain why he is the way he is. But I hope she has a lot more than highplainsdem Jul 2020 #15
me too vlyons Jul 2020 #19
Exactly! Richard58 Jul 2020 #36
LOL Exactly what I was thinking. Beartracks Jul 2020 #8
So Any One Of Us Here On DU Could Have Wrote This Book.....nt global1 Jul 2020 #14
Of course not peggysue2 Jul 2020 #23
Who knows...maybe she is going to accuse him of grabbing her under-aged pussy? Moostache Jul 2020 #29
I doubt this book will be particularly revelatory for anyone in NY/New England Warpy Jul 2020 #26
Quelle Surprise!!!! Newest Reality Jul 2020 #2
Sounds about right Blue Owl Jul 2020 #3
Nailed it so far soothsayer Jul 2020 #5
Unfortunately, there is quite a large segment of society that confuses 'cheating' with 'winning'. Hugin Jul 2020 #6
The end justifies the means central scrutinizer Jul 2020 #11
Sounds like him alright. What a guy! secondwind Jul 2020 #7
Thus confirming, as if anyone weren't already sure, that he's a FUCKING FASCIST to his core (nt) mr_lebowski Jul 2020 #9
Trump only likes fathers who DON'T get Alzheimer's blm Jul 2020 #10
All those make up the definition of a psychopath, no? Auggie Jul 2020 #12
I am guessing the Trump household was a regular lord of the flies environment. Thomas Hurt Jul 2020 #13
In other words, Trump would be the perfect leader for the modern-day Corporate Republican party sop Jul 2020 #16
Thanks, Mary, but we need actionable intelligence. LudwigPastorius Jul 2020 #17
Oh, those are good. jayschool2013 Jul 2020 #31
Or a diagram to where he did the mob favors by pouring bodies into the Trump Tower foundation. NBachers Jul 2020 #34
Ayn Randian in all of.... calclar Jul 2020 #18
did you see this Skittles Jul 2020 #35
What a surprise catrose Jul 2020 #20
Only 22 more days until safeinOhio Jul 2020 #21
The release date has been moved up, to the 14th. highplainsdem Jul 2020 #22
Thanks. safeinOhio Jul 2020 #28
Cheating is winning. Abusing someone is winning. Lying is winning. Treachery is winning. nt wiggs Jul 2020 #24
He really is a small, limited human being...who will do anything to hide that fact. nt wiggs Jul 2020 #25
And so it begins... BlueIdaho Jul 2020 #27
We have lots of analysis jayschool2013 Jul 2020 #30
Maybe Trump has Alzheimer's Frances Jul 2020 #32
i believe his mother had alzheimers too dawn5651 Jul 2020 #33
Yeah, we noticed. TY, hpd! Cha Jul 2020 #37
I was going to buy it, but there is nothing that will surprise me and I am done with A-hole 45. Evolve Dammit Jul 2020 #38
I think there is very much in her book to consider. Wash. state Desk Jet Jul 2020 #39
"Favorite son"? I thought his father derided him. nt live love laugh Jul 2020 #40
I read the early book by Wayne Barrett FakeNoose Jul 2020 #41
Good info. Both things are probably true as you explain. live love laugh Jul 2020 #42
I believe Mary heard things that were never revealed to reporters FakeNoose Jul 2020 #43

peggysue2

(10,843 posts)
4. My reaction exactly
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 02:04 PM
Jul 2020

Trump's niece affirms everything we know about Trump, a dysfunctional, cruel, petty human being, a man who would taunt his own father in his final days.

Nothing world shattering for those who are clearly anti-Trump. For the true believers? It will simply be another hoax from a disgruntled, jealous relative.

Ugh!

highplainsdem

(49,044 posts)
15. Her book was written to explain why he is the way he is. But I hope she has a lot more than
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 02:28 PM
Jul 2020

what's mentioned on the back cover that was just released, because other psychologists have already written about toddler Trump being more messed up by his mother being very ill, and often absent, when he was two years old.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=13707176

Richard58

(239 posts)
36. Exactly!
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 07:07 PM
Jul 2020

Everyone with a brain knew that Trump was a greedy. lying, stupid, incompetent, sociopathic con-man. So none of this is new to us. But I agree that this new book will make no difference to those in his cult. They think he is God's anointed and nothing will change their minds. I have no doubt they will just say that the "Deep State" paid her off to tell lies just to make Trump look bad before the election. Hell, they'll probably send her death threats. The ONLY people this book "might" make an impact on are those independents who are on the fence. (But I must say that those who don't know by now if they are going to vote for Trump or Biden are idiots.)

peggysue2

(10,843 posts)
23. Of course not
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 03:06 PM
Jul 2020

Mary Trump has the vantage point and credibility to write the book having had a front row seat to the family's dysfunction. For the anti-Trump voter she'll be preaching to the choir. Unless, that is, there's some revelation we've neither heard nor read before.

And for the true believers? The revelation(s) would need to be mega-ton explosive. Even then, they'd probably circle the wagons around Trump.

The main benefit of this book will be keeping negative Trump stories circulating in the ether, shoring up the exit planks for former Trump supporters, increasing their resolve.

As for the rest? They're a lost cause as were their Confederate/White Power heroes.

Mary Trump has every right to publish this story. If I were her I'd most likely be doing the same thing believing it was a public service.

All that being said, I'm sick to death of hearing Trump's name, let alone his life story. I don't care about the 'why.' I have no interest in explanations about his cruelty, incompetence or inflated ego. I just want to see the man gone, destroyed, obliterated. As do the rest of us here. Color me impatient. I want Donald Trump smashed like a bug. Before he kills us all.

Moostache

(9,897 posts)
29. Who knows...maybe she is going to accuse him of grabbing her under-aged pussy?
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 04:12 PM
Jul 2020

Still wouldn't mover the needle for his cultists, but it would further confirm what all of already know - Donald J. Trump is a sexual predator, pedophile and carries a very unhealthy incestuous lust for his eldest daughter.

His bizarre sexual proclivities aside, he is very clearly a man broken by childhood trauma and a lack of ever seeking therapy to understand why he is what he is.

BTW...I too cannot wait for the blessed day that the headlines blare out "Trump found dead on toilet...incomplete tweet on phone".

Warpy

(111,367 posts)
26. I doubt this book will be particularly revelatory for anyone in NY/New England
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 03:37 PM
Jul 2020

where his business practices and personal life are both well known.

I'm just hoping the clinical psychologist takes over at some point and dissects the lot of them thoroughly, especially with regards to Dumdum's desperate need for a daddy figure, now apparently supplied by Putin.

Hugin

(33,222 posts)
6. Unfortunately, there is quite a large segment of society that confuses 'cheating' with 'winning'.
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 02:07 PM
Jul 2020

Also, confusing 'intimidation' with 'leadership'.

Along with all of those other so-called values listed in the Tangerine Idi Amin's world view. He's not alone in believing those things.

central scrutinizer

(11,663 posts)
11. The end justifies the means
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 02:15 PM
Jul 2020

Russian bots, hacked voting machines, voter intimidation or disenfranchisement? Bring it on!

sop

(10,274 posts)
16. In other words, Trump would be the perfect leader for the modern-day Corporate Republican party
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 02:30 PM
Jul 2020

if only he were not so open and obvious about his ruling philosophy.

LudwigPastorius

(9,190 posts)
17. Thanks, Mary, but we need actionable intelligence.
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 02:31 PM
Jul 2020

Something like, he and his sons participated in a canned hunt of homeless drifters on a ranch in Wyoming with Dick Cheney...

Or, he engaged in a three way with Phyllis Schlafly and Sean Hannity...

Or, he had some nuns roughed up after they admonished him for spitting on a panhandler...

Or, he paid off a hotelier to make an "accident" go away involving bath salts and a dead hooker...



calclar

(55 posts)
18. Ayn Randian in all of....
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 02:33 PM
Jul 2020

those beliefs and behaviors.

Anything outside of one's own personal best interest is considered a weakness by Ayn Randians/Libertarians everywhere!!!

safeinOhio

(32,733 posts)
21. Only 22 more days until
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 03:03 PM
Jul 2020

I get my copy. Love to see it out sell The Art of the Deal on its first day. You can preorder now on Amazon. Already in 3rd printing.

BlueIdaho

(13,582 posts)
27. And so it begins...
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 03:39 PM
Jul 2020

By the time any court rules on Trump’s appeal again the horse will be out of the barn.

jayschool2013

(2,313 posts)
30. We have lots of analysis
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 04:20 PM
Jul 2020

We need actual details. I hope the book delivers specifics.

"For example, when he first saw Melania pole dance, he paid Melania's handler $1 million to set up a sexual encounter with the former Slovenian nude model. Melania's handler? Konstantin Putin, the brother of KGB agent and future Russian President Vladimir Putin."

You know, stuff like that. I know he's fucked up.

Evolve Dammit

(16,781 posts)
38. I was going to buy it, but there is nothing that will surprise me and I am done with A-hole 45.
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 07:53 PM
Jul 2020

We almost know how it ends. We're living it, and he has to go down with the usual media-focused, news cycle, time slot precision, shock jock ending. Let's just hope we don't go down his death spiral with him.

Wash. state Desk Jet

(3,426 posts)
39. I think there is very much in her book to consider.
Mon Jul 6, 2020, 10:50 PM
Jul 2020

given her profession and the warnings given us by mental health professionals . We are seeing the selected apples ,such as picking the fruit from the fruit stand. Mary Trump is writing about the entire apple orchard. What we will come to know will surpass all we think we already know. Better to know than it is to think that we know. And isn't that Trump's problem in that you cannot tell him anything because he thinks he already knows ?

FakeNoose

(32,797 posts)
41. I read the early book by Wayne Barrett
Tue Jul 7, 2020, 08:03 AM
Jul 2020

'Memba him? Barrett was an investigative reporter and editor for The Village Voice back when it was doing good journalism in NYC. Mr. Barrett spent much of his professional career following Donald Chump long before anyone else cared or anyone thought he'd ever become pResident. Barrett had a wealth of background information, because this happened before the days of Chump's family and friends clamming up for the press.

Anyway the story I read in Barrett's book was that Freddy Jr. (Mary's father and Donald's brother) had always been the apple of Dad's eye. As a young man in his early 20's Freddy Jr. was being groomed to take over the family business and become the successful son, while Donald was a f*ck-up in school and in life. It's likely that Donald's lifelong need to get revenge started in his teen years when he nursed a grudge against his older brother.

Things slowly changed as Freddy Jr. began to realize he didn't want to work for his father and he hated the real estate business. He really wanted to be an airline pilot. By the time Donald was already in college (just barely passing), he saw an opportunity to get in his father's good graces. He showed an aptitude for real estate management, collecting back rents, evicting people who couldn't pay rent, and doing shrewd deals with suppliers who ended up getting cheated. Donald earned respect from his Dad (for being a nasty business partner apparently) meanwhile Freddy Jr. left the company.

Maybe this brotherly conflict was what triggered Freddy Jr.'s alcoholism that eventually took his life? Wayne Barrett never says in his book but he does make a few connections. He writes that Donald was always a messed up kid, always causing trouble, and the Trump family all knew it.

I do look forward to reading Mary Trump's book because I'm sure she has some private family insights/gossip that were never discussed with outsiders. Another good book: David Cay Johnston is a great investigative reporter who has written a few books about Chump's early life. I recommend reading the books by Wayne Barrett and David Cay Johnston.


live love laugh

(13,150 posts)
42. Good info. Both things are probably true as you explain.
Tue Jul 7, 2020, 08:11 AM
Jul 2020

He was a fuck up in his earliest years but Mary wasn’t around or old enough to witness that. Her view of the evolved relationship dynamics also makes sense.

FakeNoose

(32,797 posts)
43. I believe Mary heard things that were never revealed to reporters
Tue Jul 7, 2020, 08:14 AM
Jul 2020

You know how kids are, they absorb everything, even when they're too young to understand what's really happening. That's the kind of stuff she'll have in her book, I think. Plus her later insights that she has gained as an adult psychologist.

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