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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI know I'll get shit for this, but here goes:
My yahoo headline says that there were 3 servicemen wounded in the Colorado theater shooting...ok sorry that that happened but what I want to know is:
how many teachers were wounded?
How many social workers?
This shows where are priorities are as a nation!
LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)I am very uncomfortable with the military worship that has arisen since the right-wing gained power. My husband had to wear his uniform during a recent TDY because he was going to the site straight from the airport and he said over 20 people came up to him and thanked him for his service and shook his hand. He was pretty uncomfortable with that much attention, although he realized all those people meant well.
turtlerescue1
(1,013 posts)"Thankyou" wasn't what they heard. I'ld rather these soldiers would hear thankyou. Still wish we would stay home.
Each life does matter, it impacts. With the number of slaughters in America, it gets to be a defense mechanism to grow complacent by those of us not impacted.
After Mpls got the named Murderapolis, we elected a city council person. With each homicide he would take the day off from City Hall, fast and hold a vigil at the crime scene.
Over 34 vigils later,the candles; the cards; the flowers- the families would come by. The realities would hit hard. One is that you really can't fix stupid.
zeemike
(18,998 posts)And don't know anyone that was.
But the meme was created and lives still to this day.
And no one ever thanked me for my service and I never expected it either because I served when men were conscripted and they served because it was their duty to....and you should not be thanking people for doing their duty.
Somewhere along the way starting with Reagan we changed to an all volunteer military and created this cult of heroes that have to be stroked endlessly...the idea of duty to country was gutted,
And every civilization ends this way...with Rome the mercenary military just saw that they had the power and marched across the Rubicon and it was game over for Roman republic.
LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)zeemike
(18,998 posts)And how some of them loved to "hippie punch" the war protesters...cause they loved the war...and loved to tell stories how they abused the "gooks"...or fragged an officer they did not like.
So we paint them with that broad brush too? or is that just for the non heroes.
vietnam_war_vet
(74 posts)"And don't know anyone that was. But the meme was created and lives still to this day. "
Columnist/author/Pulitzer-prize winner Bob Greene thought almost exactly the same and said so in one of his nationally syndicated columns in 1988. In that column, he stated that he thought such incidents were nothing more than an urban myth.
He really kicked a hornet's nest. Virtually thousands of Vietnam Vets wrote and/or phoned him detailing their degrading, discriminatory, often vile incidents that they had experienced from our country's citizens after returning stateside from that war.
Greene then wrote a second column apologizing for his initial column. He then selected several hundred of the letters, contacted the veteran writers, and got permission to use/reprint those letters in an 1989 anthology, entitled: "Homecoming - When the Soldiers Returned From Vietnam."
In my opinion, Greene's book is worth your time to peruse. My letter is on pages 199 - 200.
zeemike
(18,998 posts)And I am sure it happened to someone somewhere...but I know lots of my friends that came home and were well accepted by the community and the anti war people...and I knew both sides...the were all my friends.
But I do know some people that made shit up that never happened because they hated the hippies and loved the war.
And so for every true story there are probably more stories made up for those reasons.
Most of the anti war people I knew did not blame the soldier and were protesting to bring them home where they belonged.
But out of the hundreds of thousands I am sure there are those that experienced what you said and I am sure you are one of them...but just as the freepers pin every vile thing that happens on OWS the same dynamics was in play then...there were a strong group of authoritarians that hated the hippies so much that they loved to punch them out...nothing of course is ever said about that...but I am sure you could find thousands of stories about it if you asked.
And it is those stories that fuel this little cult of heroes we have going now...and it was the reason papa Bush used to start it all curing the first gulf war....if fucking makes me sick to see a once proud and honorable service by the citizen soldier be turned into a mercenary force and a cult of heroes.
So pardon me if I don't play the game and thank you for your service...it was your duty....and not your fault.
And as far as disclosure is concerned I had 2 brothers that served in WW2 and my father was a marine in WW1 and was wounded at the battle of Belleau woods...and they would have been embarrassed if you thanked them for their service. They served because it was their duty not because they wanted to be heroes.
turtlerescue1
(1,013 posts)When I marched in S.F. it was with six guys who had just come home from Nam. It was things like the VFW and Legions that "at that time" did not accept the Nam vets, because "it was a police action, and not a declared war". One of my best friends was killed on point the day after Christmas 1967, it took several years of complaining before our Veterans Groups made sure he had a flag on Memorial and Veteran's Days. What was that one "saying"?
We are the unwilling doing the un necessary for the ungrateful?
Met one woman who I think to impress our group called "the peace treaty" said she had spit on a vet at Oakland, she was shunned like a plague.
I'm not so sure its hero worship that nudges someone to thank a soldier in uniform, it might be just a show of respect for time served and duty done.
zeemike
(18,998 posts)But it is a mistake to make duty an honer...especially when that duty is a serious one involving killing people.
If you save someones life and they thank you... that is how it works....but when your duty is a serious and violent one in the taking of life and it is a shame to be thanked for it.
I liked the story I read about a Native American tribe that had warriors...and they were outcast really...they were not allowed to participate in the religious rites.....but these warriors had great honer among the people still but the tribe gave the honer to the spirit of life in that they treated the violence as nothing to be proud of.
For what it's worth.
DURHAM D
(32,610 posts)Loudly
(2,436 posts)Will it change any minds among the survivors and their families who previously thought guns and ammo in the hands of the public is a good idea?
Indydem
(2,642 posts)They don't go to foreign lands on orders and make it home to be shot by a fucker in a theater.
It's perspective friend, get some.
arbusto_baboso
(7,162 posts)I have.
And every man and woman I ever served with would be more than fine with saving an American civilian life at the cost of their own, whether it is abroad or in a movie theater at home.
Looks to me like YOU are the one in need of perspective.
Indydem
(2,642 posts)You missed my entire point.
The fact that you failed to realize the emphasis placed means that even if I take the painstaking time to explain it to you, you won't get it anyway, so I'll save the effort.
arbusto_baboso
(7,162 posts)And your unwiilingness to explain stems more from your inability to do so.
TalkingDog
(9,001 posts)and Americans, you really need to ride along with one when they visit a meth addict or a person with severe paranoid schizophrenia.
And I'm sure a few teachers would have stories to tell too.
GreenPartyVoter
(72,378 posts)LiberalLoner
(9,762 posts)MichiganVote
(21,086 posts)gopiscrap
(23,761 posts)twice as a social worker in 8 years I have had a gun pulled on me and once shot. My wife has been a teacher in an inner city school for 12 years and she has been assaulted several times...why don't you get some perspective!!!! My post wanted folks to look at the hero worship we have of the military..when as a nation we glorify fighting and death, that seeps down to the rest of our culture and makes us blind to peace and justice!
arbusto_baboso
(7,162 posts)I'm a social worker myself now, and I consider myself to be no less in service to my nation than when I wore a uniform. As are you and your wife.
gopiscrap
(23,761 posts)Indydem
(2,642 posts)Is that an assumed condition of your employment, or simply something that happens?
If it is an assumed risk, and everyone who goes into social work and teaching regularly lays their life on the line to do their job, then I will retract my statement.
You know that is not an assumed risk of being a social worker or a teacher, therefore, it is not the same as a soldier.
Nice try equating your job to the armed forces. I give your attempt a C for effort.
arbusto_baboso
(7,162 posts)And I'm telling you right now, that military personnel themselves tend to find that thinking patently offensive. You'll get no points from many of us, I think.
Indydem
(2,642 posts)And the sacrifice they make, then we have nothing more to speak about.
arbusto_baboso
(7,162 posts)You PRETEND to care about us, but in reality you dishonor us all by putting us on a pedestal.
SHAME ON YOU!
fascisthunter
(29,381 posts)my father was a military man, AND THAT is how he saw things. He would say to me that those who claim to support the troops by wearing your service like a badge of honor are usually the least likely to give a damn, because they are the first to send you off to any war.
As if they somehow were entitled to send you all off to war when they felt so.
Anyways
MichiganVote
(21,086 posts)GreenPartyVoter
(72,378 posts)wouldn't have given points either.
TalkingDog
(9,001 posts)handle that.
Everyday self defense for Social Workers
http://everydayselfdefense.com/
Two county service departments receive self-defense training:
Survival skills instructor David Bradley taught self defense and awareness strategies to 50 county social service and health care workers.
http://www.maconnews.com/archive2/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=5103
The link is broken, but that does not negate my point.
RobinA
(9,894 posts)has had two social work jobs where it was part of the job description to visit crack houses, houses in drug infested neighborhoods, and the homes of seriously mentally ill people. Etc. At night. By myself. Without any kind of defense.
I'm not saying it's Fallujah, but one does get sick of hearing about dangerous jobs with never a mention. I figure it's because most of us are women.
Angry Dragon
(36,693 posts)and not all soilders put their lives on the line
never in harms way
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)as though nobody else may be worth mentioning or that they may also have risky public service jobs.
Good point.
MichiganVote
(21,086 posts)Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)So if you sign up to "serve" you know there's a good chance you will be asked to be shot at as you attempt to kill people in foreign lands.
Indydem
(2,642 posts)You go to a foreign warzone and survive, and return to be killed by Mr. Crazytown.
Why is this so hard to understand?
GreenPartyVoter
(72,378 posts)in a way, and I think that is what people were taking issue with.
1monster
(11,012 posts)Social workers also sometimes encounter serious danger in their work.
Ever beeni n a classroom when two highschoolers go at each other, homones raging and brains disengaged? I'm sure social workers have had to remove children from abusive parents who are not ready to have their children taken away...
Every job has it moments, but the two you mentioned are not the safest jobs in the country.
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)I've known of several cases including one with serious injuries inflicted on the teacher by a student.
tclambert
(11,087 posts)MichiganVote
(21,086 posts)icarusxat
(403 posts)you will find that they not only risk their lives but also give their lives to help their students giving your life does not always mean that you are dead...
just sayin'
HiPointDem
(20,729 posts)MichiganVote
(21,086 posts)Do YOU walk into your job edgy like that?
EVERY single day of my work life I wonder if today is that day. So shut the fuck up about that. YOU don't know what the hell you are talking about.
aquart
(69,014 posts)They may have been in uniform.
Which teachers and social workers never are.
Silly assumption.
targetpractice
(4,919 posts)...amongst the military. Wounded servicemen probably had to report their status to the base. The military probably issued a statement to the press.
Not so much structure for teachers and social workers. Maybe?
Robb
(39,665 posts)Military folks carry military IDs.
As it happens, teachers and what-not don't tend to identify their profession on their driver's licenses. Reporters report; this tidbit came quickly and easily, and isn't a value statement.
gopiscrap
(23,761 posts)just like giving discounts to the military..you never see a teacher or a social worker getting a discount.
earthside
(6,960 posts)Someone else here at DU also posted a thread about that ... and my response was:
"What does that have to do with anything? Are military people more notable for some reason than the other victims?"
Actually, it goes to the culture that facilitates this kind of violence in our country: the war machine is a good thing; war is glorious and honorable.
What is wrong with us that anyone would feel like some people's occupations or vocations are worth more attention than any other persons' -- especially in a tragedy like this.
This all just keeps getting more and more perverse.
gopiscrap
(23,761 posts)TheCowsCameHome
(40,168 posts)The guy that works down at the auto parts store doesn't count.
I don't understand it either.
Robb
(39,665 posts)Military IDs do. That's the only reason this is being reported -- because it was a fact of things that a reporter could report. No value judgments, just an easy sentence.
gopiscrap
(23,761 posts)carry governmental ID also..my wife does and do I
1monster
(11,012 posts)in my purse...
hedgehog
(36,286 posts)movie theater.
Like my friend's ex-gf. Her son served two tours in Iraq, one in Afghanistan. Gets out, comes home and dies in a car accident 3 weeks later.
hedgehog
(36,286 posts)only to die in a steam boat explosion on the way home.....
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SS_Sultana
Tejas
(4,759 posts)Really, is your OP your idea of a problem?
ProSense
(116,464 posts)"My yahoo headline says that there were 3 servicemen wounded in the Colorado theater shooting"
...even members of the military don't carry guns outside of specific military activities.
Could you imagine if members of the military were armed at all times?
Wacko teabagger Congressman seems to think that the victims should have been armed.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002980942
PavePusher
(15,374 posts)just as some Civilians do. But they are not carrying as part of their military affiliation.
ProSense
(116,464 posts)"But they are not carrying as part of their military affiliation."
...is the distinction made to point to the irony.
randr
(12,412 posts)proximity of Buckley Air Base.
PavePusher
(15,374 posts)Teachers and social workers, probably not so much.
Wounded people generally have their ID checked so as to assist in the Next of Kin notification process and for medical insurance purposes.
Don't read something into this that isn't actually there.
4th law of robotics
(6,801 posts)does that mean that adults being killed isn't tragic?
fascisthunter
(29,381 posts)tclambert
(11,087 posts)Guy serves three tours in Iraq--not a scratch. Comes home and goes to a movie--gets shot.
Siwsan
(26,277 posts)But my heart breaks equally for all of the victims and their families. This is an event of true nightmare proportions.
Jamaal510
(10,893 posts)Like whenever there's some accident or killing, and the news talks about some celeb being among the people who were killed or injured. I notice they don't really do that much to mention other people who were hurt who could've been teachers, social workers, or other difference makers in their community. It kinda gives me the impression that the life of a celebrity is more of importance than the other people who get hurt.
DCKit
(18,541 posts)wouldn't have made the news, at all.
kurtzapril4
(1,353 posts)It's tragic when children are killed or wounded....adults? Meh.
Bluerthanblue
(13,669 posts)you'll get no shit from me.
thank you for pointing this out.
It is so tiring and sad that we can't even mourn without having have people try to divide and seperate us implying that some victims are somehow more special than others.
I'm so fuckin sick of it....