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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 12:56 PM Oct 2018

Melania Trump: 'I Wish People Would Focus On What I Do, Not What I Wear'

Source: Talking Points Memo




By DARLENE SUPERVILLE

October 6, 2018 12:46 pm

CAIRO (AP) — Melania Trump says she has, at times, told the president to put his phone down. And she says she doesn’t always agree with what he tweets.

The U.S. first lady spoke briefly with reporters Saturday as she was wrapping up a four-country tour of Africa with a visit to the pyramids and the Great Sphinx in Egypt. Standing in front of the Sphinx, Mrs. Trump said makes her opinions clear with her husband.

“I don’t always agree what he tweets,” she said in a rare, unscripted interaction with reporters. “And I tell him that. I give him my honest opinion and honest advice. And sometimes he listens and sometimes he doesn’t. But I have my own voice and my opinions and it’s very important for me that I express what I feel.”

As for whether she’s ever told him to put his phone down, she said, “yes,” with a laugh.

Read more: https://talkingpointsmemo.com/news/melania-trump-egypt-trip

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Melania Trump: 'I Wish People Would Focus On What I Do, Not What I Wear' (Original Post) DonViejo Oct 2018 OP
Huh? Mike Nelson Oct 2018 #1
And on this trip in particular, Samspadesnark Oct 2018 #33
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2018 #93
She dresses and posses like a fashion model lapfog_1 Oct 2018 #39
My heart goes out to poor oppressed Melanoma. comradebillyboy Oct 2018 #2
I REALLY DON'T CARE, DO U? BigmanPigman Oct 2018 #53
I only care to the extent that she seems like she's a half-step above a sex trafficking victim yurbud Oct 2018 #107
This is not breaking news. rockfordfile Oct 2018 #3
This message was self-deleted by its author EricMaundry Oct 2018 #16
Hey, Maleria Scarsdale Oct 2018 #31
She doesn't do ANYTHING tenderfoot Oct 2018 #4
That was exactly my reaction! forgotmylogin Oct 2018 #59
Mine too ooky Oct 2018 #70
OH! She designed the Christmas Hall of Terror. forgotmylogin Oct 2018 #72
Nice pic of a Sphinx//// asiliveandbreathe Oct 2018 #5
What she does so far is provide saidsimplesimon Oct 2018 #6
Heh. violetpastille Oct 2018 #8
Yeppers CountAllVotes Oct 2018 #10
Her kidneys have become enlarged kskiska Oct 2018 #80
It does, and the belt does her no favors. Autumn Oct 2018 #13
Very unflattering outfit. smirkymonkey Oct 2018 #49
Dunno about that outfit. Dulcinea Oct 2018 #17
ha, ha, that was fun to read. saidsimplesimon Oct 2018 #20
She has no original thoughts. SunSeeker Oct 2018 #65
I don't think any archeologists wear 4-inch spike heels in the desert FakeNoose Oct 2018 #81
She wasn't wearing spike heals in the pic I am referring to (the OP). SunSeeker Oct 2018 #86
She probably wanted to Retrograde Oct 2018 #90
She was never "successful" as a model. Scarsdale Oct 2018 #96
... CountAllVotes Oct 2018 #7
She's acting like it's a fashion magazine shoot .... CatMor Oct 2018 #9
Oh, boo-hoo. Mrs. Obama was put through the wringer. It's your turn now. Auggie Oct 2018 #11
If she hadn't gone there first all her life, she'd now get what she wants instead of what she set up ancianita Oct 2018 #12
Ya. That's what the Kardashians say too. Bfd Oct 2018 #14
Then stop wearing stupid outfits Melania. OliverQ Oct 2018 #15
Gotta love that colonialist memsahib safari outfit she's modeling in Africa. Paladin Oct 2018 #18
There is no way Samspadesnark Oct 2018 #37
Stop dressing disrespectfully Achilleaze Oct 2018 #19
Well, THAT'S easy enough to fix DFW Oct 2018 #21
If she didn't want people to notice what she wears she should Solly Mack Oct 2018 #22
5. Women who want to be taken seriously don't marry Donald Trump. They. Just. Don't. saidsimplesimon Oct 2018 #28
I agree. LuvNewcastle Oct 2018 #95
What she wears is what she does pandr32 Oct 2018 #23
"Or what I don't wear" dalton99a Oct 2018 #24
Nice Heels calguy Oct 2018 #29
Is That RobinA Oct 2018 #47
Yep. It's from when he gave up wearing a mullet. COLGATE4 Oct 2018 #50
It looks like a pelt made from a dead dog. forgotmylogin Oct 2018 #60
Handcuffed to a briefcase maybe filled with $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$... fierywoman Oct 2018 #102
Wanda Sykes as a prostitute in Pooty Tang Submariner Oct 2018 #25
She doesn't "do" anything. Codeine Oct 2018 #26
As a former model she knows how fashion makes a statement. Laffy Kat Oct 2018 #27
That's like a porn star getting upset because nobody takes his or her acting seriously Snake Plissken Oct 2018 #30
I care for neither. Owl Oct 2018 #32
Well, you essentially do nothing so.... Drahthaardogs Oct 2018 #34
She keeps an eye on him for Russia dalton99a Oct 2018 #36
Seriously, Butterflylady Oct 2018 #35
Has she done anything? Gothmog Oct 2018 #38
Epic failure gademocrat7 Oct 2018 #42
Then don't wear Colonial attire, 'pith helmet' c. 1915 esp. in Africa! appalachiablue Oct 2018 #40
bwahaaa !!! CountAllVotes Oct 2018 #43
Mamie Eisenhower had better fashion sense The Blue Flower Oct 2018 #41
Note to Melania; make a run for it while you can, nobody will notice for a month or two, by then, Meadowoak Oct 2018 #44
Here's a start: Marie Marie Oct 2018 #45
I see she still hasn't figured out Ohiogal Oct 2018 #46
I know. Because wearing a jacket explicitly stating that you don't care Downtown Hound Oct 2018 #48
I really don't care, do u? QED Oct 2018 #51
Melania pamdb Oct 2018 #52
Why would this imbecile think we give a shit about ANYTHING about her? So delusional. Squinch Oct 2018 #54
Ok melania, you do nothing. Lucky Luciano Oct 2018 #55
Its nice to see MFM008 Oct 2018 #56
What else does she do besides "Stay married to the worst person on Earth" meadowlander Oct 2018 #57
She looks like an ass. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2018 #58
I really don't care. OilemFirchen Oct 2018 #61
While a sexual predator was being considered for the Supreme Court duforsure Oct 2018 #62
wow. qwlauren35 Oct 2018 #98
Oh really? You still think Obama wasn't born in the US, you craven dipshit? SunSeeker Oct 2018 #63
Does she think her husband married her for her smarts and activism? milestogo Oct 2018 #64
WOW! He's back! kaotikross Oct 2018 #66
She paraded a coat saying "I really don't care do u?" yardwork Oct 2018 #67
What does she do ? I mean besides the drugs I suspect.. lunasun Oct 2018 #68
Sometimes I wonder if her feet are permanently frozen the shape of a stiletto dflprincess Oct 2018 #92
From the Hoarse Whisperer Gothmog Oct 2018 #69
My three-word response would get me in trouble here. NBachers Oct 2018 #71
Then don't wear stupid and insensitive sh*t. Beacool Oct 2018 #73
I can't help but think the whole Trump family is made up of plastic people. Doitnow Oct 2018 #74
It is. When they're photographed as a group kskiska Oct 2018 #82
Dumb as a carp ?! Pauldg47 Oct 2018 #75
I object to that characterization! RainCaster Oct 2018 #110
She can go straight to hell. 47of74 Oct 2018 #76
Perfect jberryhill Oct 2018 #77
Mrs. #notmypresident handmade34 Oct 2018 #78
What does she do... squint?? C_U_L8R Oct 2018 #79
I don't focus on you at all. tavernier Oct 2018 #83
Thoughts & prayers, Mel. Sugar Smack Oct 2018 #84
Be best Racerdog1 Oct 2018 #85
OK, you fuck an ugly old man for a living. Is that better? n/t QC Oct 2018 #87
Did she get bad reviews on her outfit again? True_Blue Oct 2018 #88
Those pants need hemming Retrograde Oct 2018 #89
Indiana Jones cosplay outfit. sarcasmo Oct 2018 #91
This message was self-deleted by its author Raine Oct 2018 #94
Because you don't DO anything, darling. You have never done anything that matters... Honeycombe8 Oct 2018 #97
Um... Putting clothes on is an "action" Blue_Tires Oct 2018 #99
Actually, geralmar Oct 2018 #100
Do?! democratisphere Oct 2018 #101
OK then get the red out Oct 2018 #103
And no one ever tells me nothing . . . Ms. Toad Oct 2018 #104
When you wear something like she did to a disaster area duforsure Oct 2018 #105
No she doesn't. MrsCoffee Oct 2018 #106
As long as that fucking idiot doesn't wear something so outrageously stupid stating, "I don't care" BigDemVoter Oct 2018 #108
Well, (redacted), when you do nothing, you don't leave us much to focus on . . . hatrack Oct 2018 #109

Samspadesnark

(75 posts)
33. And on this trip in particular,
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:40 PM
Oct 2018

where she is meeting with heads of state in nations called s**thole countries by her husband, she is dressing in the most disrespectful way I have ever seen her dress. On every other occasion both here and abroad, she dresses almost 'to the nines', and wears very stylish (and usually respectful, non-sleezy), attractive, and expensive clothing. This time, she chose to take garments that resemble what we used to call 'house coats' (cheap, borderline bathrobes, that ladies wore for cleaning around the house, in the 50s) and something resembling a safari suit – which she wore while seated in the presidential office of Egypt, a Moslem nation. These are not just garments: they are statements of disrespect and glaring indifference. Thus, they are deeds. Showing African school children how to walk in a sexualized manner was also disrespectful of both her role and their destiny.

She did not need to wear outfits that cost tens of thousands of dollars to do this, merely to have worn attractive dresses that are not measurably cheap and clearly frumpy-looking – and not clearly out of sync with the way in which she presents herself for other occasions. She would have done better to have stayed at home.

If Michelle Obama had gone to Africa and dressed like Melania dressed on the occasions in question, the right-wing would have eaten her for lunch and spit her out. I'm merely asking that Melania respect her own role as a representative of our country when she travels abroad as first lady, as well as respecting the cultural sensitivities of the people she visits. I have no doubt that the people in Africa noticed clearly what I am talking about.

Response to Samspadesnark (Reply #33)

lapfog_1

(29,215 posts)
39. She dresses and posses like a fashion model
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:51 PM
Oct 2018

so why does she think that the media WOULDN'T comment on her clothes?

Would she rather they ask her about Twitler's affairs with porn stars and playboy bunnies?

yurbud

(39,405 posts)
107. I only care to the extent that she seems like she's a half-step above a sex trafficking victim
Mon Oct 8, 2018, 10:22 AM
Oct 2018

if that.

Response to rockfordfile (Reply #3)

forgotmylogin

(7,530 posts)
59. That was exactly my reaction!
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 04:03 PM
Oct 2018

What has she done?
Off the top of my head:
She wore the "I don't care" jacket...well, that's wearing.
She wore high heels to garden, obviously never having done it before. Wearing again.
She visited children in refugee cages and her response seemed to sum up as "Oh you have your own room!" (paraphrased, I don't remember)
She walks beside her husband, occasionally refusing to hold hands or smirking when he looks away.
She posed nude. Again...wearing/not wearing.
She occasionally puts out a press release that bullying is bad. Whatever, fix your own glass white house.
Perhaps, as a model, she considers standing around decoratively in clothes as "doing something" but whatever.

ooky

(8,926 posts)
70. Mine too
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 05:33 PM
Oct 2018

She said she was going to be a champion against cyber bullying and hasn't done anything.
She made 2 trips to the border, did nothing after either.
Now this excursion to Africa

So, did I miss anything?

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
6. What she does so far is provide
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:00 PM
Oct 2018

photo ops and shallow promises. She is no Michelle Obama. imo

To confirm how shallow I am, that safari costume makes her look fat.

SunSeeker

(51,607 posts)
65. She has no original thoughts.
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 04:59 PM
Oct 2018

She's in Egypt, so she dresses like one of the archeologists in Raiders of the Lost Ark.

SunSeeker

(51,607 posts)
86. She wasn't wearing spike heals in the pic I am referring to (the OP).
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 10:02 PM
Oct 2018

Here's a better pic of her footwear (flats) since it is so important to you.

Calm down and stop slapping yourself in the face. Nothing to get worked up over. Just sayin.

That's not to say her other outfits weren't as ridiculous as this one was. Her colonialist inspired pith helmet and riding boots look was really tone deaf. She really is an idiot.

https://mobile.twitter.com/aKahlfuss/status/1048449500786774016

Retrograde

(10,142 posts)
90. She probably wanted to
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 10:28 PM
Oct 2018

but someone or something stopped her at the last minute - those pants aren't hemmed for flats.* IMHO she's remarkably clueless about how to wear clothes, odd for someone who was supposedly a successful runway model, or so they tell me.

*I've done enough sewing, fitting and tailoring to know that one does the final fitting for hemming wearing the shoe that will be worn with the outfit. The back of the legs of the pants are longer then the front here, indicating that someone was expecting them to be worn with substantial heels.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
96. She was never "successful" as a model.
Sun Oct 7, 2018, 08:37 AM
Oct 2018

Not as an "escort" either, so I heard, She was broke and ready to go home to Slovania when she met tRump. He must have decided (eventually) that it would be cheaper to marry her than pay her fee. Surely he had heard that expression "You can't turn a ho into a housewife"??

CountAllVotes

(20,877 posts)
7. ...
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:01 PM
Oct 2018


That's right Melanoma, time to dump the safari outfit and cover up that boob job. Who really cares about U?





CatMor

(6,212 posts)
9. She's acting like it's a fashion magazine shoot ....
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:02 PM
Oct 2018

how can we concentrate on what she does which is nothing.

Paladin

(28,267 posts)
18. Gotta love that colonialist memsahib safari outfit she's modeling in Africa.
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:15 PM
Oct 2018

Pith helmet, the works. Right out of a Ker & Downey advertisement; the only thing missing is Fredo Jr. with a bloody elephant tail in his greedy little hands.

I've seen mannequins with a better grasp of proper attire than what passes for our first lady.......

DFW

(54,417 posts)
21. Well, THAT'S easy enough to fix
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:23 PM
Oct 2018

Do good things. Say intelligent things. Stop wearing stupid things.

Sedaj razumeš (Now do you understand)? Probably not.

Solly Mack

(90,778 posts)
22. If she didn't want people to notice what she wears she should
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:25 PM
Oct 2018

1. Move out of the spotlight - which she has always sought. (modeling, dating wealthy men, marrying someone well known)

2. Stop dressing as if for a photo shoot.

3. Stop with the hackneyed model poses when photographed.

She wants attention. She's lying to ever claim otherwise. She simply does not like most of the attention she gets because she is called on her bullshit.

4. She doesn't "do" anything.

Her PR people script a scenario around her limitations. They set the scenery and insert Melania Trump into it - then take a photograph.

It's all one big photo shoot for a few headlines. Of which I guarantee she collects copies of and places into her "portfolio' if not framed and placed on some wall somewhere.

5. Women who want to be taken seriously don't marry Donald Trump. They. Just. Don't.

LuvNewcastle

(16,847 posts)
95. I agree.
Sun Oct 7, 2018, 05:16 AM
Oct 2018

It's very hard for me to have respect for anyone who would marry him. Marrying Donald Trump is like taking a dip in a cesspool.

pandr32

(11,595 posts)
23. What she wears is what she does
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:27 PM
Oct 2018

She dresses as she chooses and does little else. She gives us nothing else to focus on.

Submariner

(12,504 posts)
25. Wanda Sykes as a prostitute in Pooty Tang
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:28 PM
Oct 2018

said the same thing about what she was wearing. What goes around comes around you racist gold digging POS.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
26. She doesn't "do" anything.
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:30 PM
Oct 2018

She exists as a trophy, and a fairly sub-par one at that. She accomplishes nothing of import and her existence as a celebrity and public figure is predicated entirely on her perceived sexual and social value to one of the most hideously corrupt men in America.

And she looks like an idiot in that get-up. Seriously, if you want to be viewed as a fashion icon don’t look so silly that even an out-of-touch older white dude like me can tell.

Laffy Kat

(16,385 posts)
27. As a former model she knows how fashion makes a statement.
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 01:30 PM
Oct 2018

We are not focused on what she is wearing, we are focused, and critical of the statement she is making. It is racist and downright idiotic, therefore she looks like an idiotic racist.

Meadowoak

(5,555 posts)
44. Note to Melania; make a run for it while you can, nobody will notice for a month or two, by then,
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 02:22 PM
Oct 2018

You can find a new sugar daddy, one that isn't going to prison. Good Luck.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
48. I know. Because wearing a jacket explicitly stating that you don't care
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 03:16 PM
Oct 2018

when visiting traumatized refugees is the perfect way to make people not focus on what you're wearing.

meadowlander

(4,399 posts)
57. What else does she do besides "Stay married to the worst person on Earth"
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 04:03 PM
Oct 2018

and occasionally come up with insincere, lame, hypocritical slogans like "Be best"?

duforsure

(11,885 posts)
62. While a sexual predator was being considered for the Supreme Court
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 04:53 PM
Oct 2018

You refused to stand up for women from them being sexually abused, and did nothing,. They treated her like a liar , and was confused and you did nothing, and he showed his rage against women and people he opposed and lied, and you did nothing. I don't really care what you think, do you?

SunSeeker

(51,607 posts)
63. Oh really? You still think Obama wasn't born in the US, you craven dipshit?
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 04:56 PM
Oct 2018

Are you on assignment in Africa for your husband to discover Obama's real birthplace?

yardwork

(61,678 posts)
67. She paraded a coat saying "I really don't care do u?"
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 05:11 PM
Oct 2018

She made sure that she was photographed wearing that coat when she visited the border, where thousands of babies and children are forcibly separated from their parents.

Fuck her.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
68. What does she do ? I mean besides the drugs I suspect..
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 05:24 PM
Oct 2018

I thought she was upset at the media focusing on what she did, like wearing a coat with an I don't care declaration or like disappearing from public for awhile . Which is it?
When you wear a $1300 plaid shirt or pink heels to garden, yes people comment on what you wear because it's different, just like your husband looks like he has a dead animal on his head and wears a long clown tie it all does draw attention but not in a good way because it's not the norm.

Beacool

(30,250 posts)
73. Then don't wear stupid and insensitive sh*t.
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 07:27 PM
Oct 2018

The infamous “I really don't care, do u?” jacket, the Pith helmet in Kenya and this ridiculous attire that makes her look like she stepped off an Indiana Jones movie set.

Clueless woman.



kskiska

(27,045 posts)
82. It is. When they're photographed as a group
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 08:59 PM
Oct 2018

the women all look alike, with long straight hair, stand in model poses, some with that crossed-leg thing they do.

RainCaster

(10,904 posts)
110. I object to that characterization!
Tue Oct 9, 2018, 02:13 AM
Oct 2018

I raise koi (pretty carp) and I find them to be far more social and intelligent than the Third Lady.

tavernier

(12,394 posts)
83. I don't focus on you at all.
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 09:30 PM
Oct 2018

Seriously.

My friends and family love and support me, but they don’t “focus” on me, nor would I want them to. And I’m quite certain a great majority of the country feels the same way.

You really need to get a life, my dear lady.

True_Blue

(3,063 posts)
88. Did she get bad reviews on her outfit again?
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 10:15 PM
Oct 2018

She always looks like she's trying too hard to make the cover of Vogue.

Retrograde

(10,142 posts)
89. Those pants need hemming
Sat Oct 6, 2018, 10:21 PM
Oct 2018

How can she walk without either tripping on them, or horribly fraying the edges? Were they supposed to go with the usual 6" heels, but the footware changed when someone told her she'd be walking on sand? Why is she standing as if she's waiting for the Vogue photographer to show up? Why don't the pants quite fit around the hips? (Mel, dear - we all change with age. If you've added a few inches here and there - as many of us do - get clothes that fit your current body. Don't keep trying to cram yourself into smaller sizes thinking it makes you look slim and youthful: it doesn't).

I've criticized Laura Bush's and even Michelle Obama's clothing choice on this site. If Ms Trump doesn't want to be judged solely on what she wears (poorly) she could do something for the good of her country. Sure, she speaks with a heavy accent: so do a lot of Americans who get out and do things. And her English would only improve if she spent some time talking to real people.

Response to DonViejo (Original post)

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
97. Because you don't DO anything, darling. You have never done anything that matters...
Sun Oct 7, 2018, 09:19 AM
Oct 2018

you only WEAR things that matter to your fortune.

Let's move on, shall we?

 

geralmar

(2,138 posts)
100. Actually,
Sun Oct 7, 2018, 11:24 PM
Oct 2018

I think she's rather innocuous. She isn't running the country like Nancy Reagan did during the last month's of her husband's presidency. (Actually Nancy didn't do that bad a job.)



Ms. Toad

(34,082 posts)
104. And no one ever tells me nothing . . .
Mon Oct 8, 2018, 12:50 AM
Oct 2018
In Lilongwe, Malawi, her motorcade passed a sign that read “Welcome to Malawi. #NOTASHITHOLE!” — a reference to reports that the president used the vulgar term to describe African nations.

Mrs. Trump said she never heard her husband “saying those comments” and “nobody discussed that with me.”


duforsure

(11,885 posts)
105. When you wear something like she did to a disaster area
Mon Oct 8, 2018, 05:51 AM
Oct 2018

It does nothing but show and prove how much of a fraud SHE is too.

BigDemVoter

(4,153 posts)
108. As long as that fucking idiot doesn't wear something so outrageously stupid stating, "I don't care"
Mon Oct 8, 2018, 06:55 PM
Oct 2018

then maybe people won't focus on what that porn star wears. . .

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