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nmgaucho

(527 posts)
Mon Dec 11, 2017, 09:47 PM Dec 2017

An admirable man, this takes courage and a change of heart for the better

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A father who’s a local peanut farmer in Alabama, standing outside a Roy Moore rally, talks about losing his gay daughter at age of 23 to suicide. Says people shouldn’t vote for Moore who calls gay people perverts & an abomination.

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BamaRefugee

(3,483 posts)
5. A good man. And probably the object of a lot of snickering and derision...
Mon Dec 11, 2017, 10:52 PM
Dec 2017

I feel his pain as I watched my gay aunt live through a lot of strife in the late 50s and 60s in Birmingham.

Stuart G

(38,428 posts)
9. Perhaps, just perhaps this could influence the election in the correct direction.
Mon Dec 11, 2017, 11:26 PM
Dec 2017

No one knows. A local person losing a 23 year old gay daughter to suicide could convince more people than a lot of the other issues..

..Says people shouldn't vote for Moore who calls gay people perverts and an abomination...

The message of a father who lost a 23 year old daughter that Ray Moore would call "a pervert" could be more powerful than anything.

...and it is the truth.... and is very sad.

bedazzled

(1,761 posts)
11. A hopeful sign that improvement is possible
Mon Dec 11, 2017, 11:45 PM
Dec 2017

Understanding can be achieved, unfortunately at great cost

byronius

(7,395 posts)
12. Got the tears in my eyes. Painful lesson for that man.
Mon Dec 11, 2017, 11:55 PM
Dec 2017

Too bad it always seemes to take a traumatic personal experience for some people to change.

George Wallace comes to mind.

Jarqui

(10,126 posts)
13. People like that help to lift me up and sustain my hope
Tue Dec 12, 2017, 12:02 AM
Dec 2017

His daughter sure would be proud of her daddy tonight. And she would be right to feel that way.

To me, that man represents a lot more of what America is about than the whole GOP put together.

Thanks for sharing that tweet.

rwsanders

(2,605 posts)
14. Hard to watch because that man has been ripped apart...
Tue Dec 12, 2017, 12:08 AM
Dec 2017

That was probably the hardest thing he has ever done in his life.
I pray he finds peace.

dchill

(38,502 posts)
16. Hate is easy until it hits home.
Tue Dec 12, 2017, 12:42 AM
Dec 2017

I really do feel for this guy, but what I said is true. And hate has a very high price that we ALL end up having to pay.

calimary

(81,304 posts)
17. Welcome to DU, nmgaucho!
Tue Dec 12, 2017, 01:26 PM
Dec 2017

This really rips one's heart out. Thank you so much for posting it.

This is the kind of fellow who is MASSIVELY needed by states like Alabama, to prove they don't all share a 6th-Century (BC) mindset. His own words confess that he once did feel that way. But then his own precious daughter brought the real world home to him. May she rest in peace. She had to have felt so tortured and misunderstood and isolated in that environment, so badly and deeply that she felt the only way out was taking her own life.

And I feel for her dad, too. What a rotten way to have one's mind opened. He had to lose a child to get there. I cannot even begin to imagine the agony of that.

It just shouldn't have to be that way. For ANYONE.

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