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Omaha Steve

(99,686 posts)
Sat Jan 2, 2016, 08:09 PM Jan 2016

CORONER: BODY OF 5-YEAR-OLD BOY WITH AUTISM FOUND IN CANAL

Source: AP

ALLENTOWN, Pa. (AP) -- Police are calling it "a tragic accident" after the body of a 5-year-old boy with autism was found in a canal about a quarter mile from a residence in eastern Pennsylvania where he wandered away from a New Year's Eve party.

Lehigh County Coroner Scott Grim says an autopsy Monday will help determine when Jayliel Vega Batista entered the water at Canal Park in Allentown.

He had been missing since Thursday night.

Police say he was playing with a tablet computer when he reportedly wandered away barefoot and without a coat.

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CORONER: BODY OF 5-YEAR-OLD BOY WITH AUTISM FOUND IN CANAL (Original Post) Omaha Steve Jan 2016 OP
... shenmue Jan 2016 #1
So sad get the red out Jan 2016 #2
I hope they make sure it was an accident Kalidurga Jan 2016 #3
yup Skittles Jan 2016 #6
Yep Kalidurga Jan 2016 #8
I've picked up 3 babies(including two times for the same child under 1 years old) that were in the trillion Jan 2016 #12
The boy was autistic, that can be even harder to keep an eye on. ebayfool Jan 2016 #9
Well I have a more personal reason for not assuming, but at the same time wanting to make sure. Kalidurga Jan 2016 #10
I was lucky with mine too. ebayfool Jan 2016 #11
So sad I was hoping they would find him alive :( kimbutgar Jan 2016 #4
There is a place for these little angels........... a kennedy Jan 2016 #5
Afraid this wasn't going to end well. Laffy Kat Jan 2016 #7
RIP. Far too young. trillion Jan 2016 #13
One of the fears that parents of children with autism have is......... mrmpa Jan 2016 #14

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
3. I hope they make sure it was an accident
Sat Jan 2, 2016, 08:53 PM
Jan 2016

and not someone not paying attention to where their kid was. I have 3 kids and I know you can't always know where they are. Still I have seen too many stories of kids wandering off because no one was paying attention and that ended tragically. Sometimes it is because the adults didn't do due diligence in knowing where their kids are.

Skittles

(153,174 posts)
6. yup
Sat Jan 2, 2016, 09:56 PM
Jan 2016

one time in rural Texas, I went around a turn in the road where there was a church, and saw a very tiny child crawling up the sloped embankment, VERY close to the road......by the church there was a picnic - lots of adults and children at a big table, and a volleyball game in progress.....I braked and sounded a solid horn and hoo boy did they come running - very scary indeed

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
8. Yep
Sat Jan 2, 2016, 11:39 PM
Jan 2016

I am not rushing to judgement at least I don't think I am. I don't know what happened and like I said kids are hard to keep track of. Turn your back for even a second and they can dart out in the road, wander off away from a large group, and worse.

 

trillion

(1,859 posts)
12. I've picked up 3 babies(including two times for the same child under 1 years old) that were in the
Sun Jan 3, 2016, 06:20 AM
Jan 2016

road and I had to stop for them or would have ran them over. I threatened to call the police in each case and the family members insisted their loved one was a really good parent each time. No, you're not a good parent when your baby has crawled into the road.

ebayfool

(3,411 posts)
9. The boy was autistic, that can be even harder to keep an eye on.
Sun Jan 3, 2016, 02:23 AM
Jan 2016

My 6 year old grandson is high functioning autistic and you have to be hyper vigilant when watching him. He can see something that catches his interest and be gone in a heartbeat! What frightens my daughter is she worries even when she sleeps cuz the boy has climbed out his bedroom window once to see a kitty out there and she woke up to a neighbor that had corralled him coming out. His reasoning was mom told him to never go out the door so he didn't! He was 4 at the time and it was 7:00AM. Scary smart, sweet natured, unable to read people at all and very literal minded!

Autism adds a whole new dimension to keeping an eye on 'em or due diligence. I would never assume a lack of either when hearing of a case like this poor child.

My heart goes out to the child and his family.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
10. Well I have a more personal reason for not assuming, but at the same time wanting to make sure.
Sun Jan 3, 2016, 03:24 AM
Jan 2016

When I was a child I was quite the escape artist myself. I climbed out of my crib at one point, opened a latch that my parents set up high, and walked a couple blocks down the street in the middle of winter. That wasn't the first time just the time I will share online. It wasn't the last either. So, I know kids do things. Mine never did anything like that so I guess I was lucky. On the other hand I know some people and I have seen this as well don't pay the slightest attention to their children and they are shocked when they find them in a bad situation. I don't know how to sort them either. How can you show a parent did or didn't do enough? I feel sorry for them either way. Losing a child causes a lifetime of trauma.

ebayfool

(3,411 posts)
11. I was lucky with mine too.
Sun Jan 3, 2016, 04:45 AM
Jan 2016

But when I babysit Cameron, it's me down for the count when I get home! Love, love, love my boy - but he can run me ragged in a matter of hours!

mrmpa

(4,033 posts)
14. One of the fears that parents of children with autism have is.........
Sun Jan 3, 2016, 08:56 PM
Jan 2016

their child walking away. Is there a way these parents can have their child implanted with a GPS chip, that would help allay their fears? Just asking.

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