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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsPlease tell me, who did prayer in schools. I was 60's-70's west coast and we did not do prayer in
school. Ever. From the youngest of age.
Anyone? And the location. Because it may be only in the south, I do not know.
My father was in the Midwest in the 40's-50's and he did not have prayer in school.
I have been curious about this for a while, so the more that participate, the better sense I can get of how prevalent it was in schools, where and when.
mercuryblues
(14,537 posts)too. Northeast coast. Never had prayer in school either,
hlthe2b
(102,357 posts)But, no, public schools did not require prayers and I went to school a LONG time ago (midwest).
We did do the pledge of allegiance though. It was rote and no one really thought twice about it or what was being said (or not).
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)in the 70s. We said The Lords Prayer up to grade 6.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)It was in a very homogeneous small town. We said it every morning after announcements.
It ended when I hit 7th grade in 77.
Arkansas Granny
(31,528 posts)Occasionally a church group would come by and give Bible stories using cut out figures on a felt covered board. This was at a small, rural grade school.
Mr. Ected
(9,670 posts)Never prayed in school. Prayed at home and in church, though.
GP6971
(31,205 posts)50s & 60s. Nope....never.
mcar
(42,372 posts)But I went to parochial schools.
JI7
(89,264 posts)And only during lunch or other breaks they could get together and pray if they wanted.
madinmaryland
(64,933 posts)NW Ohio. Small school. Other than that, there was no prayer in school.
Takket
(21,625 posts)Mystic Connecticut and Adams Massachusetts, never saw prayer in the classroom.
did the Pledge every morning
dewsgirl
(14,961 posts)MaryMagdaline
(6,856 posts)1970 to 1971, 6th grade teacher led prayer right after pledge of allegiance. Learned Catholic bible had different numbered psalms from Protestant bible and Our Father had one less verse and was called The Lord's Prayer. Jewish student read from Old Testament. Wonder what her parents thought.
Macon, Georgia. I had just moved from Prince George's County, Maryland. Big culture shock. Bible Belt but they went to school on Good Friday and did not go to church on Christmas Day.
Jehovah's Witness friend did not have to stand for national anthem and did not say pledge.
My teacher was a good teacher. After a few days, that's all I cared about.
Moved to South Florida as an adult and never looked back.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)MaryMagdaline
(6,856 posts)Even in Macon, where the first question was always "What church y'all go to?" The aggressive push for prayer in school was in the 80's And 90's I think. I was beyond high school by then.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)Because it is seeming to me, that most did not have prayer in school. The argument is, they want to implement prayer in school.
Beartracks
(12,821 posts)But it sounds like, for the most part, it wasn't there in the first place. At least not going back a couple generations. But then... that's when, in the Republican Handbook, everything supposedly went all to hell, right?
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Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)It seems to be only a couple southern states and Florida, lol. Or individual teachers in these couple southern states.
Mariana
(14,860 posts)Any kid that wants to pray in school can do so. They don't get to disrupt class with it, and they don't get to make anyone else pray along with them, but they can pray all they want to.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)in the Northeast, but like Penn.
Not any in the west. One in Texas but others say no so might be isolated. Same with a few spots in Midwest. It is very interesting.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)Atlanta one Monday and said transfer me or I quit. They did, thankfully.
MaryMagdaline
(6,856 posts)Still have family there. They are now fully Macon. Hardcore Democrats. Believe it or not Southerners are some of the best liberals when they are liberal. They've developed survival skills others have never had to.
nolabear
(41,991 posts)It wasn't a dictated thing in school, even where it was a ubiquitous part of society.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)I am learning. In the future when I state there hasn't been prayer in school, I want to get it right. Thanks.
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)We are Italian Catholic or Mexican Catholic Americans. Every football game we said an our father and a hail Mary.
It's was public school.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)No on complained. I think we all figured we could use all the help we could get 😁
TheCowsCameHome
(40,168 posts)Me - Early '50s public schools - Lord's prayer in some grades.
Wife - Lord's prayer, even some bible passage reading.
(Later in high school I prayed a lot that the cute blonde with the pony tail would notice me, she eventually did, and now we've been married 50+ years).
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)yardwork
(61,703 posts)By middle school, the Supreme Court was taking a really dim view so the principals switched to "now let's bow our heads and have a moment of silence."
Also, girls were not allowed to wear pants in my elementary school in the 1960s.
Yupster
(14,308 posts)I remember getting milk and crackers or cookies each day. We said a prayer, ate the snack and then put our heads on the desk for a nap. This would have been kindergarten or first grade.
csziggy
(34,137 posts)It was entirely up to the individual teachers. Most didn't pray, but the ones who insisted on it were obnoxious about it. They tried to force every child into complying with their religious preferences. We were pretty grateful when the SC stopped that silliness - it wasted class time and even as a kid I objected to much of their prayer content. I played along but didn't pray with them or participate in the prayer garbage at all.
One ultra conservative Christian teacher continued to require prayer even after the SC decision. It was not until a Jehovah Witness student made a fuss when she would not allow him to wait outside the classroom until her prayer was over that she was finally forced to stop.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)Texasgal
(17,047 posts)Never prayed and no one really asked to either...from what I recall.
We did do the Pledge of Allegiance every morning though.
sakabatou
(42,174 posts)dhol82
(9,353 posts)Never did prayers.
Did do the pledge of allegiance. I remember when we added under god. Just thought it was more words I had to say.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)We did go through some weird stuff, though, with a "moment of silent meditation" during after the pledge, during which were instructed that we could stand or sit silently for 15 seconds or so, and use that time for whatever mental act we wanted. No one had to pray, but everyone had to be silent.
It was apparently to avoid the accusation that they were preventing anyone from praying, such that anyone who wanted to pray could do so.
Why the Almighty Creator needs anyone to say anything out loud in a communication directed to it, is anyone's guess.
The ONLY reason to pray out loud is to make sure that other people can hear it.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)My thought is with God's omnipresent, there is no keeping out so if they believe, then what the hell are they talking about.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)We said the pledge of allegiance (which I never really liked) but no prayer ever.
tableturner
(1,684 posts)Supreme Court ruled in 1962. A big deal was not made of it, either. It was an automatic, assumed daily rite. Nobody asked if a child's family objected to the proscribed recitation of a New Testament prayer.
By 1963, a year after the ruling, proscribed prayer in school ended nationwide. So if you were not in school prior to 1963, you could not have experienced this.
I am interested in hearing from those who were in public schools in the years just prior to the ruling.
beveeheart
(1,370 posts)We said the Pledge, had a short prayer and/or a Bible verse. In my 11th grade homeroom, I was chosen to read the daily Bible verse. I remember how hard it was to choose just the "right" one. The high school was ALL white and my homeroom of 25 included mostly Methodists and Episcopalians, 2 Mennonites, 1 Baptist.
MyOwnPeace
(16,937 posts)Bible readings and Lord's Prayer in grade school - stopped after 6th. grade - "pledge" throughout K-12.
We did have a Baccalaureate Service on the Sunday before the Graduation ceremony, as well as a community religious leader doing the invocation at the graduation.
Later spent 35 years teaching in public schools and never had any "religious" aspects involved with anything - but always had "the pledge!"
appleannie1943
(1,303 posts)RobinA
(9,894 posts)1963 - 1975 public school. Never uttered a prayer in school, never heard anybody else say a prayer. Did Pledge and moment of silent meditation, which I took to mean exactly what it says.
kysrsoze
(6,023 posts)about separation of church and state. We knew because we were taught that in intermediate school. Even when I was in the Houston burbs for jr. high and high school, I never saw it.
shanny
(6,709 posts)AND that the US had a mixed economy with elements of socialism and capitalism.
fierywoman
(7,694 posts)Last edited Sat Oct 28, 2017, 12:47 AM - Edit history (1)
Added: I'd thought I'd remembered this correctly: the school district I was in was Union Free District #9 and apparently it was the one that brought the school prayer issue all the way to the Supreme Court! from Wikipedia
Seven years later, Steven I. Engel, a Jew, was upset to see his sons hands clasped and his head bent in prayer. He told his son that this was not the way we say prayers. Engel, a founding member of the New York Civil Liberties Union, would bring action along with Daniel Lichtenstein, Monroe Lerner, Lenore Lyons, and Lawrence Roth, all parents of children in the Long Island, New York public school system, against Union Free School District No. 9 for its adoption and subsequent prescription of the so-called "Regent's prayer", arguing that it constituted the state-sponsored establishment of religion in violation of citizens First Amendment rights via the Fourteenth Amendment.[5]
shanny
(6,709 posts)Do remember duck n cover drills.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)Sgent
(5,857 posts)Public schools still had teacher led prayer before lunch in the early 1980's. It then died off for a while, then picked back up in the late '80's early 90's at football games. I was in Mississipppi.
http://www.cnn.com/US/9606/03/school.prayer/index.html was in 1996. About 20 mi away from my school. The that made the complaint was driven out of town.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)kimbutgar
(21,188 posts)We never said prayers which was funny to me because I went to catholic schools in the regular school years.
Solly Mack
(90,785 posts)60's - 70's.
jalan48
(13,883 posts)to write down the name of the church we attended.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)jalan48
(13,883 posts)school.
dhol82
(9,353 posts)I loved to sing. My family was Russian orthodox light - we did church once a year at Easter.
I would go to any church in my neighborhood (we moved several times) from the time I was 8.
They would feel sorry for me and let me sing in the choir. I was really happy and had no belief in the mystical father so it did t matter. Whenever the priest or minister or whatever the designation was would come to our house to speak with my parents they would listen politely and say they didnt speak English. Worked every time.
jalan48
(13,883 posts)religious. There was lots of gossip and comments on other folk's attire. It seemed fakey to me, even as a child.
dhol82
(9,353 posts)Lots of candles and incense and people milling about outside the sanctuary.
It was definitely a social occasion. All the families would bring a basket with Easter goodies (ham, fat back, Pascha, whatever else would be eaten later) to be blessed. Everybody would hang around waiting for the priest to splash holy water on the baskets and then, after the wander around the block with attendant ceremony, we would all go home.
It was a lovely experience. Sadly, it was lost on me as a religious experience. I would not mind going again just as a nostalgia event but, as a died in the wool atheist, it would only make the holy father weep.
The church of my childhood was called Our Lady Joy Of All Sorrows. The name always reminded me of Joan Rivers putative Jewish parochial school Our Lady Of Perpetual Guilt.
jalan48
(13,883 posts)LOL at Perpetual Guilt-that's what it was all about. If you felt guilty you were more likely to come back in hopes of being "saved".
After church my friends and I would play basketball on the asphalt court behind the grade school. The snows had started to melt, it was sunny and at least 50 degrees so it felt like summer. Spring was in the air and optimism was the mood.
dhol82
(9,353 posts)At least for a while.
jalan48
(13,883 posts)SharonClark
(10,014 posts)nancy1942
(635 posts)Contrary to popular thinking there was NO prayer in rural Kansas public schools in the 40's and 50's; only in parochial Catholic schools were students allowed to pray. After all; everyone knew there was a clear separation of church and state. Duh.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)RoBear
(1,188 posts)I grew up in Kansas in the 40s and 50s, and I make sure to tell people when they bitch about prayer being removed from schools that we NEVER prayed in school. I lived in a mixed (Catholic and Methodist) community, and if my Catholic parents had ever heard of us praying in school they'd have been at the school protesting vociferously.
At that point in time, at least in our community, Catholics simply were discouraged from praying with Protestants, and even from attending marriages and funerals in the Methodist church in our town.
nancy1942
(635 posts)Yes. I was one of the Methodists. Maybe we knew each other? As mortal enemies.
RoBear
(1,188 posts)thinking of Methodists as enemies so much as just thinking they were wrong. Of course they couldn't go to heaven.
What foolish things we were taught...
maxrandb
(15,351 posts)But I went to 12 years of Catholic School
mnhtnbb
(31,402 posts)Elementary school. Small town not far from Princeton and 45 minute train commute to NYC. We had Bible readings from old and new testament. There were several Jewish kids in our class and the parents of one girl whose family kept kosher complained about their daughter having to participate in the new testament readings. It made quite an impression in 1961.
TomSlick
(11,109 posts)My only memory of prayer in school was in high school algebra.
logosoco
(3,208 posts)But we did have separate boy and girl playgrounds (and this was a public school). We moved from there to St. Louis County in 1973 and no prayers there either (and no sex segregated playgrounds!).
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)benld74
(9,909 posts)70 miles from STL
No prayers in school
comradebillyboy
(10,175 posts)every morning. I lived in the Mormon theocracy of Utah in the late 50s...no prayer in school.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)Golden Raisin
(4,613 posts)I think it was only one particular teacher and not school policy but in that one year we started each day with the Pledge of Allegiance and the Lord's Prayer. Again, this was just in one teacher's 3rd grade class and not general policy for the school. In other years we recited the pledge but no prayer.
Kingofalldems
(38,475 posts)Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)WhiteTara
(29,722 posts)no prayers in any schools I went to.
all american girl
(1,788 posts)At Christmas our principal would sing Christmas songs, and he was a bad singer. I moved to another school in our town, they didn't do prayer...I guess they thought the poor side of town needed Jesus more the the middle class kids
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)Shrike47
(6,913 posts)We sang 'Let There Be Peace on Earth' and 'You'll Never Walk Alone.' Pledge of Allegience every morning.
I really enjoyed all the singing we did.
raccoon
(31,119 posts)I finished high school in the late 60s in a small South Carolina town. This was a public school.
Every morning someone would read a daily devotion, a hymn sung by Tennessee Ernie Ford was played, and have a prayer. All this went out to the whole school over the intercom.
ribrepin
(1,726 posts)Came out to Montana and Washington state - no school prayer.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)ribrepin
(1,726 posts)I wondered what happened to the morning prayer when I started second grade in Montana.
yortsed snacilbuper
(7,939 posts)Over the PA system, 1950something.
Mediumsizedhand
(531 posts)Lebam in LA
(1,345 posts)1955 - 1968. Never had prayer.
MLAA
(17,327 posts)No prayer in my public schools....but went through integration. I was bussed across town to a historically black school. It was a good experience, no issues. It was just for 5th and 6th graders.
spanone
(135,873 posts)thank God
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,836 posts)When I first heard there was such a thing in some places, probably when I was in high school, I thought it was pretty weird.
blueinredohio
(6,797 posts)Believe they still do
LiberalFighter
(51,084 posts)I was in public schools during those times.
From 1964-1968 I was in parochial school.
old guy
(3,283 posts)Nay
(12,051 posts)we didn't pray, but read a Bible passage each day.
Mariana
(14,860 posts)We moved there that year from another state. In my sister's public elementary school (Kate Shepard), they were made to say grace before lunch, she said. I don't know if they did a prayer in the morning too. I was in middle school, and if anyone prayed there or in high school, they did it discreetly.
The pledge was read over the P.A. system in the morning, and we were told to stand for it but we didn't recite it, we just listened.
Paddling was done. The school handbook spelled out that certain infractions were punishable by "three licks with the paddle, or three days' suspension". Parents could forbid that their children be paddled, but few did so.
Doremus
(7,261 posts)1960s-early 70s.
In choir we used to warm up with "May the Lord Bless You and Keep You" in jr high, which looking back on it now I wonder how the music teacher got away with it.
The day JFK was shot our teacher was crying and said though we weren't supposed to pray in class she didn't care today and said a prayer.
recovering_democrat
(224 posts)Never prayed in school. Said Pledge of Allegiance. Had Christmas party in classroom through 6th grade elementary school.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)pretty much was ended in 62--63, per the SCOTUS.
Retrograde
(10,156 posts)In grammar school we also had to attend Mass every day. High school - also Catholic - wasn't so big on prayers: we had a chapel, but less than 10% of the school could fit into it at one time. We also had mandatory religion classes, one of which was an overview of non-Catholic religions. Yeah, it was a pretty liberal high school.
vlyons
(10,252 posts)and christmas plays and christmas choir concerts. I grew up in Dallas.
Still In Wisconsin
(4,450 posts)which was a little weird for us Jewish kids (there were just a few of us).
hvn_nbr_2
(6,488 posts)We did it, also had a reading of 10 verses of the Bible. This was in the "Alabama" part of PA. In defence of the school administration (and the town), when the Supreme Court ruling came down, they stopped it immediately and there was never any discussion that I heard of defying the court, as happened in so many places and still happens sometimes. They did replace it with a minute of meditation or silence or something (not sure what they called it) when they played classical music over the P.A. system.
mantis49
(815 posts)Missouri and Illinois: never.
This stuff about returning prayers to schools, IMO, is just BS. I often wondered if my schools were aberrations. I went to six different schools in two states.
Iris
(15,666 posts)Before assemblies (which were often programs by the local baptist church) and before football games
blur256
(979 posts)Southwest Missouri that is. In junior high and high school we prayed for everything including sports and band. I will never forget how weird I thought it was the first time I heard the Lords Prayer said with trespassers vs debtors. I grew up Presbyterian and everyone else I knew was Assembly of God, Baptist, or Mormon. I thought that was a cobapiracy Lol. But seriously, the superintendent for the school I went to was just put on probation awhile ago because some awesome kiddos complained about his prayer at graduation this past year. He was retiring anyway, but good for those kids. Even growing up as a Christian, my life was filled with other kids condemning everyone else for not being like "them."
Horse with no Name
(33,956 posts)No prayer there.
LastLiberal in PalmSprings
(12,592 posts)A student (each of us had our turn) would read a passage from the Bible, and then we'd say the Lord's Prayer. Having just moved from an elementary school on a military base in Alaska, it all seemed surreal to me.
In my oldest sister's high school class, the one Jewish student would step out of the room during this exercise in government-enforced Christianity.
left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)Rural Pennsylvania school. No prayers.
We did stand,
face the flag,
and recite the Pledge of Allegiance.
(No one took a knee)
kskiska
(27,047 posts)Up to 6th grade we had to start the morning with the salute to the flag and the Lord's Prayer. We may have sung "My Country 'Tis of Thee," also. At Junior High and beyond, I think it was just the salute.
frogmarch
(12,158 posts)read to our class from Genesis every morning for a half hour or so. Does that count? This was in western Nebraska.
I didn't mind, because it cut into arithmetic, which I hated.
I don't recall any school prayers, though, not ever in all my school years.
Greybnk48
(10,176 posts)We said the Lord's Prayer and the Pledge of allegiance every morning until 1959 or 60. Then it stopped in my school district (Bristol Township, Buck's County, PA).
tblue37
(65,487 posts)Florida, North Carolina, South Carolina. (I was an Air Force brat, so we moved a lot.)
I was in junior high when the landmarK SCOTUS rulings about state sponsored prayer in school occurred in 1962 and 1963.
yortsed snacilbuper
(7,939 posts)eppur_se_muova
(36,289 posts)I'm sure it'll come to mind after the next mass shooting ...
struggle4progress
(118,338 posts)mountain grammy
(26,648 posts)Hartford High.. 1962 home room teacher read from the bible every morning until someone must have said something because he stopped. He was pissed. Came in one morning and demanded a moment of silence and private thoughts.. He could no longer read from the Bible. The SC decision was in the summer of 1962, but he didn't stop until after the school year began.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)We did the Pledge of Allegiance, but I dont even remember that after the third grade.
I remember the sugar cube polio vaccine though....Anyone else?
customerserviceguy
(25,183 posts)In Catholic school, of course, when I was in first and second grade. That's why it didn't seem strange to me when my third grade public school teacher called for it in the fall of 1964.
I think the Supreme Court pretty much squashed it after that, except for the "moment of silence" thing. I don't regard that as prayer, but as a call to be mindful of the subject of the MOS.
musette_sf
(10,206 posts)and NO prayers there. Moved to NYC in grade 4, to find daily prayer. Go figure. Daily, we said the Pledge, sang "My Country 'Tis Of Thee", and then said The Lord's Prayer.
I thought the prayer part was comical... the Jewish kids sat down right away after the song and didn't participate at all in the prayer, then the Catholic kids sat down before the "For thine is the Kingdom" part, which Catholics don't say in the Lord's Prayer, and the Protestant kids were the last ones standing.
Edited to comment: Both schools were public schools.
Doreen
(11,686 posts)I remember doing the pledge up to 2nd grade then when I went to JFK in Berlin we did not do any of those things. I do not think it would have worked well when I was going to a school where diplomat's kids went to from all countries. When I got back when I was 10 and started school in Centralia Wa we did not have prayer but we said the pledge of allegiance. I remember singing My Country, Tis Of Thee also. The singing ended when I went into 7th grade. Here is the big kicker though, in high school we no longer did the pledge of allegiance. I do not know if that happened for anyone else but my very red city stopped that at 9th grade.
leftyladyfrommo
(18,870 posts)We did in Salt Lake City but that was to be expected.
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quaker bill
(8,224 posts)for the first few years, started school in 1960. New Jersey
samnsara
(17,635 posts)....and they both knew to let me know if there were any prayers or Good News Club people hovering about...
Freddie
(9,273 posts)62 - 63 school year our teacher began the day with a Bible reading from a big "child's edition" Bible. Nothing after that. I remember my parents explaining about the SC ruling. This was Philly burbs. HS graduation (74) had an optional Bachelareate (sp?) service with local clergy. My son graduated from the same HS in 2008 and that servuce had been dropped.
HockeyMom
(14,337 posts)My daughter's Home Room Teacher wanted them to start the day off doing this in the '90s. Majority of the class walked out and went to the Principal's office to complain. My daughter said the rest of the class just sat and stared at her.
Word spread. Parents called the school and complained. Backdoor way of praying? I suppose knew she couldn't tell the class to stand and pray so she tried this. She was told to stop doing this or she would be reprimanded.
JustAnotherGen
(31,879 posts)Western NY - Nope.
88 - 91 - Same state, Catholic Prep School.
Ready?
Ready?
Nope. Pledge of Allegiance and that's it.
At the beginning of my daily "God" class - yes. But school wide? Only for specific religious observances, semester convocation, end of the year blessing, etc etc.
We were protestants growing up and my parents sent me there and paid tuition knowing the rules.
They would have flipped a shit if their tax dollars forced non believers to engage in that activity. They still paid property and state taxes on top of my tuition.
My dad would have hit the roof and is probably rolling over in his grave about A LOT of things these days.
appleannie1943
(1,303 posts)a prayer and the Pledge. In those days, "under God" was not in the pledge. That was added toward the end of my middle school years.
scarletlib
(3,418 posts)Late 50's.
The public elementary school I attended was almost 100% Protestant at the time and probably reflected the makeup of most of the other schools. There was one Catholic kid- a boy who was, in my young eyes, persecuted by the the other boys. There was one Jewish girl, Debbie, who came into my 3rd grade class.
Our teacher in 3rd grade was great--she always made a point of having Debbie share information about her religious traditions whenever she could. Therefore we 3rd graders in her class learned about Hanukkah and Passover. She made sure Debbie felt included in our class activities but I am not sure how she handled the prayer part.
When I was in 4th grade the Gideon organization visited the school and gave every child a copy of the New Testament.
We also would have to memorize or read Bible verses out loud in some of our classes. "Jesus wept" was always a favorite.
So yeah, we definitely had religion in our public school at that time.
So yeah I remember all of that very well.
cyclonefence
(4,483 posts)Pledge of Allegiance, "My Country 'tis of Thee", Lord's Prayer. Every day through sixth grade.
Mendocino
(7,505 posts)I really don't recall praying during that time, I was only 6. I do remember the court action. Madalyn Murray O'Hair grew up Rossford OH, not far from my hometown. Her name came up a lot at the time.
BTW the area code for Rossford is 666.
Runningdawg
(4,522 posts)Prayer at the flagpole, prayer at the beginning of every class, prayer before every sporting event, prayer before you eat, prayer before tests....
The whole time the only thing I was praying for was to GTFO of there.
CanonRay
(14,113 posts)from 1956-1969 and never did a prayer. On edit, we did do a Christmas pageant though, with the manger scene and all.
teenagebambam
(1,592 posts)My fourth grade teacher Mrs. Lee made us say the Lord's Prayer every morning. In hindsight I'm guessing this was her own initiative, not the school system's.
The class was pretty evenly split between Catholics and Protestants, so things got awkward at the end of the prayer :/
Rhiannon12866
(206,006 posts)We said the Pledge every morning, followed by the "school prayer", all I remember is that it ended with "our parents, our teachers and our country." Then one day we were told we wouldn't be saying it anymore, we were told it was being replaced by a moment of silence when we were expected to pray to ourselves. I'm guessing now that some law was passed, don't remember it being explained. So some student was assigned to call for the silence in the beginning, we never knew how long it would be, depended on the student, and it was disconcerting because it was a change and no one was sure exactly what to do. Sometime after that, the "moment" disappeared too, not sure when, but nobody seemed to miss it.
maveric
(16,445 posts)They made us say the Lord's Prayer. The Protestant version. Our school was 90+% Roman Catholic. We would stop the prayers as The RCC does with "World without end amen.". Dead silence after that and they forced us to say the Protestant add-on.
That didn't fly too well.
raven mad
(4,940 posts)I'm probably not the kid to ask!
BainsBane
(53,066 posts)and I don't remember praying in Catholic School either. I remember being told to do confession once, with priests lined up on the auditorium stage to take them. I remember having to go to a funeral of a complete stranger for a class on the sacraments. That was the last straw for me. I transferred to public school soon thereafter.
Meowmee
(5,164 posts)For me here Im in NY. We did the pledge etc. When I lived in England we said the Lords Prayer and sang hymns in assembly. I think that was once per week. Im not religious and come from a mixed religious background with non believers. It had no meaning for me and I dont believe in pledges etc. I liked the music and it was good for knowledge etc that I learned that prayer. Although Im not religious I do pray occasionally in extreme circumstances, usually in a vague spiritual way. I dont believe in religious doctrines or organized religion. That was in the 67-70s. In Canada I was in a religious play for Christmas in nursery school. My father had an antisemitic math teacher in Canada in elementary school who made them read the Bible and told him he had to read the Old Testament when he refused to do it. 😹😳