Melania Trump: 'I Wish People Would Focus On What I Do, Not What I Wear'
Source: Talking Points Memo
By DARLENE SUPERVILLE
October 6, 2018 12:46 pm
CAIRO (AP) Melania Trump says she has, at times, told the president to put his phone down. And she says she doesnt always agree with what he tweets.
The U.S. first lady spoke briefly with reporters Saturday as she was wrapping up a four-country tour of Africa with a visit to the pyramids and the Great Sphinx in Egypt. Standing in front of the Sphinx, Mrs. Trump said makes her opinions clear with her husband.
I dont always agree what he tweets, she said in a rare, unscripted interaction with reporters. And I tell him that. I give him my honest opinion and honest advice. And sometimes he listens and sometimes he doesnt. But I have my own voice and my opinions and its very important for me that I express what I feel.
As for whether shes ever told him to put his phone down, she said, yes, with a laugh.
Read more: https://talkingpointsmemo.com/news/melania-trump-egypt-trip
Mike Nelson
(9,961 posts)
everything she wears screams, "ATTENTION!"
Samspadesnark
(75 posts)where she is meeting with heads of state in nations called s**thole countries by her husband, she is dressing in the most disrespectful way I have ever seen her dress. On every other occasion both here and abroad, she dresses almost 'to the nines', and wears very stylish (and usually respectful, non-sleezy), attractive, and expensive clothing. This time, she chose to take garments that resemble what we used to call 'house coats' (cheap, borderline bathrobes, that ladies wore for cleaning around the house, in the 50s) and something resembling a safari suit which she wore while seated in the presidential office of Egypt, a Moslem nation. These are not just garments: they are statements of disrespect and glaring indifference. Thus, they are deeds. Showing African school children how to walk in a sexualized manner was also disrespectful of both her role and their destiny.
She did not need to wear outfits that cost tens of thousands of dollars to do this, merely to have worn attractive dresses that are not measurably cheap and clearly frumpy-looking and not clearly out of sync with the way in which she presents herself for other occasions. She would have done better to have stayed at home.
If Michelle Obama had gone to Africa and dressed like Melania dressed on the occasions in question, the right-wing would have eaten her for lunch and spit her out. I'm merely asking that Melania respect her own role as a representative of our country when she travels abroad as first lady, as well as respecting the cultural sensitivities of the people she visits. I have no doubt that the people in Africa noticed clearly what I am talking about.
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lapfog_1
(29,215 posts)so why does she think that the media WOULDN'T comment on her clothes?
Would she rather they ask her about Twitler's affairs with porn stars and playboy bunnies?
comradebillyboy
(10,168 posts)BigmanPigman
(51,615 posts)yurbud
(39,405 posts)if that.
rockfordfile
(8,704 posts)Response to rockfordfile (Reply #3)
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Scarsdale
(9,426 posts)"I really don't care. Do U?" Was this worn to be ignored, or for attention?
tenderfoot
(8,438 posts)eom
forgotmylogin
(7,530 posts)What has she done?
Off the top of my head:
She wore the "I don't care" jacket...well, that's wearing.
She wore high heels to garden, obviously never having done it before. Wearing again.
She visited children in refugee cages and her response seemed to sum up as "Oh you have your own room!" (paraphrased, I don't remember)
She walks beside her husband, occasionally refusing to hold hands or smirking when he looks away.
She posed nude. Again...wearing/not wearing.
She occasionally puts out a press release that bullying is bad. Whatever, fix your own glass white house.
Perhaps, as a model, she considers standing around decoratively in clothes as "doing something" but whatever.
ooky
(8,926 posts)She said she was going to be a champion against cyber bullying and hasn't done anything.
She made 2 trips to the border, did nothing after either.
Now this excursion to Africa
So, did I miss anything?
forgotmylogin
(7,530 posts)This is her doing:
asiliveandbreathe
(8,203 posts)saidsimplesimon
(7,888 posts)photo ops and shallow promises. She is no Michelle Obama. imo
To confirm how shallow I am, that safari costume makes her look fat.
violetpastille
(1,483 posts)I'm with you.
CountAllVotes
(20,877 posts)She's put on more than a few since the boob job!
kskiska
(27,045 posts)since the hospital stay.
Autumn
(45,120 posts)What is up with the draped jacket shit? It looks so tacky.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)And just ridiculous looking.
Dulcinea
(6,652 posts)Is she channeling Lawrence of Arabia?
saidsimplesimon
(7,888 posts)SunSeeker
(51,607 posts)She's in Egypt, so she dresses like one of the archeologists in Raiders of the Lost Ark.
FakeNoose
(32,680 posts)Just sayin'
SunSeeker
(51,607 posts)Here's a better pic of her footwear (flats) since it is so important to you.
Calm down and stop slapping yourself in the face. Nothing to get worked up over. Just sayin.
That's not to say her other outfits weren't as ridiculous as this one was. Her colonialist inspired pith helmet and riding boots look was really tone deaf. She really is an idiot.
https://mobile.twitter.com/aKahlfuss/status/1048449500786774016
Retrograde
(10,142 posts)but someone or something stopped her at the last minute - those pants aren't hemmed for flats.* IMHO she's remarkably clueless about how to wear clothes, odd for someone who was supposedly a successful runway model, or so they tell me.
*I've done enough sewing, fitting and tailoring to know that one does the final fitting for hemming wearing the shoe that will be worn with the outfit. The back of the legs of the pants are longer then the front here, indicating that someone was expecting them to be worn with substantial heels.
Scarsdale
(9,426 posts)Not as an "escort" either, so I heard, She was broke and ready to go home to Slovania when she met tRump. He must have decided (eventually) that it would be cheaper to marry her than pay her fee. Surely he had heard that expression "You can't turn a ho into a housewife"??
CountAllVotes
(20,877 posts)That's right Melanoma, time to dump the safari outfit and cover up that boob job. Who really cares about U?
CatMor
(6,212 posts)how can we concentrate on what she does which is nothing.
Auggie
(31,177 posts)ancianita
(36,128 posts)Bfd
(1,406 posts)When all you are is what you wear, then be quuet.
OliverQ
(3,363 posts)Paladin
(28,267 posts)Pith helmet, the works. Right out of a Ker & Downey advertisement; the only thing missing is Fredo Jr. with a bloody elephant tail in his greedy little hands.
I've seen mannequins with a better grasp of proper attire than what passes for our first lady.......
Samspadesnark
(75 posts)that everyone in Africa did not notice her decision to dress as a colonialist.
Achilleaze
(15,543 posts)d'oh
DFW
(54,417 posts)Do good things. Say intelligent things. Stop wearing stupid things.
Sedaj razume (Now do you understand)? Probably not.
Solly Mack
(90,778 posts)1. Move out of the spotlight - which she has always sought. (modeling, dating wealthy men, marrying someone well known)
2. Stop dressing as if for a photo shoot.
3. Stop with the hackneyed model poses when photographed.
She wants attention. She's lying to ever claim otherwise. She simply does not like most of the attention she gets because she is called on her bullshit.
4. She doesn't "do" anything.
Her PR people script a scenario around her limitations. They set the scenery and insert Melania Trump into it - then take a photograph.
It's all one big photo shoot for a few headlines. Of which I guarantee she collects copies of and places into her "portfolio' if not framed and placed on some wall somewhere.
5. Women who want to be taken seriously don't marry Donald Trump. They. Just. Don't.
saidsimplesimon
(7,888 posts)LuvNewcastle
(16,847 posts)It's very hard for me to have respect for anyone who would marry him. Marrying Donald Trump is like taking a dip in a cesspool.
pandr32
(11,595 posts)She dresses as she chooses and does little else. She gives us nothing else to focus on.
dalton99a
(81,543 posts)calguy
(5,323 posts)a throw made out of his hair shes posing on?
COLGATE4
(14,732 posts)forgotmylogin
(7,530 posts)fierywoman
(7,688 posts)Submariner
(12,504 posts)said the same thing about what she was wearing. What goes around comes around you racist gold digging POS.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)She exists as a trophy, and a fairly sub-par one at that. She accomplishes nothing of import and her existence as a celebrity and public figure is predicated entirely on her perceived sexual and social value to one of the most hideously corrupt men in America.
And she looks like an idiot in that get-up. Seriously, if you want to be viewed as a fashion icon dont look so silly that even an out-of-touch older white dude like me can tell.
Laffy Kat
(16,385 posts)We are not focused on what she is wearing, we are focused, and critical of the statement she is making. It is racist and downright idiotic, therefore she looks like an idiotic racist.
Snake Plissken
(4,103 posts)Owl
(3,643 posts)Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)I guess you want me to Google your nude pics???
dalton99a
(81,543 posts)Butterflylady
(3,546 posts)She wants us to believe that, well here's what I think
Gothmog
(145,427 posts)This lady is a failure as a First Lady
gademocrat7
(10,665 posts)appalachiablue
(41,159 posts)CountAllVotes
(20,877 posts)Is this a WOMP WOMP second?
The Blue Flower
(5,443 posts)At least she never looked ridiculous.
Meadowoak
(5,555 posts)You can find a new sugar daddy, one that isn't going to prison. Good Luck.
Marie Marie
(9,999 posts)Don't wear spike heels while you pretend to plant a tree.
Ohiogal
(32,026 posts)what arm holes in a jacket are for. Such "posing"!
Downtown Hound
(12,618 posts)when visiting traumatized refugees is the perfect way to make people not focus on what you're wearing.
QED
(2,747 posts)pamdb
(1,332 posts)I'm sorry, what exactly is it that you do?
Squinch
(50,977 posts)Lucky Luciano
(11,258 posts)MFM008
(19,818 posts)What happened to the guy in 'Indiana Jones and the lost Ark.'....
meadowlander
(4,399 posts)and occasionally come up with insincere, lame, hypocritical slogans like "Be best"?
greatauntoftriplets
(175,746 posts)Temperature today in that area was about 91 F, too hot for that stupid jacket.
OilemFirchen
(7,143 posts)duforsure
(11,885 posts)You refused to stand up for women from them being sexually abused, and did nothing,. They treated her like a liar , and was confused and you did nothing, and he showed his rage against women and people he opposed and lied, and you did nothing. I don't really care what you think, do you?
Talk about something that would have been powerful.
SunSeeker
(51,607 posts)Are you on assignment in Africa for your husband to discover Obama's real birthplace?
milestogo
(16,829 posts)Really?
kaotikross
(246 posts)Sing "Smooth criminal" Michael!
yardwork
(61,678 posts)She made sure that she was photographed wearing that coat when she visited the border, where thousands of babies and children are forcibly separated from their parents.
Fuck her.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)I thought she was upset at the media focusing on what she did, like wearing a coat with an I don't care declaration or like disappearing from public for awhile . Which is it?
When you wear a $1300 plaid shirt or pink heels to garden, yes people comment on what you wear because it's different, just like your husband looks like he has a dead animal on his head and wears a long clown tie it all does draw attention but not in a good way because it's not the norm.
dflprincess
(28,081 posts)like a Barbie doll's.
Gothmog
(145,427 posts)NBachers
(17,130 posts)Beacool
(30,250 posts)The infamous I really don't care, do u? jacket, the Pith helmet in Kenya and this ridiculous attire that makes her look like she stepped off an Indiana Jones movie set.
Clueless woman.
Doitnow
(1,103 posts)kskiska
(27,045 posts)the women all look alike, with long straight hair, stand in model poses, some with that crossed-leg thing they do.
Pauldg47
(640 posts)RainCaster
(10,904 posts)I raise koi (pretty carp) and I find them to be far more social and intelligent than the Third Lady.
47of74
(18,470 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)You do realize where she got the outfit idea, yes?
Shes Belloq from Indiana Jones.
handmade34
(22,756 posts)is irrelevant.
C_U_L8R
(45,012 posts)tavernier
(12,394 posts)Seriously.
My friends and family love and support me, but they dont focus on me, nor would I want them to. And Im quite certain a great majority of the country feels the same way.
You really need to get a life, my dear lady.
Sugar Smack
(18,748 posts)Racerdog1
(808 posts)And just fucking go away. No one gives two shits about your dumbass.
QC
(26,371 posts)True_Blue
(3,063 posts)She always looks like she's trying too hard to make the cover of Vogue.
Retrograde
(10,142 posts)How can she walk without either tripping on them, or horribly fraying the edges? Were they supposed to go with the usual 6" heels, but the footware changed when someone told her she'd be walking on sand? Why is she standing as if she's waiting for the Vogue photographer to show up? Why don't the pants quite fit around the hips? (Mel, dear - we all change with age. If you've added a few inches here and there - as many of us do - get clothes that fit your current body. Don't keep trying to cram yourself into smaller sizes thinking it makes you look slim and youthful: it doesn't).
I've criticized Laura Bush's and even Michelle Obama's clothing choice on this site. If Ms Trump doesn't want to be judged solely on what she wears (poorly) she could do something for the good of her country. Sure, she speaks with a heavy accent: so do a lot of Americans who get out and do things. And her English would only improve if she spent some time talking to real people.
sarcasmo
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Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)you only WEAR things that matter to your fortune.
Let's move on, shall we?
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)Jesus Fuckin' Christ she's ignorant
geralmar
(2,138 posts)I think she's rather innocuous. She isn't running the country like Nancy Reagan did during the last month's of her husband's presidency. (Actually Nancy didn't do that bad a job.)
democratisphere
(17,235 posts)Nothing.
get the red out
(13,468 posts)What you do, to put it mildly, is nothing useful.
Ms. Toad
(34,082 posts)Mrs. Trump said she never heard her husband saying those comments and nobody discussed that with me.
duforsure
(11,885 posts)It does nothing but show and prove how much of a fraud SHE is too.
MrsCoffee
(5,803 posts)The multiple surgeries and photo shoots say differently.
Genius visa my ass.
BigDemVoter
(4,153 posts)then maybe people won't focus on what that porn star wears. . .