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Two women have accused Dustin Hoffman of sexual assault, while another has accused him of exposing himself to her when she was a minor, according to a report from Variety. Cori Thomas was 16 years old and a high-school classmate of Hoffmans daughter Karina when she met him in 1980. One night, she says she was left in a hotel with the actor waiting for her parents to pick her up after Karina went home. Hoffman went into the shower and then emerged, according to Thomas, with a towel wrapped around him, which he dropped to reveal himself naked. She alleges he then put on a robe and asked her to massage his feet. I didnt know that I could say no, so I did it, she said. And he kept telling me, Im naked. Do you want to see?
Melissa Kester, who met Hoffman while her boyfriend was working on the music for Ishtar, alleges that Hoffman grabbed her while in the recording booth and then stuck his fingers inside of her while her boyfriend was watching. He kind of laughed, she said. Then I just ran out of there, and I sat in the bathroom crying. I thought, Oh my God. I felt like Id been raped. There was no warning. I didnt know he would do that.
A third woman, who asked to remain anonymous, claims that Hoffman also assaulted her while working on Ishtar. She was 22 years old and had a nonspeaking role in the film when Hoffman allegedly took an interest in her, eventually taking her home from the wrap party in a station wagon with several other people. While in the car, he allegedly stuck his finger inside her, and she said that she froze and couldnt figure out how to stop his unwanted contact. What are they going to think of me, that Im a whore, if I say something? she said. What would I say? Hes Dustin Hoffman. After dropping her off, Hoffman allegedly instructed the woman to come to his residence, and describing herself as in a kind of fugue state triggered by his actions, she took a cab there where he allegedly performed oral sex on her and they had intercourse. She said the encounter in the station wagon as nonconsensual and said of their later intercourse, I dont know.
Hoffman has also recently been accused of sexual harassment by actress Kathryn Rossetter, who was in Death in a Salesman with him; Anna Graham Hunter, a PA on Death of Salesman and Wendy Riss Gatsiounis, an executive producer of Genius.
Link: https://www.thecut.com/2017/12/dustin-hoffman-accused-of-assault-exposing-himself-to-minor.html?utm_campaign=nym&utm_source=tw&utm_medium=s1
hlthe2b
(102,294 posts)Damn! Just damn...
I have always liked Dustin Hoffman as an actor, and thought he seemed like a decent man. But it seems that many successful men think that their success gives them a right to treat women badly as if women were trophies of success.
50 Shades Of Blue
(10,011 posts)Doodley
(9,095 posts)several other people and she said nothing. I can buy that, but then when asked, she took a cab to his home and was surprised that meant they would have sex. I am not buying it.
mythology
(9,527 posts)It's not unheard of. Jimmy Savile molested a woman live on BBC's Top of the Pops and others at parties.
I had a former co-worker who was arrested for masturbating on public transit. The first witness apparently kind of froze and it wasn't until a second witness saw it that anything was said.
RobinA
(9,893 posts)this exposing themselves stuff. Is this a thing? WAS it a thing? I went to college in the 70s. I went to frats. Plenty of stuff went down. No one ever exposed himself to me or anybody I knew. I always thought that was something creepers did, not successful guys who would have no trouble getting women by just asking them. Does this even work with women? If somebody exposed themselves to me it would not be a selling point even I was inclined to buy before that happened, it would be a total turn-off. I would have gone back and told my girlfriends and we would have had a good laugh. Its just so juvenile/desperate/uncool. I mean, who does that? Well, I guess we know who does that, but still... Who DOES that? I dont get it.
JimBeard
(293 posts)I also ask since it would be off putting to you to see a naked man, what would the 16 year boy think of a naked Mrs Robinson. I know because I had fantasies as a youngster.
Men and women think different and that is why there are different reactions to impressions of nudity.
I am really tired of women telling me and other men how we think.
ProfessorGAC
(65,076 posts)I'm a guy, and i don't get how anybody thinks that is a good way to approach fomenting a sexual encounter.
It's just weird, to me.
bdamomma
(63,875 posts)Well it could be anyone male or female to take advantage of someone of either sex, especially if they have power, they seem to think that they are entitled and infallible.
They portray themselves in one way and have these over the top sexual tendencies. Alot of mental health professionals/facilities are going to be busy.
I think 2018 is going to be the year of woman if this keeps up.