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Coventina

(27,121 posts)
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 05:38 PM Jan 2017

Muslim Girls in Switzerland Must Attend Swim Classes With Boys, Court Says

Source: NYT

In 2008, school officials in Basel, Switzerland, ordered a Muslim couple to enroll their daughters in a mandatory swimming class, despite the parents’ objections to having their girls learn alongside boys.

The officials offered the couple some accommodations: The girls, 9 and 7 at the time, could wear body-covering swimsuits, known as burkinis, during the swimming lessons, and they could undress for the class without any boys present.

But the parents refused to send their daughters to the lessons, and in 2010, the officials imposed a fine of 1,400 Swiss francs, about $1,380. The parents, Aziz Osmanoglu and Sehabat Kocabas, who have both Swiss and Turkish nationality, decided to sue.

On Tuesday, the European Court of Human Rights upheld the Swiss officials’ decision, rejecting the parents’ argument that the Swiss authorities had violated the “freedom of thought, conscience and religion” guaranteed by the European Convention on Human Rights, which the court enforces.

Read more: https://www.nytimes.com/2017/01/10/world/europe/swiss-muslim-girls-must-attend-swim-classes-with-boys-court-says.html?_r=0



Good.

You move to Switzerland, you live by Swiss norms and customs.
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Muslim Girls in Switzerland Must Attend Swim Classes With Boys, Court Says (Original Post) Coventina Jan 2017 OP
Swiss norms and customs? guillaumeb Jan 2017 #1
I don't see anything unreasonable in the decision. They're allowing pnwmom Jan 2017 #2
agreed nycbos Jan 2017 #14
But they're making these poor girls do things they don't want to do scscholar Jan 2017 #52
rephrase they are doing things there parents do not want them to do. juxtaposed Jan 2017 #54
It's terrible! ThirdEye Jan 2017 #92
Not at all the same thing, but you knew that anyway. Coventina Jan 2017 #3
Perhaps they should consider home schooling. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #6
I don't know what the laws are pertaining to home-schooling are in Switzerland, but maybe they Coventina Jan 2017 #7
Swiss law allows it, according to what I read. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #8
There. Problem solved. The parents can teach the girls to swim themselves. Coventina Jan 2017 #10
Sometimes it does not. MicaelS Jan 2017 #11
That happens in this country. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #15
I am opposed to letting anyone... MicaelS Jan 2017 #17
It is difficult for me to see the connection between a desire for same-sex guillaumeb Jan 2017 #19
So if a parent insists their child not swim with gay students, would you feel the same way? SunSeeker Jan 2017 #12
Interesting characterization on your part of religious belief. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #16
How about a yes or no answer to that question. Marengo Jan 2017 #22
How I personally feel has nothing to do with two parents being guillaumeb Jan 2017 #40
You were more than willing to express a personal feeling up thread. Why stop now? Marengo Jan 2017 #42
What does discomfort have to do with the Muslim religion? Nothing that i can see. randome Jan 2017 #50
Are you speaking as the authority on Islam? guillaumeb Jan 2017 #51
A refusal you expressed disapproval of. Now, how about sexual orientation? Marengo Jan 2017 #58
Perhaps you should start another post. eom guillaumeb Jan 2017 #61
Perhaps you can answer here? Marengo Jan 2017 #64
#65 guillaumeb Jan 2017 #66
That isn't an answer. Try again. Marengo Jan 2017 #77
Post #82 guillaumeb Jan 2017 #83
Post #79 Marengo Jan 2017 #86
Post #87. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #88
Anyone can 'claim' anything. What matters is how outside the norm the claim is. randome Jan 2017 #84
I did not say nor do I think all religious belief is backward or intolerant. SunSeeker Jan 2017 #23
See reply #40. eom guillaumeb Jan 2017 #41
In post #1, you said it was "sad" that Muslims in Switzerland don't have the "freedom to act"... Marengo Jan 2017 #43
My response talked about freedom to act. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #46
No melman Jan 2017 #47
Yet another mind reader? guillaumeb Jan 2017 #48
How would you feel if Muslim parents had the "freedom to act" to prohibit their children... Marengo Jan 2017 #57
There is no evidence of segregation, guillaumeb Jan 2017 #60
If the objection of the Muslim parents was based on sexual orientation, would you still feel "sad" Marengo Jan 2017 #70
Theoretical vs. actual. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #72
You simply cannot answer, can you? Would doing so somehow compromise your position, or... Marengo Jan 2017 #75
The post fits in with the numerous posts about Muslims refusing to fit in guillaumeb Jan 2017 #82
Post #79 Marengo Jan 2017 #85
What's wrong with expecting people christx30 Jan 2017 #91
Thank YOU! smirkymonkey Jan 2017 #96
Many on the Left.. MicaelS Jan 2017 #98
Pretty clear really melman Jan 2017 #79
True, and it certainly brings into question the authenticity of that persona. Marengo Jan 2017 #81
And there is a point where refusal to read information is evidence enough. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #87
lol melman Jan 2017 #89
The question was simply a deflection. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #90
A number of tenets of Islam are incompatible MicaelS Jan 2017 #97
Ah yes, the pure white European culture. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #104
Yes I read them all. MicaelS Jan 2017 #105
Then we stand separated by this. eom guillaumeb Jan 2017 #106
Wow melman Jan 2017 #45
And all should lighten their hair and skin too IronLionZion Jan 2017 #20
Ah yes, the blue eyes, light skin, and blond hair custom. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #21
Are the Swiss in question here behaving like Nazis? Marengo Jan 2017 #59
My post clearly expressed what I wished to say. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #62
I'm looking for a yes or no answer, if you are capable of such a thing. Marengo Jan 2017 #63
Read the links and draw your own conclusions about Swiss tolerance. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #65
Clearly YOU have performed sufficient analysis to form an opinion which permits my question... Marengo Jan 2017 #67
The Swiss are not paragons of tolerance. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #68
I'm asking for YOUR opinion in the form of a yes or no answer. Marengo Jan 2017 #69
And I am providing information to make an informed decision. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #71
Again, I am asking for your opinion in the form of a closed question. If you are debating in good... Marengo Jan 2017 #76
No, Switzerland does not have laws requiring you look like the Swiss Miss girl. SunSeeker Jan 2017 #24
Don't they have any conservative Christians in Europe? IronLionZion Jan 2017 #25
It is unreasonable to violate local anti-discrimination laws. SunSeeker Jan 2017 #27
It isn't unreasonable to refuse to provide separate swim classes or separate math pnwmom Jan 2017 #30
Um, no.. whathehell Jan 2017 #26
Yeah, because if you want co-ed swim classes whathehell Jan 2017 #28
Except for one thing HassleCat Jan 2017 #78
Liberals should be encouraging diversity as a custom IronLionZion Jan 2017 #80
Switzerland does not consider itself as a bastion of individual rights grantcart Jan 2017 #29
The suicide rate in Switzerland is not "very high". former9thward Jan 2017 #31
Don't tell the Swiss. grantcart Jan 2017 #32
And apparently all must not only respect, but abide by these customs. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #49
As miserable as the Swiss? RelativelyJones Jan 2017 #53
waiting for someone to reference this wonderfully misnamed index grantcart Jan 2017 #56
Apparently you have an ax to grind against the Swiss RelativelyJones Jan 2017 #93
I had extensive experience in Switzerland but it is grantcart Jan 2017 #95
Your impressions are indeed dated and simply your point of view RelativelyJones Jan 2017 #99
You are not following on point very well grantcart Jan 2017 #101
Simply having worked for the UN, RelativelyJones Jan 2017 #102
Agree. Just like if you live in Turkey, you live by Turkish norms and customs. muntrv Jan 2017 #4
Agreed, although, that might be hard to define, as Turkey is very varied in its population. Coventina Jan 2017 #5
Although Turkey has been established as a 'secular' country grantcart Jan 2017 #33
Good. nt SunSeeker Jan 2017 #9
Yes. They have chosen to live in a secular country. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2017 #13
Exactly nycbos Jan 2017 #18
Those poor girls. romanic Jan 2017 #34
wonderful news! Grey Lemercier Jan 2017 #35
They were kids when their parents wanted them sex segregated riderinthestorm Jan 2017 #36
GOOD JI7 Jan 2017 #37
Good leftynyc Jan 2017 #38
oh, FFS... Blue_Tires Jan 2017 #39
good decision by the court rollin74 Jan 2017 #44
its 2017, not 1017. pansypoo53219 Jan 2017 #55
Live in a secular western nation, live by enlightened rules. Dawson Leery Jan 2017 #73
This line kind of jumped out at me dflprincess Jan 2017 #74
yeah, but i might feel differently if i grew up doing it which i assume might be more common in JI7 Jan 2017 #100
Boys and girls in Swiss schools RelativelyJones Jan 2017 #103
Good SteamAddict Jan 2017 #94

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
1. Swiss norms and customs?
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 05:41 PM
Jan 2017

Are all residents also required to have a gun in the house? No exceptions for pacifists?

So freedom of thought does not encompass freedom to act. Sad.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
2. I don't see anything unreasonable in the decision. They're allowing
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 05:45 PM
Jan 2017

the girls to wear burkinis. They just are refusing to set up separate swim classes for girls alone, or to exempt girls from the swim class requirement.

They even allow a religious exemption, but it doesn't apply in this case because the Muslim religion doesn't require girls pre-puberty to be apart from boys.

 

scscholar

(2,902 posts)
52. But they're making these poor girls do things they don't want to do
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 04:29 PM
Jan 2017

How is that right? It's an attack on women.

ThirdEye

(204 posts)
92. It's terrible!
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 12:40 PM
Jan 2017

They might learn to swim! Give me a break...

Is it an attack on women when I make my daughter wash her hands before meals and after going to the toilet?

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
7. I don't know what the laws are pertaining to home-schooling are in Switzerland, but maybe they
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 05:53 PM
Jan 2017

should consider it.

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
10. There. Problem solved. The parents can teach the girls to swim themselves.
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 05:58 PM
Jan 2017

Or choose not to and live with the possible consequences.

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
11. Sometimes it does not.
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 06:03 PM
Jan 2017

Should those who believe in prayer only, and not doctors, be allowed to let a sick child die?

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
17. I am opposed to letting anyone...
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 06:18 PM
Jan 2017

Use their faith, in that manner, or any where they can use it to justify bigotry.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
19. It is difficult for me to see the connection between a desire for same-sex
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 06:19 PM
Jan 2017

swimming lessons and accusations of bigotry.

SunSeeker

(51,571 posts)
12. So if a parent insists their child not swim with gay students, would you feel the same way?
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 06:05 PM
Jan 2017

Religion (and backward bigotry disguised as piety) must accommodate civil law, not the other way around. If you want to partake of civil institutions, you must comply with civil law regarding nondiscrimination.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
16. Interesting characterization on your part of religious belief.
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 06:18 PM
Jan 2017

Or perhaps how you personally conceive of religious belief?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
40. How I personally feel has nothing to do with two parents being
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 11:31 AM
Jan 2017

uncomfortable with mixed gender swimming.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
50. What does discomfort have to do with the Muslim religion? Nothing that i can see.
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 04:23 PM
Jan 2017

[hr][font color="blue"][center]I'm always right. When I'm wrong I admit it.
So then I'm right about being wrong.
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guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
51. Are you speaking as the authority on Islam?
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 04:25 PM
Jan 2017

I see nothing here either except a refusal by the authorities in one Canton to accommodate parents who have claimed a religious objection.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
84. Anyone can 'claim' anything. What matters is how outside the norm the claim is.
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 11:36 AM
Jan 2017

And that's up to the Swiss authorities to decide. Which they did. If you put absolutely no limits on religious objections, chaos ensues, which I understand some Libertarians prefer.
[hr][font color="blue"][center]There is nothing you can't do if you put your mind to it.
Nothing.
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SunSeeker

(51,571 posts)
23. I did not say nor do I think all religious belief is backward or intolerant.
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 06:41 PM
Jan 2017

But some religious beliefs are anathema to a pluralistic, free society and if carried out would amount to violation of civil and criminal laws. That is just a fact.

So now that I've answered your question, how about you answer mine?

 

Marengo

(3,477 posts)
43. In post #1, you said it was "sad" that Muslims in Switzerland don't have the "freedom to act"...
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 12:15 PM
Jan 2017

Sounds like the expression of a personal feeling to me. That being the case, why are your personal feelings suddenly irrelevant?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
46. My response talked about freedom to act.
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 03:47 PM
Jan 2017

But my personal feelings have nothing to do with the personal feelings of another.

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
47. No
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 04:03 PM
Jan 2017

You just can't answer. If you say yes it's okay you are obviously supporting bigotry.

If you say no it's not, then you have to explain why it's different. Which you can't do.

 

Marengo

(3,477 posts)
57. How would you feel if Muslim parents had the "freedom to act" to prohibit their children...
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 06:54 PM
Jan 2017

From swimming with gay peers? We know you feel sad that they don't have the "freedom to act" to segregate based on gender in Switzerland, so how about sexual orientation?

 

Marengo

(3,477 posts)
70. If the objection of the Muslim parents was based on sexual orientation, would you still feel "sad"
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 08:30 PM
Jan 2017

If they were not permitted the "freedom to act"?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
72. Theoretical vs. actual.
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 09:45 PM
Jan 2017

If the requirement was for nude swimming, would you feel a parent would be wrong to insist on a swimsuit?

 

Marengo

(3,477 posts)
75. You simply cannot answer, can you? Would doing so somehow compromise your position, or...
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 12:53 AM
Jan 2017

Are you simply disingenuous?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
82. The post fits in with the numerous posts about Muslims refusing to fit in
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 11:26 AM
Jan 2017

with Western cultural norms.

When I point out exactly what those Western cultural norms entail, specifically here as it relates to Swiss behavior, you ignore my citations.

Do they somehow conflict with your conception of a tolerant Switzerland? There is a strain of Islamophobia in Switzerland that is often overlooked.

SO when we speak of refusal to answer, and being disingenuous..............well, you decide.

christx30

(6,241 posts)
91. What's wrong with expecting people
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 12:10 PM
Jan 2017

to live under the norms of the country thru live in? If I go to Saudi Arabia, should I demand my wife be allowed to drive, and I be allowed to drink alcohol? Of course not. They have their norms, and that's why why I'd never step foot in that backwards country, no matter the circumstances.
But that's why national borders exist. So you don't have to follow cultural norms you don't agree with. You can apply to emigrate to a place that's more like you. If you want to treat women like livestock, and seeing women with their hair or faces uncovered offends you, you can live there.
Change yourself to live in the society you have chosen. But don't think you're going to change that society to accommodate you.

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
98. Many on the Left..
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 11:28 PM
Jan 2017

Are incapable of operating without some sort of underdog to champion at all costs, whether real or made up. For a subset of these people their current underdog seems to be Islam.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
87. And there is a point where refusal to read information is evidence enough.
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 12:00 PM
Jan 2017

Google "confirmation bias".

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
90. The question was simply a deflection.
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 12:10 PM
Jan 2017

And the refusal on the part of the original questioner, or you, to address or acknowledge my ample documentation of evidence of Swiss Islamophobia and intolerance is............... illuminating.

Perhaps your laugh is a nervous laugh?

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
97. A number of tenets of Islam are incompatible
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 11:19 PM
Jan 2017

With the Enlightenment and Western views on equality and personal freedom. Switzerland or any other Western nation is not being intolerant when they refuse to let these Islamic beliefs corrupt Swiss culture and values under the guise of Diversity and Tolerance.

Those with your viewpoint remind me of Lenin's quote about Capitalists and rope.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
104. Ah yes, the pure white European culture.
Fri Jan 13, 2017, 01:31 PM
Jan 2017

Being corrupted by the darker peoples with their strange customs.

In the US, the Italians and Jews were once described as dark people with strange religious beliefs and customs.
Perhaps you have read of this in your history?

By the way, did YOU read any of my links?

IronLionZion

(45,450 posts)
20. And all should lighten their hair and skin too
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 06:26 PM
Jan 2017

until they all look like the girl on the Swiss Miss package

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
21. Ah yes, the blue eyes, light skin, and blond hair custom.
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 06:29 PM
Jan 2017

Germany had such customs also.
As well as a religious sub-group that was accused of foreign beliefs and practices.


guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
62. My post clearly expressed what I wished to say.
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 07:22 PM
Jan 2017

Do you feel the Swiss are behaving tolerantly here?

Before answering, feel free to read a bit:


Switzerland moves towards nationwide burqa ban as draft law approved in parliament


http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/switzerland-burqa-ban-swiss-parliament-national-council-draft-law-vote-latest-muslim-veils-walter-a7334631.html

The Real Reasons Why the Swiss Voted to Ban Minarets


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/daniel-ammann/the-real-reasons-why-the_b_373947.html

After reading, feel free to explain to me about tolerance and Switzerland.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
65. Read the links and draw your own conclusions about Swiss tolerance.
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 07:36 PM
Jan 2017

Some things are more complicated and require more analysis before answering.

If you are unaware of these issues as they relate to Switzerland, this might enlighten you.

If you do not care about these issues, that will enlighten me.

 

Marengo

(3,477 posts)
67. Clearly YOU have performed sufficient analysis to form an opinion which permits my question...
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 07:50 PM
Jan 2017

To be answered by you as either yes or no as I have specifically requested. Shall we try again? Are they behaving like Nazis? Yes or no only please.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
68. The Swiss are not paragons of tolerance.
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 08:15 PM
Jan 2017

If you read the linked articles, it seems clear that the Swiss have very little tolerance when it comes to practicing Muslims.

As to the Swiss behaving like NAZIs:

Swiss Banks Called to Account for Nazi Ties


http://articles.latimes.com/2005/apr/14/local/me-holocaust14

Again, draw your own conclusions.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
71. And I am providing information to make an informed decision.
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 09:37 PM
Jan 2017

Read and accept the information or not. In my opinion, the post tens to present a view of the tolerant Swiss confronted with something that does not conform with Swiss notions of what is acceptable.

 

Marengo

(3,477 posts)
76. Again, I am asking for your opinion in the form of a closed question. If you are debating in good...
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 01:02 AM
Jan 2017

Faith, your reply will conform. If you continue to evade, what choice do have but to assume you are not debating in good faith?

SunSeeker

(51,571 posts)
24. No, Switzerland does not have laws requiring you look like the Swiss Miss girl.
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 06:43 PM
Jan 2017

It has laws banning gender discrimination. That is what these parents wish to ignore.

IronLionZion

(45,450 posts)
25. Don't they have any conservative Christians in Europe?
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 06:56 PM
Jan 2017

Gender separation is common for the conservative elements of many faiths.

Many school PE classes here in the US are gender separated, including swimming classes. It's not unreasonable.

SunSeeker

(51,571 posts)
27. It is unreasonable to violate local anti-discrimination laws.
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 07:02 PM
Jan 2017

They chose to emigrate to Switzerland, they should respect their laws.

Of course there are conservative Christians in Europe. There are also much more conservative European countries that do separate out the sexes. This family could have emigrated to one of those countries. Or home schooled.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
30. It isn't unreasonable to refuse to provide separate swim classes or separate math
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 07:40 PM
Jan 2017

classes or anything else.

Swiss schools DO have provisions for a religious exemption to the swimming classes, but these girls don't qualify for that because they are pre-puberty and the Muslim religion doesn't require separation before puberty.

And the schools allow girls to wear the full body burkinis, so what is wrong with this court's decision?

IronLionZion

(45,450 posts)
80. Liberals should be encouraging diversity as a custom
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 08:30 AM
Jan 2017

I want people to know how to swim. A lot of people drown because they never learned it. So if having gender separated swimming classes just like many physical education classes here in the US helps people learn how to swim, then I would support it.

Otherwise, their families choose to opt out and their kids would never learn. This is a big problem that many people don't think about.

It's not unreasonable. I don't think it's some patriarchal oppression of girls to have separate swimming classes.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
29. Switzerland does not consider itself as a bastion of individual rights
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 07:30 PM
Jan 2017

All male citizens are required to join the military and have firearms in the house. However they must take their sealed ammunition to be checked every year.

Everything in Switzerland is regulated and I have found it a sad and miserable place.

The basic level of government is the Canton and the whole community gets involved in individual cases like disability and welfare.

The suicide rate in Switzerland is very high.

If people migrate to Switzerland they have the right to be as miserable as the rest of the Swiss.

And yes pacifists are required to keep a gun in the house but they are not required to use it.

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/09/23/world/europe/swiss-vote-to-keep-mandatory-army-service.html

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
32. Don't tell the Swiss.
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 09:10 PM
Jan 2017

It has been long established and admitted by the Swiss that they have long held the highest rates of suicide in Europe which has to be put into context by two factors: 1) Doctor assisted suicide has been legal there for 80 years and 2) All males are required to be in the military at some point and all members of the military must keep guns and ammunition in their homes. The lists on the page you reference are highly unreliable which is proven by the fact that the rates between the two tables are off by a factor of almost a 100%. Does SK have a suicide rate of 28 per 100,000 or 37?

But if you spend anytime in Switzerland you will see frequent reference to the "Swiss suicide problem" in the media, especially around the winter and holiday season, although I was not aware that there had been a decline since the 80s and 90s when I had been there. It is a commonly discussed issue among the Swiss.

One year I received an apologetic note in a Christmas card from a person who I had only met 3 times. We got along well but wouldn't have considered him a close friend. He sent me a long personal note about why he was sending the Christmas cards out 5 weeks late ( our family only sent Holiday cards to very close friends and relatives).

He was sorry that he was delayed because in addition to the normal extra time required for the Holidays he was very sad to tell us that his wife, who apparently had a long struggle with depression, had committed suicide two weeks before Christmas. I was stunned to get the note but thought it a very telling example of how the Swiss are slaves to convention and routine even in the most tragic circumstances. He was a father in his 40s with two small children with a large business and I had a hard time understanding how he felt writing acquaintances like me was a good use of his time. Perhaps it was a kind of therapy for him.

Better sourced statistics show that historically Switzerland has had historically very high suicide rates when compared with like type countries although it has improved recently.


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_in_Switzerland

http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-statistics.html

The nation of Switzerland has a high suicide rate compared to many other European countries such as Norway, Sweden, and the United Kingdom. From the mid-'80s to the present day, the rate has gradually declined. For example, there were 14.3 suicide deaths per 100,000 people in 2007, compared with 22 suicides in 1984.[1]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_in_Switzerland#/media/File:Suicide-deaths-per-100000-trend.jpg

“We are one of the countries which traditionally has the highest figures in suicides. Not everybody is happy here,” Ambros Uchtenhagen, Professor Emeritus for Social Psychiatry at Zurich University told The Local


http://www.swissinfo.ch/eng/switzerland-s-troubling-record-of-suicide/8301804
If you look at suicides by gun only, Switzerland, by admission of the Swiss is the highest in Europe:

Here’s one record the Swiss may not be so enthusiastic about holding: more suicides are committed here using guns per capita than anywhere else in Europe.

The issues of gun suicide and Switzerland’s high rate of weapon ownership came under the spotlight again in January. The police chief overseeing security at the annual meeting of the World Economic Forum in Davos turned his service revolver against himself a day before the event began.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
49. And apparently all must not only respect, but abide by these customs.
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 04:07 PM
Jan 2017

Somewhat totalitarian, but judging by some responses here, not to be called a bad thing.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
56. waiting for someone to reference this wonderfully misnamed index
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 05:18 PM
Jan 2017

it measures

GDP,
Life expectancy
contributions to charity
social services
freedom
corruption

None of which reflects on happiness.

Now and index on friendliness, interaction with neighbors, sense of humor, optimistic outlook would be the kinds of things that relate to real happiness.

Singapore would achieve similar high ratings but walking up the street in either capital you would be hard pressed to find someone with a smile or have a friendly conversation, and I have lived in both.

I also have lived in refugee camps and subsistence villages where everyone is friendly, happy and more than willing to share their limited food supply for tonight's dinner.

The elements of the happiness index is as relevant as ascribing how well informed people are by how many TVs they have.

RelativelyJones

(898 posts)
93. Apparently you have an ax to grind against the Swiss
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 06:31 PM
Jan 2017

What you describe bears no resemblance to the Switzerland I know. Your view is simply subjective but you present it as universal. It is indeed not.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
95. I had extensive experience in Switzerland but it is
Thu Jan 12, 2017, 07:49 PM
Jan 2017

a little dated. The expatriates enjoyed it but I found the locals dour, unsmiling, and unfriendly.

In comparison I found Asia a much friendlier, happier and enjoyable experience.

All and I mean all of the Swiss I knew who travelled to Asia had the same opinion and spent as much time there as the could.

The perspective of Switzerland as a dry, micro regulated community low on cheerfulness, spontaneity and easily developed warm relationships is widely held in Europe when contrasted with places like Italy, Spain and Portugal.

I admire Switzerland like I admire Singapore, well organized communities that provide maximize benefits to their populace. That is not the same as being happy or cheerful. One friend took me to a Canton welfare meeting where they reviewed all of the villagers who were on welfare. They discussed each person's particular situation, drinking habits etc.

If you take the train from Italy to Switzerland you leave one system that is filled with graffiti, dirty and unkempt. Walk a few feet into Switzerland and even though they are Italian Swiss everything is clean, we'll maintained and orderly.

Switzerland is a beautiful, we'll managed country that has excellent services for its populace. The perspective that it is also reserved and unfriendly and not a bastion of personal privacy was not my personal take but one that was shared widely among well travelled Swiss.

RelativelyJones

(898 posts)
99. Your impressions are indeed dated and simply your point of view
Fri Jan 13, 2017, 04:42 AM
Jan 2017

I have lived extensively in Switzerland the last twenty years and when one makes an effort to display interest in the culture and society then the Swiss are very warm and welcoming. If you have your mind made up, or rely on disparaging anecdotes to be dismissive of a culture, then it is no wonder you did not feel particularly welcome in Switzerland. This would be the same for any culture if you come across as standoffish.

Simply because you travelled with a few Swiss whose opinion you latched onto in order to justify your negative impressions proves nothing. I have had many Asian colleagues and friends during my time in Switzerland who are happily integrated, raising their families, and rather admiring of Swiss culture.

You present subjective impressions as universal truths and simply promote clichés because Switzerland is not your cup of tea and you prefer other countries. Fair enough, everyone has their favorite places. I invite you to challenge your rather ossified thinking of Switzerland and Europe generally. The Swiss are rather well regarded by its neighbors. There will always be those who think as you do and seek out "evidence" for their negative opinion of Switzerland, but that is true of any cluster of neighbors.

For some reason the court ruling set you off on an anti-Swiss post about suicide rates. Rather a non sequitur, but it appears you just wanted to kick Switzerland a bit.


grantcart

(53,061 posts)
101. You are not following on point very well
Fri Jan 13, 2017, 05:26 AM
Jan 2017

1) I had no problem with the court ruling

2) I worked for a UN agency with headquarters in Geneva and was there frequently over a long period. I have lots of Swiss friends and expats who still live there and I emailed them and congratulating them on how "warm and friendly" the Swiss had become and they sent some funny replies basically repeating old jokes about how grumpy Swiss are in public.

3) Admiring the Swiss culture has nothing to do with it but I haven't met anyone from any country that spent time there that hasn't expressed some frustration about the amount of regulation and the cold bureaucracy that controls so many aspects of day to day life.

4) None of which you refer to is on point however. Never said that you couldn't make friends in Switzerland or that if you live there you wont find a niche of people to relate to. In comparison with other countries Switzerland is not considered a particular friendly or happy place. Neither is Singapore or Paris but I enjoy myself when I go there and make friends. The point is that there are many other places that are more friendly and the people seem much happier going about their daily life but they won't be as well run, or well kept or as 'efficient' as Switzerland.

Here are random examples of that widely held perspective of Switzerland by well travelled expats.



http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/unfriendliest-countries-for-expats-revealed-expatriates-emigration-sweden-denmark-kuwait-a7216316.html

Among the 10 most unfriendly destinations were European countries Denmark, Switzerland and Norway. In Switzerland, 36 per cent of expats said the attitude towards foreign residents is generally bad, while just over half of people find the local culture hard to get used to despite the generally high quality of life.



I understand why people might feel that way about Denmark because the social life really centers around commerce and if you have business there you will be constantly entertained by very nice people. I would take a big exception to the criticism of the Norwegians because they are exceptionally nice but are very shy.



http://www.thelocal.ch/20150924/expats-in-switzerland-have-worst-social-life

Expats in Switzerland have the worst social life of 39 global expat destinations, according to a survey commissioned by banking giant HSBC.


Switzerland scored bottom for social life in the 2015 Expat Explorer survey, which assessed expat life around the world in 27 criteria split into three main categories – economics, experience and family.

The dire score contributed to Switzerland's slide to tenth place overall, after taking the top spot last year.

According to the survey, now in its eighth year, expats in Switzerland find it difficult to integrate with locals and make friends but enjoy high economic benefits and a safe environment in which to raise a family

(some of the polling results)

“Unfortunately, while there are four different coexisting languages and cultures in Switzerland, the acceptance of diversity does not seem to extend to newcomers,” the authors noted.

“Thirty-six per cent of expats in Switzerland say the attitude towards foreign residents is generally bad, compared with the global average of 17%. In fact, 67% overall disagree when asked whether it is easy to make local friends in Switzerland.”

Indeed, Switzerland came fourth from bottom in the “friendliness” sub-category, with only the Czech Republic, Saudi Arabia and Kuwait saving its blushes.

(And the most interesting statistic was that of the Swiss expats of which more than one third didn't want to return to Switzerland. That can be misleading however because that particular statistic is going to be effected by job placement availability and not the kinds of factors we were discussing)





http://www.expatica.com/ch/news/SW-Expats-rate-Uganda-more-attractive-than-Switzerland_760271.html

Personally I would have no problem living in Switzerland, Paris or Singapore or other places that people find unfriendly because I very actively interact with people when I am in public (much to my families embarrassment). A trip to Target normally will generate a half dozen extended interactions (for the last year I try to make a special effort to engage folks that have dress consistent with Muslim countries and have a friendly discussion. When I personally apologize for the idiotic things that Trump has said I get the biggest grins and laughs in the store).

Switzerland is heavily regulated and they put more emphasis on conformity that individual liberty but I grew up in a Calvinist tradition so I feel at home with it.

In the case referred to by this article the Swiss established a rule for secular education and they would apply it fairly to a conservative Mennonite or Muslim who wanted to dress modestly. They seemed to go the extra mile in trying to find an accommodation to meet the concerns. My larger point was that the Swiss are very fair but have strict and extensive regulations. If someone is thinking about moving to Switzerland they should be prepared to be flexible enough to fit into the Swiss way of doing things because if they are going to try and fight the system there it is going to be an exhausting and futile exercise.

RelativelyJones

(898 posts)
102. Simply having worked for the UN,
Fri Jan 13, 2017, 06:13 AM
Jan 2017

Or gathering random links to support your personal prejudice, means little. It may make you feel better to find evidence to excuse away your inability to find much to appreciate in Swiss culture or its people, but this actually says more about you than Switzerland.

You obviously have a pet peeve against Switzerland. Fair enough, but it simply a personal thing, not the universal conditions you so want it to be. The regulations are hardly burdensome in Switzerland. Small potatoes compared to most other countries, actually.

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
5. Agreed, although, that might be hard to define, as Turkey is very varied in its population.
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 05:51 PM
Jan 2017

Some are very traditional, some are very modern. And, Turkey itself is in a bit of a state of flux regarding culture and beliefs.

So, defining what is the "norm" in Turkey might be a bit harder than defining the "norm" in Switzerland.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
33. Although Turkey has been established as a 'secular' country
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 09:13 PM
Jan 2017

that would allow for basic universal non religious specific norms for the public in public functions.

Not so clear what the future of Turkey is however.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,862 posts)
13. Yes. They have chosen to live in a secular country.
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 06:08 PM
Jan 2017

What the believe or practice in private is pretty much up to them, but the need to abide by the rules of the country they're in.

romanic

(2,841 posts)
34. Those poor girls.
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 10:50 PM
Jan 2017

Having to abide and follow the secular laws that treat them as equals and not lesser than. How Islamophobic.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
36. They were kids when their parents wanted them sex segregated
Tue Jan 10, 2017, 11:24 PM
Jan 2017

Kids don't give a shit @ these issues unless the parents make a big deal @ their sexuality (@ 10 years old!!!)

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
38. Good
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 09:01 AM
Jan 2017

No reason whatsoever to separate the genders for swim classes. None other than backwards misogynist bullshit.

dflprincess

(28,079 posts)
74. This line kind of jumped out at me
Wed Jan 11, 2017, 10:23 PM
Jan 2017

"The officials offered the couple some accommodations: The girls, 9 and 7 at the time, could wear body-covering swimsuits, known as burkinis, during the swimming lessons, and they could undress for the class without any boys present."

the other girls undress with boys present (and vice versa)? I had coed swimming lessons as a kid and we had separate locker rooms for the sexes. Call me uptight, but I still prefer it that way.

(Granted we might wear our swimming suits under our clothes on the way to class, but going home no one wanted to put clothes on over a wet suit so we had to take them off.)

JI7

(89,252 posts)
100. yeah, but i might feel differently if i grew up doing it which i assume might be more common in
Fri Jan 13, 2017, 04:51 AM
Jan 2017

europe than in the US.

but i think it's reasonable to allow them to dress without boys and wear fully covered swimsuits.

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