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Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 03:34 PM Nov 2017

When I started changing my grandneice's diaper, my neice (her aunt) questioned

my ability yesterday.

I, being a 54 year old, single male, informed her that I had changed plenty of her diapers.

I was on regular daycare pickup, feed them dinner and put her and her two brothers to bed duty when my sister got rid of her deadbeat husband. And having worked in a nursing home during college, I have changed the diapers of 280 lb. men.

Don't judge books by their covers.

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lunatica

(53,410 posts)
1. Well you had a wonderful opportunity to educate your niece didn't you?
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 03:38 PM
Nov 2017

You'll probably be referred to as her really cool uncle who changes babies' diapers. A win win. You'll be the standard by which she judges all the men in her life from now on.

Not bad!

 

Thor_MN

(11,843 posts)
4. My bad, my browser's spellcheck doesn't work in the subject line.
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 03:46 PM
Nov 2017

And that is one of my chronically misspelled words...

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
8. I before E and all that nonsense...actually works.
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 05:02 PM
Nov 2017

But I know how our phones have their own ideas about spelling lol.

rock

(13,218 posts)
9. A careful examination of a good English dictionary
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 05:07 PM
Nov 2017

Will show that it has more misses than hits.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
3. You seem angry at her for asking. You should be upset with the patriarchy.
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 03:41 PM
Nov 2017

And the social norms it enforces on almost every living human being here in the US and likely the world.

TEB

(12,894 posts)
5. Good for you
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 03:47 PM
Nov 2017

I’ve changed diapers on our three daughters and 12 year old son when they were infants. And recently our one niece who was potty training with pull ups. I saw her one day she was squirming I said come on let’s go use the potty .She replied how about not.

MLAA

(17,329 posts)
7. Excellent reminder about judging a book by its cover.
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 04:33 PM
Nov 2017

I remember an important lesson I learned early in my Tech sales career. I found numerous prosperous looking companies (high end offices etc) that had no cash/good credit to invest while a few businesses I called on looked pretty humble...but they had the resources to invest in their IT.

byronius

(7,401 posts)
10. It is an honorable act.
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 05:34 PM
Nov 2017

I've heard it suggested that god judges people by how much of other people's poop they clean up during their life.

Which kinda makes me Jesus.

japple

(9,839 posts)
15. If that applies to all of god's creatures, I've got a golden crown and front row seat in
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 06:08 PM
Nov 2017

heaven based on all the animal poop I've cleaned up. Health care workers and others who have to do that for humans should sit on the right hand of god (or dog.)

spike jones

(1,686 posts)
16. Sometimes you can judge a book by the cover.
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 06:18 PM
Nov 2017

For example, I read a book with just the title on the cover. “Sweet Jesus, I Hate Bill O’Reilly.” There were no surprises in it.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
18. Never judge books by their covers!
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 07:11 PM
Nov 2017

The best nurses in our hospital here are the men. Period, hands down.

Kaleva

(36,345 posts)
19. At age 56, I was changing the diapers of a 5 week old baby
Sun Nov 12, 2017, 08:15 PM
Nov 2017

Diaper technology has changed since the last time I had diaper duty back when I w as young and changing my younger brothers diapers. Then it was cloth diapers held on with diaper pins. Today you have disposable diapers held on by Velcro like strips and baby wipes.

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