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It isn't just about abortion (Original Post) malaise Aug 2017 OP
If men could get pregnant, they would have understood this long ago. panader0 Aug 2017 #1
That simple malaise Aug 2017 #2
If men could get pregnant, no family would have more than one child! Stonepounder Aug 2017 #17
Families would have only one child and ProudLib72 Aug 2017 #21
"if men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament, and we would have more niyad Aug 2017 #26
It's also about freedom of religion. No one has the right to impose their religious beliefs on Amaryllis Aug 2017 #3
Agreed - that's implied in the OP malaise Aug 2017 #4
I completely agree with everything you have said. smirkymonkey Aug 2017 #5
about self determination. period. mopinko Aug 2017 #6
To me it is about the basic freedoms... Delmette2.0 Aug 2017 #7
+1,000 malaise Aug 2017 #8
Thank you Delmette2.0 Aug 2017 #10
A child in hospital is stress on steroids malaise Aug 2017 #11
It's about power and control... BigmanPigman Aug 2017 #16
You've got that right ProudLib72 Aug 2017 #22
Autonomy and basic human rights, period. Ninsianna Aug 2017 #9
I don't believe in abortion, but being a man I don't think I have a right to tell any woman... George II Aug 2017 #12
Polite point of order KentuckyWoman Aug 2017 #13
I don't think I can agree with you on that on, Kentuck. Stonepounder Aug 2017 #18
We agree KentuckyWoman Aug 2017 #20
Disagree! Podkayne K Aug 2017 #14
LOL - you're right malaise Aug 2017 #25
This About Women Being Treated as Automonous Adults dlk Aug 2017 #15
Those who don't get that Malaise, don't want to. Greybnk48 Aug 2017 #19
+1,000 malaise Aug 2017 #28
Without a majority in the Congress, the progressive movement FAILS Foamfollower Aug 2017 #23
Asking that all American citizens rights are respected Greybnk48 Aug 2017 #24
and the willing obtuseness on this point, even on this board, is mind-boggling. niyad Aug 2017 #27
Mindblowing malaise Aug 2017 #29

niyad

(113,587 posts)
26. "if men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament, and we would have more
Wed Aug 2, 2017, 02:19 PM
Aug 2017

clinics than 7-11 has stores"

Amaryllis

(9,525 posts)
3. It's also about freedom of religion. No one has the right to impose their religious beliefs on
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 08:55 PM
Aug 2017

others.
My spiritual beliefs say that the fetus is not a human being until it is capable of living outside the mother's body on its own.

Delmette2.0

(4,171 posts)
7. To me it is about the basic freedoms...
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 10:04 PM
Aug 2017

Life, Liberty and the pursuit of happiness as equal to Safe, legal and rare.

It's been a long two days with my son in the hospital, so if anyone needs a deeper explanation I will supply that tomorrow.

Delmette2.0

(4,171 posts)
10. Thank you
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 10:13 PM
Aug 2017

Surgery yesterday was nerve racking. But all went exceptionally well and he will finish recovery at home. The surgeon was wonderful and so were the nurses and hospital staff.

BigmanPigman

(51,636 posts)
16. It's about power and control...
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 11:22 PM
Aug 2017

and to some people that goes along with religion for some reason. I still don't understand how your job/employment has anything to do with health insurance either (mostly in the good 'ol US). Then I guess that brings up the whole "Your employer doesn't have to pay for YOUR birth control" yet they pay for Viagra issue which leads back around to the need for "choice". What a mess.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
22. You've got that right
Wed Aug 2, 2017, 12:17 AM
Aug 2017

It's about power in the guise of moral rectitude as according to some religious text that someone interpreted to mean one and only one thing.

I do not doubt that there are liberal progressives out there whose core beliefs include a stance against abortion. But I would like those people to consider if that belief keeping certain people in power is just a happy coincidence or something more sinister. It's funny, isn't it, how the powers that be get to decide to split from the church and make up their own doctrine when it suits them. Having a history of Christianity class would do some people a world of good (if you or I taught it).

George II

(67,782 posts)
12. I don't believe in abortion, but being a man I don't think I have a right to tell any woman...
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 10:50 PM
Aug 2017

....she can't have an abortion. It's her decision, not mine.

KentuckyWoman

(6,697 posts)
13. Polite point of order
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 11:17 PM
Aug 2017

I'll probably get hammered for this but at the end of the day no one has any right to any opinion about abortion except a pregnant woman who might need one.

Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
18. I don't think I can agree with you on that on, Kentuck.
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 11:44 PM
Aug 2017

I am a man. I am not pro-abortion. I am pro-choice. So, my opinion is that a pregnant woman who needs to make what must be an absolutely wrenching decision is the only one to make that choice. If she chooses to involve other(s) in making that choice, that is also her choice. But it most certainly NOT up to a bunch of old men in the state legislature to try and make that choice for her, and it is NOT up to some so-called preacher to enforce their version of "how to get Rich by Preaching' to try and make the rules for everyone.

KentuckyWoman

(6,697 posts)
20. We agree
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 11:51 PM
Aug 2017

Old men don't get to make her choice. My point is any opinion they have about her choice is invalid. Taking it a step farther.

dlk

(11,578 posts)
15. This About Women Being Treated as Automonous Adults
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 11:18 PM
Aug 2017

We live in a country where a woman's body is not her own. Think for a moment how authoritarian (and bizarre) that really is. Could you ever imagine American men ceding control of their bodies to the government (and to random women who believe it's their right)?

What's really frightening to so many Americans if a woman makes her own decisions about her own body?

We still live in the Dark Ages in many ways.

Greybnk48

(10,177 posts)
19. Those who don't get that Malaise, don't want to.
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 11:48 PM
Aug 2017

They want to pretend that it makes perfect sense to say that the instant a women gets pregnant, even from violent rape, her rights as an autonomous agent in charge of her life cease, and her fate is a public issue up for debate. This idea is NOT based on the factual reality of science and medicine, it is tied to religion and the religious concept of a soul.

If someone's rights can be violated for a reason, then we have no rights. Rights such as the right to autonomous agency are inviolable or else rights are meaningless. To say women can have rights, just not the right to autonomous agency is absurd. It makes no sense and it sure as hell is NOT progressive or liberal. If abortion is in violation of your religion, then don't don't rape anyone, don't force yourself on anyone, or don't choose to have an abortion.

 

Foamfollower

(1,097 posts)
23. Without a majority in the Congress, the progressive movement FAILS
Wed Aug 2, 2017, 12:24 AM
Aug 2017

That's the piece you've missed with your demand for absolute purity in all cases in all districts while we exist in a heavily gerrymandered reality.

Greybnk48

(10,177 posts)
24. Asking that all American citizens rights are respected
Wed Aug 2, 2017, 12:42 AM
Aug 2017

is now demanding absolute purity? WTF? That argument could have been made, and was made, in the 60's about fighting for Civil rights. If we don't take a stand now, then when? The ERA has never been ratified because of bullshit like this. Enough! At least for this woman.

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