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riversedge

(70,246 posts)
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 07:41 PM Jun 2018

Gay Employees of Virginia Restaurant Urged Removal of Sarah Huckabee Sanders

Source: advocate






Co-owner Stephanie Wilkinson was thinking of her workers and the cruel policies the Press Secretary espouses when she told her to go.
By Neal Broverman
June 24 2018 1:15 PM EDT

Stephanie Wilkinson, the co-owner of the tiny Red Hen restaurant in the small town of Lexington, Va., stands by her decision to tell Sarah Huckabee Sanders she wasn't welcome in her restaurant.

Wilkinson told The Washington Post that her decision to ask the White House Press Secretary to leave on Friday night stemmed from her gay employees; many were upset by Sanders's defense for the administration's ban on transgender servicemembers (currently tied up in the courts). Sanders also recently praised a Supreme Court ruling that sided with an antigay baker who refused service to a gay couple and said the president was OK with businesses posting signs that said LGBT people weren't welcome. Sanders also stood by while her boss separated migrants from their children at the southern border. ..............................

Read more: https://www.advocate.com/politics/2018/6/24/gay-employees-virginia-restaurant-urged-removal-sarah-huckabee-sanders







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Gay Employees of Virginia Restaurant Urged Removal of Sarah Huckabee Sanders (Original Post) riversedge Jun 2018 OP
But she is a superior hetero xtian who should not be treated like "those people" JI7 Jun 2018 #1
Let me tell you: If all women were like Sarah Hickabee, sandensea Jun 2018 #8
I realize this may get me slammed... Archae Jun 2018 #2
That's bullshit bothsideism, first of all. Hassin Bin Sober Jun 2018 #3
I agree Archae Yupster Jun 2018 #5
Restaurant owners and managers throw out patrons for bad behavior all the time. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2018 #6
What? Cold War Spook Jun 2018 #19
1.5 years of bad behavior.... paleotn Jun 2018 #23
she believes in discrimination paleotn Jun 2018 #7
So we can throw people out for their beliefs? Igel Jun 2018 #20
So, does your standard include... paleotn Jun 2018 #22
SHS herself supported that baker and others discriminating against lgbt JI7 Jun 2018 #9
Didn't the baker say the gay couple were long time customers Yupster Jun 2018 #15
wedding cakes are always special orders. the gay couple wanted what any couple getting married JI7 Jun 2018 #16
Yes and no. Igel Jun 2018 #21
I ask for my steak to be cooked medium-well. That is by definition, a special order. LanternWaste Jun 2018 #18
Yes you WILL. Because discrimination will be justified. 7962 Jun 2018 #11
really heaven05 Jun 2018 #12
apply critical thought. LanternWaste Jun 2018 #17
SH Sanders received the treatment she prefers bucolic_frolic Jun 2018 #4
I need to go eat at this place Gothmog Jun 2018 #10
It was said that the owner took a vote by her staff. They weren't all gay were they? YOHABLO Jun 2018 #13
80 years ago: Jewish employees in Hamburg Cafe complain about serving Goebbels n/t Julian Englis Jun 2018 #14

sandensea

(21,639 posts)
8. Let me tell you: If all women were like Sarah Hickabee,
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 09:28 PM
Jun 2018

there'd be a lot fewer straight guys, that's for sure.

Archae

(46,337 posts)
2. I realize this may get me slammed...
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 08:04 PM
Jun 2018

But I think Sanders being thrown out crossed the line.

She was not causing any trouble, she may be a liar for Trump, but hell.
We are screaming bloody murder about a baker not making a cake for a gay couple, so that gives us the right to get as bad as that?

If an aide to Obama had been kicked out of a restaurant *JUST* because he/she worked for Obama, we'd be going apeshit.

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,330 posts)
3. That's bullshit bothsideism, first of all.
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 08:22 PM
Jun 2018

Second of all, kicking someone out for their actions (defending and enabling bigotry) is not the same as refusing to serve someone for the way they were born (sexual orientation or skin color etc.).

Yupster

(14,308 posts)
5. I agree Archae
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 08:36 PM
Jun 2018

When I go to a donut shop, I want a donut. I don't want to hear the clerk's political opinions or be judged for mine.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,359 posts)
6. Restaurant owners and managers throw out patrons for bad behavior all the time.
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 09:02 PM
Jun 2018

They have a right to refuse service for any reason except protected status. No line was crossed, unless you've drawn one that puts you and torture apologists on the same side.

 

Cold War Spook

(1,279 posts)
19. What?
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 01:52 PM
Jun 2018

There was no bad behavior. So you can't refuse service to a gay, but you can if that gay is wearing a Clinton for President t-shirt and you state that is why you refused to serve him.

paleotn

(17,931 posts)
7. she believes in discrimination
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 09:16 PM
Jun 2018

based on her "religion." She praised the recent SCOTUS ruling on such. While you make a good point, I think she deserved a little of her own medicine. Little good it will do, though. One has a better chance changing the mind of a fence post as getting through to her and her ilk.

Igel

(35,320 posts)
20. So we can throw people out for their beliefs?
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 05:15 PM
Jun 2018

"I'll seat African-Americans, but not if they don't believe the same thing I do. I'm not discriminating against skin color, I'm merely being differentially tolerant--in other words, I tolerate those I agree with, but those I don't agree with, not in the least."

Sort of redefines "tolerate" to mean "like." As opposed to, well, "tolerate."

paleotn

(17,931 posts)
22. So, does your standard include...
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 08:04 PM
Jun 2018

those who believe all races are inferior to the so called white race? We should just calmly put up with their shit? Those who want to impose their religion on the rest of us, by legislation and nation state force if necessary? Neo-Nazis perhaps? You know, those who think Hitler was just misunderstood? Those who deny the slaughter of 6 million Jews? We should just put up with their shit...you know...tolerance and all. That's what we're up against, Igel. Sorry, but I'm am most decidedly intolerant of those who are intolerant. You just go on being all sweet, kind and cuddly. It's worked so well for us before. I, on the other hand, will throw her out on her ArKEENsauw ass. Same for Nielsen's apartheid ass. Seriously, she looks and sounds like she time traveled from 1980's Johannesburg.

Yupster

(14,308 posts)
15. Didn't the baker say the gay couple were long time customers
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 11:15 PM
Jun 2018

and were welcome back any time.

He said they were welcome to buy any cake, or any other thing he sold. His objection was to making a special cake for their wedding.

A comparitive argument to this one would be if the owner told Huckaby that she could order anything on the menu, but then Huckaby said he wanted desert and on the ice cream sundae, could you please use the hot fudge to spell out "I Love Trump". The owner would say, eat here, anything on the menu, but I won't do a special order I disagree with.

Do we really want Republican and Democratic auto parts stores and hot dog stands.

This owner was wrong to not serve someone based on their political beliefs.

JI7

(89,252 posts)
16. wedding cakes are always special orders. the gay couple wanted what any couple getting married
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 11:17 PM
Jun 2018

would want which was a message referring to them .

Igel

(35,320 posts)
21. Yes and no.
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 05:21 PM
Jun 2018

Yes, in that you have to write something like, "Happy nuptials, Ben and Jerry" or "Kate and Mark".

I can get special order cakes mass produced at Walmart. Walmart doesn't lay claims to artistry.

My wedding cake was modified off-the-shelf (and not from Walmart). There was a check list and it was assembled accordingly. Somebody else could have ordered the same thing and it would have looked the same. Don't even think it said "Igel and Igelina" on it. Stock decorations. Freedom of speech? No. Any of the people behind the counter with the chops to bake a cake and apply fluting and mimic the pattern from the book would have produced the same thing. That's the "artistry" of some picture mills where an artist makes 50 copies from a template, all pretty much identical ... this week.

Then there are special orders where they sit down and go over in detail what they want, perhaps color coordinating, doing various fancy things.

Not like Walmart. Or the place we got ours.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
18. I ask for my steak to be cooked medium-well. That is by definition, a special order.
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 11:46 AM
Jun 2018

Isn't each wedding cake a "special order," as they each require a personal touch and customization vis-a-vis the wedding couple.

If not, what precisely was unique about the cake that had been absent on all other orders?

Otherwise, your comparative argument contains a fundamentally flawed premise predicated on editorial rather than objective matter.

You see, I ask for my steak to be cooked medium-well. That is by definition, a special order.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
11. Yes you WILL. Because discrimination will be justified.
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 09:31 PM
Jun 2018

People are thrown out of places all the time. yes. But because they've done something INSIDE the business.

Your last line is also correct. I remember seeing a few posts "back in the day" about idiots putting up signs saying "no democrats" and everyone here DID go apeshit.
Hypocrites.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
12. really
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 09:40 PM
Jun 2018

keep being fair to these racist clowns. They will bury you with lies and being victims. I TOTALLY disagree with you. Both sides are bad, right?

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
17. apply critical thought.
Mon Jun 25, 2018, 11:41 AM
Jun 2018

I think simply being asked to leave as opposed to "thrown out" is the first editorial flaw in your premise.

Work down from there, and apply critical thought. Avoid the false equivalencies (relevant differences you ignore make them as such). Avoid the post hoc implication it was "just" because he/she worked for X, and realize the iceberg is much deeper than a casual glance allows.

bucolic_frolic

(43,196 posts)
4. SH Sanders received the treatment she prefers
Sun Jun 24, 2018, 08:24 PM
Jun 2018

"Sanders also recently praised a Supreme Court ruling that sided with an antigay baker who refused service to a gay couple"

You like discrimination, you got it!

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