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drmeow

(5,022 posts)
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 06:40 PM Aug 2017

I am rabidly pro-choice

My sister-in-law is an abortion provider and Planned Parenthood is one of the few charities I give to.

I also live in AZ - you know, Joe Arpaio, Jeff Flake, Doug Ducey, Jan Brewer, for those who remember him JD Hayworth, and more extremist right wingers in the state government than I care to mention. Due to term limits and public election financing, although it really is purple, the state is controlled by the extremest of the extreme right.

If I went into the voting booth and my choices were a Joe Arpaio style Republican or an anti-choice Democrat and there was a chance the Democrat might actually win, I would hold my nose and vote for the Democrat as the lesser of two evils. Its not like the Joe Arpaio type is going to be pro-choice and, if I'm going to be f**ked anyway I'd rather be f**ked by the person who is not also f**king people based on their race, religion, and economic status. If the polls showed the Joe Arpaio wannabe winning handily, I would not vote for either (write in or vote third party). In either case, I would not be happy.

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I am rabidly pro-choice (Original Post) drmeow Aug 2017 OP
many on Du are perfectly happy with a totally republican controlled house and senate nt msongs Aug 2017 #1
That somehow allows them to feel important. May be the street protests. Blue_true Aug 2017 #11
Make that Shelley Moore Capito---the one who sent me this POS letter: k8conant Aug 2017 #27
What protests did drmeow Aug 2017 #30
The Democrats were United. Protests accomplished nothing. nt Blue_true Aug 2017 #31
Nope, not going to vote for my own enslavement Warpy Aug 2017 #2
That's the attitude that gave us Donald Trump. Ms. Toad Aug 2017 #34
False equivalency and you know it Warpy Aug 2017 #35
No. There are significant issues on which many differed with Clinton Ms. Toad Aug 2017 #39
That doesn't sound "rabidly pro-choice" to me. eom Control-Z Aug 2017 #3
You are conflating drmeow Aug 2017 #4
No, actually I'm not. Control-Z Aug 2017 #16
We'll have to agree to disagree on this one eom drmeow Aug 2017 #19
Me neither. eom musette_sf Aug 2017 #13
Are you a woman of reproductive age? LeftyMom Aug 2017 #5
Yes drmeow Aug 2017 #9
I am a single man, no kids, family that is mostly religious and prolife. Blue_true Aug 2017 #14
It is not about holding noses. AngryAmish Aug 2017 #6
That right there onecaliberal Aug 2017 #29
drmeow, the discussions circulating on DU right now are not convince anyone on either side of the still_one Aug 2017 #7
The person that write in Mickey Mouse. Blue_true Aug 2017 #17
Your assessment is absolutely correct, but no one's mind is going to be changed by the logic. The still_one Aug 2017 #22
You clearly think through the consequences of a vote. Blue_true Aug 2017 #25
It's been my experience TexasBushwhacker Aug 2017 #8
Well, you can be damned certain that the republican will agree with you on nothing. nt Blue_true Aug 2017 #18
Everyone knew that the Supreme Court was at stake in 2016. 47% of the populace didn't bother to still_one Aug 2017 #10
At the state J_William_Ryan Aug 2017 #12
A republican who wins a US Senate seat in a local election can determine the next USSC Justice. Blue_true Aug 2017 #20
at the minimum that should have been the main issue to vote for Hillary and a Democratic Congress still_one Aug 2017 #23
It'll be a cold day in hell before I vote for an anti-choice candidate. eShirl Aug 2017 #15
I get that loyalsister Aug 2017 #21
The scenario you posted NastyRiffraff Aug 2017 #24
I agree - eom drmeow Aug 2017 #26
I am too. I'm a 68 year old woman and I am so pissed that we are going through this again. OregonBlue Aug 2017 #28
I agree. liquid diamond Aug 2017 #32
I was also noticing the parallels drmeow Aug 2017 #37
This. So much this. liquid diamond Aug 2017 #38
I am sorry u don't think my having basic standards is important dembotoz Aug 2017 #33
Did I say anything about drmeow Aug 2017 #36

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
11. That somehow allows them to feel important. May be the street protests.
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 07:12 PM
Aug 2017

On the night that John McCain sunk the repeal of the ACA, there was a protest outside. Sorry protest lovers, the protest did not do a fucking thing, it didn't convince Kelly Capito or Dean Heller to vote against McConnell's sick bill, John McCain and two fucking republicans with a conscience sunk that bill. Protests did nothing, fucking voting Dean Heller and other republicans that we have a chance against out of office in 2018 sends a damned lightning bolt right through the repuge's picnic blanket.

drmeow

(5,022 posts)
30. What protests did
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 10:07 PM
Aug 2017

was keep the Democrats strong and united. Had any Democrats wavered, the 3 Republicans who voted no wouldn't have mattered.

Warpy

(111,302 posts)
2. Nope, not going to vote for my own enslavement
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 06:46 PM
Aug 2017

I'd write my name or the name of my Sufragette great grandmother or grandmother or Minnie Mouse.

Ms. Toad

(34,082 posts)
34. That's the attitude that gave us Donald Trump.
Sat Aug 5, 2017, 06:53 PM
Aug 2017

There were a number of people who voted for Jill Stein, or didn't vote at all, because of issues that were game-stoppers se InClinton.

I voted for Clinton despite significant differences with her views, becase, push comes to shove, once we get past the primary I will vote for the major party candidate (i.e. a chance to win) whose views are most consistent with mine.

Warpy

(111,302 posts)
35. False equivalency and you know it
Sat Aug 5, 2017, 07:08 PM
Aug 2017

Yeah, right, a personality contest is perfectly equivalent to enslaving half the human race.

Go away.

Ms. Toad

(34,082 posts)
39. No. There are significant issues on which many differed with Clinton
Sat Aug 5, 2017, 07:33 PM
Aug 2017

Some of those, the ones who refused to see the bigger picture of what a Republican president would mean, voted third party, did not vote, or wrote in someone other than Clinton.

Personally, I find her tendency to see military force - including the execution of Bin Laden - as a viable early option inconsistent with my beliefs. I voted for her anyway, because there was no contest when I weighed all of what Clinton would bring to the job against what Trump would bring to the job - despte my knowledge that she would turn to military force far earlier than I believe is appropriate.

As unacceptable as it is to impose restrictions, or even outright bans, on abortion doing so is not "enslaving half the human race," voting, against my personal beliefs, for someone who would use military force that would result in the death of untold individuals in the Middle East - or even outright assassination in which she has already been a participant certainly is equivalent ot voting for someone with whom I differ on the issue of abortion.

Control-Z

(15,682 posts)
16. No, actually I'm not.
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 07:34 PM
Aug 2017

Either you're pro-choice for all women all of the time, or you're not. Seems kind of simple to me.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
14. I am a single man, no kids, family that is mostly religious and prolife.
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 07:22 PM
Aug 2017

All of us vote for a woman's right to choose because that choice is in a basket of other policy that we all support. As a single childless man I can ask why ask why should I care about choice, or schools, or anything else that benefits children. Life isn't a fucking binary choice where there is clearly one choice versus a second equally clear choice. I know that if I vote for lower property taxes or vote against a bond issue for school construction funds or vote for a person that wants to cut funding for elderly nutrition programs because that guy feel that single men deserve more say in government, I am hurting lots of people. I think broader than a single one or two hot button issues because a single vote affects a wide range of issues.

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
6. It is not about holding noses.
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 06:59 PM
Aug 2017

It is about supporting and promoting candidates who understand that humans who are not white males are not sub-human subject to the wanton killing by the state.

still_one

(92,301 posts)
7. drmeow, the discussions circulating on DU right now are not convince anyone on either side of the
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 07:00 PM
Aug 2017

issue.

1. There are those who believe that you need to look at all issues, and vote for the candidate that represents the most issues the voter agrees with the candidate.

2. There are those who believe that there are certain issues that are non-negotiable, period.

Ideally, if the only Democratic candidates that won their primaries were pro-choice, this wouldn't be an issue. However, realistically, that won't be the case, and individual voters will make that decision when they go to the polls, and people on either side of this can argue between themselves until the cows come home, and very few will change anyone's mind.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
17. The person that write in Mickey Mouse.
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 07:36 PM
Aug 2017

Instead of voting for the Democrat and it ends that the republican wins by 100 votes when 200 people wrote in Mickey Mouse instead of vote for the Democrat likely doom the old shutin that relies on Meals on Wheels for hot food and a little company, or the preschooler whose only two descent meals each school day come at school, or the teacher who has been pulling money out of her pocket every school year to buy school supplies because the conservative republican majority prefers shifting funds to private schools. Votes are not binary, it does not clearly prevent one thing and allows one other thing to happen - that vote affects a large range of issues, that is the point the OP tried to make.

still_one

(92,301 posts)
22. Your assessment is absolutely correct, but no one's mind is going to be changed by the logic. The
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 08:17 PM
Aug 2017

reason is they view it as a human rights issue.

The Civil Rights Act and the Voting Rights act are analogous. The Northern Democrats and the Republicans were responsible for the Civil Rights Act becoming law. The Southern Democrats did everything to try and stop it. In fact Robert Byrd led the filibuster effort to do just that. However, it was the Democratic president , and the Democratic majority in Congress that allowed the Civil Rights Act to be introduced in the first place. That is the value of having a majority in Congress, they get to set the agenda.

There will always be a balance for voters in deciding between two candidates, and those who don't vote because they believe a single issue will compromise what they stand for, are effectively letting OTHERS determine those other issues.

For one reason or another, 47% of the populace didn't bother to vote. Every Democrat running for Senate in those critical swing states lost to the incumbent, establishment, republican. Those 47% who didn't bother to vote, and those who voted third party, effectively let those OTHERS decide who would occupy the WH and have the majority in Congress.

The majority of those who are faced with this issue will be those in red or purple states.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
25. You clearly think through the consequences of a vote.
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 08:27 PM
Aug 2017

Didn't see a single point that you didn't nail.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,205 posts)
8. It's been my experience
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 07:01 PM
Aug 2017

that certain views tend to go together. I've never met an anti-choice person who wasn't also anti-LGBT, and some other right wing views. One can be anti-abortion, some Catholics for example, but not let their personal beliefs cloud their support of abortions remaining legal.

So it's really not a problem for abortions rights to be a deal breaker, because I usually find other issues I don't agree with the politician on.

still_one

(92,301 posts)
10. Everyone knew that the Supreme Court was at stake in 2016. 47% of the populace didn't bother to
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 07:10 PM
Aug 2017

even vote.

The majority of Americans are for choice according to the latest polls.

What is wrong with this picture?

J_William_Ryan

(1,755 posts)
12. At the state
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 07:20 PM
Aug 2017

and local level, a candidate’s position on a woman’s right to privacy is frankly irrelevant – including a Democratic candidate.

The Federal Constitution protects a woman’s right to decide whether to have a child or not, regardless what state laws might be enacted, regardless whether a Democrat or Republican votes in support of such state laws.

So by all means vote for Democratic candidates – including those hostile to privacy rights – because the Republican candidate certainly is, in addition to being wrong on the rest of the issues.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
20. A republican who wins a US Senate seat in a local election can determine the next USSC Justice.
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 07:45 PM
Aug 2017

The US Senate vote is local. The republican representative or State Senator who you don't prevent from getting to state government will likely vote to put in place extreme laws against women's clinics. You don't vote in isolation, the two or three things you may disagree with the democrat on are one of hundreds of issues that the person that wins will make decisions on.

eShirl

(18,495 posts)
15. It'll be a cold day in hell before I vote for an anti-choice candidate.
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 07:29 PM
Aug 2017

We have to STAND for what we BELIEVE in.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
21. I get that
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 07:53 PM
Aug 2017

How pro-choice is a person who votes for someone who supports abortion rights but oppses all forms of afirmative action, any kind of social assistance that ultimately provide opportunities and choices?
I am open to seeing what it means when these candidates say prolife, and opening the tent to see if more people want to join us and find a way to work through some nuances that actually may actually result in common ground.

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
24. The scenario you posted
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 08:27 PM
Aug 2017

is NOT what the "pro-choice isn't as important as winning" crowd here on DU. They're not talking about a done deal; a candidate who's already on the ballot. They're talking about supporting anti-choice candidates because, you know, winning. I get that we can't always have the candidate we want, and I, too, would hold my nose and vote for the Democrat in the situation you describe.

But dammit, I'd fight with everything I have to get a pro-choice candidate on the ballot.

OregonBlue

(7,754 posts)
28. I am too. I'm a 68 year old woman and I am so pissed that we are going through this again.
Fri Aug 4, 2017, 09:28 PM
Aug 2017

I've was burning bras in 1968 but never believed I'd need to still be doing it in 2017. I hate Religious Republicans. They are the worlds biggest hypocrites.

 

liquid diamond

(1,917 posts)
32. I agree.
Sat Aug 5, 2017, 06:42 PM
Aug 2017

I posted in another thread about this topic. I asked if those who wouldn't vote for a pro life dem would rather lose one right or four rights. Those who say they would rather let a republican win instead of voting for a pro life democrat are not thinking rationally but emotionally. Period. There is no logic in taking four political blows instead of just one.

Their thinking reminds me of those voters who said the lesser of two evils (Hillary) is still evil and sat out the 2016 election. Because they didn't agree with Hillary on a few issues, they burned down our whole house. Now we have lost the Supreme Court and will face another 7 and a half years of a trump presidency. But hey! At least you stood up (by sitting out) for your principles!

drmeow

(5,022 posts)
37. I was also noticing the parallels
Sat Aug 5, 2017, 07:22 PM
Aug 2017

between the never Hillary attitude and the never anti-choice attitude. Yes, it would piss the f**k out of me if I had to vote for an anti-choice dem but if they support policies which tax the rich, help the poor and support the safety net, welcome immigrants, protect the environment, support access to health care and health insurance for everyone, and other progressive causes I'll suck it up. That does not mean I won't bitch at them the entire time they are in office about their anti-choice stance!

 

liquid diamond

(1,917 posts)
38. This. So much this.
Sat Aug 5, 2017, 07:32 PM
Aug 2017

I would also add that a pro life democrat doesn't stand a snowball's chance in hell of passing an anti-abortion bill in congress. They would be outvoted and ostracized by pro choice democrats.

Purists sat out 2016 and we lost the Supreme Court. Ginsburg won't likely live through a trump term or two. Now Roe vs Wade is truly in danger. That is the result of puritanical bullshit that you see posters shouting and pounding their chests about.

dembotoz

(16,811 posts)
33. I am sorry u don't think my having basic standards is important
Sat Aug 5, 2017, 06:51 PM
Aug 2017

There r generally multiple races to work on
I would work on one that I do not find repugnant

I will not work for
Support
Or vote anti-abortion bastards

Bother u??? Bring out the violins

drmeow

(5,022 posts)
36. Did I say anything about
Sat Aug 5, 2017, 07:18 PM
Aug 2017

working on races? Did I say anything about your choices? What you will do is your business, I stated what I would do. You ask if your response bothers me - I'd say my statement bothers you ... a lot ... in fact, a lot more than your statement bothers me.

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