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RazzleCat

(732 posts)
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 01:47 PM Oct 2017

If your not depressed or seething with rage, your not paying attention per my doctor

Just had my annual physical. While going over the check list up came are you depressed. I answered, well yes, but no medication is necessary. I have been rather upset, down, angry on the verge of tears since the election, don’t think you have a pill for that. My Doctors response, if your not depressed or seething with rage, your not paying attention, followed up with her rant re: insurance company paper work and costs. I found it refreshing to have her go off also, we spent the rest of the physical making comments, such as, Hurricanes, ACA, tweeting, language, she would say an outrage, I would respond with yet another. On a more serious note, she did note that she has been having an uptick in the amount of persons seeking assistance with depression. So not alone.

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If your not depressed or seething with rage, your not paying attention per my doctor (Original Post) RazzleCat Oct 2017 OP
During my physical my doctor asked if I was depressed. redstatebluegirl Oct 2017 #1
I guess in this case educated is synonymous with empathic. Corvo Bianco Oct 2017 #16
And maybe "informed" or "not willfully ignorant." spooky3 Oct 2017 #35
I don't think it's a doctor's place to discuss those things with patients taught_me_patience Oct 2017 #2
Its part of Medicare wellness checklist. Lonestarblue Oct 2017 #5
I am a physician volstork Oct 2017 #9
Discussions around depression are, of course, ok taught_me_patience Oct 2017 #14
Every provider I have except one has talked with me spooky3 Oct 2017 #36
"That being said, I avoid political discussions unless the patient brings it up." 3catwoman3 Oct 2017 #38
Isn't it the MD's job to refer a patient to a psychiatrist/specialist forgotmylogin Oct 2017 #17
Seriously? MontanaMama Oct 2017 #22
See my post #14 taught_me_patience Oct 2017 #25
I disagree. Laffy Kat Oct 2017 #30
Yes. MontanaMama Oct 2017 #33
I think is you and the doctor are in agreement, then it's fine. crim son Oct 2017 #24
Disagree. Doctors are people, as well as citizens whathehell Oct 2017 #29
I discuss whatever my patients bring up that they think is contributing to either their physical Aristus Oct 2017 #40
the word is "YOU'RE" Skittles Oct 2017 #3
+1 on both of your points. You're correct. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2017 #7
We're all citizens in a world of reigning evil. I think it's alright to talk this out with people. Corvo Bianco Oct 2017 #18
It's good to talk, but if the doctor needs talk therapy the examination room is not the place for it Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2017 #28
Maybe they don't "need" anything whathehell Oct 2017 #31
You're, you're, you're! mantis49 Oct 2017 #39
I agree. cwydro Oct 2017 #43
Had my physical last week, too. silverweb Oct 2017 #4
I just came from the dentist. murielm99 Oct 2017 #11
I think most healthcare professionals feel the same. silverweb Oct 2017 #37
A psychiatrist friend got lots of new appointments booked after IronLionZion Oct 2017 #6
had the same checkup about 2 months ago rurallib Oct 2017 #8
I have writer friends who couldn't write after the election wryter2000 Oct 2017 #10
I love your doctor. iluvtennis Oct 2017 #12
I think my doctor is even more upset that I am. Loryn Oct 2017 #13
I had a similar conversation with mine. QED Oct 2017 #15
Between constant ACA repeal attempts, sabotaging the ACA, BigmanPigman Oct 2017 #19
I want your doctor! lovemydogs Oct 2017 #20
tRump & Co. are killing us with their insanity. We're pumping gallons of cortisol into our bodies. VOX Oct 2017 #21
I told my doctor (joking) that I was blaming my malaise LuckyLib Oct 2017 #23
Here I sit MFM008 Oct 2017 #26
agreed gopiscrap Oct 2017 #27
I'm certain drumpf is a major cause for depression in America. democratisphere Oct 2017 #32
I would say I am a little depressed. Doreen Oct 2017 #34
You can afford a physical?? raven mad Oct 2017 #41
How about numb? I've become numb. Hekate Oct 2017 #42

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
1. During my physical my doctor asked if I was depressed.
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 01:53 PM
Oct 2017

I said sad, but not depressed since November 8, 2016. She said she asked because a lot of her "educated patients" needed some help with depression. No kidding...

Lonestarblue

(10,095 posts)
5. Its part of Medicare wellness checklist.
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 03:54 PM
Oct 2017

Doctors now ask patients on Medicare whether they are depressed as part of a checklist of questions about general health.

volstork

(5,403 posts)
9. I am a physician
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:20 PM
Oct 2017

with 25 years' experience and routinely discuss such matters with patients. It is incumbent upon me to look at all aspects of my patients' health, and mental/emotional health is a critical part of that equation. That being said, I avoid political discussions unless the patient brings it up. I have done some reproductive rights advocacy in my community which has made my views more visible, so many patients will broach the subject in that way.

 

taught_me_patience

(5,477 posts)
14. Discussions around depression are, of course, ok
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:29 PM
Oct 2017

it's the political talk and complaining about health insurance paperwork that I think are inappropriate.

spooky3

(34,484 posts)
36. Every provider I have except one has talked with me
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 05:46 PM
Oct 2017

about the frustrations of paperwork. They're human, too.

3catwoman3

(24,055 posts)
38. "That being said, I avoid political discussions unless the patient brings it up."
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 06:13 PM
Oct 2017

I do the same. I'm a pediatric nurse practitioner, with 41 years on the job. Pediatrics doesn't present much that is directly politically related, but I do routinely inquire about access to weapons in the home. These queries are typically received with appreciation, both by owners and non-owners. I also encourage parents to politely have a safety discussion with the parents of their kids' playmates. This recommendation is sometimes met with gasps of horror by parents who are not gun owners, and have never thought their their child might get harmed by a gun in someone else's home - "Oh my god, I never even thought about that."

No one has ever declined to answer, nor told me to mind my own business. I keep my opinion on guns to myself, unless a parent makes it clear that they do not care for guns, in which case I simply say something like, "It sounds like I am preaching to the choir."

forgotmylogin

(7,538 posts)
17. Isn't it the MD's job to refer a patient to a psychiatrist/specialist
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:41 PM
Oct 2017

when necessary?

They don't need to nor are qualified necessarily "discuss those things" with you but they should be able to get you to the right person if you need to discuss them with someone.

MontanaMama

(23,344 posts)
22. Seriously?
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:51 PM
Oct 2017

Depression takes a horrible toll on general health and well being. Whose place is it to discuss it if not a physician?

 

taught_me_patience

(5,477 posts)
25. See my post #14
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:56 PM
Oct 2017

discussing depression is ok. Pissing and moaning about insurance paperwork or politics should be left out. It's not professional nor something most want to hear.

Laffy Kat

(16,388 posts)
30. I disagree.
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 05:04 PM
Oct 2017

It's a good way to educate voters about what the physicians are going through. We need to know.

crim son

(27,464 posts)
24. I think is you and the doctor are in agreement, then it's fine.
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:56 PM
Oct 2017

If not, the doctor should probably remain quiet except where medicine is concerned. My doctor who knew me married and well-insured, and then unmarried and not insured, expressed his anger at the fact that even the basic fees were more for uninsured patients. He helped me navigate the system until Obamacare saved my ass and I am deeply grateful. Other medical professionals have shared their feelings with me when they learned where I stood on certain issues but I don't recall anybody offering an opinion before the subject was broached by me, one way or another.

whathehell

(29,096 posts)
29. Disagree. Doctors are people, as well as citizens
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 05:02 PM
Oct 2017

and if their patients initiate the conversation, what's the problem?

Aristus

(66,468 posts)
40. I discuss whatever my patients bring up that they think is contributing to either their physical
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 06:43 PM
Oct 2017

health, or mental and emotional well-being. As a Physician Assistant serving a population of homeless patients, I hear a lot about how politicians and the private sector make my patients' lives very difficult. More than empathy, they have my sympathy for the hardships they face, and the fact that the current Congress and administration are doing everything they can to make things worse.

It would be unprofessional not to empathize, or not to even address the issues my patients consider important to their health.

Skittles

(153,209 posts)
3. the word is "YOU'RE"
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 02:09 PM
Oct 2017

and you need to find another doctor because that behavior is extremely unprofessional

Corvo Bianco

(1,148 posts)
18. We're all citizens in a world of reigning evil. I think it's alright to talk this out with people.
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:43 PM
Oct 2017

Especially when you find somebody who gets it. If everyone feels the same way, but nobody says anything, all of us feel alone.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
43. I agree.
Tue Oct 3, 2017, 09:05 AM
Oct 2017

I've never spent time with a doctor discussing politics.

I spent a lot of time with medical professionals during my mom's illness and as she was dying. I had way too much else to talk about with them.

Politics was the last thing on my mind.

silverweb

(16,402 posts)
4. Had my physical last week, too.
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 03:43 PM
Oct 2017

When I mentioned low-level depression because of "Trump Fatigue Syndrome," he said, "I know exactly what you mean. I used to watch the news all the time, but I can't now because I get too angry."
We're not alone at all.

murielm99

(30,772 posts)
11. I just came from the dentist.
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:24 PM
Oct 2017

It seems that I have been grinding my teeth in my sleep again. I have not done that for years.

I said to the dentist, "It must be Trump syndrome."

He gave one brief, bitter laugh. His assistant, whom I have known for years, gave me a sympathetic look. It sort of helped.

silverweb

(16,402 posts)
37. I think most healthcare professionals feel the same.
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 05:54 PM
Oct 2017

It does help to know that they do and I wouldn't knowingly go to one that doesn't.

One nurse did say rather sarcastically (in another time and another place), "I suppose you're in favor of universal healthcare." I said, "Absolutely! Why aren't you?" She just shot me a dirty look and left the room. Somehow I think she's in the wrong profession.

IronLionZion

(45,546 posts)
6. A psychiatrist friend got lots of new appointments booked after
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:00 PM
Oct 2017

Dipshit dropped the MOAB in Afghanistan. People were panicking.

rurallib

(62,460 posts)
8. had the same checkup about 2 months ago
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:16 PM
Oct 2017

she asked, I answered "who in their right mind isn't?" and we proceeded to have about 15n minutes of mutual catharsis.

wryter2000

(46,083 posts)
10. I have writer friends who couldn't write after the election
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:20 PM
Oct 2017

I think they're all back now. My stomach is in knots much of the time.

I spend hours here searching for any news that justice will be done and the whole lot of them will be taken out of the White House in cuffs. (Mueller, where are youuuuuuuuuuuuuu?)

I treasure every little victory (when Trumpcare failed) and just pray for more of them.

Loryn

(945 posts)
13. I think my doctor is even more upset that I am.
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:28 PM
Oct 2017

She has consistently told me if anyone comes into her office with a MAGA hat they will be dismissed from her practice.

Can't really blame her.

BigmanPigman

(51,638 posts)
19. Between constant ACA repeal attempts, sabotaging the ACA,
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:48 PM
Oct 2017

and the overall stress/anxiety and depression imposed on them for 9 months, the Donald is making this country as sick as he is. He thrives on chaos and creates it so now we all must suffer.

There isn't enough Xanax on the planet to get through 4 whole years.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
21. tRump & Co. are killing us with their insanity. We're pumping gallons of cortisol into our bodies.
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:51 PM
Oct 2017

The daily grind, with tRump's constant lying and let-'em-eat-cake attitude, is causing so much anger and sleeplessness, both of which release cortisol ("stress" hormone) into the bloodstream. Cortisol is the body's "do-it-yourself" steroid. Stressful events (the tRump presidency, and all that goes with it) can elevate cortisol levels in the blood for prolonged periods.

The long-term activation of the stress-response system — and the subsequent overexposure to cortisol and other stress hormones — can disrupt almost all your body's processes. This puts you at increased risk of numerous health problems, including:

Anxiety
Depression
Digestive problems
Headaches
Heart disease
Sleep problems
Weight gain
Memory and concentration impairment

That's why it's so important to learn healthy ways to cope with the stressors in your life. Whatever works for you, do it! (Except heavy drinking -- that raises cortisol levels, too, damn it.)

LuckyLib

(6,821 posts)
23. I told my doctor (joking) that I was blaming my malaise
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 04:52 PM
Oct 2017

and other stress ailments on Trump. Her response? "You are one among many. "

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
34. I would say I am a little depressed.
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 05:38 PM
Oct 2017

I am mostly overwhelmed with fear. For some of those who are on depression meds there is a possibility you will not need to worry about them because you will no longer be able to afford them.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
41. You can afford a physical??
Mon Oct 2, 2017, 07:06 PM
Oct 2017

I get cat scans daily................ and they purr nicely.

We have "insurance" through the company my spouse has worked for for over 18 years. We have a $6000 deductible. No damn way. SINGLE PAYER LIKE CANADA.

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