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What Franken did was done for the camera, deliberately shared, in his role as wacky comedian. (Original Post) Binkie The Clown Nov 2017 OP
Don't you think that was a sick twisted joke? I sure do. mucifer Nov 2017 #1
She did not say he "did some awful things back stage." SunSeeker Nov 2017 #7
That's a bit of a misreading of what she said. Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #9
You cut out the part where she said she told him "ok." SunSeeker Nov 2017 #17
No. I didn't omit it. And she agreed to rehearse the line, not the kiss Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #18
You said in Post #1: "She also said he did some awful things back stage." SunSeeker Nov 2017 #19
I am not mucifer. Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #20
Ok, but you did omit where she explicitly consented to the kiss. SunSeeker Nov 2017 #21
Which part was sick and twisted? Nevernose Nov 2017 #8
The lady had a flack jacket/body armour on... IthinkThereforeIAM Nov 2017 #12
Comedians by nature push against social barriers and mores VMA131Marine Nov 2017 #2
I don't think he did that as an officer of the court. rzemanfl Nov 2017 #3
benny hillbuilt his career on this stuff. evolution. pansypoo53219 Nov 2017 #4
was franken's victim 14? spanone Nov 2017 #5
Big fat hairy difference between a comedy gig gone raunchy. . . DinahMoeHum Nov 2017 #6
exactly bdamomma Nov 2017 #11
distraction acheived They_Live Nov 2017 #13
You nailed it Pepsidog Nov 2017 #10
I doubt her version SCVDem Nov 2017 #14
SHEs also apparently a birther BannonsLiver Nov 2017 #15
Stooooopid wacky comedian. If he'd have guessed he was going to be a Senator .... marble falls Nov 2017 #16
Yes. cwydro Nov 2017 #22
Context is too nuanced for some folks. The visceral response is emotional and Ninga Nov 2017 #23
Same as David Vitter SCVDem Nov 2017 #24

mucifer

(23,554 posts)
1. Don't you think that was a sick twisted joke? I sure do.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 09:22 PM
Nov 2017

She also said he did some awful things back stage. Yes, it's different than attacking lots of teenagers.

SunSeeker

(51,574 posts)
7. She did not say he "did some awful things back stage."
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:18 PM
Nov 2017

She said that during a VOLUNTARY practice kiss as they were rehearsing for a skit, he stuck his tongue in her mouth. That is it. "Twisted" is Moore trolling a mall to corner 14 year olds into having sex with him. What Moore did was simply not equivalent to what Franken did.

Ms. Toad

(34,076 posts)
9. That's a bit of a misreading of what she said.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:28 PM
Nov 2017
"He said to me, 'We need to rehearse the kiss.' I laughed and ignored him. Then he said it again. I said something like, 'Relax Al, this isn't SNL. … We don’t need to rehearse the kiss'," she wrote in a lengthy and detailed post on KABC's website.

"He continued to insist, and I was beginning to get uncomfortable."

Tweeden said she reluctantly agreed to rehearse the line leading up to the kiss and that's when Franken "came at me, put his hand on the back of my head, mashed his lips against mine and aggressively stuck his tongue in my mouth."


What she is describing is not a voluntary practice kiss.

Persistence by men in the face is not voluntary participation by women, even if the woman involved ultimately feels pressured to go along.

SunSeeker

(51,574 posts)
17. You cut out the part where she said she told him "ok."
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 01:19 AM
Nov 2017

And you don't quote where she said "awful things" happened "back stage."

What is the "awful" stuff, other than an unwelcome tongue in a rehearsal kiss?

Ms. Toad

(34,076 posts)
18. No. I didn't omit it. And she agreed to rehearse the line, not the kiss
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:50 AM
Nov 2017

Reread my post (relevant portion excerpted here):

Tweeden said she reluctantly agreed to rehearse the line leading up to the kiss


But the primary reason for my post was to remind you of the dynamics of sexual assault. Many, many victims of sexual assault/sexual harassment ultimately "agree" to a request from a more powerful person who repeatedly pressures them to agree. That does not make participation volunatary.

Where did I say anything about "awful things" happening "back stage"?

I'm responding to your offensive assertion that rehearsing the kiss was voluntary.

SunSeeker

(51,574 posts)
19. You said in Post #1: "She also said he did some awful things back stage."
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:09 AM
Nov 2017

You were not responding to me, you were responding to the OP. What are those "awful things"?

Ms. Toad

(34,076 posts)
20. I am not mucifer.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:19 AM
Nov 2017
mucifer (12,442 posts)
1. Don't you think that was a sick twisted joke? I sure do.

SunSeeker

(51,574 posts)
21. Ok, but you did omit where she explicitly consented to the kiss.
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 03:29 AM
Nov 2017

You are quoting inaccurate media summaries, not her actual words. As she says in the video, Franken asked to "do the kissing scene." And she said "ok, fine." It is right in video at the link: http://www.cnn.com/2017/11/16/politics/leeann-tweeden-al-franken-the-lead/index.html

and here, starting at 0:09:



What she describes is him going overboard with a wet, aggressive kiss she was not expecting, but she was expecting a kiss. This is not like how Moore and Weinstein latched onto their victims, who did not consent to contact in any way. Was Franken's 2006 conduct, as Tweeden describes it, boorish and obnoxious? Yes. But he apologized and she accepted his apology.

Nevernose

(13,081 posts)
8. Which part was sick and twisted?
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:21 PM
Nov 2017

The part where he was near someone’s boobs but not actually touching them? Or the part where he and a grown woman consensually kissed but he turned out to be a lousy kisser?

IthinkThereforeIAM

(3,076 posts)
12. The lady had a flack jacket/body armour on...
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:53 PM
Nov 2017

... so he really was going to cop a feel , but that is part of the irony/comedy in it. Context, context, context ... I tell my right wing acquaintances, and it really upsets them... ha

VMA131Marine

(4,140 posts)
2. Comedians by nature push against social barriers and mores
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 09:28 PM
Nov 2017

Sometimes they go too far in the name of a laugh (see Andrew Dice Clay, Michael Richardson, and many others) and, absent any context, at face value this photo is in the goes too far category. The difference is the Franken has acknowledged the transgression and seems contrite while Moore is still smearing his accusers to the point of absurdity.

rzemanfl

(29,565 posts)
3. I don't think he did that as an officer of the court.
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 09:35 PM
Nov 2017

What Franken should have done is said-

"My accuser is a lying sinner, defying the will of gawd, who posed in Playboy. This is all part of a right wing conspiracy to defile my name and thwart the will of the people of the state of Minnesota and Gawd. I plan to sue her pants off and expose her evil scheme. Fake news I tell yah, fake news."

bdamomma

(63,883 posts)
11. exactly
Thu Nov 16, 2017, 11:47 PM
Nov 2017

Could this allegation be a set up??? Distraction from the Tax bill getting through the House today, and that freaking Ryan smirking about it, this is another assault on the American people.

 

SCVDem

(5,103 posts)
14. I doubt her version
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:01 AM
Nov 2017

How can you grab a boob if they are under 3 layers plus a flak jacket?

They weren't alone either. Besides the photographer.

That said, it was juvenile and stupid.

She is relishing the spotlight and will embellish the tale as necessary. IMO

marble falls

(57,112 posts)
16. Stooooopid wacky comedian. If he'd have guessed he was going to be a Senator ....
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 12:05 AM
Nov 2017

he'd never done it. It was juvenile and stupid.

Moore, however is a child rapist among other disgusting things. He felt privileged and felt he was never ever going to face any sort of consequences. How can he possibly say he can't remember having sex with a fourteen year old girl or not as a twenty-eight year old prosecutor.

I know I remember NEVER EVER doing such a thing when I was twenty eight. And I bet you remember never raping a fourteen year old when you were twenty-eight, too. Its just not a maybe I did, maybe I didn't sort of question.

Ninga

(8,275 posts)
23. Context is too nuanced for some folks. The visceral response is emotional and
Fri Nov 17, 2017, 02:32 PM
Nov 2017

Mostly without context. Franken was juvenile and not funny mugging for the camera...
The context surrounding the rehearsed skit, matters. I welcome an ethics hearing, although I don't know how he could be censured for actions before he was a Senator..

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