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brooklynite

(94,571 posts)
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:24 PM Nov 2017

After Roems election, Va. GOP leader wants to do away with Gentlewoman title

Source: Washington Post

With Virginia’s first openly transgender elected official preparing to take her seat in the House of Delegates, the Republican leader of that chamber says it is time to end a tradition of addressing lawmakers by formal male and female pronouns.

Instead of the “gentleman” or “gentlewoman” from a given jurisdiction, lawmakers will all be referred to as “delegate” if Republicans maintain control of the chamber, House Majority Leader M. Kirkland Cox (R-Colonial Heights) said through a spokesman Tuesday.

Conservative lawmakers hailed the change as a way to avoid what they said could be a potentially awkward situation. But one of the longest-serving House Democrats called the decision “shameful” and said lawmakers “ought to be big enough to get over these hang-ups we have.”

Cox’s office said he had been considering the change since shortly after he was chosen as the party’s designee for speaker, a title he would assume if the GOP retains control over the House after three close races are decided.

Read more: https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/virginia-politics/after-roems-election-va-gop-leader-wants-to-do-away-with-gentlewoman-title/2017/11/21/62290076-cee1-11e7-9d3a-bcbe2af58c3a_story.html

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After Roems election, Va. GOP leader wants to do away with Gentlewoman title (Original Post) brooklynite Nov 2017 OP
I'm with Cox. sandensea Nov 2017 #1
Just address them as Greedy Old Perverts. lagomorph777 Nov 2017 #18
Perfect. sandensea Nov 2017 #19
I'm all for it. Why introduce gender into addressing a member of a body? As chairman.... George II Nov 2017 #2
Chairman? itsrobert Nov 2017 #4
Hah! You got me, I unconsciously screwed up. Yes, I DO refer to the person in charge as the "chair" George II Nov 2017 #5
On the surface this seems reasonable, however... Rollo Nov 2017 #3
Republicans always cloak their proposals in something that sounds "reasonable." n/t Beartracks Nov 2017 #6
How does Roem identify? sweetloukillbot Nov 2017 #9
Or not so... 3catwoman3 Nov 2017 #16
Agreed, but it is progress. mwooldri Nov 2017 #8
With the way districts are drawn crazycatlady Nov 2017 #13
Most of our legislators are too stupid and lazy GulfCoast66 Nov 2017 #17
A solution in search of a problem... N/M Grins Nov 2017 #20
Congress long ago dispensed with gender titles. It's Congress Person usually, now. Makes sense. Honeycombe8 Nov 2017 #7
That's not true oberliner Nov 2017 #12
Yes, it's true. Some still do it the old fashioned way, but many do not. & the media does not. Honeycombe8 Nov 2017 #15
How about pressbox69 Nov 2017 #10
Except BumRushDaShow Nov 2017 #11
gentlecritters? crazycatlady Nov 2017 #14

sandensea

(21,635 posts)
1. I'm with Cox.
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:29 PM
Nov 2017

None of these unreconstructed Confederationists in the GOP should be addressed as “gentleman.”

George II

(67,782 posts)
2. I'm all for it. Why introduce gender into addressing a member of a body? As chairman....
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 10:38 PM
Nov 2017

....of one of our town commissions, I refer to all members as "Commissioner" regardless of gender.

George II

(67,782 posts)
5. Hah! You got me, I unconsciously screwed up. Yes, I DO refer to the person in charge as the "chair"
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:52 PM
Nov 2017

Rollo

(2,559 posts)
3. On the surface this seems reasonable, however...
Thu Nov 23, 2017, 11:15 PM
Nov 2017

It is obviously in reaction to the reluctance of conservative lawmakers to refer to a transgender delegate by the address specific to their chosen gender.

As such it's somewhat a deplorable proposal. The change should have been proposed long before a transgender person was elected to the House of Delegates.

sweetloukillbot

(11,023 posts)
9. How does Roem identify?
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 05:25 AM
Nov 2017

Because this sounds like a subtle transphobic dig to me - now that a transwoman is in the body, let's stop using the term woman so we don't have to describe her as such.

mwooldri

(10,303 posts)
8. Agreed, but it is progress.
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 12:40 AM
Nov 2017

The way it got there wasn't the best, but it's progress.

Mind the American practice of numbering their constituencies seems odd to me.. "I call upon the delegate for district 12..." Still used to the UK parliamentary system, where MPs are referred to as "the member for (geographical name for constituency)" and "the honourable" and "the right honourable" being appropriate elevated titles for certain non government MPs... But UK House of Commons usually doesn't use personal names for elected MPs in house.

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
13. With the way districts are drawn
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 08:51 AM
Nov 2017

It makes sense to say "the delegate from district 12" as opposed to "the delegate from Fairfax County" (Note-- I have no idea if district 12 is in Fairfax county, I just threw a random county in VA that I knew out there).

Especially when some larger population counties most likely have more delegates than others. If you're in the NY assembly, there's definitely more than one assembly member from Manhattan.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
17. Most of our legislators are too stupid and lazy
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 11:29 AM
Nov 2017

To learn the place names in their state. Numbers or names is about all they can handle.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
7. Congress long ago dispensed with gender titles. It's Congress Person usually, now. Makes sense.
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 12:15 AM
Nov 2017

It's that way in business, usually. Chairman is now Chairman or Chairperson, both terms referring to either gender.

With women being more integrated into the business and political world now, it makes sense to do away with gender titles. In the old days, that was a way of distinguishing the male...and the "not male."

What's in a name? A rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
12. That's not true
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 07:21 AM
Nov 2017

They refer to gentleman and gentlelady in Congress as well as saying Madame Chair and such.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
15. Yes, it's true. Some still do it the old fashioned way, but many do not. & the media does not.
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 10:56 AM
Nov 2017

Most things are gender neutral now. Or they refer to both genders as "Congressman."

crazycatlady

(4,492 posts)
14. gentlecritters?
Fri Nov 24, 2017, 08:52 AM
Nov 2017

I've used the term "Congresscritter" to describe many members of congress.

(I don't want to insult critters)

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